FabSwingers.com forum: womens setting standard.

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

i dont mean to sound rude, but all the woman dropping it like they are sweet innocent and are picky as hell.

come on we have all done our rounds and been passed about. do you not think its because you all are picking the wrong qualities in people you want to meet?

me myself thinks,

the biggest most unattractive, annoying person you wouldnt usually go for, could be the best experience you may ever have....

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

We all have our preferences op,just because we are swingers doesnt mean we cant be picky too.

Miss

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By *tarbeckCouple
over a year ago

york

"i dont mean to sound rude, but all the woman dropping it like they are sweet innocent and are picky as hell.

come on we have all done our rounds and been passed about. do you not think its because you all are picking the wrong qualities in people you want to meet?

me myself thinks,

the biggest most unattractive, annoying person you wouldnt usually go for, could be the best experience you may ever have.... "
oh my lord

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

I don't need to be told who I should meet. I'm experienced enough in the swinging scene to be able to pick for myself. But thanks for your concern.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

as i said, i wasnt being rude but just wanted to know.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster

They could also be the shitest shag alive

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

me myself thinks,

the biggest most unattractive, annoying person you wouldnt usually go for, could be the best experience you may ever have.... "

Unlikely because I'd find them unattractive and annoying! I'm totally happy risking missing out though.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

hahahaha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Women can be as picky as they like. Why should it be any other way.

Are you picky OP or do you fuck anything with a pulse?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

true

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

lol. yes slightly picky tbh but i just wanted to hear everyone elses views. but thas wha socials are for

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

"me myself thinks,

the biggest most unattractive, annoying person you wouldnt usually go for, could be the best experience you may ever have.... "

No, if I find them unattractive and annoying the sex would be crap for us both; I wouldn't be getting wet in the slightest and no one wants a dry fanny.

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By *icplshropsCouple
over a year ago

Rock

"i dont mean to sound rude, but all the woman dropping it like they are sweet innocent and are picky as hell.

come on we have all done our rounds and been passed about. do you not think its because you all are picking the wrong qualities in people you want to meet?

me myself thinks,

the biggest most unattractive, annoying person you wouldnt usually go for, could be the best experience you may ever have.... "

Yes, you are rude. We all have our standards and preferences, and being able to choose is not a crime. I wouldn't have sex with someone who was high on drugs, for example.

My the rant? You've done much better in a week, than some who has been here for months.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There has to be an attraction there. And that goes much further than looks. I need good conversation to be interested in anyone. (plus being alternative is definetly a big plus for me)

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

me myself thinks,

the biggest most unattractive, annoying person you wouldnt usually go for, could be the best experience you may ever have.... "

If they were unattractive and annoying I'm not going to kiss them and that's where it all starts for me OP.

Picky and proud here

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

oops upset a few people for asking a question lol. my point is that, you dont really know someone until you meet them. hence the reason socials are in place. and i actually thought fabby was a place for everybody to not just meet and fuck but to share stories, recommend new places and chat...

wrong site hey

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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago

Bristol

"i dont mean to sound rude, but all the woman dropping it like they are sweet innocent and are picky as hell.

come on we have all done our rounds and been passed about. do you not think its because you all are picking the wrong qualities in people you want to meet?

me myself thinks,

the biggest most unattractive, annoying person you wouldnt usually go for, could be the best experience you may ever have.... "

If I find them annoying then I find them unattractive. Which means I won't be turned on. I've never got off on hatefucks so if we're incompatible personality wise then it's just not going to happen. It has fuck all to do with visuals and everything to do with who they are. So no, I'm not picking the wrong qualities, I'm picking someone like minded so we can both have a good time. That's not picky, it's common sense. As to not being sweet and innocent because I've been 'passed around'? Well, some people like that dichotomy.

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

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"oops upset a few people for asking a question lol. my point is that, you dont really know someone until you meet them. hence the reason socials are in place. and i actually thought fabby was a place for everybody to not just meet and fuck but to share stories, recommend new places and chat...

wrong site hey "

You meet how you want to, and let the rest of the site meet how they want to. Deal?

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

You haven't upset me OP

(see)

I always have a social but even if I think they are a nice guy if I find then unattractive I sure is hell won't take it any further

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

wrong site hey "

So exactly how many hours of my week should I set aside to meet people that I find irritating and unattractive?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

who says we have all done the rounds and been passed about

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"They could also be the shitest shag alive

So coukd anyone you meet on here even if they are everything you look for in a partner...i know ive had that before

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster

wrong site hey "

Not everyone wants to meet for socials some want to just meet and fuck. From the get go

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

"who says we have all done the rounds and been passed about

You haven't yet? But it's a sex site.

