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You want meets? dont site support

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By *oneymitch OP   Man
over a year ago

Huddersfield

Might be playing devils advocate here but the key to getting meets i find is by not site supporting

This means you always have an open mind and dont overthink as you cant see who views your profile, cant see nearby users and generally makes you use the tools much better.

You dont get caught up uploading frequent photos for likes which can take you off the actual task at hand

Does anyone agree with this or am I just way off the mark here

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

I think the people who assume that supporting the site will increase their meets are missing the point. The supporter fee is to support the site. that's all. The additional features can be useful but don't actually increase the frequency of meets.

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By *imiUKMan
over a year ago

Hereford


"I think the people who assume that supporting the site will increase their meets are missing the point. The supporter fee is to support the site. that's all. The additional features can be useful but don't actually increase the frequency of meets."

This.

I've let mine lapse, but when I do have it, its mostly for the fact that my inbox is "threaded" so I can remember what conversations I have been having....

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

It doesn't have any relevance, if the way you meet suits you then crack on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd have thought paying the extra fiver was more of a help than a hindrance as people think that timewasters won't shell out the money

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By *oneymitch OP   Man
over a year ago

Huddersfield


"I think the people who assume that supporting the site will increase their meets are missing the point. The supporter fee is to support the site. that's all. The additional features can be useful but don't actually increase the frequency of meets."

My thoughts exactly, the additional tools can be a burden in my opinion

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm a site supporter. I don't have a problem meeting people

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think the people who assume that supporting the site will increase their meets are missing the point. The supporter fee is to support the site. that's all. The additional features can be useful but don't actually increase the frequency of meets.

This.

I've let mine lapse, but when I do have it, its mostly for the fact that my inbox is "threaded" so I can remember what conversations I have been having...."

That, and being able to enlarge photos, is why I support the site.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Quite a few people won't accept messages from non site members so probably not increasing your chances but i do get what you mean OP.

Eye on the prize and all that.

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By *unandbuckCouple
over a year ago

Sheffield

I'd disagree.

As above, site supporter is just handy, you keep a message thread visible and a few other handy things. Few quid a month to make a site we use a lot easier.

That's it. On balance, I would say it increases chances of meeting because of the message thread thing, so you can keep track of arrangements and what people have already told you.

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By *oneymitch OP   Man
over a year ago

Huddersfield


"I'm a site supporter. I don't have a problem meeting people "

Lool your female that doesnt count haha

I should have put single male tbh as thats the percentage im talking for

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By *oneymitch OP   Man
over a year ago

Huddersfield


"Quite a few people won't accept messages from non site members so probably not increasing your chances but i do get what you mean OP.

Eye on the prize and all that."

I honestly think if a lady likes the look of you whether or not you are a site supporter is irrelevant she will reply

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The only feature I use is the message threads. I dontbeven notice the rest, nor do I pay attention to whether someone else is a supporter or not.

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By *oneymitch OP   Man
over a year ago

Huddersfield


"The only feature I use is the message threads. I dontbeven notice the rest, nor do I pay attention to whether someone else is a supporter or not. "

My point exactly

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By *yldstyleWoman
over a year ago

A world of my own

I haven't renewed mine for a while. I will at some point soon just to use the notes feature. Its handy when organising an event. Other times though I don't think it makes much difference to me

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

We only use it as its easier to keep track of messages,makes no differences to meets.

Miss

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By *oneymitch OP   Man
over a year ago

Huddersfield


"I haven't renewed mine for a while. I will at some point soon just to use the notes feature. Its handy when organising an event. Other times though I don't think it makes much difference to me"

I can imagine for the msg threads must be required as you get bombarded

For me though dont know about other guys but am rarely speaking to more than 3 or 4 women at a time so i can remember past msgs

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By *h1tewolfMan
over a year ago

Rubery

Mitch, you're in the UK and you're black. You already have a 10x advantage over white guys just because that's the trend now. Your experience doesn't count as proof of anything either

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By *oneymitch OP   Man
over a year ago

Huddersfield


"We only use it as its easier to keep track of messages,makes no differences to meets.

Miss"

As a couple i imagine it would not make a huge difference am thinking as a single male

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By *oneymitch OP   Man
over a year ago

Huddersfield


"Mitch, you're in the UK and you're black. You already have a 10x advantage over white guys just because that's the trend now. Your experience doesn't count as proof of anything either "

Lol dont no if thats just tongue n cheek but if you really believe that your way off the mark

There are alot of women who only go with white men the same as there are alot of women that like black guys

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We don't generally notice if someone is a site supporter or not, we do notice if people have a interesting profile been at least photo verified as well

getting a message off someone who can have a conversation and doesn't pay to use the site is better than a "hi how are you can we fuck?" Message from someone who has a gold membership -b

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By *oneymitch OP   Man
over a year ago

Huddersfield


"We don't generally notice if someone is a site supporter or not, we do notice if people have a interesting profile been at least photo verified as well

getting a message off someone who can have a conversation and doesn't pay to use the site is better than a "hi how are you can we fuck?" Message from someone who has a gold membership -b "

My point is exactly and i find it stops me from overthinking things i.e if a lady looks at my profile but doesnt msg or wink

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By *oneymitch OP   Man
over a year ago

Huddersfield

Men who feel they are struggling to get meets my best advise would be to not site support

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Mitch, you're in the UK and you're black. You already have a 10x advantage over white guys just because that's the trend now. Your experience doesn't count as proof of anything either "

Lol you can't be serious....this is fab! In the real world you have a point but on here....noooo way! I can't even get a reply

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Men who feel they are struggling to get meets my best advise would be to not site support

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I really think ill try it like this, watching views messes with your head and especially silly seeing as everyone has the option of turning that off

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By *oneymitch OP   Man
over a year ago

Huddersfield


"Men who feel they are struggling to get meets my best advise would be to not site support

I really think ill try it like this, watching views messes with your head and especially silly seeing as everyone has the option of turning that off"

Try it, it changes your whole mindset and approach i reckon

I really want to know if there is anyone who has tried this already and found it worked for them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Shave your legs and body.

Pop on heels and a frock.

This is how you get meets.

You're very welcome people

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury


"I think the people who assume that supporting the site will increase their meets are missing the point. The supporter fee is to support the site. that's all. The additional features can be useful but don't actually increase the frequency of meets.

This.

I've let mine lapse, but when I do have it, its mostly for the fact that my inbox is "threaded" so I can remember what conversations I have been having...."

agreed.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross


"I'm a site supporter. I don't have a problem meeting people "

Yes but you are a woman TitFanny

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By *londieddWoman
over a year ago

fife

I'm not interested in how many people look at me I like the message thread as I chat to lots of people

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By *VBethTV/TS
over a year ago

Chester

I love the message history but I also believe in supporting sites that I use. Providing any website is not free and as I don't want flashing ads and popups everywhere, I'm more than happy to pay.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bollocks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

or just dont look at whose looked at you and whose fabbed you - its worth the fiver for the notes doodar and to sort out messages without keeping the whole damn lot - keep just the last read in the thread

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By *eedsmale36Man
over a year ago

Leeds

I site support, and everybody knows us Yorkshire folk are tight.

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