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"9 guys offered to meet me this week. 8 of them listed as straight. "Only 8 ?  | |||
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"How many did you fuck?  "None of course! | |||
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"Yeah all those women that say they won't meet bi men...probably have." And are still blissfully unaware! | |||
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"Yeah all those women that say they won't meet bi men...probably have. And are still blissfully unaware!" Yep. | |||
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"Yeah all those women that say they won't meet bi men...probably have." Of course we will have. But if I know or find out then nope it doesnt happen. X Im not stupid enough to think that I haven't been deceived | |||
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"9 guys offered to meet me this week. 8 of them listed as straight. "They just need to look in the strap on thread  | |||
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"Yeah all those women that say they won't meet bi men...probably have."
I love looking at their veris and listing the guys I've had sex with or who've asked. | |||
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"We will ONLY meet bi guys. Doesn't stop every straight guy in the south it seems messaging. " I would like to point out that i am a bi-sexual man and I'm mostly not mental or weird..... mostly  . | |||
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"Yeah all those women that say they won't meet bi men...probably have.
I love looking at their veris and listing the guys I've had sex with or who've asked. "Hey Rachael, have you done anything about your hormone levels yet? | |||
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"We will ONLY meet bi guys. Doesn't stop every straight guy in the south it seems messaging. I would like to point out that i am a bi-sexual man and I'm mostly not mental or weird..... mostly ."Well you're clearly nuts because you haven't messaged us lol.  | |||
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"We will ONLY meet bi guys. Doesn't stop every straight guy in the south it seems messaging. I would like to point out that i am a bi-sexual man and I'm mostly not mental or weird..... mostly .
Well you're clearly nuts because you haven't messaged us lol. "Oh. I'm rubbish at making the first move. Just ask my wife! | |||
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"We will ONLY meet bi guys. Doesn't stop every straight guy in the south it seems messaging. I would like to point out that i am a bi-sexual man and I'm mostly not mental or weird..... mostly .
Well you're clearly nuts because you haven't messaged us lol.
Oh. I'm rubbish at making the first move. Just ask my wife! "Lol. How the hell does a shy bi get any action on here? | |||
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"We will ONLY meet bi guys. Doesn't stop every straight guy in the south it seems messaging. I would like to point out that i am a bi-sexual man and I'm mostly not mental or weird..... mostly .
Well you're clearly nuts because you haven't messaged us lol.
Oh. I'm rubbish at making the first move. Just ask my wife!
Lol. How the hell does a shy bi get any action on here?
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"I am getting bored of these threads moaning about women not wanting to meet bi men. FFS that is their absolute right, they should not have to explain it or justify it. Guys just accept that it is their preference. Deriding them for the fact they have been deceived is purile. When I see that they don't meet bi men on the profile I just that them for their candour and move on. It saves us both wasted time and effort. Rant over. " Who was moaning? I wasn't moaning! | |||
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"Despite what some people like to think, lots of women don't want bi men , simply because the thought turns them off. Some don't want to because they are blood donors. Some don't want to for their own, unknown reasons. Scoffing at that because they've been fooled or lied to doesn't prove anything or make anyone look good. I wish everybody of all sexualities well. It would be nice for everyone to respect the free choice of others." well said x | |||
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"Despite what some people like to think, lots of women don't want bi men , simply because the thought turns them off. Some don't want to because they are blood donors. Some don't want to for their own, unknown reasons. Scoffing at that because they've been fooled or lied to doesn't prove anything or make anyone look good. I wish everybody of all sexualities well. It would be nice for everyone to respect the free choice of others.well said x " Well said | |||
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" Wise words. I just the pity poor deluded lasses." Why do people keep knocking and deriding females who don't want to meet Bi men? Just go and fuck the ones who do want to meet Bi and stop telling females they are deluded for not wanting to meet Bi. It's called personal preference. It's Er....sex not a cup of tea. XXX | |||
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"Yeah all those women that say they won't meet bi men...probably have.
I love looking at their veris and listing the guys I've had sex with or who've asked.
Hey Rachael, have you done anything about your hormone levels yet? "Yes.  | |||
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"Yeah all those women that say they won't meet bi men...probably have.
I love looking at their veris and listing the guys I've had sex with or who've asked.
Hey Rachael, have you done anything about your hormone levels yet?
Yes. "Are you finding that you're laying a bit more chub down? | |||
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" Wise words. I just the pity poor deluded lasses. Why do people keep knocking and deriding females who don't want to meet Bi men? Just go and fuck the ones who do want to meet Bi and stop telling females they are deluded for not wanting to meet Bi. It's called personal preference. It's Er....sex not a cup of tea. XXX" Oh you silly thing! I'm saying they are deluded because they think that they are meeting straight men.... | |||
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"Yeah all those women that say they won't meet bi men...probably have.
I love looking at their veris and listing the guys I've had sex with or who've asked.
Hey Rachael, have you done anything about your hormone levels yet?
Yes.
Are you finding that you're laying a bit more chub down?"With the boobs comes the bum and tum  | |||
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"Yeah all those women that say they won't meet bi men...probably have.
I love looking at their veris and listing the guys I've had sex with or who've asked.
Hey Rachael, have you done anything about your hormone levels yet?
Yes.
Are you finding that you're laying a bit more chub down?
With the boobs comes the bum and tum "I suspected as much! | |||
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"Yeah all those women that say they won't meet bi men...probably have.
I love looking at their veris and listing the guys I've had sex with or who've asked.
Hey Rachael, have you done anything about your hormone levels yet?
Yes.
Are you finding that you're laying a bit more chub down?
