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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Most couples profiles seem to block single guys, any reason anyone can give why we're excluded? I appreciate there may be a bad apple or two every now and then but there are genuine guys out there *waves hand*

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By *nsert user name hereMan
over a year ago

Manchester

I'm guessing the couples who block single guys aren't interested in meeting them?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Or they get 300 messages a day saying U ok?

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod

over a year ago

East Sussex

As above. Some couples do meet single men and some don't. It's best to concentrate on those that do.

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead


"Most couples profiles seem to block single guys, any reason anyone can give why we're excluded? I appreciate there may be a bad apple or two every now and then but there are genuine guys out there *waves hand*"

who says they aren't interested.... just because you can't first contact them, it doesn't mean if they are interested in you and your profile that they can't contact you...

maybe they are doing the searching.....

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By *wcwCouple
over a year ago

cheshire

We dont block single guys. Thats why we are on here. N go to clubs for guys for my wife. I love watching. Unless there is something on there profile wot duznt suit us. N how they come across to. I know there are a few what dont do single guys any favours. But we tend to them out. Eg. We had a message tho the other day just saying. Do you guys want a fuck. That sort are deleted straight away. We have met some great guys on here. And at clubs

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By *edonistic ExplorersCouple
over a year ago

Stratford

Most? Sweeping statement! Many couples are looking for something quite specific and prefer to search for themselves. Others may only meet in clubs, at parties or events that cater for their specific requirement. My recommendation? Read profiles fully and check you're what folk are actually looking for and you can contribute to a fun meet for all of you. A bit more info on your own profile about what your y can offer might help too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's not

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By *entaur_UKMan
over a year ago

Cannock

I see plenty of couples profiles on here looking for single guys. Had some great meets with couples on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Most couples profiles seem to block single guys, any reason anyone can give why we're excluded? I appreciate there may be a bad apple or two every now and then but there are genuine guys out there *waves hand*"

A lot of couples block single males due to the sheer volume of messages received on a daily basis. They just go looking for one when and if desired xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I imagine it's because the guys wanna get some too

Whether they admit it or not they aren't just init to watch their wives getting boned

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Make yourself irresistible to couples who are looking for single men. They will contact you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It probably because most couples seem to want to meet a unicorn** not a man.

I say i specifically do not meet couples but i still get loads messaging me saying come and join us.

** = unicorn is a single bi female who wants a MF+f meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get the same results any suggestions ready to discuss

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This site is not realy up to scracht

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By *unandbuckCouple
over a year ago

Sheffield

'Not looking for single guys' just means 'we don't accept first messages from single guys' .

Lots of those couples do meet single guys, they just want to search for them themselves or meet them ad-hoc at clubs.

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By *bthreeCouple
over a year ago

Yeovil


"Or they get 300 messages a day saying U ok?"

Ain't that the truth lol

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By *edonistic ExplorersCouple
over a year ago

Stratford


"I get the same results any suggestions ready to discuss"

Read your own profile as if you were a couple wanting to meet a single guy. How does it stand out from the crowd? What do you have to offer a couple? Do you tailor your messages so that couples know you are exactly what they're looking for as described on their profile?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A single guy may simply not fulfill their needs. There's no great conspiracy against them. If you want success, make yourself stand out from the 1000's of other single men offering the same things as you. Be irresistible and for the couple to be saying to each other 'we have to meet this guy'

It's a total waste of time and energy to whiningly bleat about not being able to meet the others.

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By *orgotten_93Man
over a year ago

Stoke-on-Trent

As a guy that was on here as part of a couple and is now on here as a single, it's a massive difference.

