FabSwingers.com mobile

Join us FREE, we're FREE to use

Web's largest swingers site since 2006.

Already registered?
Login here

Back to forum list
Back to Swingers Chat

Bad hygiene (Bi guys but applies to everyone really)

Jump to newest
 

By *ackard OP   Man
over a year ago

North West & beyond

I recently had a meet with a bi guy off another site. Anyway to cut a long story short we got down to some fun and all seemed ok until we got in the 69 position, this guy opened his legs and the smell of what I can best describe as "dirty arse" hit me and I started to gag. The smell was probably worse than it seemed to me as my sense of smell ain't brill.

I was too polite to say anything and was glad to get the meet over with. It's not the first time this has happened and I've made a decision that I'm not playing with bi/gay guys any more, it will just be ladies from now on. I just don't understand why guys don't think go make sure they are spotlessly clean after going too the loo if they knos they are going to be playing. The same applies to straight guys as it could have been a lady in the same position I was in. There's no excuse for poor hygiene and even less of an excuse if your hosting (have a quick shower before your meet arrives and make sure all your intimate areas are clean). RANT OVER.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *eedsbig9inMan
over a year ago

leeds

Cool story bro

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *ugartits69Woman
over a year ago

pembrokeshire

Completely agree with you. Nothing worse than going down on someone and it smells horrible. I always have a bath and make sure I'm squeaky clean before someone comes round. It's just the polite thing to do lol. But some people are just nasty xx

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *aroleBaskinWoman
over a year ago

somewhere down the rabbit hole, Aberdeen

I wouldn't have carried on OP. That's just nasty. You should have told him to shower or leave.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *eedsbig9inMan
over a year ago

leeds


"I wouldn't have carried on OP. That's just nasty. You should have told him to shower or leave."

This

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *op gooserMan
over a year ago

chester

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You carried on OP! I can't understand why

That's beyond dedication to the verification that might be left.

Him

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *eedsmale36Man
over a year ago

Leeds


"I recently had a meet with a bi guy off another site. Anyway to cut a long story short we got down to some fun and all seemed ok until we got in the 69 position, this guy opened his legs and the smell of what I can best describe as "dirty arse" hit me and I started to gag. The smell was probably worse than it seemed to me as my sense of smell ain't brill.

I was too polite to say anything and was glad to get the meet over with. It's not the first time this has happened and I've made a decision that I'm not playing with bi/gay guys any more, it will just be ladies from now on. I just don't understand why guys don't think go make sure they are spotlessly clean after going too the loo if they knos they are going to be playing. The same applies to straight guys as it could have been a lady in the same position I was in. There's no excuse for poor hygiene and even less of an excuse if your hosting (have a quick shower before your meet arrives and make sure all your intimate areas are clean). RANT OVER."

How the fuck did you carry on !

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

ffs

I do like a shower first for both parties!

Ruby

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *awandOrderCouple
over a year ago

SW London

Been with lots of bi guys, including my OH, never experienced this

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If people don't know how to shower before a meet and use some deodorant then they are not on our list

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just not acceptable at all. Fair play for carrying on but we wouldn't have. Quick shower ain't a big ask!

Pete

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *ackard OP   Man
over a year ago

North West & beyond

Just to clarify when I said I carried on I moved away from said smelly area to another position where I couldn't smell anything.

Its about the fifth time I've had a meet and not been impressed with the hygiene and I felt I had to have a rant and get it off my chest.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think I have sick in mouth now god that's awful

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *awandOrderCouple
over a year ago

SW London


"Just to clarify when I said I carried on I moved away from said smelly area to another position where I couldn't smell anything.

Its about the fifth time I've had a meet and not been impressed with the hygiene and I felt I had to have a rant and get it off my chest."

Should have just given him a wipe?

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

Think I'm slowly going off sex!

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I wouldn't have carried on OP. That's just nasty. You should have told him to shower or leave."

no me neither - over and out

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *mmmMaybeCouple
over a year ago

West Wales

Ewwww, sorry we'd be gone!

S

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *b coupleCouple
over a year ago

southampton

Nothing to do with sexual preference, more to do with just being plain out right nasty.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *ornylady71Woman
over a year ago

near Bury

That's just disgusting!!!

I always have a bath or shower before a meet & so do my playmates, it's just pure manners & respect.

no play if not clean, simple!!!