With the boobs comes the bum and tum
I suspected as much! "Well my nipples hurt and they're budding nicely. I gained a few pounds but then ate less and moved more and got it back down. | |||
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"Yeah all those women that say they won't meet bi men...probably have.
I love looking at their veris and listing the guys I've had sex with or who've asked.
Hey Rachael, have you done anything about your hormone levels yet?
Yes.
Are you finding that you're laying a bit more chub down?
With the boobs comes the bum and tum
I suspected as much!
Well my nipples hurt and they're budding nicely. I gained a few pounds but then ate less and moved more and got it back down. "Shame. I think a bit more fat over muscle looks more fem, you know? Less maddona-ish! | |||
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"Yeah all those women that say they won't meet bi men...probably have.
I love looking at their veris and listing the guys I've had sex with or who've asked.
Hey Rachael, have you done anything about your hormone levels yet?
Yes.
Are you finding that you're laying a bit more chub down?
With the boobs comes the bum and tum
I suspected as much!
Well my nipples hurt and they're budding nicely. I gained a few pounds but then ate less and moved more and got it back down.
Shame. I think a bit more fat over muscle looks more fem, you know? Less maddona-ish!"Great news on the boobs obviously! | |||
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"9 guys offered to meet me this week. 8 of them listed as straight.
They just need to look in the strap on thread "what's that got to do with it? if I fuck a guy with mine, it's a heterosexual act... | |||
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" Wise words. I just the pity poor deluded lasses. Why do people keep knocking and deriding females who don't want to meet Bi men? Just go and fuck the ones who do want to meet Bi and stop telling females they are deluded for not wanting to meet Bi. It's called personal preference. It's Er....sex not a cup of tea. XXX" That's the whole point. With a cup of tea you can tell how many sugars or too much milk. The point is, you can't tell with me, so its a pointless preference | |||
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"I always think this at the clap clinic. 'Have you slept with a man that's slept with men' F*** knows love. And that's for all the real life vanilla's too. Not just fabbers" Funny thing is I sleep with a bi guy regularly, ie every night, plus we meet others ...never had any STI ....according to some on here, that would be a miracle. | |||
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"I always think this at the clap clinic. 'Have you slept with a man that's slept with men' F*** knows love. And that's for all the real life vanilla's too. Not just fabbers" I think that too . Sorry love I didn't give them a lie detector test before we got down to it | |||
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"Despite what some people like to think, lots of women don't want bi men , simply because the thought turns them off. Some don't want to because they are blood donors. Some don't want to for their own, unknown reasons. Scoffing at that because they've been fooled or lied to doesn't prove anything or make anyone look good. I wish everybody of all sexualities well. It would be nice for everyone to respect the free choice of others." Well put! | |||
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and seriously! These terms 'bi-curious' and 'hetero-flexible'... what's that really mean? You're bi still! Just make peace with it?! There are enough people on here who'll be into your brand! | |||
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"Yeah all those women that say they won't meet bi men...probably have.
I love looking at their veris and listing the guys I've had sex with or who've asked.
Hey Rachael, have you done anything about your hormone levels yet?
Yes.
Are you finding that you're laying a bit more chub down?
With the boobs comes the bum and tum
I suspected as much!
Well my nipples hurt and they're budding nicely. I gained a few pounds but then ate less and moved more and got it back down.
Shame. I think a bit more fat over muscle looks more fem, you know? Less maddona-ish!"While I do agree I just can't abide having a belly. That's where it always starts and I like my tummy flat. | |||
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"yeah it happens a bit, getting messages off guys listed as straight looking to fuck or be fucked etc...met guys at group meets before now who's profile lists straight but had no problem sucking dick and getting a little jizzy, if anything they've been quite eager!...oddly they didn't want verifying by a bloke. odd that. wonder why? " Possibly because they may not get meets with women or couples?! | |||
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"yeah it happens a bit, getting messages off guys listed as straight looking to fuck or be fucked etc...met guys at group meets before now who's profile lists straight but had no problem sucking dick and getting a little jizzy, if anything they've been quite eager!...oddly they didn't want verifying by a bloke. odd that. wonder why? Possibly because they may not get meets with women or couples?!" Personally I don't think the majority of women or couples wont meet bi men, after all, if loads of men are hiding this, surely the 'loads of men' include those in couples too. We get loads of messages from seemingly straight men who then admit they are bi, but we block them immediately as we don't meet men who can't be honest about being bi. We also aren't interested in men who aren't fully bi .... | |||
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"Radical suggestion but is it really anyone's business what you might have done sexually in the past as long as you keep to agreed boundaries when you meet? As for the safety aspect, only a lunatic would believe anything they were told by a casual sex partner. Assume every man you meet might have had sex with another man at some point and proceed accordingly. " | |||
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"I always think this at the clap clinic. 'Have you slept with a man that's slept with men' F*** knows love. And that's for all the real life vanilla's too. Not just fabbers" | |||
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"9 guys offered to meet me this week. 8 of them listed as straight. "It happens a lot. | |||
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"9 guys offered to meet me this week. 8 of them listed as straight.
It happens a lot. "Weekly! | |||
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"9 guys offered to meet me this week. 8 of them listed as straight.
It happens a lot.
Weekly! "Show off | |||
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"9 guys offered to meet me this week. 8 of them listed as straight.
It happens a lot.
Weekly!
Show off "It wouldn't be so bad if they weren't married! | |||
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"9 guys offered to meet me this week. 8 of them listed as straight.
It happens a lot.
Weekly!
