FabSwingers.com forum: How many have you had?

By *ovestosuck OP TV/TS
over a year ago

Peterborough

I often wonder how many sexual partners I've had... it's not an easy question.

To start with, what do you include... only people you've fucked with? Does a blowjob count? What if you've wanked someone off during group sex...are they included in the count?

Having been very sexually active since I was about 20 (e.g swinging, clubs, hookups, casual) i wonder what my grand total is?

What are your thoughts? Do you know your numbers?

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By *arry247Couple
over a year ago

Wakefield

No idea, we know how many we have had on various memorable occasions but would not even hazard a guess how many we have had in the many years we have been swinging

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I tried counting them once, I got to over 100. That's penetrative sex.

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By *rGenuineMan
over a year ago

Purley

"I tried counting them once, I got to over 100. That's penetrative sex. "

If only I could be 101. You are extremely beautiful.

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By *dstar01Man
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

4.. maybe 5

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I know my number. It's not many

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I know how many and can name them all because there isn't that many lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm still a virgin

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not many at all. I was going to try and rectify that this year but it's not happening

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By *edangel_2013Woman
over a year ago

southend

I don't know. I tried counting when I was 21, couldn't remember them all.

Then I started swinging.

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By *_and_J99Man
over a year ago

Cirencester

I can count mine on both hands

D however would need a football teams hands and feet (and subs!)

J x

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By *londieddWoman
over a year ago

fife

"I often wonder how many sexual partners I've had... it's not an easy question.

To start with, what do you include... only people you've fucked with? Does a blowjob count? What if you've wanked someone off during group sex...are they included in the count?

Having been very sexually active since I was about 20 (e.g swinging, clubs, hookups, casual) i wonder what my grand total is?

What are your thoughts? Do you know your numbers?

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I can count and name!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've only had one, same girl friend from 16.... That's why I'm here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I kept count properly for a whole year once and giggled at the response to that.

I always answer now that its a lot. Was a good girl till about 22. Then.. well then all hell let loose. Been a lot less promiscuous this past 18 months than in the last 12 years or so.. but been having different experiences.

As to the grand total. I have an idea... and may put it on my tombstone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

not sure -

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For me its not how many Ive had sex with but how many I had sex with that I wish I hadn't ?

I was young and usually had a belly full of stella though in those days

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I know my number and it's not alot but it's definitely not something I think about alot.

I always find it a little cringy when people throw out a high number of sexual partners and brag about it.

Someone can have a few very sexual partners who fulfill their every fantasy. On the other hand someone can have a huge amount of partners who did little for them.

I guess what I'm saying is the number is not important. It's the person that's important.

*Drops mic and walks out*

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I know my number and it's not alot but it's definitely not something I think about alot.

I always find it a little cringy when people throw out a high number of sexual partners and brag about it.

Someone can have a few very sexual partners who fulfill their every fantasy. On the other hand someone can have a huge amount of partners who did little for them.

I guess what I'm saying is the number is not important. It's the person that's important.

*Drops mic and walks out*"
to some its not the person but the act..

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

Personally I don't think it is anyone else's business but mine and it will remain that way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm way past counting and keeping score.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I often wonder how many sexual partners I've had... it's not an easy question.

To start with, what do you include... only people you've fucked with? Does a blowjob count? What if you've wanked someone off during group sex...are they included in the count?

Having been very sexually active since I was about 20 (e.g swinging, clubs, hookups, casual) i wonder what my grand total is?

What are your thoughts? Do you know your numbers?

I can count and name!"

I can too! But I am not telling you lot!

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By *loswingersCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester

Like Cali , we could put the number on our tombstones . But it would have to be mighty big tombstone

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By *ifted6969Man
over a year ago

Stockton on tees

Sexual partner's? I've lost count of the times i've been to the gum clinic nevermind sexual partners! Joke

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Full penetrative sex - husband was number 26 twelve years ago, and there have been 17 in the three years we've been swinging. That makes 43 men that I've done full-blown sex with. There's been a lot more soft play and I've no idea how many.