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster

"They could also be the shitest shag alive

So coukd anyone you meet on here even if they are everything you look for in a partner...i know ive had that before"

Well it's a 50/50

But by meeting people I find attractive and that I get along with is a proven method in my case of getting a good shag

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"who says we have all done the rounds and been passed about

You haven't yet? But it's a sex site.

but im a picky cow

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By *icplshropsCouple
over a year ago

Rock

wrong site hey "

True. We always have socials before any play meet is arranged. But if we saw something on someone's profile or something comes up during a conversation that doesn't appeal to us, then we wouldn't waste yours or our time with a social. It's not all about looks, but what a person themself.

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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside

"who says we have all done the rounds and been passed about

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'handled with care' id put it..

ill do what i like with those i like..noone else..simple, what others think of that, is not my business

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By *dores blackmenWoman
over a year ago

incognito mode ;-)

I have been messaged by 12 guys today so far wanting to meet,am I supposed to say yes to all of them

Count an average of 100 guys a week wanting to meet,I would be worn out and be meeting 15 ish guys a day,excuse me for being picky I wouldn't have the time or energy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

me myself thinks,

the biggest most unattractive, annoying person you wouldnt usually go for, could be the best experience you may ever have.... "

Why would this sound a good alternative. - "the biggest most unattractive, annoying person".

Don't go into advertising Op

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

wrong site hey "

I always do a social meet first, but that is only if I am attracted to them in the first place, I certainly would not bother wasting any of my time getting off my arse to meet someone I have no initial attraction to

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

wrong site hey "

Not upset anybody. But it doesn't pay to try and change the way others meet or how they choose who they meet. I don't socialise on here yet I've never been disappointed so I've found a way that works for me. Why would I change what I do?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't meet smokers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm attracted to what I'm attracted to, it's as simple as that..

It doesn't mean I'm being picky !!

Would you have sex with someone your not attracted to OP ?

Why would I have sex with someone I'm not attracted to, were would the enjoyment be from that ....

Attractions aren't just about someone's physicality its about personality also

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

wrong site hey

Totally agree. Jack.

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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago

hiding from cock pics.

The smelliest unbathed person with no teeth, and an unkept intimate bush, might have my perfect cock girth, breathe through his ears, and be able to go all night. I would still get sick in my mouth if he was physically touching me, so I'm fine with my selection process thank you.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

well i didnt mean to sound rude, but just wanted to say it how it was. and maybe i am doing ok on here but thats because i like to chat and talk experiences rather than sending out cock pics and asking for a fuck.

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

"i dont mean to sound rude, but all the woman dropping it like they are sweet innocent and are picky as hell.

come on we have all done our rounds and been passed about. do you not think its because you all are picking the wrong qualities in people you want to meet?

me myself thinks,

the biggest most unattractive, annoying person you wouldnt usually go for, could be the best experience you may ever have.... "

Why in earth would I go for who I feel is the most unattractive annoying person on here. I'm just going to bang my head against the wall...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ive seen alot of really unattractive woman and like to read the veris just to see the men who shagged her.

It boggles the mind people have different tastes i suppose.

I block unnatractive woman now just so if im off my head i dont message them prob wouldnt get a reply but more for my own peace of mind

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

Oh Lord!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Ive seen alot of really unattractive woman and like to read the veris just to see the men who shagged her.

It boggles the mind people have different tastes i suppose.

I block unnatractive woman now just so if im off my head i dont message them prob wouldnt get a reply but more for my own peace of mind "

hahahaha

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

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By *osieWoman
over a year ago

Wembley

"i dont mean to sound rude, but all the woman dropping it like they are sweet innocent and are picky as hell.

come on we have all done our rounds and been passed about. do you not think its because you all are picking the wrong qualities in people you want to meet?

me myself thinks,

the biggest most unattractive, annoying person you wouldnt usually go for, could be the best experience you may ever have.... "

You go gay; then tell us about that "best experience you may ever have" had otherwise

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By *irginieWoman
over a year ago

Near Marlborough

"as i said, i wasnt being rude but just wanted to know. "

Sorry I am confused. What is it you wanted to know?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"They could also be the shitest shag alive

Yeah ummmmm sorry about that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"well i didnt mean to sound rude, but just wanted to say it how it was. and maybe i am doing ok on here but thats because i like to chat and talk experiences rather than sending out cock pics and asking for a fuck. "

Yes. That's the way you do things. Others go about things differently. Where's the issue?

