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"What are people's reasons for sending winks? We're intrigued, especially if the other person is hundreds of miles away." The only reason is laziness | |||
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"We like to send winks as an invitation to look over our profile to see if there's enough initial mutual attraction to advance to messages and potentially more " This | |||
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"Winks aren't rocket science. Surely they just mean "hey I like your, profile check out mine"? I can't think of any other reason for winking. ..although I have been known to wink those that rant about receiving them just to amuse myself " And I might even add sending them just to confuse those that are easily confused. .. | |||
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"Maybe there should be a variation to winks, the ability to add an emoji as an example. At the moment, it sounds like we have to guess the reason." No need to guess, if they're winking at you it means they like you. If they just liked your photos they'd just fab. Just think of it like this: A fab is a wink for photos A wink is a fab for profiles. Unless I'm mistaken? | |||
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"Winks aren't rocket science. Surely they just mean "hey I like your, profile check out mine"? I can't think of any other reason for winking. ..although I have been known to wink those that rant about receiving them just to amuse myself " Completely agree with first statement and PMS with second. | |||
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"We like to send winks as an invitation to look over our profile to see if there's enough initial mutual attraction to advance to messages and potentially more " This If they wink back I'll message them, if they haven't already messaged | |||
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"Winks aren't rocket science. Surely they just mean "hey I like your, profile check out mine"? I can't think of any other reason for winking. ..although I have been known to wink those that rant about receiving them just to amuse myself " We like your oxymoron, lol | |||
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"Maybe there should be a variation to winks, the ability to add an emoji as an example. At the moment, it sounds like we have to guess the reason." I think there should definitely not be an option to send emojis. Surely these are the laziest way of communicating an emotion. | |||
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"Winks aren't rocket science. Surely they just mean "hey I like your, profile check out mine"? I can't think of any other reason for winking. ..although I have been known to wink those that rant about receiving them just to amuse myself " Tee hee, I like it. | |||
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"Winks aren't rocket science. Surely they just mean "hey I like your, profile check out mine"? I can't think of any other reason for winking. ..although I have been known to wink those that rant about receiving them just to amuse myself " Omg I might start winking to amuse myself when I can't sleep lol | |||
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"Please don't discourage people from winking, love it when I get one!" | |||
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"Winks just seem to be a source of irritation for me. I get the concept of them but the people that send them to me seem to have their own idea of how they work. I have lost track of the number of times in the past where I have received a wink, looked at the profile and felt there was something. I then bother to send a message, usually a decent one only to find it deleted or even myself blocked in some cases. Yesterday I got winked by two couples where I had been through this before. Thank god for private notes " I have the same thing. Winks are great to see if there is mutual interest. But when I get a wink then email and like you, put some effort into it, to get nothing back is baffling! | |||
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"What are people's reasons for sending winks? We're intrigued, especially if the other person is hundreds of miles away." Because they dont really think about it. They just go through profiles winking as they go hoping for a response. Doesnt mean anymore than that. Bit like cut and paste messages they send out to anyone | |||
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"To show an interest " We do the same, some of us aren't overly confident (mr) to just send a message | |||
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"If the person is miles away i so I sometimes just to let people know i like their profile . Yes i can the pics x i suppose it is lazy." "Depends on the winker. Some do it to show interest, others do it to show appreciation." These are the correct answers. I send 2 or 3 winks out noe and then but usually to people on friends list too just to let em know O in the mood I freely admit it's lazy, sometimes I don't always want to start off a full blown conversation, fucking sue me. It's sometime s a quick way to see if they're interested after checking you out too. I'm starting to use it more and more. | |||
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"I've never used them, I never will. Always delete them without looking who sends them. I would hope, and certainly the person I'm most likely to be attracted to would simply message me expressing an interest. " I never send them either . But then again I hardly message anyone either because Im a miserable bastard. | |||
