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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

What's most people preference? Bareback or with a condom? Personally I feel you lose a lot of the sensation with a condom ??

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

Try skins

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By *ugartits69Woman
over a year ago

pembrokeshire

I do prefer without but you have to be careful these days. You never know if someone's got something so unless they can prove they are clean then best to use condoms even if it isn't as nice.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I prefer skyns

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By *issVeryWoman
over a year ago

streatham

I miss bare..but until it's someone who's hitched his wagon to me, condoms!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I do prefer without but you have to be careful these days. You never know if someone's got something so unless they can prove they are clean then best to use condoms even if it isn't as nice. "

Yeah that's true I guess its a safety issue that troubles a lot of ppl

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I miss bare..but until it's someone who's hitched his wagon to me, condoms!"

??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I miss bare..but until it's someone who's hitched his wagon to me, condoms!

??"

Means she will only use condoms with someone she is in a relationship with.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I miss bare..but until it's someone who's hitched his wagon to me, condoms!

??"

They're exclusive to each other

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Try skins"

Never tried them but will give them a go

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What's most people preference? Bareback or with a condom? Personally I feel you lose a lot of the sensation with a condom ??"

Bareback feels much better and naughtier but we wouldn't do it without unless with each other or someone we have got to know extreamly well.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I miss bare..but until it's someone who's hitched his wagon to me, condoms!

??

Means she will only use condoms with someone she is in a relationship with."

Yeah that makes sense like I said earlier its risky these days with people you don't know

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always say if you want the good bareback get a horse

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By *nowbodyyounoMan
over a year ago

Bristol


"I do prefer without but you have to be careful these days. You never know if someone's got something so unless they can prove they are clean then best to use condoms even if it isn't as nice. "

What she said.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I always say if you want the good bareback get a horse "

Lmao

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By *issVeryWoman
over a year ago

streatham


"I miss bare..but until it's someone who's hitched his wagon to me, condoms!

??

Means she will only use condoms with someone she is in a relationship with.

Yeah that makes sense like I said earlier its risky these days with people you don't know "

Will only NOT use condoms with someone I'm in a relationship with.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"What's most people preference? Bareback or with a condom? Personally I feel you lose a lot of the sensation with a condom ??

Bareback feels much better and naughtier but we wouldn't do it without unless with each other or someone we have got to know extreamly well."

There's nothing quite like the feel of a hand or mouth on cock without anything on.. but safety I guess is first

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I miss bare..but until it's someone who's hitched his wagon to me, condoms!

??

Means she will only use condoms with someone she is in a relationship with.

Yeah that makes sense like I said earlier its risky these days with people you don't know

Will only NOT use condoms with someone I'm in a relationship with.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I miss bare..but until it's someone who's hitched his wagon to me, condoms!

??

Means she will only use condoms with someone she is in a relationship with.

Yeah that makes sense like I said earlier its risky these days with people you don't know

Will only NOT use condoms with someone I'm in a relationship with.

"

Yes sorry, I got that the wrong way round oops

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I prefer skyns "

Same... really good quality.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I prefer bare but only do that occasionally with my fwb...anyone else it condoms or no fun...and yes, I agree with everyone that has said about skyns...they are much better than durex for sure...and no latex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What's most people preference? Bareback or with a condom? Personally I feel you lose a lot of the sensation with a condom ??"

Everyone prefers the feel of bareback, but I prefer the peace of mind of protected sex personally

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By *rs mischiefWoman
over a year ago

Manchester


"What's most people preference? Bareback or with a condom? Personally I feel you lose a lot of the sensation with a condom ??"

Try having a latex allergy! Skyns latex free for me

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"What's most people preference? Bareback or with a condom? Personally I feel you lose a lot of the sensation with a condom ??

Try having a latex allergy! Skyns latex free for me"

How do you get around the allergy side of things then?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Latex free condoms of course

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By *issVeryWoman
over a year ago

streatham

Hmm really want to try skyns now..

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Hmm really want to try skyns now.. "

Lol me too never tried them.. wonder how they feel

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bareback for equestrian activities only.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never ever do bearback, them grizzlies are mean Martha fockers

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By *lwaysup4it69Couple
over a year ago

Kirkby in Ashfield

Bareback all the way for us

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By *taceylacyCouple
over a year ago

NOTTINGHAM

BB

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some will some wont. My personal preference is BB.

