FabSwingers.com forum: Does being verified make a difference?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I'm not verified as of yet and I don't intend to ask a person to verify me but will that make a difference?

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By *orum TrollWoman
over a year ago

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for some people it will, for others it won't matter.

getting your first veri gets you highlighted on the homepage so you'll stand out to more people also.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"for some people it will, for others it won't matter.

getting your first veri gets you highlighted on the homepage so you'll stand out to more people also."

So it's better to be verified then I guess??

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

A veri or two is always good but it's not the be all and end all either - especially not compared to having a decent well written profile that sells you, along with a decent set of pics that show off your body.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"A veri or two is always good but it's not the be all and end all either - especially not compared to having a decent well written profile that sells you, along with a decent set of pics that show off your body.

cheers for advice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I actually thought so, however we have had three bad meets.. two of whome was verified?

in my opinion vest to be verified and you can hide what it says if wanted just so people are aware you have met. jo x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I actually thought so, however we have had three bad meets.. two of whome was verified?

in my opinion vest to be verified and you can hide what it says if wanted just so people are aware you have met. jo x"

Thanks jo x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For me it's less about what the verification says and more about the fact you have 1or 2, it tells me the person isn't likely to be a time waster and that they will and have met people.

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By *orum TrollWoman
over a year ago

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your only highlighted for a day or so, forgot to mention that.

dunno if it helps or not. i think a lot of people don't wanna be the first veri in case you're using them to get that veri.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"For me it's less about what the verification says and more about the fact you have 1or 2, it tells me the person isn't likely to be a time waster and that they will and have met people. "

Cheers for the advice fella

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"your only highlighted for a day or so, forgot to mention that.

dunno if it helps or not. i think a lot of people don't wanna be the first veri in case you're using them to get that veri.

I guessed that would be a problem if the man was just doing it for that reason,iv got a few that will do it if I asked

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By *unandbuckCouple
over a year ago

Sheffield

Massive difference. Not so much when you are new, because people wouldn't expect someone new to be verified. But as time goes by it will be.

I wouldn't 'ask' someone to verify you. The verification normally happens as a result of meeting to play or socially.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

means you are more likely to be a real human if youre verified - so to some that will matter - try and get along to a social event and get fellow humans to verify you

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By *unandbuckCouple
over a year ago

Sheffield

I guessed that would be a problem if the man was just doing it for that reason,iv got a few that will do it if I asked

What do you mean?

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By *orum TrollWoman
over a year ago

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"your only highlighted for a day or so, forgot to mention that.

dunno if it helps or not. i think a lot of people don't wanna be the first veri in case you're using them to get that veri.

I guessed that would be a problem if the man was just doing it for that reason,iv got a few that will do it if I asked

ask them. see how it goes for you getting verified.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"means you are more likely to be a real human if youre verified - so to some that will matter - try and get along to a social event and get fellow humans to verify you

I'm just dropping in from a place called Mars cos you rocked my world ha ha I will definitely be going to social events within the next month or so

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I guessed that would be a problem if the man was just doing it for that reason,iv got a few that will do it if I asked

What do you mean?"

Meeting just to get verified

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People are wary of unverified profiles, because they haven't been proven to be the person in the photos. Although, photos can be changed and added after verification.

I've met men who had been here a while and not had any response, and after my verification they became quite popular.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"People are wary of unverified profiles, because they haven't been proven to be the person in the photos. Although, photos can be changed and added after verification.

I've met men who had been here a while and not had any response, and after my verification they became quite popular. "

My ex is on here but we're still very good friends and occasionally have a meet so guess that would be a good idea as a verification lol

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By *unandbuckCouple
over a year ago

Sheffield

I guessed that would be a problem if the man was just doing it for that reason,iv got a few that will do it if I asked

What do you mean?

Meeting just to get verified "

If they are people you've met through here, it would be a good thing to do. If it's a mate who is going to do a veri just because he knows you, it will be of more limited use and at worse could look dodgy. If you are going to a social it will get you off to a good start and you'll get plenty of veris from one.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes & No! I always usually go for verified people as they tend to be less of a let down! If they have met, they are less likely to bottle it at the last minute which can be a bit inconvenient!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I guessed that would be a problem if the man was just doing it for that reason,iv got a few that will do it if I asked

What do you mean?

Meeting just to get verified

Thank you for the advice much appreciated

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Yes & No! I always usually go for verified people as they tend to be less of a let down! If they have met, they are less likely to bottle it at the last minute which can be a bit inconvenient!