Couples profiles get that many messages that looking through all of them sometimes can actually be really hard. But being on here as a single guy, a group which must make up at least 80% of all profiles, means that your profile has to reflect well on yourself from the off (Something I myself hasn't got the hang of myself! Haha)

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By *ehind closed curtainsCouple
over a year ago

East Midlands

We've been let down more times by single guys than couples, so we are now more reserved about arranging meets with them & wasting our time

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By *ranimallxl5Man
over a year ago

Winchester

You can always have sex with couples or goto a club or do dogging or lower your values and fuck a really ugly girl and then walk home with shame flashbacks like a Vietnam vet

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By *inkyLondonpairCouple
over a year ago

London

It's harsh but I would suggest the main reason the op can't get meets is because he is a 53 year old curvy man with only a pic of his cock. Given that single men wanting to meet women and couples out number women and couples wanting to meet single men by about ten to one his chances are something between remote and zero.

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

Why is it when men find out I find it hard to meet someone I like I get told 'maybe your too fussy?'.....No that is why I have toys!

I have my standards and wont drop them, why is that so hard to comprehend?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Most couples profiles seem to block single guys, any reason anyone can give why we're excluded? I appreciate there may be a bad apple or two every now and then but there are genuine guys out there *waves hand*"

Are you saying because they are on Fab they have to meet single men?

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By *inkyLondonpairCouple
over a year ago

London


"You can always have sex with couples or goto a club or do dogging or lower your values and fuck a really ugly girl and then walk home with shame flashbacks like a Vietnam vet "

He's 53 and "curvy". On a site like this where because of the ratios even the less attractive women and couples can get hot men, he has little or no chance here. He is best going to a greedy girls night at a club where all comers are welcome.

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By *ranimallxl5Man
over a year ago

Winchester


"It's harsh but I would suggest the main reason the op can't get meets is because he is a 53 year old curvy man with only a pic of his cock. Given that single men wanting to meet women and couples out number women and couples wanting to meet single men by about ten to one his chances are something between remote and zero. "

Is this me in ten to fifteen years.. I must grt rich

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have never had a problem meeting up with couples!! From my own experience You just need to be patient as most are pretty selective over single men.

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By *oluptuousWetOneWoman
over a year ago

Wokingham / Reading

1 cock pic certainly isn't going to help

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In our experience 99.99999999% are all talk and usually end up in no shows or just go quite lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you randomly took 100 couples less than a quarter are worth talking to.

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By *aughty bbMan
over a year ago

here there everywhere

I honestly couldnt believe the amount of mail me and a fuck buddy used to get when we had a profile on here

Even though it said we were only looking for couples

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By *op gooserMan
over a year ago

chester


"Most couples profiles seem to block single guys, any reason anyone can give why we're excluded? I appreciate there may be a bad apple or two every now and then but there are genuine guys out there *waves hand*"
Because the men in couples normally run their Fab account and in they ain't into MMF etc it ain't happening. Doesn't fill up inbox etc and echoing other stuff said above.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Reasons we've blocked single guys:

1) Most don't bother reading our profile

2) Most don't care about anything except their own needs/desires

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By *mber GamblerCouple
over a year ago

rugby

We are really into single men.They are our preference. (We have 2 on the go right now!) But i have blocked them because they don't read my profile and i get too many messages.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There are 2 main reasons a couple would have cause to pursue a single man in the swing scene. One is if they are interested in MMF threeesomes, and the other if they are interested in cuckolding. If the couple are not interested in either, then I guess they would have no need for a single male. It's nothing against single men, it's more about what the couple's interests and fantasies are. There however plenty of couples who do enjoy pursuits that require a single man, therefore will look for the right kind of man who is able to meet their needs and fantasies.

Mrs

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By *lkDomWhtSubBiCpleCouple
over a year ago

Somewhere / Everywhere /Kinksville

We like meeting single guys. But finding single guys that can actually cut it, is quite another thing.

I think most read FAB with their dicks in their hands, so once they've done the deed, the requirement for the meet they've signed up to, has gone.

By far more guys are just talkers on here than actually want to meet.

Having said that, the little gems we do meet remind us why we are here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There are 2 main reasons a couple would have cause to pursue a single man in the swing scene. One is if they are interested in MMF threeesomes, and the other if they are interested in cuckolding. If the couple are not interested in either, then I guess they would have no need for a single male. It's nothing against single men, it's more about what the couple's interests and fantasies are. There however plenty of couples who do enjoy pursuits that require a single man, therefore will look for the right kind of man who is able to meet their needs and fantasies.