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"I've never used them, I never will. Always delete them without looking who sends them. I would hope, and certainly the person I'm most likely to be attracted to would simply message me expressing an interest. I never send them either . But then again I hardly message anyone either because Im a miserable bastard. " I message, I just don't wink | |||
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"Maybe there should be a variation to winks, the ability to add an emoji as an example. At the moment, it sounds like we have to guess the reason. No need to guess, if they're winking at you it means they like you. If they just liked your photos they'd just fab. Just think of it like this: A fab is a wink for photos A wink is a fab for profiles. Unless I'm mistaken?" Very Much this | |||
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"Dunno , maybe they want us to look at them. I always forget to look. Maybe of course they are people that cannot message me oops never thought of that. Just think I missed out on tons of messages by not looking " That's the last time I wink you cinnamon | |||
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"I ignore all winks as I think it's lazy. The majority have no profile or pics so I'm hardly going to wink back. I'd like to be able to turn winks off permanently " I kinda like winks it's not lazy to send someone a wink at all just shows you that they've actually looked at your profile and like what they see and if they get a wink back shows there's a mutual interest to start talking ... mainly for the guys who are either a bit shy or had they're messages ignored so feel what's the point ..I however will send a wink followed up by a message | |||
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"We don't see a problem with winks and we will wink back if we like the profile. " | |||
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"I hope this regenerates this thread! So I've had a wink off a certain guy I've had my "eye on"... He's looked at me a few times. Fabbed a pic. Then today I have a wink! So I send him a message. Something simple, like an acknowledgement. He's read it........and that's it. Not deleted. Just lingering there. Have been online since ( it was a few hrs ago). I'm confused " Could be a bit of a winker | |||
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"I hope this regenerates this thread! So I've had a wink off a certain guy I've had my "eye on"... He's looked at me a few times. Fabbed a pic. Then today I have a wink! So I send him a message. Something simple, like an acknowledgement. He's read it........and that's it. Not deleted. Just lingering there. Have been online since ( it was a few hrs ago). I'm confused " What a lucky guy! | |||
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"Call it laziness if you like but shouldn't it be considered a "starter", in the same way a smile or hello to someone you see in real life? And for those who don't like winks how many happily put flirty emoji etc on the end of posts?" | |||
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"We use winks to show were intrested in their profile, if they wink back then we would send a message." | |||
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"I hope this regenerates this thread! So I've had a wink off a certain guy I've had my "eye on"... He's looked at me a few times. Fabbed a pic. Then today I have a wink! So I send him a message. Something simple, like an acknowledgement. He's read it........and that's it. Not deleted. Just lingering there. Have been online since ( it was a few hrs ago). I'm confused Could be a bit of a winker " Could be! Has put me right off now. I ain't chasing.....hell no | |||
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"I hope this regenerates this thread! So I've had a wink off a certain guy I've had my "eye on"... He's looked at me a few times. Fabbed a pic. Then today I have a wink! So I send him a message. Something simple, like an acknowledgement. He's read it........and that's it. Not deleted. Just lingering there. Have been online since ( it was a few hrs ago). I'm confused What a lucky guy!" I'm too confused. no luck here! | |||
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"We like to send winks as an invitation to look over our profile to see if there's enough initial mutual attraction to advance to messages and potentially more This " | |||
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"I hope this regenerates this thread! So I've had a wink off a certain guy I've had my "eye on"... He's looked at me a few times. Fabbed a pic. Then today I have a wink! So I send him a message. Something simple, like an acknowledgement. He's read it........and that's it. Not deleted. Just lingering there. Have been online since ( it was a few hrs ago). I'm confused What a lucky guy! I'm too confused. no luck here! " He's the lucky and quite possibly stupid one... | |||
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"I've never used them, I never will. Always delete them without looking who sends them. I would hope, and certainly the person I'm most likely to be attracted to would simply message me expressing an interest. " This is exactly what we do. Any winks sent are ignored as we get so many and ANYONE that sends friend requests without talking gets ignored. ~Mia | |||