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By *awandOrderCouple
over a year ago

SW London

"i dont mean to sound rude, but all the woman dropping it like they are sweet innocent and are picky as hell.

come on we have all done our rounds and been passed about. do you not think its because you all are picking the wrong qualities in people you want to meet?

me myself thinks,

the biggest most unattractive, annoying person you wouldnt usually go for, could be the best experience you may ever have.... "

Have we all done the rounds and been passed about? I must have missed that bit .....

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

I'm going to assume that the unattractive annoying bloke us women who have been around should be shagging is the OP.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

your post is not just rude but incredibly ignorant..and what do you assume is not deliberately rude describing people as being 'passed around'!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm going to assume that the unattractive annoying bloke us women who have been around should be shagging is the OP."

indeed!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"your post is not just rude but incredibly ignorant..and what do you assume is not deliberately rude describing people as being 'passed around'!"

obv nobody in here is up for discussing anything.

sorry if you took it the wrong way, iv said i was blunt about it rather than beating about the bush. if you took it hard then thats not my problem. im here for your opinions. not idiots jumping the gun and going on the defensive, about how it sounded to you. but thanks for stopping by and commenting

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I'm going to assume that the unattractive annoying bloke us women who have been around should be shagging is the OP.

indeed!"

not atall. tbh i message very few. and i only message 2 people at 1 time. im as nice as it comes. never offended anybody (until now)

i dont repeat message people.

so no its not me, i was just asking a question and obv put it the wrong way. end of

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over a year ago

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By *orum TrollWoman
over a year ago

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people have better sex with people they find attractive, looks wise and personality. science says so.

it's why i've stopped meeting from here.

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By *awandOrderCouple
over a year ago

SW London

I am up for discussion, OP, but I don't think you like it that people question what you post. So, you are allowed to say everyone here is 'passed around' ... where do you get that from, because I must be missing something ....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't need to be told who I should meet. I'm experienced enough in the swinging scene to be able to pick for myself. But thanks for your concern."

Go girl

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

'I don't mean to sound rude'

I'm guessing you've been turned down recently, we all have our own preferences. If that's not you don't take it so personally and just move on!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because its called 'swinging' does that mean its a different selection process to 'normal' people? Attraction has to be there somewhere whether it be physical looks or personality. I cant imagine quite how horrible a 'swing' would be if I didn't find the other person or persons attractive in some way. I mean, if I found myself in a situation of 'swinging' with someone I didn't find attractive.. then i'd assume I was in a coma.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"as i said, i wasnt being rude but just wanted to know.

Sorry I am confused. What is it you wanted to know?

Vx "

i was wondering how women think by taking a guy by their looks is what they really wanted.

not that it was actually matters.

i was just curious that wall all.

in my mind the prettier girls are more confident and dont really admire the guy as much, as they tend to think they can get a guy whenever.

NO NOT ALL THE PRETTY GIRLS. i know many of them myself which really do.

so it would be less of a lose to a less so pretty girl, a less prettier girl would want to keep the guy happy and coming back for more.

if that sound wrong then i just give up

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

"i dont mean to sound rude, but all the woman dropping it like they are sweet innocent and are picky as hell.

come on we have all done our rounds and been passed about. do you not think its because you all are picking the wrong qualities in people you want to meet?

me myself thinks,

the biggest most unattractive, annoying person you wouldnt usually go for, could be the best experience you may ever have.... "

Me thinks you have been turned down a lot by women possibly due to rudeness. Maybe if you re-visit your approach you will get better results. It's not for you to say we should not be picky, it's a woman's prerogative to be picky. Why shouldn't we be picky?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I don't need to be told who I should meet. I'm experienced enough in the swinging scene to be able to pick for myself. But thanks for your concern.

Go girl

good job nobody told you too then hey

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By *uchess39Woman
over a year ago

london

"i dont mean to sound rude, but all the woman dropping it like they are sweet innocent and are picky as hell.

come on we have all done our rounds and been passed about. do you not think its because you all are picking the wrong qualities in people you want to meet?

me myself thinks,

the biggest most unattractive, annoying person you wouldnt usually go for, could be the best experience you may ever have.... "

Done our rounds and been passed about?

Speak for yourself but don't tar everyone with the same brush.

I make no claims to be innocent but I am very picky and that's my perogative.

Also why on earth would you go with someone you find 'unattractive'?

I have no idea what your point is?

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By *uchess39Woman
over a year ago

london

"I'm going to assume that the unattractive annoying bloke us women who have been around should be shagging is the OP."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There's seems to be a small percentage of men on here who have a problem with women doing things sexually for her own pleasure.

