FabSwingers.com forum: Why do they do this ????

By *rgasmdonor OP Man
over a year ago

millstreet

You get chatting to a lady all seems well you seem to get on ok plenty in common ,,,, so you arrange to meet ,, as a male I don't message much once we have set a date and venue as I don't like to appear clingy or desperate ,, the day before the meet you drop as message to express your excitement!!! No reply ,,, you wait then go back to find you are blocked ???? What is in some people's heads surely a sorry but I have changed my mind would do any similar experiences or maybe a woman's outlook would help me understand ,,, thanks rant over

By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

Some people would rather block than admit they changed their minds op,it does happen unfortunately.

Miss

By *mmmMaybeCouple
over a year ago

West Wales

Various reasons,

It was a bloke

They were a little in need of more chat/attention

During the hiatus they chatted to a better offer.

They weren't that into you once you chatted.

We ourselves have had experience of having a chat, arranging a date & not pestering them all the time only for them to pipe up "Oh I thought you were no longer interested cos you've not chatted much".

Pretty sure we've also put people off by conversely chatting too much.

Problem is a lot of the time you probably won't know which they are till they're gone.

Just keep going till you find the right people for you.