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Condoms or Bareback

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

What are your thoughts on the matter. I think it depends on who you playing with I guess

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In a relationship? Prefer none.

For a fab meet? Condom for sure!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My thoughts are always condoms. Even with a regular meet, you don't 100% know how they're playing with others.

Just my opinion and know everyone is different.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What are your thoughts on the matter. I think it depends on who you playing with I guess"

No it doesn't, condoms all the way......

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By *cott73Man
over a year ago

brighton

People who play fast and loose with their health are not for me.

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By *andy6677Man
over a year ago

crewe

Condoms all the way apart with a trusted partner and even then only if she was on birth control xx

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By *imetoexplore69Couple
over a year ago

Aberdeen


"What are your thoughts on the matter. I think it depends on who you playing with I guess

No it doesn't, condoms all the way......"
even between u two?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would prefer a world where you didn't have to worry about diseases and pregnancy and it's safe to play bareback.

However in the real world it's got to be condoms!

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By *ndiansexguruMan
over a year ago

Surbiton, Germany

Condom. Always play safe

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Prefer bareback (hate the word)

Condoms are a necessity in a casual world

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What are your thoughts on the matter. I think it depends on who you playing with I guess"

Type this topic in search pal.

Theres loads of opinions on it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What are your thoughts on the matter. I think it depends on who you playing with I guess"

Always condoms, I prefer two methods of birth control at any time. Pregnancy would be life-altering.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What are your thoughts on the matter. I think it depends on who you playing with I guess

No it doesn't, condoms all the way......even between u two?"

No, but we have been together for over 20 years

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When I first joined fab I thought bareback was when a guy pulled out n shot his load all over your bare back.

PTU XXX

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By *ust PeachyWoman
over a year ago

Prestonish


"What are your thoughts on the matter. I think it depends on who you playing with I guess"

In a world without std's - bareback every time! As this is yet to exist - condoms are a necessary evil!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This again, lol

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By *aspsMan
over a year ago

dundee

cant believe the number of guys/woman who are willing to take such a risk going bareback life is short enough with out taking such a big risk

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By *ascade35Man
over a year ago

Alnwick

It occurs to me that whilst this subject is frequently debated upon by all forumites and frequently at that, some seem to go with the crowd and common opinion.

I think there are more people out there who are willing to play bareback than would admit to such.

For me myself, painting myself in a corner here, with a new partner I would wrap it up.....if they became more than that, then yes I'd play bare.

Let the fabs use commence....

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By *entleman and SassyPussCouple
over a year ago

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I really don't mind condoms at all. I use Mates Skyns and they're fantastic.

Obviously we go bare with each other, we've been together long enough! But, we always use condoms on meets.

- Miss SP xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personaly i have a real problem with condoms, i find them difficult to use, fidgety and there is always the risk of them splitting.

A far better alternative is a cock sleeve, far easier to put on, far safer, as there is much less chance of splitting, and as they come in different shapes and sizes, far more fun!

Worth checking out.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

With partners from here, condoms every time. I actually find them a turn on, I think it's because my brain associates them with being naughty

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By *ohohoWoman
over a year ago

Up North

Bareback feels better, but it's not worth the risk with anyone other than my partner.

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

Condom, sheepskin for preference.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Personaly i have a real problem with condoms, i find them difficult to use, fidgety and there is always the risk of them splitting.

A far better alternative is a cock sleeve, far easier to put on, far safer, as there is much less chance of splitting, and as they come in different shapes and sizes, far more fun!

Worth checking out. "

from what I can see, they aren't recommended as an alternative to condoms either for contraception or to offer safer sex...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Level A, full HazMat suit and respirators for me. As safe as they get.

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By *andi_shopWoman
over a year ago

rotherham

I prefer the feel of bareback but only with long term trusted partners. Causal/fuck buddys require condoms

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

With all due respect to the lady wouldn't even suggest bareback so definitely condom every time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's like washing your feet with your socks on...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What are your thoughts on the matter. I think it depends on who you playing with I guess"

With 28 years together under our belts we don't worry at home, but when playing they are an absolute must.

We will admit we have been very stupid once in our early swinging life, and the realization and the waiting for GUM results scared the crap out of us.

Fortunately we learnt from our mistake and we always come prepared with a supply of condoms now and get our regular tests done still.

You can never be too careful, even with protection, as nothing is 100% guaranteed in life.

Our last tests were just over a week ago and the all clears came through Friday.