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By *osieWoman
over a year ago

Wembley

Certainly without a condom. But I wouldn't have unprotected sex with anyone other than with my boyfriend

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If your in a relationship, there is nothing worse.

Otherwise its no glove no love from me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Glove all the way......no bareback ever!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Zzz zzz zzz, ,,this old chestnut again, ,,,,next!!!

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By *ogamuffinMan
over a year ago

slough


"Glove all the way......no bareback ever!"

Better to be safe than sorry.

Cover Mr Lover

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

only if totally reckless , in a long term relationship yes but swinging noooooooooooo!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

With a couple we could trust and everyone tested, without would definitely be more enjoyable!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We only ever do bareback together. You don't know what the other person may have!

H x

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By *unandbuckCouple
over a year ago

Sheffield


"I miss bare..but until it's someone who's hitched his wagon to me, condoms!

??

Means she will only use condoms with someone she is in a relationship with.

Yeah that makes sense like I said earlier its risky these days with people you don't know "

'These days' being the last 30 years since HIV boomed...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't know anyone who would actually prefer using a condom but for me it's something I feel I have to use when swinging.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always should be safe sex. I do not understand why so many of you are not doing safe sex. So many infectious diseases around yet a lot of you do bareback.

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By *osieWoman
over a year ago

Wembley


"Always should be safe sex. I do not understand why so many of you are not doing safe sex. So many infectious diseases around yet a lot of you do bareback. "

Their choice. Maybe they are bug-hunters

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

NEVER without

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

Bit of both but more with a condom.

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By *izzabelle and well hungCouple
over a year ago

Edinburgh.

Condoms are a great tools for club fucking where you might be shagging a number of women for several hours.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A bit of both with me too

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By *iss InnocenceWoman
over a year ago

Coventry/Bristol

Bareback wiv fella condoms wiv everyone else

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always condoms. Each to their own but I value my sexual health above any sort of sensation or play.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can't believe no one has mentioned that old chestnut 'Russian roulette'...........oh. Wait.

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London


"What's most people preference? Bareback or with a condom? Personally I feel you lose a lot of the sensation with a condom ??"

You wont be able to get the majority answer, we all have different rules for different situations and only 1% of Fab members post here apparently.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I always say if you want the good bareback get a horse "

I believe that is a different site!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Condoms all the way!! I'm not risking my health for no one !!

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By *inkyChrissy99TV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol

Definitely not, you'd have to be insane to do bareback bla bla bla

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By *ELLONS AND CREAMWoman
over a year ago

stourbridge area

.....no condom ..... no sex

Simples

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I want pussy

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By *dr8Man
over a year ago

london

always with condom. always save sex. I didn't send messages and I don't want to meet people that don't use or people that have pictures having sex without condom

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By *rs mischiefWoman
over a year ago

Manchester


"What's most people preference? Bareback or with a condom? Personally I feel you lose a lot of the sensation with a condom ??

Try having a latex allergy! Skyns latex free for me

How do you get around the allergy side of things then?"

The answer to your question is in my post!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

safe and covered with all but one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Try skins"

Skin are good x

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By *ozartCouple
over a year ago

newbury

How do you ever trust someone ?

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By *hloe sussexTV/TS
over a year ago

Larne

Ahhh the once every 2 day bareback thread

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By *eardedSilverFoxMan
over a year ago

Colchester


"Try skins"

They are seriously good. Almost like the real thing

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

...

Bareback all the way, says so on my profile

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By *otgirl32Woman
over a year ago

Ashton Under Lyne

BB

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By *amianoMan
over a year ago

birmingham

Don't like how condoms feel

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By *ames1763Man
over a year ago

Aberdeen

Non latex condoms are the answer and I have always used them and will continue to use them no matter the temptations.

I would say stay safe, put a non latex condom on and keep on enjoying yourself xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nothing like shooting your load in a sweet lil tight wet pussy! But guess better playing safe!??