Cheers for advice Nick,I will keep it in mind going forward

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes because then you can leave feedback on clubs and get views from the attendees, invites to parties depending on your feedback given etc. It makes a big difference. Many people won't meet someone not verified. I'd be less inclined now too.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Yes because then you can leave feedback on clubs and get views from the attendees, invites to parties depending on your feedback given etc. It makes a big difference. Many people won't meet someone not verified. I'd be less inclined now too."

My one question to that would be how long being on here for is a reasonable time limit to be verified in??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My one question to that would be how long being on here for is a reasonable time limit to be verified in?? "

3-6 months?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't care

I've agreed to meet unverified people and had a great night

Then I've arranged to meet someone with 20 and they stood me up.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't care

I've agreed to meet unverified people and had a great night

Then I've arranged to meet someone with 20 and they stood me up. "

Whoever stood you up is an idiot!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't care

I've agreed to meet unverified people and had a great night

Then I've arranged to meet someone with 20 and they stood me up.

Whoever stood you up is an idiot!!"

Thank you

it happens often!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I don't care

I've agreed to meet unverified people and had a great night

Then I've arranged to meet someone with 20 and they stood me up. "

Was the person that stood you up gay (nothing against gays) or blind(nothing against blind) cos you girl are stunning,and thank you for your comment

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't care

I've agreed to meet unverified people and had a great night

Then I've arranged to meet someone with 20 and they stood me up.

Was the person that stood you up gay (nothing against gays) or blind(nothing against blind) cos you girl are stunning,and thank you for your comment

Thank you sweet. It happens often. I think they get scared of me.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I don't care

I've agreed to meet unverified people and had a great night

Then I've arranged to meet someone with 20 and they stood me up.

Was the person that stood you up gay (nothing against gays) or blind(nothing against blind) cos you girl are stunning,and thank you for your comment

Thank you sweet. It happens often. I think they get scared of me.

They must be mad ha ha could have the ride of there life by the sounds of it,if you want ya next partner in crime you know we're my inbox is ha ha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm not verified as of yet and I don't intend to ask a person to verify me but will that make a difference?"

Like everything else on here there is no right or wrong answers, it's all ambiguous really.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We don't even meet people who are unverified. Too many no shows.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"We don't even meet people who are unverified. Too many no shows."

Thanks for commenting

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I'm not verified as of yet and I don't intend to ask a person to verify me but will that make a difference?

Like everything else on here there is no right or wrong answers, it's all ambiguous really."

Very ambiguous and very confusing as to a time line in verification lol

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By *rNaughtyNickMan
over a year ago

Birmingham

Makes a difference for the single guys as a lot of women and couples won't entertain mesagaes from unvierifed guys let alone a meet.

Plus it helps more so to get be verified by an actual physical meet too .

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Makes a difference for the single guys as a lot of women and couples won't entertain mesagaes from unvierifed guys let alone a meet.

Plus it helps more so to get be verified by an actual physical meet too ."

Cheers for comment mate and I'm guessing best way would be a social/event meet ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"People are wary of unverified profiles, because they haven't been proven to be the person in the photos. Although, photos can be changed and added after verification.

I've met men who had been here a while and not had any response, and after my verification they became quite popular.

My ex is on here but we're still very good friends and occasionally have a meet so guess that would be a good idea as a verification lol "

Yes it would

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Makes no difference to me if someone is verified or not unless they've been on here over a year. Then I might be questioning if they're real or ever have intentions of meeting.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"People are wary of unverified profiles, because they haven't been proven to be the person in the photos. Although, photos can be changed and added after verification.

I've met men who had been here a while and not had any response, and after my verification they became quite popular.

My ex is on here but we're still very good friends and occasionally have a meet so guess that would be a good idea as a verification lol

Yes it would

I can't see your profile it must be hidden lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Makes no difference to me if someone is verified or not unless they've been on here over a year. Then I might be questioning if they're real or ever have intentions of meeting.

Thank you for your comment and great profile and pics

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm photo verified but not by a person,doors it make a difference tbh I don't know

Just have fun and what will be will be

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I'm photo verified but not by a person,doors it make a difference tbh I don't know

Just have fun and what will be will be "

I am photo verified but not person verified,cheers for your comment fella

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By *ink Panther.Woman
over a year ago

Preston

"I'm not verified as of yet and I don't intend to ask a person to verify me but will that make a difference?"

If the veris you have are more poorly written than the efforts of a pre-schooler you're better off without! Really would put me off the fact someone has had a meet with a person of such low intelligence

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I'm not verified as of yet and I don't intend to ask a person to verify me but will that make a difference?

