FabSwingers.com forum: Chubby guys

By *ystery man 67 OP Man
over a year ago

Rotherham

Is it just my thinking or am I right in saying women have gone off the idea of chubby guys?

I'm 18 stone & 36" waist, & consider myself chubby, but don't seem to get any offers or invites these days, I do understand people go for verifications, but on my old account, which I had to delete, was well verified, but feel I'm stuck in a catch 22 situation because you have to meet to get verified & nobody wants to meet a chubby guy.

Am I right?

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By *ilk_TreMan
over a year ago

Wherever the party is!

"Is it just my thinking or am I right in saying women have gone off the idea of chubby guys?

Am I right?"

Just meet the people you met from your previous account. Or am I missing something?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe it's more down to your profile and pics?

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By *iggles and BeardyCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

Dude how would they even know that your chubby, when every pic is your little chubby friend. Get a pic of your body.

But it's fab, it's OK to be big if female, but blokes going by threads requires buff, tatts or beards.

Or really it's just simple maths + profile and effort put it.

Chubby doesn't bother wiggles, thanks fuck or I would be single lol

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By *rince Charming 69Man
over a year ago

Loughborough

Nothing to do with being chubby!

Your profile is sadly awful.

Read the many threads on here re profile advice.

Put some ruddy effort in!

Effort in = rewards out!

Simple, really!

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

I personally prefer a bit more in shape and I don't really like close up pics of someone's cock.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I prefer chubby guys

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would say your pics put off potential meets rather than your waist size

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

"Is it just my thinking or am I right in saying women have gone off the idea of chubby guys?

Am I right?

Just meet the people you met from your previous account. Or am I missing something?"

Or ask them if they can re-verify?

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By *orum TrollWoman
over a year ago

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depends how chubby you mean? like the above says get a body pic up then we can tell.

i'm not giving profile advice coz i don't do that (and you haven't asked), but your profile is unappealing to me also.

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

"Is it just my thinking or am I right in saying women have gone off the idea of chubby guys?

Am I right?

Just meet the people you met from your previous account. Or am I missing something?

Or ask them if they can re-verify?"

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By *ystery man 67 OP Man
over a year ago

Rotherham

I moved areas mate

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By *ystery man 67 OP Man
over a year ago

Rotherham

I suppose sort pics & edit profile then!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pics are terrible and text is crap. It's not being chubby that's holding you back at the moment.

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By *inkySlinkyCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

Why did you have to delete your old profile?

Sally

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By *he girl with dreadlocksWoman
over a year ago

need to know basis in Wolverhampton

I've had all shapes and sizes, it was about the guy not his body.

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By *ystery man 67 OP Man
over a year ago

Rotherham

Thank you x

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By *ystery man 67 OP Man
over a year ago

Rotherham

Sally a family member joined lol

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

Message those you met before on your old profile. Tell them who you are. Ask if they can verify you again. Simple.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Sally a family member joined lol"

Your mum?

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By *ystery man 67 OP Man
over a year ago

Rotherham

I can't for reasons I can't say on here

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By *ystery man 67 OP Man
over a year ago

Rotherham

Always one!

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By *exy penWoman
over a year ago

liverpool

I like men with a bit of meat on them but your profile sounds like your wining so would put me off, you need to sell yourself more tell us how great you are an I don't mean in the sack

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Maybe it's more down to your profile and pics? "

Or lack of pics. I was thinking just the same.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Good to see that some

Ladies like a bigger man

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How on earth did that profile pic get approved

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What's wrong with big men even meet them. Marie.

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By *ystery man 67 OP Man
over a year ago

Rotherham

Thanks Marie, wish you were nearer, seems that people around Blackpool area prefer the slimmer type of man, in my opinion

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By *ohohoWoman
over a year ago

Up North

I prefer men with a bit of meat on them. Not everyone fancies men with a six pack.

Don't get caught up with other people's profiles and assume it's your weight that is holding you back. As others have said, your profile is what may be at fault.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I prefer men with a bit of meat on them. Not everyone fancies men with a six pack.

Don't get caught up with other people's profiles and assume it's your weight that is holding you back. As others have said, your profile is what may be at fault. "

Well hello xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Probably because your profile and pics are poor, also you're straight looking for females yet your only veri is from a guy. 18stone isnt chubby more obese! Honesty is key!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We always get abuse or nasty things said because my husband is big really people should keep there thoughts to them selves its got so bad for us my husband is on suicide watch

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We always get abuse or nasty things said because my husband is big really people should keep there thoughts to them selves its got so bad for us my husband is on suicide watch"

Im assuming that statement is a joke as as somone whos been through depression/selfharm/suicide i cant belive youd continue to expose your partner to that environment.

But do you think its because the headline picture you have of your partner is as very slim young man in a military uniform?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Chubby guy here 17 stone at 6ft 2 helps me carry it off

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By *ystery man 67 OP Man
over a year ago

Rotherham

Reason for the veri from a guy is because he verified me after I had a meet with him & his lady friend as they had separate accounts, he has also left the site, so can't show the verification

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By *ystery man 67 OP Man
over a year ago

Rotherham

Thanks x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Chubby guy here 17 stone at 6ft 2 helps me carry it off"

Where were you when I lived in Southampton!

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By *acavityMan
over a year ago

Redditch

I'm nowhere near buff, ripped, toned.

I get meets, but I'm not limiting the people I meet, as I'm a hedonist who is open to all sorts.

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