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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Just out of interest are there any other younger people on here that are taken seriously by others?

Swinging is something I'm very interested in but I feel as if you have less of a chance of organising meets while being younger!

Any tips anyone could give me?

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

It's not necessarily age that is a limiting factor here, although for some it will be - more the sheer number of single guys compared to single ladies and couples that limits your chances.

Having a good well written profile (which you pretty much do), along with a decent set of pics that show off your body and not just your cock (which you don't) both help, as does sending well thought out messages tailored to the person(s) you'd like to meet.

You could also try getting more active in the forums, which is a great way to get to know people and get yourself known. Alternatively look for local clubs or socials to get along to where you may stand a better chance of meeting people.

Good luck

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks for the info! Will get on to uploading more pictures! I think the fact I haven't had a veri yet may also play the factor!

I've had my chances but at times I've been picky! Not too picky but sometimes you just know they aren't what you're looking for!

Fingers crossed I Start to experience the world of swinging a bit more soon!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

dont think age is a factor since people have age preferences.

Ever stood in a sweet shop not sure what you want cause the choices are endless well it's abit like that. Except your the sweet trying to be picked

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

What a great way to look at it haha! What everyone's saying does make sense! I guess when you aren't the women/couple who's receiving one hundred messages per hour it's easy to forget just how many males are on this site!

Fucking men, why are we always so horny? Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just out of interest are there any other younger people on here that are taken seriously by others?

Swinging is something I'm very interested in but I feel as if you have less of a chance of organising meets while being younger!

Any tips anyone could give me? "

Just speak to people and have a sense of humour. Only tell your age in a club if asked, usually after playing HAHa. I've played mainly with women older than myself cos I love MILFs. Speak to the blokes as well as the missus.

Only place I felt a LITTLE out of depth because of age was libs, but I still managed to find the right couple for me.

Also, don't drop your standards just for a quick shag.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I started swinging when I was 18 with a gf that was 19,met a few that were put off by our age but found in general that it wasn't particularly a problem being a young swinging couple.

I would say it's more down to how you carry/present yourself and how you interact with others that determines how much you'll get from swinging rather than your age.The same applied as a single,never really had an issue being a fairly young single male swinger in clubs and at parties.Even found that a surprising number of older ladies and couples were attracted by the fact I was relatively young for a swinger.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Just out of interest are there any other younger people on here that are taken seriously by others?

Swinging is something I'm very interested in but I feel as if you have less of a chance of organising meets while being younger!

Any tips anyone could give me?

Just speak to people and have a sense of humour. Only tell your age in a club if asked, usually after playing HAHa. I've played mainly with women older than myself cos I love MILFs. Speak to the blokes as well as the missus.

Only place I felt a LITTLE out of depth because of age was libs, but I still managed to find the right couple for me.

Also, don't drop your standards just for a quick shag."

I do try speaking to people and also try not to stick to the usual "hey how are you" kinda messages also I don't go with the creepy/pushy messages! Some are read some aren't but that falls back to what I said previously about the hundreds of messages a by the hour for women and couples!

Dropping my standards for a quick shag is something I definitely will not do lol! I'm not exactly here for just a quick shag I'm taking my time with things etc trying to find someone where we will both be attracted! As I was saying I have had my opportunities for a veri with certain people but the attraction just wasn't there from me!

Cheers for all the replys guys!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just out of interest are there any other younger people on here that are taken seriously by others?

Swinging is something I'm very interested in but I feel as if you have less of a chance of organising meets while being younger!

Any tips anyone could give me?

Just speak to people and have a sense of humour. Only tell your age in a club if asked, usually after playing HAHa. I've played mainly with women older than myself cos I love MILFs. Speak to the blokes as well as the missus.

Only place I felt a LITTLE out of depth because of age was libs, but I still managed to find the right couple for me.

Also, don't drop your standards just for a quick shag.

I do try speaking to people and also try not to stick to the usual "hey how are you" kinda messages also I don't go with the creepy/pushy messages! Some are read some aren't but that falls back to what I said previously about the hundreds of messages a by the hour for women and couples!

Dropping my standards for a quick shag is something I definitely will not do lol! I'm not exactly here for just a quick shag I'm taking my time with things etc trying to find someone where we will both be attracted! As I was saying I have had my opportunities for a veri with certain people but the attraction just wasn't there from me!

Cheers for all the replys guys! "

That's good man, you're a quick learner. Your popularity will bloom the more you get to clubs and show your face, post on here and especially after you get veris. You're right on knowing if something's not there with someone too, no point wasting time or having potential embarrassment cos they do nothing for you.

A few more pics if you don't have veris will help you. Even I plan on getting more up.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What a great way to look at it haha! What everyone's saying does make sense! I guess when you aren't the women/couple who's receiving one hundred messages per hour it's easy to forget just how many males are on this site!

Fucking men, why are we always so horny? Lol "

Haha its a hard game to play but stick at it eventually you'll get a meet. I've not been to a club or event but I can imagine it's a good step in the door.

Best of luck bud

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