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By *osieWoman
over a year ago

Wembley


"Try skins

They are seriously good. Almost like the real thing "

Thanks; now we can dump men in favour of Skyns

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What's most people preference? Bareback or with a condom? Personally I feel you lose a lot of the sensation with a condom ??"

Is the condom called Geronimo?

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By *eforfuncplCouple
over a year ago

Morecambe

Deffo not !!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hoe many peeps bareback on here including anal and with same sex have a profile on a dating site and have sex bareback with unsuspecting dates?

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By *uited staffs guyMan
over a year ago

staffordshire


"Hoe many peeps bareback on here including anal and with same sex have a profile on a dating site and have sex bareback with unsuspecting dates?"

'Unsuspecting' - what does that mean?

If you have bareback sex then you have bareback sex end of - it carries a greater risk of std transmission than using a condom (which in itself isn't safe just less risky) - if anyone chooses to have bareback or any form of sex they accept the risk of stds end of there's no unsuspecting about it

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"BB"

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By *ire X IceCouple
over a year ago

coventry

My preference based on sensation is bareback, however the only person I will do that with is Mr. It carries too much risk, no matter how amazing it feels. We keep that for fantasy talk

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What's most people preference? Bareback or with a condom? Personally I feel you lose a lot of the sensation with a condom ??"

bit of a crap excuse tbh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My preference based on sensation is bareback, however the only person I will do that with is Mr. It carries too much risk, no matter how amazing it feels. We keep that for fantasy talk "

I think you have answered my dumb man question. Is the sensation that different for the woman? It's hugely different for the man.

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By *hosewhomgonakedCouple
over a year ago

Scotland

Bare for us

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By *ranimallxl5Man
over a year ago

Winchester


"Bareback all the way, says so on my profile "

How often do you get tested

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By *ust RachelTV/TS
over a year ago

Horsham

Hell no!

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By *isser36Man
over a year ago

fylde Coast

can i just ask is its noticeably different for women? how does it effect sensation? i know first hand for men but just wondering if it really makes that much difference for you lady's??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What's most people preference? Bareback or with a condom? Personally I feel you lose a lot of the sensation with a condom ??"

Prefer to not use a condom, but know that we have to, the risks are too great not to in our book.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Condoms all the way. Of course the sensation is less but my health is more valuable then one night of fun.

I can't remember if I read it or it was said to me but someone justified their BB play by saying "old age will kill me before HIV does". To me that shows a complete lack of respect to the people they play with.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Protection all the way.

Fook anyone who says otherwise...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Try skins"

What's skins? Am i missing something

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

While I much prefer the feel of bareback sex, I very much value my health and I will therefore only go bare with a regular partner.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What's most people preference? Bareback or with a condom? Personally I feel you lose a lot of the sensation with a condom ??"

Which means that you can fuck for longer! Every little helps. So we hear.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I do prefer without but you have to be careful these days. You never know if someone's got something so unless they can prove they are clean then best to use condoms even if it isn't as nice.

What she said. "

Holy shmokes! You are the first guys profile where I've fabbed all your pics. Ever!

Meaowww!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Try skins

What's skins? Am i missing something "

Skyns. Super thin condoms. Like skin

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By *lectricSensationMan
over a year ago

Edinburgh


"Try skins

What's skins? Am i missing something

Skyns. Super thin condoms. Like skin "

Been wanting to try these for a while

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I miss bare..but until it's someone who's hitched his wagon to me, condoms!"

This

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By *lasticfunMan
over a year ago

Reading

Skyns are great, very thin, strong but let's u feel x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

why would you bareback in this day and age?

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By *ranimallxl5Man
over a year ago

Winchester


"why would you bareback in this day and age?"
Pretty sure stis were around before our generation

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By *ranimallxl5Man
over a year ago

Winchester


"Protection all the way.

Fook anyone who says otherwise...

"

or not actually fuck them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I prefer bare, being gay, it feels so much better. But as another user said, you do run risks and I've had a scare before, thankfully, still clean as a whistle! Whether gay/straight if you like bare but wanna be safe, I'd use skins and liquid silk lube (amazon £10 for three pump action bottles)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

See to me Bareback feels like "Real" sex.