Show off
It wouldn't be so bad if they weren't married! "I think it's widely rumoured that married bi men are safer for bareback sex Clem ..... just saying | |||
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"9 guys offered to meet me this week. 8 of them listed as straight.
It happens a lot.
Weekly!
Show off
It wouldn't be so bad if they weren't married!
I think it's widely rumoured that married bi men are safer for bareback sex Clem ..... just saying "Married straight men are the safest! | |||
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"Married straight men are the safest! " What if their wife is having an affair with a guy who is secretly bi? | |||
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"Yeah all those women that say they won't meet bi men...probably have." haha I know they have because you can tell from the veri's so more fool them. | |||
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"Married straight men are the safest! What if their wife is having an affair with a guy who is secretly bi?" Most of the time she probably is! | |||
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" Wise words. I just the pity poor deluded lasses. Why do people keep knocking and deriding females who don't want to meet Bi men? Just go and fuck the ones who do want to meet Bi and stop telling females they are deluded for not wanting to meet Bi. It's called personal preference. It's Er....sex not a cup of tea. XXX Oh you silly thing! I'm saying they are deluded because they think that they are meeting straight men...." More deceived than deluded, that's just not right. | |||
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" Wise words. I just the pity poor deluded lasses. Why do people keep knocking and deriding females who don't want to meet Bi men? Just go and fuck the ones who do want to meet Bi and stop telling females they are deluded for not wanting to meet Bi. It's called personal preference. It's Er....sex not a cup of tea. XXX Oh you silly thing! I'm saying they are deluded because they think that they are meeting straight men.... More deceived than deluded, that's just not right. "We only meet single guys if they are bi and we have had 100s of messages in last few days from ppl who are saying they are straight in profile but bi in messages and the reason they give for not putting that they are bi ix they won't get as many meets off straight women and couples..unless it say bi we won't meet them | |||
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" Wise words. I just the pity poor deluded lasses. Why do people keep knocking and deriding females who don't want to meet Bi men? Just go and fuck the ones who do want to meet Bi and stop telling females they are deluded for not wanting to meet Bi. It's called personal preference. It's Er....sex not a cup of tea. XXX Oh you silly thing! I'm saying they are deluded because they think that they are meeting straight men.... More deceived than deluded, that's just not right.
We only meet single guys if they are bi and we have had 100s of messages in last few days from ppl who are saying they are straight in profile but bi in messages and the reason they give for not putting that they are bi ix they won't get as many meets off straight women and couples..unless it say bi we won't meet them "I get why but it appalls me that anyone would deceive their way into my bed, I find that repugnant. If I meet bi men, which I have, I should be allowed to choose to.  | |||
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"Yeah all those women that say they won't meet bi men...probably have. Of course we will have. But if I know or find out then nope it doesnt happen. X Im not stupid enough to think that I haven't been deceived " This. | |||
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" I get why but it appalls me that anyone would deceive their way into my bed, I find that repugnant. If I meet bi men, which I have, I should be allowed to choose to. "It's wrong to lie but when ppl meet in swingers clubs or even in a pub or whatever in a normal life style u don't normally know about there sexual history unless they tell u everything..only different here us they are putting the Lie on display x | |||
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" I get why but it appalls me that anyone would deceive their way into my bed, I find that repugnant. If I meet bi men, which I have, I should be allowed to choose to.
It's wrong to lie but when ppl meet in swingers clubs or even in a pub or whatever in a normal life style u don't normally know about there sexual history unless they tell u everything..only different here us they are putting the Lie on display x"Exactly - it is a deliberate act of deception, that's what I don't like. | |||
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" I get why but it appalls me that anyone would deceive their way into my bed, I find that repugnant. If I meet bi men, which I have, I should be allowed to choose to.
It's wrong to lie but when ppl meet in swingers clubs or even in a pub or whatever in a normal life style u don't normally know about there sexual history unless they tell u everything..only different here us they are putting the Lie on display x
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" I get why but it appalls me that anyone would deceive their way into my bed, I find that repugnant. If I meet bi men, which I have, I should be allowed to choose to.
It's wrong to lie but when ppl meet in swingers clubs or even in a pub or whatever in a normal life style u don't normally know about there sexual history unless they tell u everything..only different here us they are putting the Lie on display x
Exactly - it is a deliberate act of deception, that's what I don't like. "I know same here that's why we wont meet em lol | |||
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" I get why but it appalls me that anyone would deceive their way into my bed, I find that repugnant. If I meet bi men, which I have, I should be allowed to choose to.
It's wrong to lie but when ppl meet in swingers clubs or even in a pub or whatever in a normal life style u don't normally know about there sexual history unless they tell u everything..only different here us they are putting the Lie on display x
Exactly - it is a deliberate act of deception, that's what I don't like. "Terrible isn't?! Next people will be saying they're single when they're married! Heavens! Ladies and gentlemen, welcome to the internet. | |||
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" I get why but it appalls me that anyone would deceive their way into my bed, I find that repugnant. If I meet bi men, which I have, I should be allowed to choose to.
It's wrong to lie but when ppl meet in swingers clubs or even in a pub or whatever in a normal life style u don't normally know about there sexual history unless they tell u everything..only different here us they are putting the Lie on display x
Exactly - it is a deliberate act of deception, that's what I don't like.
Terrible isn't?! Next people will be saying they're single when they're married! Heavens!
Ladies and gentlemen, welcome to the internet."Deception may be rife but that does not make it one jot more acceptable, let alone amusing. | |||
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"Im not amused at how naive people are. " Maybe they are more honest than naive. | |||
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"Im not amused at how naive people are. Maybe they are more honest than naive." If they expect people to be as honest as they are then.... nope. | |||
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" I get why but it appalls me that anyone would deceive their way into my bed, I find that repugnant. If I meet bi men, which I have, I should be allowed to choose to.
