FabSwingers.com forum: looks or personality

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

which would you pick looks or personality i have 100's of messages aday about my looks and 100's more asking why i am friends with what they call ugly guys

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By *exybabyMan
over a year ago

Canterbury....ish

"which would you pick looks or personality i have 100's of messages aday about my looks and 100's more asking why i am friends with what they call ugly guys "

Tell them to mind their own business....you're quite capable of picking your own friends!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

oh i do and say its not only about looks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"which would you pick looks or personality i have 100's of messages aday about my looks and 100's more asking why i am friends with what they call ugly guys

Tell them to mind their own business....you're quite capable of picking your own friends!!"

They have to have a bit of both. Looks to get the attention, personality to keep it.

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By *exybabyMan
over a year ago

Canterbury....ish

"which would you pick looks or personality i have 100's of messages aday about my looks and 100's more asking why i am friends with what they call ugly guys

Tell them to mind their own business....you're quite capable of picking your own friends!!

They have to have a bit of both. Looks to get the attention, personality to keep it."

Just to be on the safe side....if they've got a brilliant personality that far out shines their beauty...you could always take two brown paper bags with you!! One to put on his /her head and one for yours just in case their's fell off!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

i dont go overly for looks and i have see the "good looking" guys are cocky and big head most of the time

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By *iggles and BeardyCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

Looks tend to be the bait that gets our atention, with personality the thing that catches us..

Though wiggles has been known to sudenly want a guy thats far from her normal taste, simply due to having an amazing laugh.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

its not all about looks but it helps lol xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

ah well i dont mind being anyones ugly friend or fiend

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"which would you pick looks or personality i have 100's of messages aday about my looks and 100's more asking why i am friends with what they call ugly guys "

when i use to have a verificationi from your old profile i use to get guys asking me all the time how the fuck could some one like me have met a girl like you

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By *obletonMan
over a year ago

A Home Among The Woodland Creatures

I'm not bothered about either, as long as she has the keys to a pub I'm happy

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By *ittlemorespiceCouple
over a year ago

North Cornwall

Both.

Mistress x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Both

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

think both are important, however ive turned many a good lookin pretty boy type down because he's an arrogant arsehole

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Both

kev be grateful your a funny guy cos your looks would get you nowhere haha

*runs* xxxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personality is more important, as long as it is not a fake personality....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Both

kev be grateful your a funny guy cos your looks would get you nowhere haha

*runs* xxxxx"

I wear a mask

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By *LBishCouple
over a year ago

near bury st edmunds

"which would you pick looks or personality i have 100's of messages aday about my looks and 100's more asking why i am friends with what they call ugly guys

Tell them to mind their own business....you're quite capable of picking your own friends!!

They have to have a bit of both. Looks to get the attention, personality to keep it."

Could not have said it better myself, there has to be a bit of both, i cant play with someone i dont find a little attractive, no matter what presonality they have. But on the other hand they could be drop dead Lush but if they aint got a personality then a no no. So for us yehh deffinatly a bit of both xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

But you played with us Janet and we are ugly and boring!!

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

That is a hell of a lot of messages you get in a day

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By *ooty and suuCouple
over a year ago

barnsley

looks can be nice

but personality accounts for a lot more

with us

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By *ockwell DominusMan
over a year ago

Birstall

"which would you pick looks or personality i have 100's of messages aday about my looks and 100's more asking why i am friends with what they call ugly guys "

Some people are beautiful on the outside, some people are beautiful on the inside, very few are both and looks alone will never outshine a stunning personality.

I know i'm handsome and now I have a stunning personality too thanks to my new taser

ps if you think i'm ugly bring a paper bag with you

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By *atisfy janeWoman
over a year ago

Torquay

100's messages a day?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why is there always an assumption that a good looking person can't also have a personality?!!

These threads always state either/or.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"100's messages a day?

It's the norm for single ladies on this site, didn't you know that?!!

Tsk!

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By *atisfy janeWoman
over a year ago

Torquay

And all about her looks....

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Nearly 4 years ive been here and never had one message asking why im friends with someone. 100's a day all in one week. I must be doing something wrong?

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By *unky monkeyMan
over a year ago

in the night garden

Goddddd! I get 100's in like an hour! You lot are rubbish!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've got to say its a bit of both for us tho we tend to go for personality more. Looks are nothing without a personality to go with it. Some people are really good looking and they know it but can be really arrogant and big headed with it.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"And all about her looks....

well not all but lots start with things like wow omfg super milf so on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

for a 1 off meet, facial good looks

for regular meets, looks with the ability to hold a conversation

for something more, looks with the ability to keep me interested

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The thing is what is ugly to them may not be to you, look at Christina Aguilera's husband, definitely not good looking but she obviously thought so or at least was attracted to him that she married him. Angeline Jolie also married someone not that good looking but was attracted to something about him

Guess personality do win over looks most of the time anyway

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its an tricky question to answer - This is a site that (in the main) is fed off looking at the pictures of prospective meets before ever talking to them.

Nearly every contact we have had asks for face pics in the first or second message and after that, its down to the chit chat. Its difficult to convey a sense of personality over email as adding in the inflection and subtext is difficult and at the whim of the reader, not the writer.

But in our experience, is 30% looks, 60% personality and 10% on buying a round.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"its not all about looks but it helps lol xx"

Couldn't agree more!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

looks or personality ?

neither !

i am only attracted to ugly miserable fuckers

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By *LBishCouple
over a year ago

near bury st edmunds

"But you played with us Janet and we are ugly and boring!!"

Your both so VERY LUSH tease, and so not boaring x

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By *opeye-OliveCouple
over a year ago

worcester

60/40 Personality to looks.

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville

Looks everytime!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

for me it has to be a good mixture of both but i do go for looks first

If i find someone good looking i will take the time to get to know them a bit

If im not attracted to them i dont bother getting to know them as theres no point as im not going to have sex with them

But no matter how good looking they are they need a good personality too or its going nowhere

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

personality 30%

looks 30%

hung 40%

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't really get the looks/personality debate. This is a swinger site, not a dating agency. So, looks 100%

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"which would you pick looks or personality i have 100's of messages aday about my looks and 100's more asking why i am friends with what they call ugly guys

Tell them to mind their own business....you're quite capable of picking your own friends!!

They have to have a bit of both. Looks to get the attention, personality to keep it."
Agreed

We dont have either LOL !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm pretty shallow and couldn't drill a minger

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By *ittlemorespiceCouple
over a year ago

North Cornwall

Blimey, op gone AGAIN! lol

Mistress x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Blimey, op gone AGAIN! lol

Mistress x"

Yes and not the first time she has deleted her profile, guess she will be along with another new one next week

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Blimey, op gone AGAIN! lol

Mistress x"

Rattled as a 'fake' again perhaps?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Personality is more important, as long as it is not a fake personality....

As we said...personality goes a long way, as long as it is not a fake personality....

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By *eaboMan
over a year ago

marden

personality every time. If everyone went for looks i would never get any sex.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personality 75%

Looks 25%

If I met someone with great personality that I was totally unattracted to - it wouldn't work. Likewise, a total catwalk stunner with no personality isn't really going to work either and would just be going through the motions and unfulfilling!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personally for me its all about the attitude, the confidence & the way the person carries themselves.

That's what makes someone sexy in my eyes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Don't really get the looks/personality debate. This is a swinger site, not a dating agency. So, looks 100%"

Know where you're coming from, but you wouldn't want to play with someone who turned out to be unpleasant company, would you?

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