Mrs"

as above

And nobody,that i know of,joins a swinging group to give "a chance" to anybody,male or female.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I see plenty of couples profiles on here looking for single guys. Had some great meets with couples on here. "

I've mostly met with couples over the years.

Couples who block single guys either...want to meet other couples/women

Or want to do the looking themselves.

It ain't rocket science.

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By *ollyGWoman
over a year ago

Southampton


"It probably because most couples seem to want to meet a unicorn** not a man.

I say i specifically do not meet couples but i still get loads messaging me saying come and join us.

** = unicorn is a single bi female who wants a MF+f meet. "

Ditto!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We used to have it where single guys could contact us, but then we got bombarded with one line messages from pictureless profiles- or constantly asked 'can you meet now' clearly showing they hadn't read the profile. But we are still very much up for meeting single guys and we've got one single lad who is a genuine friend now and a great playmate- we just look for them now and reach out if we find one that takes our fancy. $-

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Most couples profiles seem to block single guys, any reason anyone can give why we're excluded? I appreciate there may be a bad apple or two every now and then but there are genuine guys out there *waves hand*"

It's a question of numbers sometimes. We block single guys for a while, then when we're in the mood to meet we unblock for a couple of days then try to deal with all the mails. After just 3 days I've got 65 unread mails in my inbox.

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By *inkywife1981Couple
over a year ago

A town near you

It's numbers game simple

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We used to have it where single guys could contact us, but then we got bombarded with one line messages from pictureless profiles- or constantly asked 'can you meet now' clearly showing they hadn't read the profile. But we are still very much up for meeting single guys and we've got one single lad who is a genuine friend now and a great playmate- we just look for them now and reach out if we find one that takes our fancy. $- "

We do the "put the word from our profile text in the subject heading" thing on our profile, and out of the 65 mails we've had in the past few days NOT ONE of them has the right word.

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By *entaur_UKMan
over a year ago

Cannock


"We used to have it where single guys could contact us, but then we got bombarded with one line messages from pictureless profiles- or constantly asked 'can you meet now' clearly showing they hadn't read the profile. But we are still very much up for meeting single guys and we've got one single lad who is a genuine friend now and a great playmate- we just look for them now and reach out if we find one that takes our fancy. $-

We do the "put the word from our profile text in the subject heading" thing on our profile, and out of the 65 mails we've had in the past few days NOT ONE of them has the right word."

Jupiter!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's not if you are unique and have something interesting to say other than the usual

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By *ollyGWoman
over a year ago

Southampton

Perhaps some couples just don't want to meet you lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There are really two groups saying no messages from single guys, ones who aren't looking for MFM/ MMF in which case why on earth would they give you a chance, and those who are interested in meeting single guys but do the searching themselves rather than getting tons of awful messages to sift through to find the gems. Best thing you can do is make your profile stand out for the right reasons.

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By *aren122Woman
over a year ago

CHORLEY

We like to meet single guys but find it difficult to find ones who are comfortable with both of us.

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By *icplshropsCouple
over a year ago

Rock


"Most couples profiles seem to block single guys, any reason anyone can give why we're excluded? I appreciate there may be a bad apple or two every now and then but there are genuine guys out there *waves hand*"

We meet single guys, but have recently blocked them from messaging us and have decided to have repeat meets with the friends we've made, or to do the search ourselves. The reason being (as you've pointed out), we had quite a few messages from guys who haven't clearly read our profile, are fantasists, send several unsolicited pictures of their cocks or who show no effort in writing a decent message or profile and think they can get away just writing in text speak or a couple of words. No disrespect if that's how they are, but not for us. We realise that there are decent and respectful guys out there, so to save theirs and our time, we do the searching ourselves.