It's wrong to lie but when ppl meet in swingers clubs or even in a pub or whatever in a normal life style u don't normally know about there sexual history unless they tell u everything..only different here us they are putting the Lie on display x
Exactly - it is a deliberate act of deception, that's what I don't like.
Terrible isn't?! Next people will be saying they're single when they're married! Heavens!
Ladies and gentlemen, welcome to the internet.
Deception may be rife but that does not make it one jot more acceptable, let alone amusing. " | |||
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"There's no difference between a straight guy and a bi guy other than. A bi guy is more likely to be less of a dick! Less likely to be nasogastric, less egotistical. Other than that, there's no difference. To base someone's desirability on wether they've slept with someone of the same sex before you is irrational and reeks of homophobia. Just for reference, you're just as likely to catch something from a heterosexual as you are a bi or gay man. Sexual health is up to the individual. You're not more or less at risk because of your sexuality. ffs this threads like something from the 70s" Well...some mothers do 'ave 'em! | |||
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"Sounds like a whole something about nothing if you ask me" You may think that.... But we had a thread similar to this before...obviously there were women who didn't want to meet bi guys. It was just their preference.. then their were the white people who wouldn't meet black or Asian people..it was just their preference to.. But then came the white people who wouldn't meet other white people who'd met black or Asian people... it's just their preference?... hmmmmmmm I'm not so sure! | |||
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"Im not amused at how naive people are. Maybe they are more honest than naive. If they expect people to be as honest as they are then.... nope. " A functional society is based on the premise that normal, decent people are basically honest, and those are definitely the people I seek to associate with. Parts of the internet may be very dysfunctional, of course, and sometimes it is quite hard to out people deliberately trying to deceive others on one score or another, and there repeatedly be a violation of expectation - you see it every day on the forums. Discernment is needed. But the alternative optimism is paranoid cynicism, and I for one hope I never end up there. | |||
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"Im not amused at how naive people are. Maybe they are more honest than naive. If they expect people to be as honest as they are then.... nope. A functional society is based on the premise that normal, decent people are basically honest, and those are definitely the people I seek to associate with. Parts of the internet may be very dysfunctional, of course, and sometimes it is quite hard to out people deliberately trying to deceive others on one score or another, and there repeatedly be a violation of expectation - you see it every day on the forums. Discernment is needed. But the alternative optimism is paranoid cynicism, and I for one hope I never end up there. " Indeed. Well it's a shame you seem to be so critical of my own honesty. Would it help if I told you that all those straight men really are straight? That there are no married men pretending to be single? Or that you should believe everything you read on the internet? Does that help you? | |||
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"Im not amused at how naive people are. Maybe they are more honest than naive. If they expect people to be as honest as they are then.... nope. A functional society is based on the premise that normal, decent people are basically honest, and those are definitely the people I seek to associate with. Parts of the internet may be very dysfunctional, of course, and sometimes it is quite hard to out people deliberately trying to deceive others on one score or another, and there repeatedly be a violation of expectation - you see it every day on the forums. Discernment is needed. But the alternative optimism is paranoid cynicism, and I for one hope I never end up there. Indeed. Well it's a shame you seem to be so critical of my own honesty. Would it help if I told you that all those straight men really are straight? That there are no married men pretending to be single? Or that you should believe everything you read on the internet? Does that help you? " I did not criticise your honesty. I took issue with what I perceived to be your blaming and mocking 'the deluded for their naivity' rather than accept the guilt of those that sought to deceive them. | |||
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"Im not amused at how naive people are. Maybe they are more honest than naive. If they expect people to be as honest as they are then.... nope. A functional society is based on the premise that normal, decent people are basically honest, and those are definitely the people I seek to associate with. Parts of the internet may be very dysfunctional, of course, and sometimes it is quite hard to out people deliberately trying to deceive others on one score or another, and there repeatedly be a violation of expectation - you see it every day on the forums. Discernment is needed. But the alternative optimism is paranoid cynicism, and I for one hope I never end up there. Indeed. Well it's a shame you seem to be so critical of my own honesty. Would it help if I told you that all those straight men really are straight? That there are no married men pretending to be single? Or that you should believe everything you read on the internet? Does that help you? I did not criticise your honesty. I took issue with what I perceived to be your blaming and mocking 'the deluded for their naivity' rather than accept the guilt of those that sought to deceive them." I see.. i shall endeavour to accept their guilt. | |||
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"Im not amused at how naive people are. Maybe they are more honest than naive. If they expect people to be as honest as they are then.... nope. A functional society is based on the premise that normal, decent people are basically honest, and those are definitely the people I seek to associate with. Parts of the internet may be very dysfunctional, of course, and sometimes it is quite hard to out people deliberately trying to deceive others on one score or another, and there repeatedly be a violation of expectation - you see it every day on the forums. Discernment is needed. But the alternative optimism is paranoid cynicism, and I for one hope I never end up there. Indeed. Well it's a shame you seem to be so critical of my own honesty. Would it help if I told you that all those straight men really are straight? That there are no married men pretending to be single? Or that you should believe everything you read on the internet? Does that help you? I did not criticise your honesty. I took issue with what I perceived to be your blaming and mocking 'the deluded for their naivity' rather than accept the guilt of those that sought to deceive them. I see.. i shall endeavour to accept their guilt. " Yeah, whatever, lets leave it. | |||
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"Despite what some people like to think, lots of women don't want bi men , simply because the thought turns them off. Some don't want to because they are blood donors. Some don't want to for their own, unknown reasons. Scoffing at that because they've been fooled or lied to doesn't prove anything or make anyone look good. I wish everybody of all sexualities well. It would be nice for everyone to respect the free choice of others." | |||
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" I get why but it appalls me that anyone would deceive their way into my bed, I find that repugnant. If I meet bi men, which I have, I should be allowed to choose to.
