FabSwingers.com forum: Younger guys

By *oth_cook69 OP Couple
over a year ago

WOKING

Wondering what people think here.

My wife thought she'd quite like to play the milf thing with a 21 year old guy that she had worked with. With my support she had encouraged the situation and was quite excited.

However when she invited him to join us he became evasive. It turns out that he was only really interested in her on her own as he wasn't sure about another guy, her husband, being present.

This leads me to ask, were we wrong to approach him? Was he too immature to be in that situation?

Or is the fantasy of an older woman too much for younger guys?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Doesn't sound like you went about it wrong at all. Unfortunately, the guy just wasn't in to it. Some people won't be.

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By *op gooserMan
over a year ago

chester

"Wondering what people think here.

My wife thought she'd quite like to play the milf thing with a 21 year old guy that she had worked with. With my support she had encouraged the situation and was quite excited.

However when she invited him to join us he became evasive. It turns out that he was only really interested in her on her own as he wasn't sure about another guy, her husband, being present.

This leads me to ask, were we wrong to approach him? Was he too immature to be in that situation?

Or is the fantasy of an older woman too much for younger guys?"
Approaching a non swinger is where you went wrong and a colleague. Sure plenty on this site would oblige.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Wondering what people think here.

My wife thought she'd quite like to play the milf thing with a 21 year old guy that she had worked with. With my support she had encouraged the situation and was quite excited.

However when she invited him to join us he became evasive. It turns out that he was only really interested in her on her own as he wasn't sure about another guy, her husband, being present.

This leads me to ask, were we wrong to approach him? Was he too immature to be in that situation?

Or is the fantasy of an older woman too much for younger guys? Approaching a non swinger is where you went wrong and a colleague. Sure plenty on this site would oblige."

Bingo!

I'd expect this is the answer most people will give

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Approaching a non swinger is where you went wrong and a colleague. Sure plenty on this site would oblige."

Id definitely oblige! Lol

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By *oth_cook69 OP Couple
over a year ago

WOKING

That's what we think, it was quite brave of her to try and it wasn't as cold as it sounds.

It could have gone the other way!!

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By *op gooserMan
over a year ago

chester

"That's what we think, it was quite brave of her to try and it wasn't as cold as it sounds.

It could have gone the other way!!

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Very brave, is he a discreet guy, do you mind people knowing you are swingers? because he might have told people.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP It can be quite intense to have to perform with mature lady at his age, let alone with hubby watching and 'judging'. Maybe you could have given them some time alone for first meet? After all, he was not a 'swinger'.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"OP It can be quite intense to have to perform with mature lady at his age, let alone with hubby watching and 'judging'. Maybe you could have given them some time alone for first meet? After all, he was not a 'swinger'. "

Yes I have to agree. I think he'd have jumped at the chance if you hadn't been in the picture.

Many non-swingers don't want to have to share their lover - especially on the first meet. Add the pressure of the husband watching...poor kid.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't think it's an age thing, I'm 34 and not really interested in meeting couples. It's just a preference age is irrelevant.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Wondering what people think here.

My wife thought she'd quite like to play the milf thing with a 21 year old guy that she had worked with. With my support she had encouraged the situation and was quite excited.

However when she invited him to join us he became evasive. It turns out that he was only really interested in her on her own as he wasn't sure about another guy, her husband, being present.

This leads me to ask, were we wrong to approach him? Was he too immature to be in that situation?

Or is the fantasy of an older woman too much for younger guys? Approaching a non swinger is where you went wrong and a colleague. Sure plenty on this site would oblige.

Bingo!

I'd expect this is the answer most people will give

Definitely. I think you've jumped the gun a bit for what would have been the first meet

The poor lad was probably building himself up for the chance of fucking a sexy older woman, then suddenly having the husband thrown in to the equation is a totally different level

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By *ilk_TreMan
over a year ago

Wherever the party is!

"Wondering what people think here.

My wife thought she'd quite like to play the milf thing with a 21 year old guy that she had worked with. With my support she had encouraged the situation and was quite excited.

However when she invited him to join us he became evasive. It turns out that he was only really interested in her on her own as he wasn't sure about another guy, her husband, being present.

This leads me to ask, were we wrong to approach him? Was he too immature to be in that situation?

Or is the fantasy of an older woman too much for younger guys?"

Couldn't you have just been in another room listening? Not a lot of vanilla straight guys appreciate having another male presence during their sexytime.

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By *londieddWoman
over a year ago

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"Wondering what people think here.

My wife thought she'd quite like to play the milf thing with a 21 year old guy that she had worked with. With my support she had encouraged the situation and was quite excited.

However when she invited him to join us he became evasive. It turns out that he was only really interested in her on her own as he wasn't sure about another guy, her husband, being present.

This leads me to ask, were we wrong to approach him? Was he too immature to be in that situation?

Or is the fantasy of an older woman too much for younger guys?"
ffs he is 21

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