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By *JcouplemidlandsCouple
over a year ago

Peak District

We have nothing against single guys but its not what we are looking for on here. We only meet other couples and only swap ff.

Everyone is here for different reasons, and theres someone for everyone on here.

x

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By *awandOrderCouple
over a year ago

SW London


"Most couples profiles seem to block single guys, any reason anyone can give why we're excluded? I appreciate there may be a bad apple or two every now and then but there are genuine guys out there *waves hand*"

The men in couples feel threatened and worried that their wives will leave them. Or, in our case, we have a different taste in men and I am worried my OH will run off with the single man involved .... if he is bi

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We only meet single guys, but 95% dont read profiles, so hence they get a block.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we are here mainly for the single guys but do get fed up with the lack of wanting to read the profile and the stupid hi hows u or fancy a fuck ..lol can be brain draining sometimes but saying that the good by far out do the bad

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Most couples profiles seem to block single guys, any reason anyone can give why we're excluded? I appreciate there may be a bad apple or two every now and then but there are genuine guys out there *waves hand*"
We definatley welcome single guys, so much so that we don't go to the couples only sessions at our local club.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Most couples profiles seem to block single guys, any reason anyone can give why we're excluded? I appreciate there may be a bad apple or two every now and then but there are genuine guys out there *waves hand*We definatley welcome single guys, so much so that we don't go to the couples only sessions at our local club. "

We're the same. Can't stand couple's night at clubs. And when we have a party we always recruit in 2 or 3 extra guys. We believe a good party has more men than women. Has to be the right kind of men though.

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

cahoots


"This site is not realy up to scracht "

I think the site works fine.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Most couples profiles seem to block single guys, any reason anyone can give why we're excluded? I appreciate there may be a bad apple or two every now and then but there are genuine guys out there *waves hand*"

Because they get inundated with tons of messages from single guys.

So they prefer to use their filters to block them as they prefer to message the single guys that are of interest to them.

I use that option myself for women too . As I prefer to choose who I get mail from

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By *iffraffMan
over a year ago

Gloucester

As someone said earlier, simply a numbers game. Plenty of advice above to follow, and if you follow

It and be patient you may get your chance.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Lots if advice and I get what everyone is saying about the numbers game. Changed my profile slightly and will put up more that just dick pics.

Thanks again all

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By *blasiansCouple
over a year ago

Wakefield


"Most couples profiles seem to block single guys, any reason anyone can give why we're excluded? I appreciate there may be a bad apple or two every now and then but there are genuine guys out there *waves hand*

who says they aren't interested.... just because you can't first contact them, it doesn't mean if they are interested in you and your profile that they can't contact you...

maybe they are doing the searching....."

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By *opping_candyWoman
over a year ago

West Yorkshire

Our profile doesn't stop single guys from messaging, but we're not interested in meeting single guys. Not because there's anything wrong with them, just because that's not the kind of play we're interested in as a couple.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Our profile doesn't stop single guys from messaging, but we're not interested in meeting single guys. Not because there's anything wrong with them, just because that's not the kind of play we're interested in as a couple. "

Whats the point in allowing single males to message you then if you dont meet them ?

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By *itsmcgee4Couple
over a year ago

Central


"Our profile doesn't stop single guys from messaging, but we're not interested in meeting single guys. Not because there's anything wrong with them, just because that's not the kind of play we're interested in as a couple. "

But you have 54 verifications from men

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By *opping_candyWoman
over a year ago

West Yorkshire

Because we are both happy to chat with single men, we both use the chatrooms and make friends, and occasionally we attempt to host social meets where anyone is welcome, including single men?

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By *opping_candyWoman
over a year ago

West Yorkshire


"Our profile doesn't stop single guys from messaging, but we're not interested in meeting single guys. Not because there's anything wrong with them, just because that's not the kind of play we're interested in as a couple.

But you have 54 verifications from men "

The profile was a single fem profile for many years before it got turned into a couple profile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Our profile doesn't stop single guys from messaging, but we're not interested in meeting single guys. Not because there's anything wrong with them, just because that's not the kind of play we're interested in as a couple.