Would you tell a man to entertain and indulge an woman who he found unattractive and annoying? Or is this kind of lecturing only reserved for us women?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"i dont mean to sound rude, but all the woman dropping it like they are sweet innocent and are picky as hell.

come on we have all done our rounds and been passed about. do you not think its because you all are picking the wrong qualities in people you want to meet?

me myself thinks,

the biggest most unattractive, annoying person you wouldnt usually go for, could be the best experience you may ever have.... "

Is this an attempt to promote yourself ?

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By *orum TrollWoman
over a year ago

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"as i said, i wasnt being rude but just wanted to know.

Sorry I am confused. What is it you wanted to know?

i was wondering how women think by taking a guy by their looks is what they really wanted.

not that it was actually matters.

i was just curious that wall all.

in my mind the prettier girls are more confident and dont really admire the guy as much, as they tend to think they can get a guy whenever.

NO NOT ALL THE PRETTY GIRLS. i know many of them myself which really do.

so it would be less of a lose to a less so pretty girl, a less prettier girl would want to keep the guy happy and coming back for more.

if that sound wrong then i just give up

that is wrong.

even unattractive women can get good looking guys on here.

some women don't want repeat meets.

no women are desperate anywhere on the internet, no matter their looks, intelligence, nothing.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

right you lot are fucking crazy....

every single 1 of you have jumped straight to shagging.

im saying, how do you know that 1 of them messages you just deleted/ignored or blocked wasnt actually somebody you really

connected with (which you would find out by messages, chatting, webcams, and socials)

i have said i should have worded it better than just spitting it out, but its up now.

how many people have ended up in bed with somebody they didnt think they would have?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"right you lot are fucking crazy....

every single 1 of you have jumped straight to shagging.

im saying, how do you know that 1 of them messages you just deleted/ignored or blocked wasnt actually somebody you really

connected with (which you would find out by messages, chatting, webcams, and socials)

i have said i should have worded it better than just spitting it out, but its up now.

how many people have ended up in bed with somebody they didnt think they would have? "

Calm Down Calm Down

Said in best Scouse accent

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"i dont mean to sound rude, but all the woman dropping it like they are sweet innocent and are picky as hell.

come on we have all done our rounds and been passed about. do you not think its because you all are picking the wrong qualities in people you want to meet?

me myself thinks,

the biggest most unattractive, annoying person you wouldnt usually go for, could be the best experience you may ever have....

Is this an attempt to promote yourself ?

haha no. but grab a seat. its going off in here

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"as i said, i wasnt being rude but just wanted to know.

Sorry I am confused. What is it you wanted to know?

i was wondering how women think by taking a guy by their looks is what they really wanted.

not that it was actually matters.

i was just curious that wall all.

in my mind the prettier girls are more confident and dont really admire the guy as much, as they tend to think they can get a guy whenever.

NO NOT ALL THE PRETTY GIRLS. i know many of them myself which really do.

so it would be less of a lose to a less so pretty girl, a less prettier girl would want to keep the guy happy and coming back for more.

if that sound wrong then i just give up

that is wrong.

even unattractive women can get good looking guys on here.

some women don't want repeat meets.

no women are desperate anywhere on the internet, no matter their looks, intelligence, nothing."

oh god, not you aswell.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"right you lot are fucking crazy....

every single 1 of you have jumped straight to shagging.

im saying, how do you know that 1 of them messages you just deleted/ignored or blocked wasnt actually somebody you really

connected with (which you would find out by messages, chatting, webcams, and socials)

i have said i should have worded it better than just spitting it out, but its up now.

how many people have ended up in bed with somebody they didnt think they would have? "

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By *orum TrollWoman
over a year ago

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well my last ex was obese and i didn't fancy him really but i didn't know about all this sex available to me online so i fucked him.

if i'd known better i'd have told him i thought he was ugly, and he used old pics to get me to meet him and that's a big no-no i since found out. weird it didn't bother me at the time though.

so coz of him i won't lower my standards for anything ever again. it's not worth it from experience.

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By *orum TrollWoman
over a year ago

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AND (yes it's me again), i will add it's different for a relationship.

when men want a relationship they tend to devote time to you, like properly and all the time...not just the time leading up to sex and then that's it they cba until next time they want a fuck.

how can you connect with people like that, who don't want to connect?????????????????? ???????????????????????????? ????????????????????????????

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

"right you lot are fucking crazy....

every single 1 of you have jumped straight to shagging.

im saying, how do you know that 1 of them messages you just deleted/ignored or blocked wasnt actually somebody you really

connected with (which you would find out by messages, chatting, webcams, and socials)

i have said i should have worded it better than just spitting it out, but its up now.

how many people have ended up in bed with somebody they didnt think they would have? "

This all boils down to REJECTION. You have been rejected a lot by picky women lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"right you lot are fucking crazy....

every single 1 of you have jumped straight to shagging.

im saying, how do you know that 1 of them messages you just deleted/ignored or blocked wasnt actually somebody you really

connected with (which you would find out by messages, chatting, webcams, and socials)

i have said i should have worded it better than just spitting it out, but its up now.

how many people have ended up in bed with somebody they didnt think they would have?

