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By *ackdaniels2016 OP   Man
over a year ago

Yarm

.... I always wear trousers, shirt, tie and waistcoat when meeting as I really like to make an effort in how I look and smell ... Is it to much that I expect the same in return ? Is it to much me wearing this ?

Would love to hear others thoughts on this !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If that's the kind of outfit that makes you happy and you're comfortable in it then that's great, but many people wouldn't feel on their A game dressing like they were going to a job interview .

If you have standards of dress you would like to see try to only arrange meets with people who state they like the same or discuss it beforehand.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

wear it if youre comfy and relaxed - i like pants and shirt - waistcoat not so much so but thats just me unless its worn as part of a suit then thats nice - never going to please all - and so much better that than no effort

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would always aim to look my best when meeting someone for the first time but I also need to feel comfortable and would want them to as well. If theyre a suit kinda guy then cool but I wouldn't expect them to wear one if theyre not.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

would like to think though that if we were just meeting for say a pub social that you wouldnt think less of anybody for wearing smart jeans and a top ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't think I'd look too sexy in a 4 piece suit

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By *laskan lovers 1984Couple
over a year ago

West midlands

This lady wears a sexy top with skinny jeans and high helps

Stocking and sexy underwear underneath

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

I take the view that it's the person I'm meeting not their clothes, so whatever they're comfortable in for the occasion is fine by me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This lady wears a sexy top with skinny jeans and high helps

Stocking and sexy underwear underneath "

stockings under jeans?

I've heard it all now

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By *ackdaniels2016 OP   Man
over a year ago

Yarm

Would totally depend on where I was meeting !

If it was a pub social (I've only had 1) it would be jeans and shirt !!

If I was comfortable with the person and it was a home/hotel meet I would be suited and booted !

I like the scenario being set up a little to allow me to wear this !!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


".... I always wear trousers, shirt, tie and waistcoat when meeting as I really like to make an effort in how I look and smell ... Is it to much that I expect the same in return ? Is it to much me wearing this ?

Would love to hear others thoughts on this !"

I prefer the guy to wear jeans and a t shirt or shirt or even a footy shirt.

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By *londieddWoman
over a year ago

fife


".... I always wear trousers, shirt, tie and waistcoat when meeting as I really like to make an effort in how I look and smell ... Is it to much that I expect the same in return ? Is it to much me wearing this ?

Would love to hear others thoughts on this !"
I met someone who warned me beforehand that he had been suited and booted all week whilst away on business and that he would be casually dressed I said that's perfectly fine, however his idea of casual was clothes that you would expect to do the garden in, he had not showered either! First and last meet with him, as long as you and your clothes are clean and ironed then you would do for me!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If that's your style then no it's not too much !!!

I wouldn't be impressed if my meet turned up in trainers and a tracksuit

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By *ackdaniels2016 OP   Man
over a year ago

Yarm

It's definitely more me ! But do understand its to much in some circumstances !

But definitely can add to it in others

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


".... I always wear trousers, shirt, tie and waistcoat when meeting as I really like to make an effort in how I look and smell ... Is it to much that I expect the same in return ? Is it to much me wearing this ?

Would love to hear others thoughts on this !"

Are you going playing snooker lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


".... I always wear trousers, shirt, tie and waistcoat when meeting as I really like to make an effort in how I look and smell ... Is it to much that I expect the same in return ? Is it to much me wearing this ?

Would love to hear others thoughts on this !

Are you going playing snooker lol "

maybe he is hoping to pot the pink, followed by the brown

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


".... I always wear trousers, shirt, tie and waistcoat when meeting as I really like to make an effort in how I look and smell ... Is it to much that I expect the same in return ? Is it to much me wearing this ?

Would love to hear others thoughts on this !

Are you going playing snooker lol

maybe he is hoping to pot the pink, followed by the brown "

Knowing my luck I would go in off lol

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

It all depend's where you're both meeting. That may be a bit too much for me though,especially if we're meeting in a pub.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it's nice to make an effort and dress smart for meets x

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By *amantha girlyWoman
over a year ago

london

I always dress up so love it when man does too! Such a turn on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think it's nice to make an effort and dress smart for meets x"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

if that's what your comfortable in o.p then that's what works for you.

i can't stand all that shirt and trouser business though so not for me, jeans and a tee is just fine. i don't actually own any 'proper' trousers or shoes and definitely won't buy any just for a meet.

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By *andbCouple
over a year ago

Wakefield


"I always dress up so love it when man does too! Such a turn on "

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By *ackdaniels2016 OP   Man
over a year ago

Yarm

Well we are all different and have didn't likes and dislikes me personally I always make an effort jeans and a shirt is me dressing casual ... I haven't met many and don't expect to its not me at all but when I do I put the effort in and would always expect the same in return or it's a instant turn off for me like the only social I've had so far .... No effort was made so I didn't stay long

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tracki bottoms and a wax jacket works everytime

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Tracki bottoms and a wax jacket works everytime "

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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

I always dress up.

Hair. Make up and heels

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would very much appreciate a guy making that kind of effort!

I would always make an effort to look my best hence I don't do things like meeting for a quick coffee during my lunch break.

I definitely do not look my best then!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends if your meeting in costa?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And hi-tec trainers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


".... I always wear trousers, shirt, tie and waistcoat when meeting as I really like to make an effort in how I look and smell ... Is it to much that I expect the same in return ? Is it to much me wearing this ?

Would love to hear others thoughts on this !"

I like a smartly dressed guy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nice shirt and trousers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Most people have still made an effort even if dressed casually

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Usually jeans, t-shirt and a good looking jacket and one of my many pairs of converse trainers lol, at least for a casual first meet

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By *londieddWoman
over a year ago

fife


"Tracki bottoms and a wax jacket works everytime "
shell suit bottoms and old suit jacket is a good ensemble

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Tracki bottoms and a wax jacket works everytime shell suit bottoms and old suit jacket is a good ensemble "

Goes well with a pair of shoes from Clarke's too.

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By *s_macWoman
over a year ago

Traffic land


"Depends if your meeting in costa? "

I had a social that started in Costa this weekend, but still made the effort. I'm not really a dress and heels girl though

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By *ubkittyWoman
over a year ago

lincoln

I find a guy in a suit a huge turn on.. but smart casual works too

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By *orum TrollWoman
over a year ago

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if you like wearing that then wear it.

personally it would be too much for me. i'm more into casual guys.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"if you like wearing that then wear it.

personally it would be too much for me. i'm more into casual guys."

Same here

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By *irceWoman
over a year ago

Gloucester

Think it is nice for you to make the effort, cannot say i have had a scruffy meet yet from fab...but who knows....hmmmmm temps fate

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Rock up to a pub wearing a suit and a fedora, lmao

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By *norksterMan
over a year ago

Darlington and beyond

I'm a jeans and t-shirt kinda guy

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