But you have 54 verifications from men

The profile was a single fem profile for many years before it got turned into a couple profile. "

No wonder single guys get confused then

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By *opping_candyWoman
over a year ago

West Yorkshire


"Our profile doesn't stop single guys from messaging, but we're not interested in meeting single guys. Not because there's anything wrong with them, just because that's not the kind of play we're interested in as a couple.

But you have 54 verifications from men

The profile was a single fem profile for many years before it got turned into a couple profile.

No wonder single guys get confused then "

It's not exactly difficult. Our profile says I (Candy) was on here as a single and met men, it says we're not looking for single men, and I believe there is a warning when someone sends a message that says 'stop! This profile isn't looking to meet men, do you still want to message?'. It's not rocket science.

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By *ouplelookingforadultfunCouple
over a year ago

Oxfordshire


"Most couples profiles seem to block single guys, any reason anyone can give why we're excluded? I appreciate there may be a bad apple or two every now and then but there are genuine guys out there *waves hand*"

To be fair you've only been here 9 weeks and your profile doesn't stand out from the many many single guy profiles on here.

And although fair play for putting on your profile that you're bisexual, that will scare a lot of couples off, who simply won't meet a bi guy!

And as others have said, the messages simply don't stop coming with silly one liners.

Nice tits (I know I have nice tits), love to fuck you (I'm sure you would) etc!!!!

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By *aycee70Couple
over a year ago

Eastbourne

Well guess what we seek? However first put off is no profile pic (even a cock pic is better than a silhouette) then profile has no pics, need to show off the goods.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Our profile doesn't stop single guys from messaging, but we're not interested in meeting single guys. Not because there's anything wrong with them, just because that's not the kind of play we're interested in as a couple.

But you have 54 verifications from men

The profile was a single fem profile for many years before it got turned into a couple profile.

No wonder single guys get confused then

It's not exactly difficult. Our profile says I (Candy) was on here as a single and met men, it says we're not looking for single men, and I believe there is a warning when someone sends a message that says 'stop! This profile isn't looking to meet men, do you still want to message?'. It's not rocket science. "

Unfortunately we aren't dealing with rocket scientists but desperate walking hardons looking for sonewhere to dump their muck

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By *isty286Couple
over a year ago

Dorset

Because we put ourselves out there to include some of them in our playtime, and yet again they let us down, full of talk till we arrange a meet, then drop off the radar or just don't turn up, too busy wanking probably.

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By *othcpluk1Couple
over a year ago

Sheffield

Probably because 95% of single guy's Don't read and understand profiles properly, we do meet up with single guy's now and then but the vast majority are not making any effort at all with their opening message

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By *obbytupperMan
over a year ago

Menston near Ilkley

Perhaps take the word 'Wilts'out of your username OP it hardly inspires.

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury

Good looking bisexual black guys who can hold a conversation usually do very well with our couples profile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe because you've got to be liked by 2 people not one ?

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By *sAllowedCouple
over a year ago

Southend Essex

We don't block single guys unless they are rude or pester, however we do ask they read our profile and prefer a wink so mrs can check out whether they are for her. Occasionally we get an original message which again if it makes the mrs laugh we can forgive the fact we have said we will find you. But in general if we are out and mrs see a single guy she likes then she can play and I will often get envloved.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This site is not realy up to scracht "

Not sure I know what that means?

Not up to scratch how? In that you don't get a meet every time you message a woman or a couple? Have you ever tried stopping a woman or couple in the street and asking them to jump into bed with you right there and then?

This site is fucking awesome, dare I even say Fab, you got to make the effort, appreciate that the numbers are stacked against you as a single guy, and don't take it too seriously. Aren't we mainly here for fun, not hassle and stress.

If you're finding you're not getting meets or people chatting to you, look at the reasons why that might be, but don't hold other's accountable for it, it's all down to how you engage with people.