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just "Yuk!"

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Think I'm slowly going off sex!"

No don't do that

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It applies to everyone, no one wants to tolerate a smelly, arse, minge, cock, armpits etc.. Scrub up.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor


"Think I'm slowly going off sex!

No don't do that "

To late...it's gone

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Doesn't just apply to guys, I attended a gang bang and was enjoying the view when the lady lifted her legs up to show basically a shitty arse.

I decided to be polite and leave.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Please stop

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think its a little unfair to say it's bi guys OP , I think you were just unlucky with a person who has a poor understanding of personal hygiene , it could of been male ,female bi or straight , I always make sure I'm spotlessly clean everywhere before any meet , if I was you I would of walked out , there is no excuse for poor hygiene ever !!!!

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

[Removed by poster at 28/03/17 23:09:30]

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Omg that's disgusting! It's our worst nightmare, especially as we're both immaculately clean, there is no excuse. A quick shower isn't on either, people should take time to wash properly, even more so when engaging in naughty activities

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *b coupleCouple
over a year ago

southampton


"Omg that's disgusting! It's our worst nightmare, especially as we're both immaculately clean, there is no excuse. A quick shower isn't on either, people should take time to wash properly, even more so when engaging in naughty activities

"

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *earandmonkeyCouple
over a year ago

uxbridge

Sexy fun in a shower first can help hehe lol. oops wears the soap, oh yes it does dosnt it.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *ackard OP   Man
over a year ago

North West & beyond


"I think its a little unfair to say it's bi guys OP."

I totally agree, thats why I put "applies to everyone" in the brackets. Personally I've only ever come across this issue with guys, but there will be straight guys and ladies out there with the same issue.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *i 69Man
over a year ago

luton


"I think its a little unfair to say it's bi guys OP , I think you were just unlucky with a person who has a poor understanding of personal hygiene , it could of been male ,female bi or straight , I always make sure I'm spotlessly clean everywhere before any meet , if I was you I would of walked out , there is no excuse for poor hygiene ever !!!!"

Here here ....not all bi guys are like that.....

Ireally para that im clean before a meet whether man or lady....

Once wen i met a guy with my gf....

He took off his shoes and all you smelt was cheesy smelly feet....

I told him we changed our minds and can you go....

Its a rule for everyone

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would assume (based on our pegging/anal fun) that guy on guy fun would involve a fair bit of erm.. internal cleaning anyway. Showering/bath is just basic stuff you do daily anyway right?

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I would assume (based on our pegging/anal fun) that guy on guy fun would involve a fair bit of erm.. internal cleaning anyway. Showering/bath is just basic stuff you do daily anyway right? "

Douching I believe it's called

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I douche regularly and use ph balance body wash. So never have any problems but I have come across guys who are not clean and I do let them know I won't continue unless they wash themselves or shower

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

you do know women come in the stinking variety don't you? they're not self cleaning...it's not a guy thing, it's a filthy bastard thing

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I douche regularly and use ph balance body wash. So never have any problems but I have come across guys who are not clean and I do let them know I won't continue unless they wash themselves or shower "

i'd leave in embarrassment if someone told me i needed to wash

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I douche regularly and use ph balance body wash. So never have any problems but I have come across guys who are not clean and I do let them know I won't continue unless they wash themselves or shower "

Also douche but have been told it's not recommended by a gynaecologist . I'm so used to doing it now I feel absolutely filthy if I forgo the douche when I shower .

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *ild-1Woman
over a year ago

york

It amazes me that people wouldn't make sure they are immaculate in all areas when meeting anyone never mind someone you intend to sleep with

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I douche regularly and use ph balance body wash. So never have any problems but I have come across guys who are not clean and I do let them know I won't continue unless they wash themselves or shower

i'd leave in embarrassment if someone told me i needed to wash "

I'm careful how I say it. I've met some who have finished work and they are happy to shower. Never had any guys embarrassed about it well they have never told me so and we've gone on to have a great time

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 
 

By *lueEyedGuyMEMan
over a year ago

MancBoltonBuryWigan

Wow must be some bad luck for you pal. I've never been unlucky enough to come across anyone who smells bad. As a bi guy when I shower its more then just you're usual shower. It's just polite and saves me any embarrassment

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
Post new Message to Thread
back to top