FabSwingers.com forum: Did not need to hear that...

By *-aint-a-crowd OP Couple
over a year ago

lingerie n heels

So I was in work today, and whilst stood at the printer one of my senior colleagues (my bosses boss) came over and started making small talk. He's a nice guy, a little older than me, probably early 40's and quite handsome,but can be a little overly flirty, to the point of it being uncomfortable at times.

He started asking how my weekend was and did I get up to much, to which I gave a fairly generic answer of not too much, just went out on Saturday for a few drinks. What he said next I did not need to hear whilst stood waiting for the printer to kick in to life!! "Did you enjoy your lapdance, you chose a stunner, mind you, in those thigh high boots you looked hotter than any of the dancers in that club".

Mortified!!! Me and Steve had been out on Saturday, and we went for a lapdance, as we often do, but I hadn't seen my colleague in there, otherwise I would of just left. Plus with it being a date night I'd made an extra effort and was a dressed a little slutty for steve. Black mini dress, quite a bit of cleavage and my thigh high boots. So not only had he seen one of his staff dressed in a way that I wouldn't dress in front of him, but he'd seen me go for a lapdance, if not a few.

I felt myself blush and had to laugh it off and leave, but seriously, could of done with him keeping that to himself!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe take him aside and explain how it's made you feel uncomfortable and you'd appreciate that he said no more about it.

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By *-aint-a-crowd OP Couple
over a year ago

lingerie n heels

I'm hoping he'll just leave it at that, otherwise I might have to.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Inapropriate of him op

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Re. your status update... Imagine he may even be watching you stroke yourself on CCTV!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Take it as a compliment and leave it at that. No harm done. If you go out dressed to thrill in public in your local area somebody you know is bound to see you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Take it as a compliment and leave it at that. No harm done. If you go out dressed to thrill in public in your local area somebody you know is bound to see you. "

That's true but there's no need to be accosted when you're at work to have it pointed out to you.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

Inappropriate from him but if he's on here and sees your status...

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By *-aint-a-crowd OP Couple
over a year ago

lingerie n heels

"Inappropriate from him but if he's on here and sees your status..."

Good point, that would give it away, and deleted xx

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By *-aint-a-crowd OP Couple
over a year ago

lingerie n heels

"Take it as a compliment and leave it at that. No harm done. If you go out dressed to thrill in public in your local area somebody you know is bound to see you. "

I don't mind people seeing me like that, or even know I enjoy lapdances, it's who I am, I just would of left if I'd of known someone from work was in there and i wouldn't of expected the chat at a printer in an open part of the office

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"Inappropriate from him but if he's on here and sees your status...

Good point, that would give it away, and deleted xx"

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By *ay19720Man
over a year ago

Ashford kent

"I'm hoping he'll just leave it at that, otherwise I might have to."

Lets face it ..he wants ya...u should of joked ..oh if id have know u there ..u could of bought my hubby and I a drink..

Oh and u should of seen what I did to that dancer..woo...well see u later...lol

He would be left mouth open..lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Take it as a compliment and leave it at that. No harm done. If you go out dressed to thrill in public in your local area somebody you know is bound to see you.

Well if he saw you in the bingo in your best cagool and he said "hey I saw you at the bingo the other night, you looked much nicer in your cagool than the other ladies in there" would that be inappropriate too? Don't get me wrong, if he was being a letch and thinking he was in with a chance just because of where you were and how you were dressed then that's a different story but from what you've said I think he's just paid you a compliment, that's all x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm hoping he'll just leave it at that, otherwise I might have to."

I'd nip it in the bud and proactively tell him in a friendly manner that you'd rather he didn't mention it and it was just a treat for your husband. Once you find yourself having to complain about him the waters have already been muddied. Just keep it light and professional. Good luck

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By *ust RachelTV/TS
over a year ago

Horsham

Take it as a compliment, but should he press further on the matter be prepared to have a word with his or your boss. As you shouldn't feel uncomfortable due to a colleague going on about what you wore on a date night with your fella, regardless of wear he saw you.

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