It's wrong to lie but when ppl meet in swingers clubs or even in a pub or whatever in a normal life style u don't normally know about there sexual history unless they tell u everything..only different here us they are putting the Lie on display x
Exactly - it is a deliberate act of deception, that's what I don't like.
Terrible isn't?! Next people will be saying they're single when they're married! Heavens!
Ladies and gentlemen, welcome to the internet.
Deception may be rife but that does not make it one jot more acceptable, let alone amusing. "It is a tiny bit amusing. And before you all jump on me and ask how I'd feel in your place, I have been lied to by a woman on here who's deception dropped me into all sorts of crap and I forgave her and we moved on with our lives. | |||
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"I think deception is a strong word in this case. Sexuality is a spectrum the vast majority of people are neither 100% heterosexual or gay, they are somewhere between. That does not mean they should be labeled as bisexual. This may sound terribly pretentious, but I do not identify as any of the options given for sexuality, the closest one for me is straight, because on that spectrum I would say I'm 95% to that side. Someone who is bisexual is attracted to both men and women. I am not attracted to men, however, nor am I repulsed by them sexually. In the right circumstances such as a threesome I enjoy sexual contact with men. In fact, without that freedom I have found threesomes awkward and unsatisfying. I would not meet men on their own, I would not have full sex with a man. I am not being deceptive by choosing 'straight' out of the four options, I just feel that it is the closest fit to my sexuality. There may be men on here who are genuinely attracted to and have sex with both men and women who choose 'straight' because they are concerned about putting off some women. Whilst I agree that is wrong to some extent, ultimately the sexuality option is a personal choice about the sex of partners you are looking to meet, not a sexual history check. I'd also imagine there are men on here who may not be attracted to men but feel sex with a man is better than no sex. That does not necessarily make them 'bisexual'." yes I feel a little enlightened by this post | |||
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 lol, as long as they're fun, respectful and can perform who cares x | |||
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"Guys lying to get a fuck lol, as long as they're fun, respectful and can perform who cares x" | |||
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"Sounds like a whole something about nothing if you ask me You may think that.... But we had a thread similar to this before...obviously there were women who didn't want to meet bi guys. It was just their preference.. then their were the white people who wouldn't meet black or Asian people..it was just their preference to.. But then came the white people who wouldn't meet other white people who'd met black or Asian people... it's just their preference?... hmmmmmmm I'm not so sure! " And there are people who won't meet a woman who has met bi or black men. | |||
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"Prefer bi folk. No interest in men who proclaim to be bi yet stay in the hutch on their profiles. Or women who say 'will not meet bi men' yet are bi themselves. Hypocrite much. Fuck them. Or not. " I dont get how its being hypocritical. I find bi guys not sexually attractive.. as I do sub guys. Sexual attraction starts in the mind and that switch is in the off position if the gent likes to indulge with other guys. Doesn't mean i wont talk to them or be friends.. just that I dont want to fuck them. I dont find watching two women together sexy either. Id have hetro-flexible or bi playful if I could as i have no interest in women outside of a group situation. | |||
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"Prefer bi folk. No interest in men who proclaim to be bi yet stay in the hutch on their profiles. Or women who say 'will not meet bi men' yet are bi themselves. Hypocrite much. Fuck them. Or not. I dont get how its being hypocritical. I find bi guys not sexually attractive.. as I do sub guys. Sexual attraction starts in the mind and that switch is in the off position if the gent likes to indulge with other guys. Doesn't mean i wont talk to them or be friends.. just that I dont want to fuck them. I dont find watching two women together sexy either. Id have hetro-flexible or bi playful if I could as i have no interest in women outside of a group situation." put a bi guy and a straight guy together. Neither of them revealing anything about themselves. Now, what's the difference? Exactly. None. Being bi doesn't make you less manly. I do security at my venue. Ask the last dick head that wanted to start a fight if he thought I was anything less than manly! Though I do preference my sweeter side. Just saying that there's no physical difference betwixt am straight or gay man. If the act of 2 guys having any physical/sexual contact turns you off. That my dear is homaphobia. You should try to address it. If you don't want to be homaphobic | |||
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"Prefer bi folk. No interest in men who proclaim to be bi yet stay in the hutch on their profiles. Or women who say 'will not meet bi men' yet are bi themselves. Hypocrite much. Fuck them. Or not. I dont get how its being hypocritical. I find bi guys not sexually attractive.. as I do sub guys. Sexual attraction starts in the mind and that switch is in the off position if the gent likes to indulge with other guys. Doesn't mean i wont talk to them or be friends.. just that I dont want to fuck them. I dont find watching two women together sexy either. Id have hetro-flexible or bi playful if I could as i have no interest in women outside of a group situation. put a bi guy and a straight guy together. Neither of them revealing anything about themselves. Now, what's the difference? Exactly. None. Being bi doesn't make you less manly. I do security at my venue. Ask the last dick head that wanted to start a fight if he thought I was anything less than manly! Though I do preference my sweeter side. Just saying that there's no physical difference betwixt am straight or gay man. If the act of 2 guys having any physical/sexual contact turns you off. That my dear is homaphobia. You should try to address it. If you don't want to be homaphobic" It does make you less manly as your doing something feminine ( taking cock ). And I'm no way a homophobe btw | |||