Depends on the person... Of course, if they've already got one on the way...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Try skins

What's skins? Am i missing something

Skyns. Super thin condoms. Like skin

Been wanting to try these for a while "

You can get a load of them for free at any GU clinic, they're great as they're latex free

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By *iredhandMan
over a year ago

Manchester

How many of you ladies insist on condoms when giving a bj?

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By *hole Lotta RosieWoman
over a year ago

Deviant City


"Try skins

Skin are good x"

Nah, Mates Skyns are the best...latex free, so great for giving a bj and come in large and extra large.

Skins are a totally different brand.

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By *hole Lotta RosieWoman
over a year ago

Deviant City


"How many of you ladies insist on condoms when giving a bj? "

I do on occasion, though not always.

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By *ilk_TreMan
over a year ago

Wherever the party is!


"I miss bare..but until it's someone who's hitched his wagon to me, condoms!"

Hey!

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By *ieutenantMan
over a year ago

london


"What's most people preference? Bareback or with a condom? Personally I feel you lose a lot of the sensation with a condom ??"

Op no point beating around the bush. if you like bareback go for it. Every person like to bareback.But too risky for many people to take the plunge.As for me no way.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Try skins

What's skins? Am i missing something

Skyns. Super thin condoms. Like skin "

Thank you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Try skins

What's skins? Am i missing something

Skyns. Super thin condoms. Like skin

Thank you "

They are very good

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By *uralRobMan
over a year ago

Ludlow

Prefer bareback will do both ... Nothing 100 % safe. So fuck it live dangerously .. Cream pie fun ....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Try skins

What's skins? Am i missing something

Skyns. Super thin condoms. Like skin

Thank you

They are very good "

Are they more likely to rip?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Prefer bareback will do both ... Nothing 100 % safe. So fuck it live dangerously .. Cream pie fun ...."

Just WOW!...

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By *arlo82Couple
over a year ago

the gym and random places

I'm allergic to latex so have no choice but to use sensiva or skyns as they're the only latex free ones available. They are a lot thinner than regular condoms so you feel it a lot more.

I very rarely bareback. Has to be someone that's clean obviously but a regular partner as long as they use protection with everyone else they fuck.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not, got to stay safe.

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By *arlo82Couple
over a year ago

the gym and random places


"How many of you ladies insist on condoms when giving a bj? "

if their cock put me off I wouldn't entertain sucking them off or fucking them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bareback is the only way to get me off. Condoms just don't do it for me at all, but I use them. I just have to finish off in other ways.

Bareback if in long term relationship, condoms all other times.

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By *uited staffs guyMan
over a year ago

staffordshire


"Prefer bareback will do both ... Nothing 100 % safe. So fuck it live dangerously .. Cream pie fun ....

Just WOW!... "

Is it really wow though?

Bareback swinging/gangbangs definitely increases STI risks - clearly shown by evidence - although the risk still exists with condoms it's just lower

I work in the NHS and we treat thousands/millions every year who are ill not because of random bad luck but because of lifestyle - whether you bats smoking, dietary, lack of exercise etc - all with a massively higher risk of death than bareback swinging - yet a large part of the population take those risks

So I don't go wow at all because people taking risks with illnesses and death is actually commonplace in our society

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By *arry247Couple
over a year ago

Wakefield


"Not, got to stay safe. "

Not what your profile tells us!

You travel!

There is more risk of death or serious injury tracelling to a meet than death or injury caused by a STI.

Wearing a condom in a car will not save you in event of a crash.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Bareback for equestrian activities only."
What hung like a horse?

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By *atexbisexTV/TS
over a year ago

Central London

Exclusively safe

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By *ruitWoman
over a year ago

near kings lynn

Safe sex please xxx

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By *eady and Willing 9Man
over a year ago

Wherever the party is @


"Try skins"

Perfect!!!!

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By *eady and Willing 9Man
over a year ago

Wherever the party is @


"Try skins

What's skins? Am i missing something

Skyns. Super thin condoms. Like skin

Thank you

They are very good

Are they more likely to rip?"

Never had one rip on me ever..an i play rough too. Obviously there's a risk like anyting in life

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Prefer bareback will do both ... Nothing 100 % safe. So fuck it live dangerously .. Cream pie fun ....

