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By *opsy Rogers OP   Woman
over a year ago

London

Probably because the one you sent last week, two months ago and last year were, but you constantly ignore the fact you were turned down, apologise and send another nice message next week.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not gonna lie love ive messaged woman lucky enough back when i used to pay it told me id allrrady messaged her just showed the impression that profile made on me prob didnt even look at the message.

Fucking discusting wanting to shag who made that little impression that you cant even remember messaging them in the 1st place i hate myself fml

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

Yeah it get's a bit tedious.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not gonna lie love ive messaged woman lucky enough back when i used to pay it told me id allrrady messaged her just showed the impression that profile made on me prob didnt even look at the message.

Fucking discusting wanting to shag who made that little impression that you cant even remember messaging them in the 1st place i hate myself fml "

Sorry, what?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah we get the same single men reintroduce themselves every month as though we haven't previously said we weren't interested...

I don't know why they think we would have suddenly changed our minds?

H xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its probably not what its there for but if someone i message reads,views me and then deletes my message i tend to then block them to avoid remessaging them. They clearly dont want me so why waste everyones time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why dont you just block them?

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By *opsy Rogers OP   Woman
over a year ago

London


"Its probably not what its there for but if someone i message reads,views me and then deletes my message i tend to then block them to avoid remessaging them. They clearly dont want me so why waste everyones time "

...and you don't start threads complaining about not getting replies.

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By *ink magnolia s yorksWoman
over a year ago

south yorkshire

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why dont you just block them?"

They come back on new profiles. Alot of sick puppies out there. Got one who messages daily. Must have had over 50 messages. All ignored.

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By *opsy Rogers OP   Woman
over a year ago

London


"Why dont you just block them?"

Because it doesn't bother me, it bothers them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why dont you just block them?

Because it doesn't bother me, it bothers them."

This thread tells a different story

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By *ink magnolia s yorksWoman
over a year ago

south yorkshire

When he started he wasn't rude or abusive, then I got messages saying he had reported me, I blocked him.doesnt stop anyone reporting you. Like someone else said you get constant posts from men saying how bad women are because they don't reply.
"Why dont you just block them?"

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By *opsy Rogers OP   Woman
over a year ago

London


"Why dont you just block them?

Because it doesn't bother me, it bothers them.

This thread tells a different story "

Oh ok but I was referring to the men who post the 'it's rude to ignore messages' threads. I ignore many because they've already been turned down but forget they have.

They could block me, couldn't they.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why dont you just block them?

Because it doesn't bother me, it bothers them.

This thread tells a different story

Oh ok but I was referring to the men who post the 'it's rude to ignore messages' threads. I ignore many because they've already been turned down but forget they have.

They could block me, couldn't they. "

I agree, same as the 'can single men stop spoiling it for the rest of us' threads

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Its probably not what its there for but if someone i message reads,views me and then deletes my message i tend to then block them to avoid remessaging them. They clearly dont want me so why waste everyones time

...and you don't start threads complaining about not getting replies. "

Is a thread complaining about not getting replies that different from the 'I wish men would stop sending these type of messages' ones....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why dont you just block them?

Because it doesn't bother me, it bothers them.

This thread tells a different story

Oh ok but I was referring to the men who post the 'it's rude to ignore messages' threads. I ignore many because they've already been turned down but forget they have.

They could block me, couldn't they.

I agree, same as the 'can single men stop spoiling it for the rest of us' threads"

I think a no every now and then is good for you. Can you imagine how hard it would be if every one you messaged said yes?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can people who aren't site supporters see message history? If not, it would explain at least some of the repeat messages.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I got daily messages on here and fabguys off the same bloke, who can't spell 'want sucking off mate' till I blocked him.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why dont you just block them?

Because it doesn't bother me, it bothers them.

This thread tells a different story

Oh ok but I was referring to the men who post the 'it's rude to ignore messages' threads. I ignore many because they've already been turned down but forget they have.

They could block me, couldn't they.

I agree, same as the 'can single men stop spoiling it for the rest of us' threads

I think a no every now and then is good for you. Can you imagine how hard it would be if every one you messaged said yes?! "

My sent box is empty

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why dont you just block them?

Because it doesn't bother me, it bothers them.

This thread tells a different story

Oh ok but I was referring to the men who post the 'it's rude to ignore messages' threads. I ignore many because they've already been turned down but forget they have.

They could block me, couldn't they.

I agree, same as the 'can single men stop spoiling it for the rest of us' threads

I think a no every now and then is good for you. Can you imagine how hard it would be if every one you messaged said yes?!

My sent box is empty "

Mine too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Can people who aren't site supporters see message history? If not, it would explain at least some of the repeat messages."

If you message someone and they haven't replied you get a warning (or at least you use to). No excuse really unless they are numpties who are messaging everyone in their area.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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If you message someone and they haven't replied you get a warning (or at least you use to). No excuse really unless they are numpties who are messaging everyone in their area."

Still gives the same warning

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By *iffraffMan
over a year ago

Gloucester

No point in re messaging. Just a waste of time. However I do scratch my head when people don't reply after they've sent the first message or wink....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Can people who aren't site supporters see message history? If not, it would explain at least some of the repeat messages.

If you message someone and they haven't replied you get a warning (or at least you use to). No excuse really unless they are numpties who are messaging everyone in their area."

Ah, I see now. I guess some will just keep on messaging until they're blocked.

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By *h1tewolfMan
over a year ago

Rubery

I instead think that everyone should re-message those who don't reply and just delete the messages. Maybe it was by mistake! Repeatedly! Can't be sure until they say "no", now can you?

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