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"Prefer bi folk. No interest in men who proclaim to be bi yet stay in the hutch on their profiles. Or women who say 'will not meet bi men' yet are bi themselves. Hypocrite much. Fuck them. Or not. I dont get how its being hypocritical. I find bi guys not sexually attractive.. as I do sub guys. Sexual attraction starts in the mind and that switch is in the off position if the gent likes to indulge with other guys. Doesn't mean i wont talk to them or be friends.. just that I dont want to fuck them. I dont find watching two women together sexy either. Id have hetro-flexible or bi playful if I could as i have no interest in women outside of a group situation. put a bi guy and a straight guy together. Neither of them revealing anything about themselves. Now, what's the difference? Exactly. None. Being bi doesn't make you less manly. I do security at my venue. Ask the last dick head that wanted to start a fight if he thought I was anything less than manly! Though I do preference my sweeter side. Just saying that there's no physical difference betwixt am straight or gay man. If the act of 2 guys having any physical/sexual contact turns you off. That my dear is homaphobia. You should try to address it. If you don't want to be homaphobic" I don't agree that because you find 2 guys bi/homosexual guys together a turn off it means your Homophobic ? It just means its not your thing | |||
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"Prefer bi folk. No interest in men who proclaim to be bi yet stay in the hutch on their profiles. Or women who say 'will not meet bi men' yet are bi themselves. Hypocrite much. Fuck them. Or not. I dont get how its being hypocritical. I find bi guys not sexually attractive.. as I do sub guys. Sexual attraction starts in the mind and that switch is in the off position if the gent likes to indulge with other guys. Doesn't mean i wont talk to them or be friends.. just that I dont want to fuck them. I dont find watching two women together sexy either. Id have hetro-flexible or bi playful if I could as i have no interest in women outside of a group situation." I don't find 2 women together sexy!? Yet there you are Cali. In your pics with women. That is hypocrisy at work | |||
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"Im not quoting all that... however i haven't had any sexual contact with a man for about 2 years. In fact he was a she as he was one, legally speaking. However. I feel i ought to identify as bisexual. Even if I'm rubbish at it. " You just need to practice more | |||
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"Prefer bi folk. No interest in men who proclaim to be bi yet stay in the hutch on their profiles. Or women who say 'will not meet bi men' yet are bi themselves. Hypocrite much. Fuck them. Or not. I dont get how its being hypocritical. I find bi guys not sexually attractive.. as I do sub guys. Sexual attraction starts in the mind and that switch is in the off position if the gent likes to indulge with other guys. Doesn't mean i wont talk to them or be friends.. just that I dont want to fuck them. I dont find watching two women together sexy either. Id have hetro-flexible or bi playful if I could as i have no interest in women outside of a group situation. put a bi guy and a straight guy together. Neither of them revealing anything about themselves. Now, what's the difference? Exactly. None. Being bi doesn't make you less manly. I do security at my venue. Ask the last dick head that wanted to start a fight if he thought I was anything less than manly! Though I do preference my sweeter side. Just saying that there's no physical difference betwixt am straight or gay man. If the act of 2 guys having any physical/sexual contact turns you off. That my dear is homaphobia. You should try to address it. If you don't want to be homaphobic" nope its called preference and yes if I dont know I may well find him to my liking but once I know..then nope. a phobia is nothing to do with a turn on or off. I could do a big in depth discription of when something becomes phobic but its not worth it on here. But in simple terms once I know a guys sexual preferences dont match what I am looking for then I am turned off and un interested..." if" I was disgusted or go ewwwww gross a bi man touched me.. that would be a phobia rather than a preference. | |||
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"Prefer bi folk. No interest in men who proclaim to be bi yet stay in the hutch on their profiles. Or women who say 'will not meet bi men' yet are bi themselves. Hypocrite much. Fuck them. Or not. I dont get how its being hypocritical. I find bi guys not sexually attractive.. as I do sub guys. Sexual attraction starts in the mind and that switch is in the off position if the gent likes to indulge with other guys. Doesn't mean i wont talk to them or be friends.. just that I dont want to fuck them. I dont find watching two women together sexy either. Id have hetro-flexible or bi playful if I could as i have no interest in women outside of a group situation. I don't find 2 women together sexy!? Yet there you are Cali. In your pics with women. That is hypocrisy at work""to watch.".was the key word therr. I dont enjoy watching anal either. Yet enjoy it myself. | |||
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"Prefer bi folk. No interest in men who proclaim to be bi yet stay in the hutch on their profiles. Or women who say 'will not meet bi men' yet are bi themselves. Hypocrite much. Fuck them. Or not. I dont get how its being hypocritical. I find bi guys not sexually attractive.. as I do sub guys. Sexual attraction starts in the mind and that switch is in the off position if the gent likes to indulge with other guys. Doesn't mean i wont talk to them or be friends.. just that I dont want to fuck them. I dont find watching two women together sexy either. Id have hetro-flexible or bi playful if I could as i have no interest in women outside of a group situation. I don't find 2 women together sexy!? Yet there you are Cali. In your pics with women. That is hypocrisy at work "to watch.".was the key word therr. I dont enjoy watching anal either. Yet enjoy it myself. "Lol admit defeat | |||
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"I meet bi men "Sadly, I'd need to find a box...only 5'6"... | |||
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"Prefer bi folk. No interest in men who proclaim to be bi yet stay in the hutch on their profiles. Or women who say 'will not meet bi men' yet are bi themselves. Hypocrite much. Fuck them. Or not. I dont get how its being hypocritical. I find bi guys not sexually attractive.. as I do sub guys. Sexual attraction starts in the mind and that switch is in the off position if the gent likes to indulge with other guys. Doesn't mean i wont talk to them or be friends.. just that I dont want to fuck them. I dont find watching two women together sexy either. Id have hetro-flexible or bi playful if I could as i have no interest in women outside of a group situation. I don't find 2 women together sexy!? Yet there you are Cali. In your pics with women. That is hypocrisy at work "to watch.".was the key word therr. I dont enjoy watching anal either. Yet enjoy it myself.