Mrs

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By *ust PeachyWoman
over a year ago

Prestonish

Lots! Frankly I've no idea! However, it's not something I worry about - as the right man for me (if he's out there) would be more concerned about love and trust than number of previous sexual partners!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm still a virgin

Which bit ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Actual penetrative sex rough estimate for Mrs nw would be 180 , Mr nw around 60

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't know ,don't care , and wouldn't ask my partner that question .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We used to see see a guy, who has since left the swing scene, who kept a spread sheet of all the women he had had sex with. I was number 180 on his spreadsheet.

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

More than I care to admit

And less than people would think...

Anybody got a spare hand I'm loosing count

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I said I have had sex with about 400 or so ?

Would that be frowned upon ?

Just asking hypothetically of course

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By *innamon!Woman
over a year ago

no matter

I know Exactly my number.

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By *acavityMan
over a year ago

Redditch

I literally can't count.

Do we count blowjobs?

If I'm having a mmf threesome with a straight man, do I count him, even if there is no sexual contact.

If I'm at an orgy or gangbang,can I count everyone in the same room.

It's in the ream of advanced mathematics. So I'm going to say XX + XY = nX

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm such a slag.

And no, not bragging.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Less than 13

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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

Can't say I've counted

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

lost count quite some time ago in the middle of a trip to the dam where i spend several extremely hazy days in the red light district. never bothered trying to tot it up since then..that whole episode it's self is a blur

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't know. I tried counting when I was 21, couldn't remember them all.

Then I started swinging. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"lost count quite some time ago in the middle of a trip to the dam where i spend several extremely hazy days in the red light district. never bothered trying to tot it up since then..that whole episode it's self is a blur"
............paying dont count you loon lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Actual penetrative sex rough estimate for Mrs nw would be 180 , Mr nw around 60

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......you need a put in more effort sir lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

where's it say that in the rules?!

i'm counting 'em

even without them i have no idea any more...quite alot, few years of swinging, 17 years of working gigs and one night stands at them, even longer as a bona fide slag, god knows...i'd need an abacus and a better memory than i have

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Sexual partner's? I've lost count of the times i've been to the gum clinic nevermind sexual partners! Joke

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......pmsl ye ye .....my old doc dc Rogers told me to fuck off and go to gum clinic at 19 as the Las 8 times he seen me since I was 13 was about my nob ....all paranoia I must add lol

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By *ohnaronMan
over a year ago

london

I lost count at around 150

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I lost count at around 150"
age on your side there though Mr lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's probably only about 10/11

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's probably only about 10/11

you accidentally put a '/' in there man...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I know exactly how many. I have kept a diary for years with names and dates. Seems silly but it's just something I have done since I was 17.

Hubby hasn't got a list but has a pretty good idea I think

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

3/4/5......

Hundred....

Or so

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By *neoclockgunMan
over a year ago

London

I just tried to work it out.

Too many years of slutty behaviour. Well over a hundred... maybe 150? Maybe more since there are nights where I've had some significant sexual activity with 10 or more people in a few hours.

Hard to count once you do swing clubs, parties, etc... what counts, etc?

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By *ubSirVient-DefinitionCouple
over a year ago

dukinfield

4 women in 20 years for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's interesting how coy some are.

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By *ickey40Man
over a year ago

Leicester

"I tried counting them once, I got to over 100. That's penetrative sex. "
No wonder you can't find what you're looking for if you treat guys like that!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"4.. maybe 5

Those lucky 4 maybe 5 :P

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I tried counting them once, I got to over 100. That's penetrative sex. No wonder you can't find what you're looking for if you treat guys like that!"

Who said I can't find what I'm looking for?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tried to think last night but it worked like counting sheep pmsl

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I tried counting them once, I got to over 100. That's penetrative sex. No wonder you can't find what you're looking for if you treat guys like that!"