This all boils down to REJECTION. You have been rejected a lot by picky women lol. "

exactly that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

...and you are making a huge, and wildly inaccurrate assumumption that 'girls' go for looks above anything else. you are wrong on that.Attraction is a mix of the physical and intellectual..you are seeming to say that women on here are purely going on someones pics. You couldnt be more wrong.

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over a year ago

"right you lot are fucking crazy....

every single 1 of you have jumped straight to shagging.

im saying, how do you know that 1 of them messages you just deleted/ignored or blocked wasnt actually somebody you really

connected with (which you would find out by messages, chatting, webcams, and socials)

i have said i should have worded it better than just spitting it out, but its up now.

how many people have ended up in bed with somebody they didnt think they would have? "

But I'm not looking for someone to spend my life with. I'm looking to fuck sexy guys so I can tell my husband all about it. We aren't all looking to make life long friends.....I still don't get why that is an issue with you op. We want different things. why does that bother you?

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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago

Bristol

"Ive seen alot of really unattractive woman and like to read the veris just to see the men who shagged her.

It boggles the mind people have different tastes i suppose.

I block unnatractive woman now just so if im off my head i dont message them prob wouldnt get a reply but more for my own peace of mind "

Feel free to block me. I'm a gopping munter so I wouldn't want you to sully your visual cortex.

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By *orum TrollWoman
over a year ago

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"right you lot are fucking crazy....

every single 1 of you have jumped straight to shagging.

im saying, how do you know that 1 of them messages you just deleted/ignored or blocked wasnt actually somebody you really

connected with (which you would find out by messages, chatting, webcams, and socials)

i have said i should have worded it better than just spitting it out, but its up now.

how many people have ended up in bed with somebody they didnt think they would have?

i don't think he is either. he's just looking for sex but acting like all women need is a connection to a guy to fuck him.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"right you lot are fucking crazy....

every single 1 of you have jumped straight to shagging.

im saying, how do you know that 1 of them messages you just deleted/ignored or blocked wasnt actually somebody you really

connected with (which you would find out by messages, chatting, webcams, and socials)

i have said i should have worded it better than just spitting it out, but its up now.

how many people have ended up in bed with somebody they didnt think they would have?

Ahhhh well yes, I get what you're trying to say now. The answer has to be 'you don't know'. It's no different to seeing a girl in the street who you look at and think 'wow' yet she doesn't even give you a fleeting look. Do you then follow her down the street like a crazy maniac (you might

I wouldn't) or turn around and walk away thinking 'wow, she was pretty'. Life goes on. As for how many people I've ended up in bed with that I didn't think I would.. plenty.. but for the right reasons though... I've never had a 'OMG.. who or what are you moment'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ive seen alot of really unattractive woman and like to read the veris just to see the men who shagged her.

It boggles the mind people have different tastes i suppose.

I block unnatractive woman now just so if im off my head i dont message them prob wouldnt get a reply but more for my own peace of mind

Feel free to block me. I'm a gopping munter so I wouldn't want you to sully your visual cortex. "

Gopping ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ive seen alot of really unattractive woman and like to read the veris just to see the men who shagged her.

It boggles the mind people have different tastes i suppose.

I block unnatractive woman now just so if im off my head i dont message them prob wouldnt get a reply but more for my own peace of mind "

This is hilarious

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think we can safely say the OP will get a few more rejections after this forum post

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"AND (yes it's me again), i will add it's different for a relationship.

when men want a relationship they tend to devote time to you, like properly and all the time...not just the time leading up to sex and then that's it they cba until next time they want a fuck.

how can you connect with people like that, who don't want to connect?????????????????? ???????????????????????????? ????????????????????????????"

then it wouldnt go any further. end of.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I think we can safely say the OP will get a few more rejections after this forum post

hahaha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Most of us don't want to chat to people we don't wanna fuck. Call me shallow, but I'm not here to hand out sympathy fucks.

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By *layfull.oneWoman
over a year ago

Cheshire

"i dont mean to sound rude, but all the woman dropping it like they are sweet innocent and are picky as hell.

come on we have all done our rounds and been passed about. do you not think its because you all are picking the wrong qualities in people you want to meet?

me myself thinks,

the biggest most unattractive, annoying person you wouldnt usually go for, could be the best experience you may ever have.... "

Hahaha what have u started now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Most of us don't want to chat to people we don't wanna fuck. Call me shallow, but I'm not here to hand out sympathy fucks."