Lol admit defeat"oh been on fab long enough to know that for some its just there right to be offended by all. Im true to myself and my partner and if my views dont match someone elses thats fine. As long as no one tries to force their views on others as what is right for one person is off the reservation for someone else. But just because i enjoy doing something I dont find sexy to watch isnt hypocritical.. if i said i disliked then yeah. But i love racing cars.. but dont enjoy watching them race. And I find motorcycle racing exciting but no way would I do it x | |||
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"Prefer bi folk. No interest in men who proclaim to be bi yet stay in the hutch on their profiles. Or women who say 'will not meet bi men' yet are bi themselves. Hypocrite much. Fuck them. Or not. I dont get how its being hypocritical. I find bi guys not sexually attractive.. as I do sub guys. Sexual attraction starts in the mind and that switch is in the off position if the gent likes to indulge with other guys. Doesn't mean i wont talk to them or be friends.. just that I dont want to fuck them. I dont find watching two women together sexy either. Id have hetro-flexible or bi playful if I could as i have no interest in women outside of a group situation. I don't find 2 women together sexy!? Yet there you are Cali. In your pics with women. That is hypocrisy at work "to watch.".was the key word therr. I dont enjoy watching anal either. Yet enjoy it myself.
Lol admit defeat oh been on fab long enough to know that for some its just there right to be offended by all. Im true to myself and my partner and if my views dont match someone elses thats fine. As long as no one tries to force their views on others as what is right for one person is off the reservation for someone else.
But just because i enjoy doing something I dont find sexy to watch isnt hypocritical.. if i said i disliked then yeah. But i love racing cars.. but dont enjoy watching them race. And I find motorcycle racing exciting but no way would I do it x " | |||
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"Prefer bi folk. No interest in men who proclaim to be bi yet stay in the hutch on their profiles. Or women who say 'will not meet bi men' yet are bi themselves. Hypocrite much. Fuck them. Or not. I dont get how its being hypocritical. I find bi guys not sexually attractive.. as I do sub guys. Sexual attraction starts in the mind and that switch is in the off position if the gent likes to indulge with other guys. Doesn't mean i wont talk to them or be friends.. just that I dont want to fuck them. I dont find watching two women together sexy either. Id have hetro-flexible or bi playful if I could as i have no interest in women outside of a group situation. put a bi guy and a straight guy together. Neither of them revealing anything about themselves. Now, what's the difference? Exactly. None. Being bi doesn't make you less manly. I do security at my venue. Ask the last dick head that wanted to start a fight if he thought I was anything less than manly! Though I do preference my sweeter side. Just saying that there's no physical difference betwixt am straight or gay man. If the act of 2 guys having any physical/sexual contact turns you off. That my dear is homaphobia. You should try to address it. If you don't want to be homaphobic I don't agree that because you find 2 guys bi/homosexual guys together a turn off it means your Homophobic ? It just means its not your thing "
I do wonder why some people start throwing the 'homophobia' tag around. Maybe to try and shame the people into meeting bi men for fear of being called homophobic??!
Aww bless 'em.
I'm happy for anyone to call me any names they like. Racist. Homophobic. Sexist. Ageist. Heightist. I still won't be fucking anyone I'm not attracted to!! | |||
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"9 guys offered to meet me this week. 8 of them listed as straight. "What was the 9th listed as? Straight-curious? | |||
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"I used to have a gay friend on here ... me and him would often be messaged by the same 'straight' men Some of them I had actually met Makes no difference to me straight or bi but a shame men feel they can admit to it even if they are just Bi-curious ? Us girls don't need to worry we we class ourselves as "Scarlett your looking like a tasty pink macaroon wow | |||
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Scarlett your looking like a tasty pink macaroon wow"Haha I love that ! | |||
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"Oddly enough a profile ago I was on the guys version of this site and was amazed at the number who were on there and then listed on here as straight!"
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"Prefer bi folk. No interest in men who proclaim to be bi yet stay in the hutch on their profiles. Or women who say 'will not meet bi men' yet are bi themselves. Hypocrite much. Fuck them. Or not. I dont get how its being hypocritical. I find bi guys not sexually attractive.. as I do sub guys. Sexual attraction starts in the mind and that switch is in the off position if the gent likes to indulge with other guys. Doesn't mean i wont talk to them or be friends.. just that I dont want to fuck them. I dont find watching two women together sexy either. Id have hetro-flexible or bi playful if I could as i have no interest in women outside of a group situation. put a bi guy and a straight guy together. Neither of them revealing anything about themselves. Now, what's the difference? Exactly. None. Being bi doesn't make you less manly. I do security at my venue. Ask the last dick head that wanted to start a fight if he thought I was anything less than manly! Though I do preference my sweeter side. Just saying that there's no physical difference betwixt am straight or gay man. If the act of 2 guys having any physical/sexual contact turns you off. That my dear is homaphobia. You should try to address it. If you don't want to be homaphobic I don't agree that because you find 2 guys bi/homosexual guys together a turn off it means your Homophobic ? It just means its not your thing
I do wonder why some people start throwing the 'homophobia' tag around. Maybe to try and shame the people into meeting bi men for fear of being called homophobic??!
