FabSwingers.com forum: Question for straight men

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I'm straight (that's proper straight, not fab-flexible straight) but I did suck a cock once, solely because my wife thought it would be horny and I wanted to please her.

My question to straight men is: if the woman you love really wanted to see you suck a cock, would you do it?

Charlie

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By *iscean MaleMan
over a year ago

Darlaston

It would go against the grain for.. but on the other hand.. if she loved me would she put me in that situation... a bit like me wanting to go with a woman and she was straight.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No is the answer to that. Most definitely not. And "I'm straight but did suck a cock once" isn't really straight. Not in my opinion anyway.

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By *awtymarkyMan
over a year ago

chester

Sorry to say nope not for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm straight (that's proper straight, not fab-flexible straight) but I did suck a cock once, solely because my wife thought it would be horny and I wanted to please her.

My question to straight men is: if the woman you love really wanted to see you suck a cock, would you do it?

No, that has no interest for me, and if the wife pushed for it it would a lack of respect for my wishes and we would be stopping meeting straight away

Charlie"

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

I wouldn't ask a partner to do that if they were straight,I'm not sure I would enjoy seeing it either if he was just doing it for me. I want them to enjoy doing it. I'm not sure if I could go down on a women if my life depended on it least of all for a guy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No. Just as I wouldn't ask a straight partner to play with a woman. Enjoyment should be mutual.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A stern look followed by a hell no

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thanks for your thoughts.

For me there was never any question of it being against my will, and my wife would never ask me to do anything that was, anymore than I would her. It was simply a moment in time that I did something I knew would turn her on. Did I enjoy it? Well, I can't say I derived any real pleasure from the act itself, it was neither good not bad, but I got a big thrill from her pleasure. Afterwards we both felt we'd ticked the box and probably wouldn't go there again.

As for the comment implying I must be bi, that's just plain wrong. A person's sexuality is not defined by a single act, but by their enduring desires. I've never desired sex with a man and doubt I ever will.

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By *unandbuckCouple
over a year ago

Sheffield

She wouldn't ask and I wouldn't do it.

You know Meatloaf sung a song about it don't you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I couldn't bring myself to do it, no matter how much I loved my partner. And for her to want me to be so uncomfortable in a situation would be pretty disconcerting...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No, definitely not.

The woman I love would know this and never ask such a question.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No.....plain and simple.

If a woman loved me...she wouldn't ask!

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By *op gooserMan
over a year ago

chester

"No, definitely not.

The woman I love would know this and never ask such a question."
Ditto

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By *londieddWoman
over a year ago

fife

"I'm straight (that's proper straight, not fab-flexible straight) but I did suck a cock once, solely because my wife thought it would be horny and I wanted to please her.

My question to straight men is: if the woman you love really wanted to see you suck a cock, would you do it?

Charlie"
if you've sucked cock your not straight! Simples

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By *hetalkingstoveMan
over a year ago

London

"I'm straight (that's proper straight, not fab-flexible straight) but I did suck a cock once, solely because my wife thought it would be horny and I wanted to please her.

My question to straight men is: if the woman you love really wanted to see you suck a cock, would you do it?

Charlieif you've sucked cock your not straight! Simples"

No, not simple. You try it once, you find out it's not for you - if anything that confirms you are straight!

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By *ikeC81Man
over a year ago

harrow

Not for me sucking cock

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By *londieddWoman
over a year ago

fife

"I'm straight (that's proper straight, not fab-flexible straight) but I did suck a cock once, solely because my wife thought it would be horny and I wanted to please her.

My question to straight men is: if the woman you love really wanted to see you suck a cock, would you do it?

Charlieif you've sucked cock your not straight! Simples

No, not simple. You try it once, you find out it's not for you - if anything that confirms you are straight!

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so your bi curious then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP...OMG the contradicting "proper straight not fab straight" i totally agreed with you until you said you once sucked a cock to please your wife? Lmfao!! Do yourself a favour and get out the closet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A persons sexuality is derived from sexual acts aswell as desires. If a man has been with another man then they are not 100% straight. That's the defining point of being straight. You haven't been with other men. Or want to either.

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By *hetalkingstoveMan
over a year ago

London

"I'm straight (that's proper straight, not fab-flexible straight) but I did suck a cock once, solely because my wife thought it would be horny and I wanted to please her.

My question to straight men is: if the woman you love really wanted to see you suck a cock, would you do it?

Charlieif you've sucked cock your not straight! Simples

No, not simple. You try it once, you find out it's not for you - if anything that confirms you are straight!

so your bi curious then"

If you're bi curious, you try it and don't like it, then you stop being curious.

If you've eaten meat once does that mean you can never be a vegetarian?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm straight (that's proper straight, not fab-flexible straight) but I did suck a cock once, solely because my wife thought it would be horny and I wanted to please her.

My question to straight men is: if the woman you love really wanted to see you suck a cock, would you do it?

Charlie"

No, as I'm straight (that's proper straight, not Fab-flexible straight)

To be fair whilst the experience has confirmed it's 'not for you' and hence you're *definitely* now straight your journey has passed through a bi-curious phase - you wouldn't have contemplated doing it otherwise.

I don't like prawns. I tried them once as I was curious about it. I didn't like them and won't eat them again even if the love of the life asks me to.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wondered if I'd like tattoo's. So I got one. Don't like them. But it's still there.

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By *e ja vue 2Couple
over a year ago

MANCHESTER

Some people just love to hang tags around people's necks ffs

He tried something to please his wife it DOES NOT MEAN HES BI SEXUAL OR BI CURIOUS it means he was a horny sod caught in the moment end of

Many porn stars of both genders have same sex sessions for MONEY only

I voted labour once coz my MP was a knob it didn't make me a socialist

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By *entle giraffeMan
over a year ago

Minehead

The point is, it's for you to decide whether you are bi, gay, straight or something else. No one else has the right to decide for you...... Do, if you say you are straight, then you are

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By *ficouldMan
over a year ago

a quandary, could you change my mind?