Good luck

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By *mmmMaybeCouple
over a year ago

West Wales


"Most couples profiles seem to block single guys, any reason anyone can give why we're excluded? I appreciate there may be a bad apple or two every now and then but there are genuine guys out there *waves hand*

The men in couples feel threatened and worried that their wives will leave them. Or, in our case, we have a different taste in men and I am worried my OH will run off with the single man involved .... if he is bi "

Got more chance of H running off with another woman! But its a risk I'll just have to take

S

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By *mmmMaybeCouple
over a year ago

West Wales


"Well guess what we seek? However first put off is no profile pic (even a cock pic is better than a silhouette) then profile has no pics, need to show off the goods. "

Nice bike! First year? Red/white scheme, the "wanted" colour, made a few quid on one of those last year & bought two yzf750's

S

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well guess what we seek? However first put off is no profile pic (even a cock pic is better than a silhouette) then profile has no pics, need to show off the goods.

Nice bike! First year? Red/white scheme, the "wanted" colour, made a few quid on one of those last year & bought two yzf750's

S"

Saw a lovely mint LC 350 yesterday in red & white.

Completely original apart from Allspeeds.

Brought back happy memories

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By *rbane PlayerMan
over a year ago

London


"Most couples profiles seem to block single guys, any reason anyone can give why we're excluded? I appreciate there may be a bad apple or two every now and then but there are genuine guys out there *waves hand*"

You may want to try social events near you. At least you become a real person and more than a profile, and who knows what may happen after! Good luck!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Most couples profiles seem to block single guys, any reason anyone can give why we're excluded? I appreciate there may be a bad apple or two every now and then but there are genuine guys out there *waves hand*"

It's simply not what they're looking for, it's often the people who've been swinging for years. Newer couples are more likely to be open to the idea; I just happen yo usually meet them and have a good time with them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Also my bog standard answer to anything: clubs

But look out for posts in club discussion and social events too.

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By *ishopstippleMan
over a year ago

Purley


"Reasons we've blocked single guys:

1) ##########################

2) Most don't care about anything except their own needs/desires"

So are you say your not here to satisfy your own needs/desires? Are you one of the golden couples that are here only to fulfil the needs of their chosen playmates?

Two many couples are here for 2) as well.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So are you say your not here to satisfy your own needs/desires? Are you one of the golden couples that are here only to fulfil the needs of their chosen playmates?"

We're here for meets where everybody is satisfied.

It's a huge turn-off (and quite rude) when somebody says "I want", "I need" etc

Look at the pegging topic for example, a couple of dozen guys who'd no doubt be happy to be pegged by Mrs SKC but bring absolutely nothing to the party.

We wouldn't dream of trying to meet someone without making sure their needs are fulfilled as well as ours. Surely that's basic social skills? Which sadly seem missing from a fair few people on this site.

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By *ugga81Man
over a year ago

West Malling

Op I really don't understand why you care?

Those couples for various reasons are not interested in single guys. Nobody is entitled to anything on this site or in this lifestyle.......

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By *ishopstippleMan
over a year ago

Purley

Seriously OP How would anyone know your genuine. Shadowman, no pics of what you look like or have to offer, no info in your profile.

But at least M will be happy you've not revelled your real identity 007.

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By *loswingersCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester

We meet single guys .

Meeting them is always a three way equal fun time for everyone .

But we agree there are some couples who see single guys as a plaything for them . Some guys don't mind that , but we always hope he guys we meet go away afterwards feeeling they've had an equally as memorable meet as us .

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By *elrose57Couple
over a year ago

reading

lot to do with single guys profile, very little said about themselves, no pic and no veris and then they wonder why, and then the one word messages,

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By *he Queen of TartsWoman
Forum Mod

over a year ago

My Own Little World

Possibly because you don't have a vagina.

What is there for a straight guy in the couple, who isn't a cuck, who doesn't get off in watching his Mrs have fun with another guy, where there isn't another woman for him to have sex with.

For this guy, you bring nothing for him so why should they meet a single guy if they are interested in a straight swap with a couple.

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