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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Lot of demanding people on here wanting the perfect specimen but far from perfect themselves. Who agrees.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, we agree. We're perfect

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Lol very close to it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Lot of demanding people on here wanting the perfect specimen but far from perfect themselves. Who agrees. "

Nope, disagree completely.

Lot of demanding men on here expecting sex on tap because they think it's a "sex site". Who agrees?

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By *hatguyJoeMan
over a year ago

Preston


"Lot of demanding people on here wanting the perfect specimen but far from perfect themselves. Who agrees.

Nope, disagree completely.

Lot of demanding men on here expecting sex on tap because they think it's a "sex site". Who agrees?"

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor


"Lot of demanding people on here wanting the perfect specimen but far from perfect themselves. Who agrees.

Nope, disagree completely.

Lot of demanding men on here expecting sex on tap because they think it's a "sex site". Who agrees?"

I agree with this,not the op

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I agree. Surely everyone wants to meet someone 'perfect' for them.

And no-one is perfect.

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By *ensual temptressWoman
over a year ago

Southampton


"Lot of demanding people on here wanting the perfect specimen but far from perfect themselves. Who agrees.

Nope, disagree completely.

Lot of demanding men on here expecting sex on tap because they think it's a "sex site". Who agrees?"

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor


"Lot of demanding people on here wanting the perfect specimen but far from perfect themselves. Who agrees. "

Someone turned you down op

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By *hatguyJoeMan
over a year ago

Preston


"Lot of demanding people on here wanting the perfect specimen but far from perfect themselves. Who agrees. "

I understand your point but in my view why should what people desire be dependent on their own physical appearance. People are entitled to determine who they would like to meet and likewise the people they do meet. That said you have a right to your view.

Personally I detest the level of judgement on this site.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Lot of demanding people on here wanting the perfect specimen but far from perfect themselves. Who agrees.

Nope, disagree completely.

Lot of demanding men on here expecting sex on tap because they think it's a "sex site". Who agrees?

I agree with this,not the op "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The demanding ones are so easily avoided that I don't worry about them. Plenty don't demand a thing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Lot of demanding people on here wanting the perfect specimen but far from perfect themselves. Who agrees. "

If you think a profile is demanding and/or don't find them attractive then just move on and find someone who matches what you are looking for.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I agree. Surely everyone wants to meet someone 'perfect' for them.

And no-one is perfect. "

Speak for yourself, I'm perfection personified

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By *ensual temptressWoman
over a year ago

Southampton


"Lot of demanding people on here wanting the perfect specimen but far from perfect themselves. Who agrees. "

People can look for what ever type of person they want . I could demand Hugh Jackman. ..who cares !! If I then don't get him then only me affected .

Why you so bothered about what others want ? Comes across you just aren't happy that you aren't type they wish to meet ..or other wise you would be meeting them and not complaining

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lots of judgemental folk on here. Who agrees?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I agree. Surely everyone wants to meet someone 'perfect' for them.

And no-one is perfect.

Speak for yourself, I'm perfection personified "

Shit sorry typo... no-one *except Miss Perfect*

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Has fab turned from a place where flirtation and light hearted banter has been replaced by barbed snidey remarks and put downs at every opportunity? Or is this just another sweeping generalisation?

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By *amaraBeaverbankWoman
over a year ago

Benidorm Spain


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Lot of demanding men on here expecting sex on tap because they think it's a "sex site". Who agrees?"

This in spades

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I agree. Surely everyone wants to meet someone 'perfect' for them.

And no-one is perfect. "

Well said that carrot

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Has fab turned from a place where flirtation and light hearted banter has been replaced by barbed snidey remarks and put downs at every opportunity? Or is this just another sweeping generalisation? "

So judgemental

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I agree. Surely everyone wants to meet someone 'perfect' for them.

And no-one is perfect.

Speak for yourself, I'm perfection personified

Shit sorry typo... no-one *except Miss Innocent* "

Fixed it for you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only not 'perfect' to you.. to a lot of guys I am perfect because I am what they are attracted too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Surely people are allowed to state exactly what they want? It might limit their options but that's up to them.