"if she loved me would she put me in that situation... "

I'm straight so it would never happen

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

While i appreciate we are all different I'm sorry but if i was with a man and he told me he'd even thought about cock then that would just turn me right off. If a man has thought about cock then he's not 100% straight!

I'm 100% straight and I'd never go near another woman sexualy and I've never thought about it either!

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

"I'm straight (that's proper straight, not fab-flexible straight) but I did suck a cock once, solely because my wife thought it would be horny and I wanted to please her.

My question to straight men is: if the woman you love really wanted to see you suck a cock, would you do it?

Charlieif you've sucked cock your not straight!

Simples"

I AGREE.

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No is the answer to that. Most definitely not. And "I'm straight but did suck a cock once" isn't really straight. Not in my opinion anyway. "

I'm straight but I've been with women

Tried it, didn't like it so didn't bother again, does that make me bi?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't think I'd be bothered about sucking or wanking a guy if a woman I liked really wanted it, but that's just it, wouldn't be bothered so don't think it would be great for anyone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm straight (that's proper straight, not fab-flexible straight) but I did suck a cock once, solely because my wife thought it would be horny and I wanted to please her.

My question to straight men is: if the woman you love really wanted to see you suck a cock, would you do it?

Charlieif you've sucked cock your not straight! Simples

No, not simple. You try it once, you find out it's not for you - if anything that confirms you are straight!

We can all be curious and try, one act does not shape our sexuality

As I said above I've been with women and didn't really enjoy it so stayed with men I am not bi, as said above it just confirmed even more I'm not bi

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think this was what Meatloaf was singing about in that song.

It's a no from me.

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By *op gooserMan
over a year ago

chester

"I think this was what Meatloaf was singing about in that song.

It's a no from me."

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By *iggles and BeardyCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

Nope

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It does not mean he is Bi what so ever! Very open minded - yes, and that's great, at the end of the day it's only part of the human body and he did it to please...

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By *loswingersCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester

"I'm straight (that's proper straight, not fab-flexible straight) but I did suck a cock once, solely because my wife thought it would be horny and I wanted to please her.

My question to straight men is: if the woman you love really wanted to see you suck a cock, would you do it?

Charlie"

I did it once , fir the same reason as you .

I didn't like it , he didn't like it , so never did it again .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is it not a bit like all the "bi curious" women on here who send messages asking to meet because their husband would love to see them with a girl?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm straight (that's proper straight, not fab-flexible straight) but I did suck a cock once, solely because my wife thought it would be horny and I wanted to please her.

My question to straight men is: if the woman you love really wanted to see you suck a cock, would you do it?

Charlie"

Straight guys dont suck cock.

So its a big fat NO from me .

Sorry OP

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope, a straight man won't suck a cock ever. Sorry op, but I will not do something that I don't find a turn on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope, and you're not straight

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

"She wouldn't ask and I wouldn't do it"

This for us too.

If the OP didn't object to a sexual experience with another man, in my opinion he was at least bi curious.

Nita

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By *ew sensationMan
over a year ago

widnes

Fuck no !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Some people just love to hang tags around people's necks ffs

He tried something to please his wife it DOES NOT MEAN HES BI SEXUAL OR BI CURIOUS it means he was a horny sod caught in the moment end of

Many porn stars of both genders have same sex sessions for MONEY only

I voted labour once coz my MP was a knob it didn't make me a socialist "

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm straight (that's proper straight, not fab-flexible straight) but I did suck a cock once, solely because my wife thought it would be horny and I wanted to please her.

My question to straight men is: if the woman you love really wanted to see you suck a cock, would you do it?

Charlieif you've sucked cock your not straight! Simples

No, not simple. You try it once, you find out it's not for you - if anything that confirms you are straight!

so your bi curious then"

Curious means your thinking about doing.... what part of he did it but WOULD NOT do it again is unclear and has for must be bi again being bi means he does and wants to play with men again he has said he doesn't want to play or have any sexual thoughts towards men. The one off act as confirmed that he 100% straight.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It would go against the grain for.. but on the other hand.. if she loved me would she put me in that situation... a bit like me wanting to go with a woman and she was straight."

ur absolutely right haha it takes 2 to tango lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No,not for me

over the years i have known a few gay guys all have been with a woman in their teenage years, all say they are gay and have no interest in women, 2 would be offended if classed as bi.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm straight (that's proper straight, not fab-flexible straight) but I did suck a cock once, solely because my wife thought it would be horny and I wanted to please her.

My question to straight men is: if the woman you love really wanted to see you suck a cock, would you do it?

Charlieif you've sucked cock your not straight! Simples

No, not simple. You try it once, you find out it's not for you - if anything that confirms you are straight!

so your bi curious then

Don't worry OP ur straight but if ur other half made u suck cock I'd keep my eye on her lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"She wouldn't ask and I wouldn't do it.

You know Meatloaf sung a song about it don't you?"

Is that the one called "I Would Suck Any Cock For You, Cos I'm Fab Flexible"?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In answer to the original post, no...surely the whole point is doing what you're comfortable with?

Its not something that would turn me on or I'd enjoy. I wouldn't expect my partner to do anything they didn't enjoy either.

I should add nothing wrong with bi at all not just for me, although watching someone else would probably be fun

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By *ovelythick1Man
over a year ago

Swansea

No I could not. I have seen other men's cocks on here and think they would be awesome servicing my girlfriend, but that is as far as I would take it.

And I would not want another man sucking mine the ladies I have met have generally done an exceptional job

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