Just WOW!...

Is it really wow though?

Bareback swinging/gangbangs definitely increases STI risks - clearly shown by evidence - although the risk still exists with condoms it's just lower

I work in the NHS and we treat thousands/millions every year who are ill not because of random bad luck but because of lifestyle - whether you bats smoking, dietary, lack of exercise etc - all with a massively higher risk of death than bareback swinging - yet a large part of the population take those risks

So I don't go wow at all because people taking risks with illnesses and death is actually commonplace in our society "

Yes it is...

You make the point it 'definitely increases the risks' then set about attempting create a parallel argument for other life style choices which cause illness.

So... let's say I fuck 'x' bareback. Im accepting all x's choices and all her mistakes one nighters previous bareback escapades as I now how what they have. It's entirely possible that you could have something incurable socially stigmatic and life alteringly bad.

Now explain how if I eat a 32oz steak and don't play footy for a week has the same effect?

You see it doesn't as one is a all or nothing russian roulette (not random bad luck) and the other is more of a game of solitaire it takes time and sometimes the deck just isn't there...

I sincerely hope that you are a porter as your attempt at drawing a parallel and your terminology is misguided and dangerous tbh...

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By *arry247Couple
over a year ago

Wakefield


"P

You make the point it 'definitely increases the risks' then set about attempting create a parallel argument for other life style choices which cause illness.

So... let's say I fuck 'x' bareback. Im accepting all x's choices and all her mistakes one nighters previous bareback escapades as I now how what they have. It's entirely possible that you could have something incurable socially stigmatic and life alteringly bad.

Now explain how if I eat a 32oz steak and don't play footy for a week has the same effect?

You see it doesn't as one is a all or nothing russian roulette (not random bad luck) and the other is more of a game of solitaire it takes time and sometimes the deck just isn't there...

I sincerely hope that you are a porter as your attempt at drawing a parallel and your terminology is misguided and dangerous tbh... "

Both points of view are actually incorrect.

If you bareback with a person who is not infected with a STI or if you bareback with one thousand people who do not have a STI there is no risk of catching a STI.

In a similar manner if you bareback with one person who has a STI you have a risk of catching that STI.

If you have sex using a condom with one person who has a STI you increase the risk of catching the STI but the increase of risk is not as high as it would be if you did not wear a condom as some protection is afforded..

The exposure to the risk is also determined by the type of STI and the type of sex indulged in, condoms only protect the area they cover.

Incidentally if you eat a 32oz steak and play footy for a week you have a good chance of heart attack. When I had my stent fitted the 8 bed ward contained 6 people who played football weekly, one person having a bypass redone and me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I luv bare even better if she's fertile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"P

You make the point it 'definitely increases the risks' then set about attempting create a parallel argument for other life style choices which cause illness.

So... let's say I fuck 'x' bareback. Im accepting all x's choices and all her mistakes one nighters previous bareback escapades as I now how what they have. It's entirely possible that you could have something incurable socially stigmatic and life alteringly bad.

Now explain how if I eat a 32oz steak and don't play footy for a week has the same effect?

You see it doesn't as one is a all or nothing russian roulette (not random bad luck) and the other is more of a game of solitaire it takes time and sometimes the deck just isn't there...

I sincerely hope that you are a porter as your attempt at drawing a parallel and your terminology is misguided and dangerous tbh...

Both points of view are actually incorrect.

If you bareback with a person who is not infected with a STI or if you bareback with one thousand people who do not have a STI there is no risk of catching a STI.

In a similar manner if you bareback with one person who has a STI you have a risk of catching that STI.

If you have sex using a condom with one person who has a STI you increase the risk of catching the STI but the increase of risk is not as high as it would be if you did not wear a condom as some protection is afforded..

The exposure to the risk is also determined by the type of STI and the type of sex indulged in, condoms only protect the area they cover.

Incidentally if you eat a 32oz steak and play footy for a week you have a good chance of heart attack. When I had my stent fitted the 8 bed ward contained 6 people who played football weekly, one person having a bypass redone and me

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Mate... you could fertilize a garden with what you just said.