Treating guys like what?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mid 20s I think

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We used to see see a guy, who has since left the swing scene, who kept a spread sheet of all the women he had had sex with. I was number 180 on his spreadsheet.

Mrs"

Did he have a comment about each one too? That's made me giggle.

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By *inkyChrissy99TV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol

Good question xx use to be single digits before I came on here and became sexually active as chrissy almost a year ago.

Now.... Even penetrative sex is quite relatively high considerothe timeframe, i'd have to have a long think if we included bjs too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We used to see see a guy, who has since left the swing scene, who kept a spread sheet of all the women he had had sex with. I was number 180 on his spreadsheet.

Mrs

Did he have a comment about each one too? That's made me giggle.

No he didn't, but about a year later he decided to leave the swing scene in order to 'save his soul'. We had a last social drink with him, and I asked him about his final total now he was closing his spreadsheet, which had reached about 220.

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury

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By *carlettxWoman
over a year ago

Essex

Up until I was 38 was only 1 lol ..., still even now the number is fairly low considering I've been on here 4 years

That's not a good thing or a bad thing just how it is really

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By *ickey40Man
over a year ago

Leicester

"I tried counting them once, I got to over 100. That's penetrative sex. No wonder you can't find what you're looking for if you treat guys like that!

Who said I can't find what I'm looking for?

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you did. That's why you're not meeting guys anymore and block them cos you judge them wrong. Far too quick to judge. You're bitter and it deffo shows.

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By *lkDomWhtSubBiCpleCouple
over a year ago

Somewhere / Everywhere /Kinksville

The scene from four weddings and a funeral spring to mind !

Me - no idea. Stopped counting years ago when I discovered my liking for greedy girl nights

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I know exactly how many. I have kept a diary for years with names and dates. Seems silly but it's just something I have done since I was 17.

Hubby hasn't got a list but has a pretty good idea I think "

I don't think it's silly, I do the same thing, for 2 reasons...1) for when I get old and gray I can look back and remember all of my lovers and reminisce over the good old days! And 2) to have an accurate record to take to the local GUM clinic every 3 months when I go for my regular tests! They do ask how many new partners you've been with in that time, and my memory isn't that brilliant, so I like to keep a written note.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I tried counting them once, I got to over 100. That's penetrative sex. No wonder you can't find what you're looking for if you treat guys like that!

Who said I can't find what I'm looking for?

you did. That's why you're not meeting guys anymore and block them cos you judge them wrong. Far too quick to judge. You're bitter and it deffo shows."

Nooooo, I said I can't find them on here.

As for the rest, whatever. But I think you'll find you're washing your dirty linen in public

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By *oy man 2Man
over a year ago

Me 6

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury

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By *yldstyleWoman
over a year ago

A world of my own

I don't think in a numbers. I remember them all. Some more fondly than others. Thats fine for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I tried counting them once, I got to over 100. That's penetrative sex. No wonder you can't find what you're looking for if you treat guys like that!"
cant see why that statement equals treating guys badly.

I frequently bump into people at clubs or parties and afterwards ask mr who it was... often to be told Ive fucked them a few times...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

52...currently looking for 53, 54, 55 lol

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

"I often wonder how many sexual partners I've had... it's not an easy question.

To start with, what do you include... only people you've fucked with? Does a blowjob count? What if you've wanked someone off during group sex...are they included in the count?

Having been very sexually active since I was about 20 (e.g swinging, clubs, hookups, casual) i wonder what my grand total is?

What are your thoughts? Do you know your numbers?

I can count and name!"

Me too, Mr asked me to write them all down kept missing people out lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Up until I was 38 was only 1 lol ..., still even now the number is fairly low considering I've been on here 4 years

That's not a good thing or a bad thing just how it is really "

And there was me thinking I was a little different for only having 1 at age 31!