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"Maybe he doesn't want to seem too eager? Maybe he is working on his response?" He can crack on then not playing games. It's weird! | |||
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"Its a lazy message " It's ok now. My gut told me months back that this guy thinks he's something. Just confirmed. Next! | |||
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"I don't see a problem with winks, I like to give and receive. I feel that it's sometimes less intrusive to send someone you like the look of a wink rather than a message. Each to their own, you'll never please everyone all of the time Like I say, I do like to receive them too....(tumble ) HG" I like giving and recieving too, even from hundreds of miles away | |||
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"Its a lazy message It's ok now. My gut told me months back that this guy thinks he's something. Just confirmed. Next! " One thing I will say, when you are on your phone it is quite easy to miss the winks notification. You get a message and the big yellow box tells you you have a message, however the wink box can be easy to miss!! | |||
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"What are people's reasons for sending winks? We're intrigued, especially if the other person is hundreds of miles away." at less you get winks i do not on here | |||
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"I don't see a problem with winks, I like to give and receive. I feel that it's sometimes less intrusive to send someone you like the look of a wink rather than a message. Each to their own, you'll never please everyone all of the time Like I say, I do like to receive them too....(tumble ) HG I like giving and recieving too, even from hundreds of miles away" The beauty of a wink, distance doesn't matter HG | |||
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"If we get a wink from another couple and we like what we see, we wink back and leave it up to them to make contact via a message - Mrs. J -" We do this too especially with single guys. | |||
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"What are people's reasons for sending winks? We're intrigued, especially if the other person is hundreds of miles away." I suppose a light hearted call for attention. To judge mutral interest before they invest too much. As to winks from a far I guess its about attracting attention and making online friends rather that any serious intention to meet. After all some people like the online socialising and meeting sexy likeminded people aspect of Fab. I have had a couple of winks from people 100s miles away. I am fine with it and it's rather faltering. | |||
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"What are people's reasons for sending winks? We're intrigued, especially if the other person is hundreds of miles away. The only reason is laziness" Of course not. It may be just 1 (one) of the many reasons. | |||
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"What are people's reasons for sending winks? We're intrigued, especially if the other person is hundreds of miles away." To say that you have a nice pair of tits! | |||
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"What are people's reasons for sending winks? We're intrigued, especially if the other person is hundreds of miles away." Why not. Expressing and interest without being intrusive or wasting your time by writing a message that isn't reciprocated perhaps | |||
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"What are people's reasons for sending winks? We're intrigued, especially if the other person is hundreds of miles away. Why not. Expressing and interest without being intrusive or wasting your time by writing a message that isn't reciprocated perhaps " That's why I send them anyway. | |||
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"I ignore all winks as I think it's lazy. The majority have no profile or pics so I'm hardly going to wink back. I'd like to be able to turn winks off permanently " I've just put you to the test. | |||
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"Well I never ever did get a reply but I've worked out why! It's because I have bobbed hair he prefers ladies with long hair. So I'm assuming he clicked wink by accident and then confirm by accident. Very easily done! " The short bobbed hair would be a reason for me to send you a wink! | |||
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"Well I never ever did get a reply but I've worked out why! It's because I have bobbed hair he prefers ladies with long hair. So I'm assuming he clicked wink by accident and then confirm by accident. Very easily done! The short bobbed hair would be a reason for me to send you a wink! " Ironically I am growing it out... But his missed this boat | |||
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"Well I never ever did get a reply but I've worked out why! It's because I have bobbed hair he prefers ladies with long hair. So I'm assuming he clicked wink by accident and then confirm by accident. Very easily done! The short bobbed hair would be a reason for me to send you a wink! Ironically I am growing it out... But his missed this boat " Ah that's a pity. I love short hair in a lady. A lady with short hair anyways gets a second glance from me. Not sure why it turns me on so much but I do love it... | |||
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"I send them when I can't be arsed to write a message. " This too | |||
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