Still hate the HIV one, even though it's the one you don't have to wait on results for. Even that 30 seconds wait is nerve-racking, despite knowing we don't take unwarranted risks.

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds


"Level A, full HazMat suit and respirators for me. As safe as they get. "

Don't forget the safety goggles too...!!

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By *ickstributerMan
over a year ago

Ocala/Belleview/mayo

At my age: mostve the people I play with are in that same archaic age bracket,& we're pretty far from pregnancy & don't play often enough to warrant vigilance concerning strange infectious diseases! So: it's "Condoms til tested" & results are verified on paper thinking for me... Then: if they're willing/wanting we can go bare! I am surgically safe B.T.W. for those whose genetic engineering allows such a occurrence anyway! But, I do especially like/& need to go bare for oral! Ya Don't put suntan oil OVER yer raincoat at the beach ! Any archaeologists out there wanting to play I Do have my current and recent test results on hand, I do!

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By *vent44ukMan
over a year ago

Galashiels

Not into Russian roulette, so condoms every time for me.

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By *ust RachelTV/TS
over a year ago

Horsham

Condom all the way, as you can only be sure that at the time of your test your results are good. As some STD can appear clean on a test, but still be in your system.

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

Condoms mostly with the odd bit of bb thrown in.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's like washing your feet with your socks on... "

Expected something better than that considering where you're from!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tbh some sex would be a good start

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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"It occurs to me that whilst this subject is frequently debated upon by all forumites and frequently at that, some seem to go with the crowd and common opinion.

I think there are more people out there who are willing to play bareback than would admit to such.

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Absolutely. What people say and what they do are two entirely different things.

I like bareback, my profile says so

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury

only caught chlamydia once so far....so yeah fuck it, I'm game.

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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"only caught chlamydia once so far....so yeah fuck it, I'm game. "

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By *gnatzmacmouseMan
over a year ago

London

Seconded- sex can be great, diseases never.


"My thoughts are always condoms. Even with a regular meet, you don't 100% know how they're playing with others.

Just my opinion and know everyone is different."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"In a relationship? Prefer none.

For a fab meet? Condom for sure! "

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By *lwaysup4it69Couple
over a year ago

Kirkby in Ashfield

Bareback all the way for us

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bareback for me and hubby but if playing always wear a condom

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By *aywalton1Man
over a year ago

Walton on the Hill

I find condoms are just not safe enough, so I prefer to have sex from 20 feet away, with me (alone) in an hermetically sealed enclosure ... or was that when the nice people in white suits come to take me back because I forgot to take my happy pills.

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By *eedsbig9inMan
over a year ago

leeds

Bare back for me just carefull who I meet

And always comdoms when I meet men

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

but only if you have the relevant H&S qualifications....

always baffles me that so many insist on condoms but smoke like chimneys.... but perhaps that isn't classed as a health risk anymore lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Myself prefer bare back for pure feel and pleasure, (also am allergic!) but safe play always comes first and tbh it depends on the couple your playing, also the pregnancy risk. I don't use pill etc.. but have been comfortable with couples when he's been snipped and we have built trust in play

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only bare sometimes with my fwb, both of us always use condoms with others and still get checked every 3 months, just a habit I got into after joining fab...plus the clinic have skyns condoms lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My thoughts are always condoms. Even with a regular meet, you don't 100% know how they're playing with others.

Just my opinion and know everyone is different."

this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Comdoms all the way each to there own but I play safe

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By *ina VonteeseTV/TS
over a year ago

Leicester

Condoms for penetration darlings!

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By *ikstupp2Man
over a year ago

london

I didn't use condoms for years as I was in a sexless long term relationship and when I did get active again found that I kept breaking them even the extra safe

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *oggingslutWoman
over a year ago

Manchester

each to thier own... i do play bare and the ammount of people ive met who 'always play safe' but when it comes down to it fuck bare...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I didn't use condoms for years as I was in a sexless long term relationship and when I did get active again found that I kept breaking them even the extra safe"

Sounds like you need to either:

- Use more lube.

- Learn to put them on properly.

- Get a size that fits right.

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By *uninlondon69Man
over a year ago

Tower Bridge South

Bareback definitely. It should be a tick box for profiles exactly the same as safe sex so people can make informed choices.

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By *he girl with dreadlocksWoman
over a year ago

need to know basis in Wolverhampton

I miss bareback sex

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By *ungBlackTopMan
over a year ago

salford

bareback

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