Why not bee 100% up front with what you are looking for it saves all of the disappoint of just not quite getting the itch scratched

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Lot of demanding people on here wanting the perfect specimen but far from perfect themselves. Who agrees.

Nope, disagree completely.

Lot of demanding men on here expecting sex on tap because they think it's a "sex site". Who agrees?"

Have to agree with this, most guys on here think it's there god given right and because we're on a swingers site Bonnie will happily sleep with anyone, which is obviously not the case. The same as most couples on here, we are here for our enjoyment. B&C xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Heavens forbid

And on a swinging site too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Lot of demanding people on here wanting the perfect specimen but far from perfect themselves. Who agrees.

Nope, disagree completely.

Lot of demanding men on here expecting sex on tap because they think it's a "sex site". Who agrees?"

Agreed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes, we agree. We're perfect "

Yep there are a few of us about.

Ok OP. Yes there maybe people on here that punch above their weight, however I think you will find there are also people on here who don't struggle to get attention from hot guys and ladies outside the scene. Guess what - our standards go up on here - Not down. Nothing you can do about it.

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By *inkyLondonpairCouple
over a year ago

London

There's supply and demand going on here. There are about four to five men to every woman on here. Hence women can choose men who are objectively more physically attractive than them. If you are an average woman who likes sex this site is great. If you are an average man who likes sex less so.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Lot of demanding people on here wanting the perfect specimen but far from perfect themselves. Who agrees.

Nope, disagree completely.

Lot of demanding men on here expecting sex on tap because they think it's a "sex site". Who agrees?

Have to agree with this, most guys on here think it's there god given right and because we're on a swingers site Bonnie will happily sleep with anyone, which is obviously not the case. The same as most couples on here, we are here for our enjoyment. B&C xx"

Add couples and women in to that then please. The higher percentage of men may skew that view for you, but there are plenty of self entitled folk that seem to feel that any fella they contact should be grateful for getting their attention and put out!

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By *h1tewolfMan
over a year ago

Rubery


"Lot of demanding people on here wanting the perfect specimen but far from perfect themselves. Who agrees.

Nope, disagree completely.

Lot of demanding men on here expecting sex on tap because they think it's a "sex site". Who agrees?

Have to agree with this, most guys on here think it's there god given right and because we're on a swingers site Bonnie will happily sleep with anyone, which is obviously not the case. The same as most couples on here, we are here for our enjoyment. B&C xx"

Expecting sex and expecting courtesy is very different.

So far, I'd say 1 out of 30 contacted people reply when the answer is no. If this site is the only source of sexual activity for someone, that kind of idiotic and unnecessary rudeness can hurt and frustrate.

Only very few women on this site don't suffer from "fabitis" (the ones with a head on their shoulders). The rest think they're entitled to do and behave like absolute tools just because of the male/female ratio on here.

On the flip side, men should definitely chill out. "No" is the answer to be expected. Man up and understand you're not entitled to anything either. See it as you being in a new job and after a while you notice that you're better at it than your manager. Yeah, it may be visible to you, but that doesn't mean much to everyone else. Not initially anyway.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Lot of demanding people on here wanting the perfect specimen but far from perfect themselves. Who agrees.

Nope, disagree completely.

Lot of demanding men on here expecting sex on tap because they think it's a "sex site". Who agrees?

Have to agree with this, most guys on here think it's there god given right and because we're on a swingers site Bonnie will happily sleep with anyone, which is obviously not the case. The same as most couples on here, we are here for our enjoyment. B&C xx

Expecting sex and expecting courtesy is very different.

So far, I'd say 1 out of 30 contacted people reply when the answer is no. If this site is the only source of sexual activity for someone, that kind of idiotic and unnecessary rudeness can hurt and frustrate.

Only very few women on this site don't suffer from "fabitis" (the ones with a head on their shoulders). The rest think they're entitled to do and behave like absolute tools just because of the male/female ratio on here.

On the flip side, men should definitely chill out. "No" is the answer to be expected. Man up and understand you're not entitled to anything either. See it as you being in a new job and after a while you notice that you're better at it than your manager. Yeah, it may be visible to you, but that doesn't mean much to everyone else. Not initially anyway."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Jo brand seeks bad pit with abz springs to mind

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Lot of demanding people on here wanting the perfect specimen but far from perfect themselves. Who agrees.