'sympathy fucks'

what a great expression

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By *awandOrderCouple
over a year ago

SW London

Most of us don't want to chat to people we don't wanna fuck. Call me shallow, but I'm not here to hand out sympathy fucks."

I chat to people at socials I don't want to fuck .... my preferences are pretty narrow these days, but I am not that shallow

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

"come on we have all done our rounds and been passed about. "

Where did you get that idea from?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Most of us don't want to chat to people we don't wanna fuck. Call me shallow, but I'm not here to hand out sympathy fucks."

No shit no one on this site talks to anyone they dont want to fuck

As is frequently said in the forums "its a sex site isnt it?"

Some people are dicks about it but you cant account for shitty people in all walks of life on and off line

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"come on we have all done our rounds and been passed about.

Where did you get that idea from?

I dont agree with that...unless your a proper man/slag with no respect for yourself

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"i dont mean to sound rude, but all the woman dropping it like they are sweet innocent and are picky as hell.

come on we have all done our rounds and been passed about. do you not think its because you all are picking the wrong qualities in people you want to meet?

me myself thinks,

the biggest most unattractive, annoying person you wouldnt usually go for, could be the best experience you may ever have....

Hahaha what have u started now

everyones letting off shots haha

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By *hickennchipsWoman
over a year ago

up above the streets and houses

Loads of women wiv no self respect near me lol

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over a year ago

"i dont mean to sound rude, but all the woman dropping it like they are sweet innocent and are picky as hell.

come on we have all done our rounds and been passed about. do you not think its because you all are picking the wrong qualities in people you want to meet?

me myself thinks,

the biggest most unattractive, annoying person you wouldnt usually go for, could be the best experience you may ever have....

Hahaha what have u started now

everyones letting off shots haha

Because all you've done is insult women and have no substance to whatever point you're trying to make.

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

"No shit no one on this site talks to anyone they dont want to fuck

As is frequently said in the forums "its a sex site isnt it?""

Which forums are you in?

It's a swingers site not a sex site and the general idea is to have sex with people you like and fancy.

Pay attention

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By *osieWoman
over a year ago

Wembley

Most of us don't want to chat to people we don't wanna fuck. Call me shallow, but I'm not here to hand out sympathy fucks."

You too! Seems like charity f**ks are out of fashion this season

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Loads of women wiv no self respect near me lol"

Pm me and let me know where

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"i dont mean to sound rude, but all the woman dropping it like they are sweet innocent and are picky as hell.

come on we have all done our rounds and been passed about. do you not think its because you all are picking the wrong qualities in people you want to meet?

me myself thinks,

the biggest most unattractive, annoying person you wouldnt usually go for, could be the best experience you may ever have.... "
I agree to a point even man with experience is finding it hard too even after working in a swinger clubs for 5 years put be patient

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No shit no one on this site talks to anyone they dont want to fuck

As is frequently said in the forums "its a sex site isnt it?"

Which forums are you in?

It's a swingers site not a sex site and the general idea is to have sex with people you like and fancy.

Pay attention

Im paraphrasing andi dont need to "pay attenetion"

You have just agreed with me then told me to pay attention

So i think its YOU who needs to pay attention

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"i dont mean to sound rude, but all the woman dropping it like they are sweet innocent and are picky as hell.

come on we have all done our rounds and been passed about. do you not think its because you all are picking the wrong qualities in people you want to meet?

me myself thinks,

the biggest most unattractive, annoying person you wouldnt usually go for, could be the best experience you may ever have....

Hahaha what have u started now

everyones letting off shots haha

Because all you've done is insult women and have no substance to whatever point you're trying to make. "

right ok.

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

"No shit no one on this site talks to anyone they dont want to fuck

As is frequently said in the forums "its a sex site isnt it?"

Which forums are you in?

It's a swingers site not a sex site and the general idea is to have sex with people you like and fancy.

Pay attention

Im paraphrasing andi dont need to "pay attenetion"

You have just agreed with me then told me to pay attention

So i think its YOU who needs to pay attention

I have disagreed with you, read it back again and pay attention this time

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Loads of women wiv no self respect near me lol

Pm me and let me know where

hahaha

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By *orum TrollWoman
over a year ago

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"AND (yes it's me again), i will add it's different for a relationship.

when men want a relationship they tend to devote time to you, like properly and all the time...not just the time leading up to sex and then that's it they cba until next time they want a fuck.

how can you connect with people like that, who don't want to connect?????????????????? ???????????????????????????? ????????????????????????????

then it wouldnt go any further. end of. "

seeing as you want women to connect with you so they'll find you attractive enough for sex then that seems the obvious answer.