Aww bless 'em.
I'm happy for anyone to call me any names they like. Racist. Homophobic. Sexist. Ageist. Heightist. I still won't be fucking anyone I'm not attracted to!! "
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"Prefer bi folk. No interest in men who proclaim to be bi yet stay in the hutch on their profiles. Or women who say 'will not meet bi men' yet are bi themselves. Hypocrite much. Fuck them. Or not. I dont get how its being hypocritical. I find bi guys not sexually attractive.. as I do sub guys. Sexual attraction starts in the mind and that switch is in the off position if the gent likes to indulge with other guys. Doesn't mean i wont talk to them or be friends.. just that I dont want to fuck them. I dont find watching two women together sexy either. Id have hetro-flexible or bi playful if I could as i have no interest in women outside of a group situation. put a bi guy and a straight guy together. Neither of them revealing anything about themselves. Now, what's the difference? Exactly. None. Being bi doesn't make you less manly. I do security at my venue. Ask the last dick head that wanted to start a fight if he thought I was anything less than manly! Though I do preference my sweeter side. Just saying that there's no physical difference betwixt am straight or gay man. If the act of 2 guys having any physical/sexual contact turns you off. That my dear is homaphobia. You should try to address it. If you don't want to be homaphobic I don't agree that because you find 2 guys bi/homosexual guys together a turn off it means your Homophobic ? It just means its not your thing
I do wonder why some people start throwing the 'homophobia' tag around. Maybe to try and shame the people into meeting bi men for fear of being called homophobic??!
Aww bless 'em.
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"Radical suggestion but is it really anyone's business what you might have done sexually in the past as long as you keep to agreed boundaries when you meet? As for the safety aspect, only a lunatic would believe anything they were told by a casual sex partner. Assume every man you meet might have had sex with another man at some point and proceed accordingly. " That's just bloody insulting! | |||
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"Prefer bi folk. No interest in men who proclaim to be bi yet stay in the hutch on their profiles. Or women who say 'will not meet bi men' yet are bi themselves. Hypocrite much. Fuck them. Or not. " How is that hypocritical? They're bi because they play with women and straight men. Is it because they play with straight men or because they have a preference for straight men and not for bi men? If it's the later it's a preference. ..just like I won't meet certain demographic groups....but that's not being hypocritical. Your close to implying that by having bi/gay friends to socialise with but not play with is being hypocritical. | |||
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"Radical suggestion but is it really anyone's business what you might have done sexually in the past as long as you keep to agreed boundaries when you meet? As for the safety aspect, only a lunatic would believe anything they were told by a casual sex partner. Assume every man you meet might have had sex with another man at some point and proceed accordingly. That's just bloody insulting! " says more about the poster though if that really how they view others. | |||
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"Prefer bi folk. No interest in men who proclaim to be bi yet stay in the hutch on their profiles. Or women who say 'will not meet bi men' yet are bi themselves. Hypocrite much. Fuck them. Or not. I dont get how its being hypocritical. I find bi guys not sexually attractive.. as I do sub guys. Sexual attraction starts in the mind and that switch is in the off position if the gent likes to indulge with other guys. Doesn't mean i wont talk to them or be friends.. just that I dont want to fuck them. I dont find watching two women together sexy either. Id have hetro-flexible or bi playful if I could as i have no interest in women outside of a group situation. put a bi guy and a straight guy together. Neither of them revealing anything about themselves. Now, what's the difference? Exactly. None. Being bi doesn't make you less manly. I do security at my venue. Ask the last dick head that wanted to start a fight if he thought I was anything less than manly! Though I do preference my sweeter side. Just saying that there's no physical difference betwixt am straight or gay man. If the act of 2 guys having any physical/sexual contact turns you off. That my dear is homaphobia. You should try to address it. If you don't want to be homaphobic It does make you less manly as your doing something feminine ( taking cock ). And I'm no way a homophobe btw" you clearly are homophobic when you cannot differentiate between sexuality and masculinity/femininity | |||
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"Prefer bi folk. No interest in men who proclaim to be bi yet stay in the hutch on their profiles. Or women who say 'will not meet bi men' yet are bi themselves. Hypocrite much. Fuck them. Or not. I dont get how its being hypocritical. I find bi guys not sexually attractive.. as I do sub guys. Sexual attraction starts in the mind and that switch is in the off position if the gent likes to indulge with other guys. Doesn't mean i wont talk to them or be friends.. just that I dont want to fuck them. I dont find watching two women together sexy either. Id have hetro-flexible or bi playful if I could as i have no interest in women outside of a group situation. put a bi guy and a straight guy together. Neither of them revealing anything about themselves. Now, what's the difference? Exactly. None. Being bi doesn't make you less manly. I do security at my venue. Ask the last dick head that wanted to start a fight if he thought I was anything less than manly! Though I do preference my sweeter side. Just saying that there's no physical difference betwixt am straight or gay man. If the act of 2 guys having any physical/sexual contact turns you off. That my dear is homaphobia. You should try to address it. If you don't want to be homaphobic It does make you less manly as your doing something feminine ( taking cock ). And I'm no way a homophobe btwyou clearly are homophobic when you cannot differentiate between sexuality and masculinity/femininity" Taking a cock or not is nothing to do with being feminine or not. That's the craziest thing I have heard .... | |||
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