Well in for missing the principle too

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By *uited staffs guyMan
over a year ago

staffordshire


"Prefer bareback will do both ... Nothing 100 % safe. So fuck it live dangerously .. Cream pie fun ....

Just WOW!...

Is it really wow though?

Bareback swinging/gangbangs definitely increases STI risks - clearly shown by evidence - although the risk still exists with condoms it's just lower

I work in the NHS and we treat thousands/millions every year who are ill not because of random bad luck but because of lifestyle - whether you bats smoking, dietary, lack of exercise etc - all with a massively higher risk of death than bareback swinging - yet a large part of the population take those risks

So I don't go wow at all because people taking risks with illnesses and death is actually commonplace in our society

Yes it is...

You make the point it 'definitely increases the risks' then set about attempting create a parallel argument for other life style choices which cause illness.

So... let's say I fuck 'x' bareback. Im accepting all x's choices and all her mistakes one nighters previous bareback escapades as I now how what they have. It's entirely possible that you could have something incurable socially stigmatic and life alteringly bad.

Now explain how if I eat a 32oz steak and don't play footy for a week has the same effect?

You see it doesn't as one is a all or nothing russian roulette (not random bad luck) and the other is more of a game of solitaire it takes time and sometimes the deck just isn't there...

I sincerely hope that you are a porter as your attempt at drawing a parallel and your terminology is misguided and dangerous tbh... "

'Same effect' ?

A very straw man defence there I'm afraid

The risk of eating a single steak is low, as I suspect you already know, so trying to set that up against anything is a pointless argument

The argument I was making is that humans in our society choose to take risks that have a strong evidence base will increase their chance of death - whether that's smoking, drinking, being overweight, attending bareback gangbangs whatever - it's very common and therefore I don't go wow when people choose to take risks no

I personally don't do any of the ones above but don't lose any sleep over people that do

And finally if you think bringing up eating a single steak argument is good then being a porter would be too complicated a post for you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

See this is both pathetic and scary...am not defending anything am driving a bus through your nonsensical approach to risk assessment lol

Your talking about risks that are polar opposites can you not see that lol...

Your talking about the incremental damage each risky item of food causes and weighing it against bareback gangbang lifestyle which can have a single and life changing risk.

Seriously your suggesting the risks are parallel?

Theyre different worlds... can't you see the floor in your almost childlike black and white risk is risk approach...

Let's simplify... risk exists in everything - given and agreed.

The cumulative effect over time of poor diet and lack of activity and or smoking as a life style choice.

Does NOT

Carry the same level, type or compounded risk as being a bare back gangbang monster.

Further simplified... incremental damage is not the same as singular potential catastrophic damage.

Further further simplified... 1000 cuts to your skin over 10 years is not as bad as a sword running through your stomach just once.

Jesus... please please please tell be your statement of working for the NHS was in jest?

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By *uited staffs guyMan
over a year ago

staffordshire

I'm glad to see you've moved past the steak argument - we're making progress now I feel

You're still persisting with your straw man defence though and appear to have little insight which I maintain would make your employment even as a porter problematic

I'll explain it again - human beings take risks with their lives - hence my initial post that I wasn't surprised or 'wow' - nothing you have posted whether it's your steak argument or sword argument has suggested anything otherwise

Of course some risks can be immediate - e.g. some drugs can produce an instant fatal response, a single bareback gangbang could produce a HIV infection - other risks are cumulative - e.g. We know lung cancer risk is higher with incremental smoking history

No one has ever argued all risks are of the same proportion or occur over identical timescales - you're arguing with yourself in an empty room over straw man arguments and really not helping yourself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You need a nickname...

General Oblivious I think...lol

So using my terms (cumulative) which I see you adopted... thank you...youre learning

Why in your original post would you draw parallels between... poor diet and gang bangs.

When

A. No one disputes risk is in everything (as well as stupidity apparantly)

B. You now agree that 'cumulatively' they are totally different... did like the tenuous grasp at a reference for drug complications... enjoyed immensely.

Put simply... you going through a climb down...

Cage rattled lad...

Move on chap

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By *esparate danMan
over a year ago

glasgow


"I luv bare even better if she's fertile "

Nice condom

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