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Turning the wife on

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

My wife gets turned on in bed when I talk about another male watching us play and maybe her wanking him off. Shall I arrange for this to happen or remain pillow talk.

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By *arriedmatureCouple
over a year ago

brmingham

do it once and its like a drug you want more

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My wife gets turned on in bed when I talk about another male watching us play and maybe her wanking him off. Shall I arrange for this to happen or remain pillow talk. "

or maybe leave it all in your imagination

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"do it once and its like a drug you want more"

I have brought it up a few times and she really gets into it.

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By *rightonCheekyMan
over a year ago

Brighton

The only answer is to ask her if she wants to go for it or just keep it as a fantasy.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"The only answer is to ask her if she wants to go for it or just keep it as a fantasy."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ask her outright and find a non pushy guy who won't mind if she changes her mind part way through. It really has to be her idea though and not just doing it because you want her too

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By *ex-a-frolicsCouple
over a year ago

Brizzle

So you quite obviously haven't discussed swinging with her, & presumably she has no idea you have a single male profile on here. Why don't you discuss with her what she wants, tell her about Fab & suggest you have a couples profile on here?

You might be surprised at her response, but if you're going behind her back & asking for others opinion on a public forum, that's asking for trouble.

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By *entleman of GirthMan
over a year ago

Forest Row


"So you quite obviously haven't discussed swinging with her, & presumably she has no idea you have a single male profile on here. Why don't you discuss with her what she wants, tell her about Fab & suggest you have a couples profile on here?

You might be surprised at her response, but if you're going behind her back & asking for others opinion on a public forum, that's asking for trouble. "

Ask her what she would like, and tell her what you would like. It's better to discuss wants and limits before taking it further. I'd also suggest a trip to a club on a quietish night, might be a way to start, inviting a total stranger around to your home could be quite scary for both of you. It's far easier to make excuses and leave a club than boot out a horny stranger if either of you gets cold feet.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"So you quite obviously haven't discussed swinging with her, & presumably she has no idea you have a single male profile on here. Why don't you discuss with her what she wants, tell her about Fab & suggest you have a couples profile on here?

You might be surprised at her response, but if you're going behind her back & asking for others opinion on a public forum, that's asking for trouble.

Ask her what she would like, and tell her what you would like. It's better to discuss wants and limits before taking it further. I'd also suggest a trip to a club on a quietish night, might be a way to start, inviting a total stranger around to your home could be quite scary for both of you. It's far easier to make excuses and leave a club than boot out a horny stranger if either of you gets cold feet. "

Thanks for the advice. Might suggest a club

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"So you quite obviously haven't discussed swinging with her, & presumably she has no idea you have a single male profile on here. Why don't you discuss with her what she wants, tell her about Fab & suggest you have a couples profile on here?

You might be surprised at her response, but if you're going behind her back & asking for others opinion on a public forum, that's asking for trouble. "

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