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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Just seen a profile, which was rather appealing, but then he had his mobile number on display on his profile. This spells out desperation to me.

What are your thoughts?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Either brave or fool hardy but almost certainly not his real everyday mobile number I'd say.

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

Yes, I think it's a bit desperate to. I often see mobile numbers on my local updates and just go

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, I think it's a bit desperate. I wouldn't reply to a message if they had their phone number on profile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd say yeh it dous come across like desperate OR just bold , he's certainly not worried, he just want it that and then I guess

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By *hattyman80Man
over a year ago

stockport

Tbh I wouldn't post my phone number up on here as I like to control who has access to it. Although even if I did post it I doubt anyone would use it as I'm on the longest dry spell ever haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What is it with guys sending numbers in messages to.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Keen as mustard as they say

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just seen a profile, which was rather appealing, but then he had his mobile number on display on his profile. This spells out desperation to me.

What are your thoughts?"

Desperate as hell

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By *radleywigginsMan
over a year ago

northwest

I think that would be the general perception. And probably a strange one..

I don't put a mobile number in anything but a private message. I think that actually talking as opposed to messaging on this or any other means is easily the best way to get to know someone.

Many profiles say things like 'find out if we have a connection' but refuse to actually talk.

I think a chat on the phone is essential, within seconds you know from the way people speak whether they are the person in the profile. Given the number of posts about fakes and time wasters, I'd think think this and the chance to gauge someone's intentions and personality would be welcomed..

What are we worried about? Well, I suppose that nobody wants random phone calls at inconvenient times, but that doesn't stop the PPI guys! With this, at least you know who it is and can can answer/block as necessary

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Aww look I reckon putting phone numbers, sending numbers straight away is just desperate, the time for swapping or getting a number just naturally comes, there's no big rush to swap a number or to give a number any way as this whole site is for the porpoise of being able to contact in the first place lol so why be desperate and send or post your private numbe

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It will be their second phone number for places like this and dating sites.

Most people I know have either 2 phones or two different sim cards with different numbers.

One for personal real life.

And one for play.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

probably a payg phone he has just for here. why not find out if you like the profile instead of dismissing it out of hand?

After all isn't any meet or potential meet a gamble for either one of you?

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By *ick turpin2000Man
over a year ago

cumnock

Do women ever do phone sex amyway, last two fems too call me said. Lol, oooo m8 am just about to cum, fake fckin profiles. Pet hate!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah it's a massive no no for me and red flag for me.

Not something I think I've ever seen on a female profile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yeah it's a massive no no for me and red flag for me.

Not something I think I've ever seen on a female profile. "

It smacks of desperation. Puts me right off.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd never give my phone number out to random people on here. Guys clearly desperate

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

all it needs is for people to bombard him with messages and maybe he''ll think twice about putting his number up.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"all it needs is for people to bombard him with messages and maybe he''ll think twice about putting his number up.

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Or put it on a gay site if hes straight

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By *andi_shopWoman
over a year ago

rotherham


"Yes, I think it's a bit desperate. I wouldn't reply to a message if they had their phone number on profile "

same as if they send you a first message with their number on, screams desperation

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By *JcouplemidlandsCouple
over a year ago

Peak District


"It will be their second phone number for places like this and dating sites.

Most people I know have either 2 phones or two different sim cards with different numbers.

One for personal real life.

And one for play."

We have a second phone for using on here (dont have it on our profile though), and only a select few have the number. Far better idea than giving your "real" number out until you really get to know someone x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I got a message from a guy with his mobile number, full name and an invite to check him out on Facebook?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think some people must loose all common sense when there's the remotest chance they might get their end away!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A guy messaged me his number earlier in a first message, I told him I was going to put it on my status and to expect lots of calls. He blocked me and I didn't. I'm

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some folk are just over friendly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A guy messaged me his number earlier in a first message, I told him I was going to put it on my status and to expect lots of calls. He blocked me and I didn't. I'm "

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By *LCCCouple
over a year ago

Cambridge

Was it 999?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The guy is keeping it old school. What's app?kik ?... Just call me okay! My number? Sure, it's 42.

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By *ohohoWoman
over a year ago

Up North

Seems a little desperate to me. i would avoid.

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

One of my message titles this morning is a telephone number!

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

Wouldn't dream of giving my number out on here unless it was to someone I was going to be meeting - the thought of potentially random phone calls at all hours just doesn't fill me with joy.

Have seen numbers on statuses and profiles though and my first thoughts are either desperation or wondering if the number is genuine or that of someone the owner knows that they have put there for some sort of sick revenge act/joke.

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