I'm at 27 right now, but it's definitely getting harder to recall everyone. I'd do the notebook thing others mention but I'd be worried about someone finding it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

3 until I joined fab,was a angel but now my halo has slipped.

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By *abe1200Couple
over a year ago

belfast

We keep telling ourselves that we have met too many and then you look at someone else's profile they are on there hundreds.So i ll say not a lot its an okay number for us.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

22 since I started swinging, plus 2 husbands, 7 boyfriend's, 3 one night stand = 34

XXX

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By *egasus NobMan
over a year ago

Wandsworth

"Up until I was 38 was only 1 lol ..., still even now the number is fairly low considering I've been on here 4 years

That's not a good thing or a bad thing just how it is really "

Forever 38

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By *egasus NobMan
over a year ago

Wandsworth

"I know exactly how many. I have kept a diary for years with names and dates. Seems silly but it's just something I have done since I was 17.

Hubby hasn't got a list but has a pretty good idea I think

I wonder if he was scoring the ladies on his spreadsheet points.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Somewhere around 20 ish...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"22 since I started swinging, plus 2 husbands, 7 boyfriend's, 3 one night stand = 34

XXX"

Why have you got 78 veries then ?

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By *ungBlackTopMan
over a year ago

salford

23 my entire life and I think that's too much to be honest. I'm even disgusted with myself but single and horny doesn't do me any favours.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think about 40-50 but I've lost count could be a lot higher if I pulled my finger out a bit.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"3 until I joined fab,was a angel but now my halo has slipped.

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fit af that's why

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"23 my entire life and I think that's too much to be honest. I'm even disgusted with myself but single and horny doesn't do me any favours."

Why are you disgusted with yourself? Do you feel it's wrong or immoral?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's probably only about 10/11

you accidentally put a '/' in there man..."

lol I wish fella

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By *iguy39Man
over a year ago

manchester

I never bothered to count but I suppose it must be between 50 and 100

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Kept tabs last year.. 97 times with wife in all its forms.. Sex with guys 37 times.. From quick mutual hand jobs to full sex..it was a fun busy year for all concerned.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"23 my entire life and I think that's too much to be honest. I'm even disgusted with myself but single and horny doesn't do me any favours."
are you really disgusted at yourself.. I'd say that's pretty low

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By *ountryman99Man
over a year ago

ripon

Over one hundred and still going.

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By *aroleBaskinWoman
over a year ago

somewhere down the rabbit hole, Aberdeen

I've had 3 long term monogamous relationships though which total 11 years.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I know my exact number.

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over a year ago

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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside

enough to know im not a virgin ..but i keep checking

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By *ohnaronMan
over a year ago

london

"enough to know im not a virgin ..but i keep checking

Can I help you increase it by one? If thats not virgin on the rediculous.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I tried counting them once, I got to over 100. That's penetrative sex. No wonder you can't find what you're looking for if you treat guys like that!"

Treat them like what? Are we supposed to keep a record of them and send Christmas cards each year?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can honestly say I've not had a lot xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Got to be over 30 but nothing since October!??

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By *mber GamblerCouple
over a year ago

rugby

Same here 6

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Clueless!

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By *anky_PankyWoman
over a year ago

Filthy Fuckeryville

Been swinging since 1999 - the answer is a lot.

However I enjoy it and am tested regularly so it's all good

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't know and don't car . Could work it out if I sat and thought about it but I rely couldn't be bothered .

Having less sexual partners doesn't make someone 'better' than others but I also dislike people who brag about high numbers . Have sex with as many or as few people as you want

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

1 or 2

Ruby

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Surprisingly I have had only 11.. poor record

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A gentleman doesn't tell

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By *rchie_pMan
over a year ago

Birmingham

"I tried counting them once, I got to over 100. That's penetrative sex.

If only I could be 101. You are extremely beautiful."

Lame! Haha

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