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By *olden RatioWoman
over a year ago

Buckinghamshire

I could exchange several messages with the most annoying and unattractive man, then decide that I still find him to be the most annoying and unattractive man.

However, I would then be branded as a dreaded "timewaster". Maybe that helps explain why I wouldn't bother?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No shit no one on this site talks to anyone they dont want to fuck

As is frequently said in the forums "its a sex site isnt it?"

Which forums are you in?

It's a swingers site not a sex site and the general idea is to have sex with people you like and fancy.

Pay attention

Im paraphrasing andi dont need to "pay attenetion"

You have just agreed with me then told me to pay attention

So i think its YOU who needs to pay attention

I have disagreed with you, read it back again and pay attention this time

Not over the general theme

Im saying people dont talk to people on here they arnt interested in

You then said the same thing just not using the same words

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

"Not over the general theme

Im saying people dont talk to people on here they arnt interested in

You then said the same thing just not using the same words"

I see what you mean, and I disagree. I chat with loads of people on here that I probably won't meet. But this is the forum and it's a social thing.

So I think people in the forum do talk to people they might not meet. It's not just a place to pick people for sex.

I was part of a big Forum social on Saturday and it was all about meeting up and having a good time, not sex.

If I guy is not getting people chatting on here he may be giving off the wrong impression. I'd never chat with the OP but his post has given me a good insight into how he thinks about women.

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over a year ago

"Not over the general theme

Im saying people dont talk to people on here they arnt interested in

You then said the same thing just not using the same words

I see what you mean, and I disagree. I chat with loads of people on here that I probably won't meet. But this is the forum and it's a social thing.

So I think people in the forum do talk to people they might not meet. It's not just a place to pick people for sex.

I was part of a big Forum social on Saturday and it was all about meeting up and having a good time, not sex.

If I guy is not getting people chatting on here he may be giving off the wrong impression. I'd never chat with the OP but his post has given me a good insight into how he thinks about women."

Well let me put it this way

Have you gone out of your way to talk to anyone on the site forums or not that you either dont like or arnt interested in?

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By *oxesMan
over a year ago

Southend, Essex

"i dont mean to sound rude, but all the woman dropping it like they are sweet innocent and are picky as hell.

come on we have all done our rounds and been passed about. do you not think its because you all are picking the wrong qualities in people you want to meet?

me myself thinks,

the biggest most unattractive, annoying person you wouldnt usually go for, could be the best experience you may ever have.... "

we are all her to expand our sexial horizons and to feel seually liberated. preferences are a part of that man or women weather shag as many people as possible ' or doing the rounds' or something else something special worth remembering.

we are all on here to furfill different seuial needs.

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By *awandOrderCouple
over a year ago

SW London

"Not over the general theme

Im saying people dont talk to people on here they arnt interested in

You then said the same thing just not using the same words

I see what you mean, and I disagree. I chat with loads of people on here that I probably won't meet. But this is the forum and it's a social thing.

So I think people in the forum do talk to people they might not meet. It's not just a place to pick people for sex.

I was part of a big Forum social on Saturday and it was all about meeting up and having a good time, not sex.

If I guy is not getting people chatting on here he may be giving off the wrong impression. I'd never chat with the OP but his post has given me a good insight into how he thinks about women.

Well let me put it this way

Have you gone out of your way to talk to anyone on the site forums or not that you either dont like or arnt interested in?"

When I talk to people on the forums, the last thing on my mind is sex. I use pms and clubs for that. Saying that, I even have conversations by pm with people on the forums I am not looking to meet for sex.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't poke the wasps nest

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over a year ago

"Not over the general theme

Im saying people dont talk to people on here they arnt interested in

You then said the same thing just not using the same words

I see what you mean, and I disagree. I chat with loads of people on here that I probably won't meet. But this is the forum and it's a social thing.

So I think people in the forum do talk to people they might not meet. It's not just a place to pick people for sex.

I was part of a big Forum social on Saturday and it was all about meeting up and having a good time, not sex.

If I guy is not getting people chatting on here he may be giving off the wrong impression. I'd never chat with the OP but his post has given me a good insight into how he thinks about women.

Well let me put it this way

Have you gone out of your way to talk to anyone on the site forums or not that you either dont like or arnt interested in?

You havnt answered the question

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By *orum TrollWoman
over a year ago

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"Not over the general theme

Im saying people dont talk to people on here they arnt interested in

You then said the same thing just not using the same words

I see what you mean, and I disagree. I chat with loads of people on here that I probably won't meet. But this is the forum and it's a social thing.