Nope, disagree completely.

Lot of demanding men on here expecting sex on tap because they think it's a "sex site". Who agrees?"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Jo brand seeks bad pit with abz springs to mind"

Nah I've never like that bad pitt

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Only not 'perfect' to you.. to a lot of guys I am perfect because I am what they are attracted too"

Well said !!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My qualms with this is so what if someone is looking for their 'perfect' especially those couples who already have the needs and wants required on tap.

So what if we want to find our idea of the perfect man, our perfect will be very different from the next persons therefore anyone one of you single males could be someone's perfect.

It's more the single males that think the single women or couples should just say yes to anything that are the negative side to this site. Why should we?

What is it about you that makes you amazing enough for us to run around dropping our knickers

Mine come off for the men that deserve it

Nothing less

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Lol wow relax everyone

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

So much hatred for single men lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I best keep away from these forums. Some of you really do get annoyed really quickly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not perfect however I can be quite demanding

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Lot of demanding people on here wanting the perfect specimen but far from perfect themselves. Who agrees. "

Depends on what they are demanding?

Did you get knocked back OP?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So much hatred for single men lol

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Yes because people disagreeing with you is obviously a hatred for singlemen

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Jo brand seeks bad pit with abz springs to mind

Nah I've never like that bad pitt "

I am not too keen on Bad Pit's abz either. Ewwwww.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Jo brand seeks bad pit with abz springs to mind"

Urgh brad Pitts a minger

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't interact with with people who I feel I would have nothing in common with.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

You know the perfect chizzled man that sort of demand i meant i guess alot of people took it the wrong way i meant. I was talking about how theres pressure to have the 6pac the muscles etc

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I agree.

There are no perfect people on here and there are lots of demanding people.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Jo brand seeks bad pit with abz springs to mind

Urgh brad Pitts a minger "

Ur from but hole road... sounds a bit of a dump

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By *iSTARessWoman
over a year ago

London

I don't have a huge list of demands on my profile. My demands are very simple. Don't be an entitled twat. Or use 'lol'.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You know the perfect chizzled man that sort of demand i meant i guess alot of people took it the wrong way i meant. I was talking about how theres pressure to have the 6pac the muscles etc"

I'm tall and skinny and to that I've got no real dress sense and am a more than a little socially awkward and non of that has held me back on here.

Of course some people want muscles just like some want tall men and others only want BBC. Not everyone will want to meet you, not everyone will find you attractive but so what?

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By *orum TrollWoman
over a year ago

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is this another topic about lowering your standards if you're fugly?

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By *inkyLondonpairCouple
over a year ago

London


"You know the perfect chizzled man that sort of demand i meant i guess alot of people took it the wrong way i meant. I was talking about how theres pressure to have the 6pac the muscles etc"

Like we say it's supply and demand. There are hugely more men looking to have casual sex with women then women looking to have casual sex with men. Hence the women who do want casual sex get to pick and choose and by and large they will choose the most physically attractive men even if they are not that physically attractive.

It's a bit of a pisser for the average guys admittedly but what are you suggesting - that women should choose less attractive guys out of pity?

The only resolution to this would be if there were roughly equal numbers of men and women wanting casual sex. This ain't gonna happen in my lifetime.

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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"Lot of demanding people on here wanting the perfect specimen but far from perfect themselves. Who agrees.

Nope, disagree completely.

Lot of demanding men on here expecting sex on tap because they think it's a "sex site". Who agrees?

Have to agree with this, most guys on here think it's there god given right and because we're on a swingers site Bonnie will happily sleep with anyone, which is obviously not the case. The same as most couples on here, we are here for our enjoyment. B&C xx

Add couples and women in to that then please. The higher percentage of men may skew that view for you, but there are plenty of self entitled folk that seem to feel that any fella they contact should be grateful for getting their attention and put out! "

Well surely the men should be grateful for any female contact.

Bloody entitled men who think they can pick and chose who they have sex with

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