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At least 60% of women..

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By *nowbodyyouno OP   Man
over a year ago

Bristol

..enjoy being spanked, according to statistics.

Why is this ladies?

Is it purely about discipline?

Is it purely sexual/foreplay?

Is it a bit of both?

For those that are bisexual, do you enjoy being spanked by a woman, as much as you might by man?

Alternatively, if you in the apparent minority that doesn't enjoy being spanked, your reasons for why this is would be equally welcome.

Perhaps you've never been spanked. If so, are you curious?

Join the debate

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lots of reasons, mainly psychological than physical.

Physically, I like the sensation, I like the tingle. I did it in a dark room once with my face in a pillow which heightens all the sensations, my intakes of breath, the sharp impact, my hot skin against his palm.

Also, if I do that with someone, it means I feel very comfortable with them, so it tends to relax me a lot, so much I've almost fallen asleep before.

I've been spanked by a woman during a threesome before, but I'm less likely to be submissive with a woman.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So jables spanked Me properly during a d*unken fuck session for the first time this week and it officially changed my opinion of spanking.

I absolutely loved it, the fact that my muscles were so tense the whole time i was expecting the smack but as soon as his hand connected i couldn't tense any longer and it just felt amazing.

Advice on spanking without leaving bad bruises would be appreciated though, don't mind the marks but it looked a bit aggresive xx

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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

Not for me.. An abusive marriage

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

Not for me - it hurts!! I don't mind a single slap if a guy gets a bit carried away but no way I'll tolerate more.

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor


"Not for me - it hurts!! I don't mind a single slap if a guy gets a bit carried away but no way I'll tolerate more. "

I agree.

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By *a Fee VerteWoman
over a year ago

Limbo

I don't like it - it's not the pain, I've got a high pain threshold and am very interested in discovering both new sensations and my own limits. However, I am extremely 'anti' anything which I perceive to be humiliating and rightly or wrongly spanking has always fallen in that category for me.

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By *he Queen of TartsWoman
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over a year ago

My Own Little World

I'm in the other 40%.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not into spanking. Im a sensual lover and spanking does nothing for me. The odd slap which may mark me is ok when being taken from behind but that's all I like.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dont enjoying the impact so much but I love the feeling as the sting eases off.

My ex used to put me over his knee if I teased too much, it made me feel a bit weak and girly and was definitely a turn on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like a good spanking. I don't like it as the whole punishment thing though like in FSOG but a hard smack while I'm being teased or fucked is amazing

I think the mix of pain and pleasure is amazing and the thrill and surprise when you can't see it coming makes me crazy!

H xx

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By *omerladyWoman
over a year ago

Taunton

I do so love a good spanking, giving and receiving

I like all forms impact play but spanking has its own dynamic because of the skin on skin contact. You can touch and caress in between smacks as well as backing it up with the spoken word to enhance the play. Again it can differ from other types of impact play because there can be a play with ego states in a role play sense.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't dislike the occasional one, but as punishment etc it just comes across as being punished for enjoying sex.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not for me.. An abusive marriage "

Same here I'm afraid......been in an abusive relationship ruins any sort of sexual thrill from spanking, or other forms of impact play, etc.

Shame really, but that's the way the cookie crumbled in my world.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm in the other 40% . it just does nothing for me

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By *ficouldMan
over a year ago

a quandary, could you change my mind?

I like percentages, but I think sixty percent is way to high. Just my personal thoughts

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What if it only appeals on rare occasions?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like a belt, rather than a hand, and with particular men.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't mind it but nothing hardcore! Don't want to feel it the next day

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