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Odd one out in a couples meet..?

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By *norkster OP   Man
over a year ago

Darlington and beyond

Couples question, but others can assist..

I know lot's of flirting goes on in here, and yesterday was great for me and some of you did perk me up so thanks for that, but hypothetically, if I was your type and local to your area, what would I expect from a couple meet with you?

I've never done it (yet) and wondered where the 'other' guys fits in this scenario, what do you do to make them feel welcome/ comfortable, and what are your rules..?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hypothetically. Meet for a drinks in a pub. Get to know each other. Opportunity to flirt. If all goes well invite the guy home with us for a threeesome. That's what a guy should expect from us.

Mrs

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By *awandOrderCouple
over a year ago

SW London


"Couples question, but others can assist..

I know lot's of flirting goes on in here, and yesterday was great for me and some of you did perk me up so thanks for that, but hypothetically, if I was your type and local to your area, what would I expect from a couple meet with you?

I've never done it (yet) and wondered where the 'other' guys fits in this scenario, what do you do to make them feel welcome/ comfortable, and what are your rules..?"

We meet guys in clubs and Mr plays with them .... I may or may not get involved by pushing someone's head on the other's cock or shoving their cock in ..... we don't do niceties

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

cahoots

Hypothetically our rules are bring your partner with you as sharing is caring

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Couples question, but others can assist..

I know lot's of flirting goes on in here, and yesterday was great for me and some of you did perk me up so thanks for that, but hypothetically, if I was your type and local to your area, what would I expect from a couple meet with you?

I've never done it (yet) and wondered where the 'other' guys fits in this scenario, what do you do to make them feel welcome/ comfortable, and what are your rules..?"

The once we've had a single guy join us it had to feel that even if we were both there for the Mrs that it wasn't just an easier way to get laid for a single fella looking for a lady to play with in reality.

Hence we picked someone who was from a couple we'd already spent time with and was allowed to play solo as well.

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By *arry247Couple
over a year ago

Wakefield

Before we arrange a meet with a single man we let them know what to expect.

With some meets B will play with both men in other meets Garry will be in the background and not take part in the action, it all depends on what the other man wants in those cases.

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By *ynecplCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

Currently we expect you to be part of a couple so there would be no one left out, but if we did have an extra male then we would do the same as we do when meeting couples, look to have a few drinks and get to know one another before deciding if we want to play. I am pretty sure having watched some training videos on pornhub that we know what to do in a mfm

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Good question. I always wonder this myself ... thus far we've only met couples but I do wonder how the single M or F feels in a couple scenario and whether there's ever any awkward moment of feeling like the 'odd one out'... it's a minefield!

LJ x

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By *norkster OP   Man
over a year ago

Darlington and beyond

All good feedback and all makes sense x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Turning up and not bottling it would be a good starting point. So many time wasters from on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For us the male has to realise that he is joining us to add to our sex life....our first mmf just wanted a mf shag. Fun for all but control has to come from me...the fem. as for being a spare wheel , it should be all 3 involved even if that involves watching from 1 person at some oint, so lots of discussion before hand between us all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We only meet single guys . Mr will usually leave us alone for five minutes so the single guy and I can have a kiss etc and calm his nerves if he has any then mr joins us . Then it's me playing with both of them and them both playing with me . No one is left out

Mrs

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By *edRidingWolfCouple
over a year ago

Lydney

So

Assuming we've socialled and all went well for planning a play meet.

You're straight so no bi play - always respect others limits.

I'd expect to be the one being spoiled with attention. Two men to kiss and caress, two men to fuck in various positions and ways until everyone is fully satisfied.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Before we arrange a meet with a single man we let them know what to expect.

With some meets B will play with both men in other meets Garry will be in the background and not take part in the action, it all depends on what the other man wants in those cases.

"

Exactly what I've found from most couples.

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By *x3anteexxCouple
over a year ago

NW Cheshire

Only happened once and he totally froze, couldn't perform very disappointing all round

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By *norkster OP   Man
over a year ago

Darlington and beyond

All sounds like good connection and control is key, it's good that it's a 3 way thing and not 2+1, hope I get the chance and hope I wouldn't freeze but don't think I would xx

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By *ire X IceCouple
over a year ago

coventry

We've had a couple of threesomes, and it's definitely a threesome with everyone involved not a 2+1. That's our point with all meets, same room everyone involved

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Couples question, but others can assist..

I know lot's of flirting goes on in here, and yesterday was great for me and some of you did perk me up so thanks for that, but hypothetically, if I was your type and local to your area, what would I expect from a couple meet with you?

I've never done it (yet) and wondered where the 'other' guys fits in this scenario, what do you do to make them feel welcome/ comfortable, and what are your rules..?"

For us, it depends on the scenario. Sometimes we look for a guy to play with Annie while I watch, sometimes it's for a threesome. We always make it very clear early in the messaging what we're looking for, so the guy can decide if it's good for him. No-one's declined, so far

If the couple you're talking with have not made it clear, you should ask.

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