So I think people in the forum do talk to people they might not meet. It's not just a place to pick people for sex.

I was part of a big Forum social on Saturday and it was all about meeting up and having a good time, not sex.

If I guy is not getting people chatting on here he may be giving off the wrong impression. I'd never chat with the OP but his post has given me a good insight into how he thinks about women.

Well let me put it this way

Have you gone out of your way to talk to anyone on the site forums or not that you either dont like or arnt interested in?

same for me too.

i have a few regular guys from when i first joined the site and have no interest in meeting anyone else for sex. i also chat to guys i'm not interested in for sex or don't fancy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"as i said, i wasnt being rude but just wanted to know.

Sorry I am confused. What is it you wanted to know?

Vx "

Was thinking the exact same thing .

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over a year ago

"i dont mean to sound rude, but all the woman dropping it like they are sweet innocent and are picky as hell.

come on we have all done our rounds and been passed about. do you not think its because you all are picking the wrong qualities in people you want to meet?

DUDE YOU'VE ONLY BEEN HERE 5 MINUTES SIT DOWN AND WATCH. YOU MIGHT LEARN A THING OR TWO.

me myself thinks,

the biggest most unattractive, annoying person you wouldnt usually go for, could be the best experience you may ever have.... "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Most of us don't want to chat to people we don't wanna fuck. Call me shallow, but I'm not here to hand out sympathy fucks.

No shit no one on this site talks to anyone they dont want to fuck

As is frequently said in the forums "its a sex site isnt it?"

Some people are dicks about it but you cant account for shitty people in all walks of life on and off line"

No shit what? I talk to people in the forums but I don't reply to messages from people I don't want to meet.

It's not a sex site either.

My post was directly in response to the OP, who suggested women need to lower their physical standards on the proviso that there might be some other 'spark', so if you have a point, then aim

It to the OP.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not over the general theme

Im saying people dont talk to people on here they arnt interested in

You then said the same thing just not using the same words

I see what you mean, and I disagree. I chat with loads of people on here that I probably won't meet. But this is the forum and it's a social thing.

So I think people in the forum do talk to people they might not meet. It's not just a place to pick people for sex.

I was part of a big Forum social on Saturday and it was all about meeting up and having a good time, not sex.

If I guy is not getting people chatting on here he may be giving off the wrong impression. I'd never chat with the OP but his post has given me a good insight into how he thinks about women.

Well let me put it this way

Have you gone out of your way to talk to anyone on the site forums or not that you either dont like or arnt interested in?

You havnt answered the question"

I actually think they did?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Most of us don't want to chat to people we don't wanna fuck. Call me shallow, but I'm not here to hand out sympathy fucks.

'sympathy fucks'

what a great expression "

Haha! It seems so fitting. I'm meant to hand them out to anyone who asks, apparently. Cause I've got my tits out, of course.

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

"so it would be less of a lose to a less so pretty girl, a less prettier girl would want to keep the guy happy and coming back for more."

A less prettier girl? What, so us munters should be grateful and so should be making more of an effort? Blinking flip mate, stop digging.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No doubt there are some super guys out there if we were to take the time to get to know them. Sadly we don't have time to meet anyone new. We're struggling to find the time to attend the clubs we want to go to, and meet up with our regular playmates. If we were to try someone new, then we'd have to drop another play activity to fit it in. And even if we did have more time, not sure we can really be bothered to go out and meet a complete stranger on the off chance we might like them, when we already have enough to be getting on with.

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"i dont mean to sound rude, but all the woman dropping it like they are sweet innocent and are picky as hell.

come on we have all done our rounds and been passed about. do you not think its because you all are picking the wrong qualities in people you want to meet?

me myself thinks,

the biggest most unattractive, annoying person you wouldnt usually go for, could be the best experience you may ever have.... "

women picky?,,,,on here,,,,,lol,,why the fuck are they on a sex site,,lol,,thats funny

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can't stand shallow cunts

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm middle aged, fat and unhealthy and I don't keep no cunt happy, to make him keep coming back.

We keep each other happy, I'll have you know.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am quieting my interests so have fun all lol

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By *ystical_InkedBBWWoman
over a year ago

somewhere in the Shire of Derby

If I don't fancy someone then I'm not going to have sex with them, it's about enjoying yourself

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By *ex-a-frolicsCouple
over a year ago

Brizzle

We're not looking for single guys, but if we were we'd look for someone with a correctly spelt & more imaginative user name LOL!!

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By *cunnylassCouple
over a year ago

Exeter

I've been passed about for years now.Doesn't make me a bad person though...

Mike

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