Love this reply ha ha don't intend on going with any one with such intellect lol thank you for your message

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By *ink Panther.Woman
over a year ago

Preston

"I'm not verified as of yet and I don't intend to ask a person to verify me but will that make a difference?

Love this reply ha ha don't intend on going with any one with such intellect lol thank you for your message

You're welcome

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By *op gooserMan
over a year ago

chester

"I'm not verified as of yet and I don't intend to ask a person to verify me but will that make a difference?"
For a single guy about 1% difference

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I'm not verified as of yet and I don't intend to ask a person to verify me but will that make a difference? For a single guy about 1% difference"

Cheers fella

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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago

Bristol

"I'm not verified as of yet and I don't intend to ask a person to verify me but will that make a difference?"

I spent my first year or so on the site not showing mine. Now I do. They have made no discernible difference to my fab experience.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I'm not verified as of yet and I don't intend to ask a person to verify me but will that make a difference?

I spent my first year or so on the site not showing mine. Now I do. They have made no discernible difference to my fab experience."

Thanks for the feed back,really nice pictures and your profile is a great read,shame I'm not in your bracket lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We won't meet a man unless he's experienced with playing with MF couples. This is because a lot of guys don't really understand the dynamics, so it is essential that we only meet men who've met couples in the capacity that we like to meet guys. Plenty of verications stating these type of meets puts us at ease. If a man only meets single ladies then he probably isn't for us.

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As a single guy I've found they've made a difference but obviously the more positive about you they are the better. I've had ladies who met me say they based part of their decision to meet me on the positive verifications I had.

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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago

hiding from cock pics.

It makes no difference to me whether someone is verified, I verify them myself to make sure they areally what I am looking for.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"We won't meet a man unless he's experienced with playing with MF couples. This is because a lot of guys don't really understand the dynamics, so it is essential that we only meet men who've met couples in the capacity that we like to meet guys. Plenty of verications stating these type of meets puts us at ease. If a man only meets single ladies then he probably isn't for us.

Mrs"

Thanks for feed back Mrs

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"As a single guy I've found they've made a difference but obviously the more positive about you they are the better. I've had ladies who met me say they based part of their decision to meet me on the positive verifications I had."

Cheers for comment fella

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"It makes no difference to me whether someone is verified, I verify them myself to make sure they areally what I am looking for."

How would you verify them yourself? When you meet them?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

NO. People ask friends to verify them, they mean nothing. I take them with a pinch of salt.

Besides, they're meaningless, it's not like you can give a bad veri to anyone.

I've met some nice people on here and usually ask not to be verified, as I don't like to return the favour. Veri's all seem so cliché, artificial and pretty much say the same old thing.

Some people put way too much trust in them.

If I see a pic I like or read something written by someone I agree with, I check them out, read their profile and maybe contact them. If we chat, arrange a meet and click, then all the better. I don't even look at the veri's. I'd much rather make up my own mind.

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By *he Gentleman CallerMan
over a year ago

Southampton

I'd say a few good verification helps...Not that many profiles on here are verified...they show you are real and actually meet, so can be convincing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't care

I've agreed to meet unverified people and had a great night

Then I've arranged to meet someone with 20 and they stood me up. "

^^ This.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I don't care

I've agreed to meet unverified people and had a great night

Then I've arranged to meet someone with 20 and they stood me up.

^^ This. "

Nice peaches

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't care

I've agreed to meet unverified people and had a great night

Then I've arranged to meet someone with 20 and they stood me up.

^^ This.

Nice peaches

Thank you

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By *orny IrishMan
over a year ago

Rural Wiltshire

OP get along to a social and then you will get some veri's and that might start things off.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"OP get along to a social and then you will get some veri's and that might start things off."

Cheers Irish,I will do fella

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

If any one on here has looked at my profile please look at again and give me feed back on here or through messages thanks

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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago

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"It makes no difference to me whether someone is verified, I verify them myself to make sure they areally what I am looking for.

How would you verify them yourself? When you meet them? "

I rarely mean now outside of the clubs.

If I was interested in meeting them I would make my own decisions based on their profile and then invite them to a Skype chat. If that worked well, I would then invite them to meet me socially for a drink.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"It makes no difference to me whether someone is verified, I verify them myself to make sure they areally what I am looking for.

How would you verify them yourself? When you meet them?

I rarely mean now outside of the clubs.

That seems a very good way to go about things and a great tip thank you x

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