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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I would like to try anal for the first time. Can someone tell me whats it like.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Painful lol well it was for me anyways so haven't done it since. Good luck anyway hope it works out for you

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

That's not a good start. Thank you for answering.

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By *esiderataWoman
over a year ago

St Helier

lots of lube, slowly does it at first and above all relax

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If done properly very enjoyable to say the least

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Use a silk lubricant and go easy at first and try it twice as the first time you will be nervous and tense xx

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By *andsonjohnMan
over a year ago

in the eye of the storm

"I would like to try anal for the first time. Can someone tell me whats it like.

me thinks the lady is playing at being innocent on the subject

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I would like to try anal for the first time. Can someone tell me whats it like.

me thinks the lady is playing at being innocent on the subject

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know I have never tried it and would like to try for the first time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Anal is amazing, better than vaginal sometimes if done properly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"That's not a good start. Thank you for answering.

Yeah sorry wasn't trying to put you off hun just telling you my personal experience x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I absolutely love it! Just make sure it's done gently, slowly and carefully!

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By *inzi LTV/TS
over a year ago

The Garden of Eden in Beautiful North Wales

It's nothing like the porn movies!

lol

A gentle considerate partner helps, along with lots of lube and foreplay. Just take it nice and slow, a good partner will pick up on your body language, moans and groans, even your breathing. He or she will instinctively know how to react, talking as you fuck helps too.... Mmmm, faster hunni. Slow down, don't stop just slow down.

My first time was a shock, reality is sometimes nothing like fantasy and I can't deny it my ass was glowing after! But I loved every second.

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By *ust RachelTV/TS
over a year ago

Horsham

Plenty of lube, make sure you set the pace. It does hurt a bit at first, but that will stop and the pleasure begins.

Just make sure you a relaxed, a bit of playing in that area before hand often helps.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They are all winding you up OP.

Best bet is to shove it in dry, balls deep as hard and fast as you can. Lube is for amateurs.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Anal? Feels like going to the toilet but in reverse. Lots of lube and lots of love. The anal g spot isn't something you just find easily so take your time exploring! For some the pain from anal is part of the turn on so don't be surprised!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thank you guys for all the help I feel much better about it. I will take it slowly have fun with it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Plenty of foreplay even riming nit everyones cup of tea but it helps being really turn on for anal play

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's good because its rude, but nowhere near as good as regular fucking

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By *BW SnowbunnyWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere over the Rainbow

I think it depends on the individual. Personally it doesn't do anything for me. I just felt like I needed to go to the toilet. Absolutely no erotic/sensual sensation whatsoever

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's rude, it's tight, it's dominant, it's slightly taboo and I'd highly recommend it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"They are all winding you up OP.

Best bet is to shove it in dry, balls deep as hard and fast as you can. Lube is for amateurs."

That's your banjo snapped!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I would like to try anal for the first time. Can someone tell me whats it like.

Happy to assist. Always trying to help. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Very intense climax x

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By *isaB45Woman
over a year ago

Fabville

Maybe try a small butt plug first?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"They are all winding you up OP.

Best bet is to shove it in dry, balls deep as hard and fast as you can. Lube is for amateurs.

That's your banjo snapped!

That's how I snapped mine! Twice! As I only tore it slightly the first time. So went back and did a proper job! Ahhhh to be 17 again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You need to tease the area first! Maybe for 15/20 mins or so and gently progress further and further as you go. Well worth it if done properly xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There are plenty of videos on the web to help you. Make sure you prep... A lot of people forget this. Douching is essential, but not too much.lube obviously , maybe a small butt plug for half hour first...etc.. It's not something you should just do and your partner needs to be very patient at first.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You need to tease the area first! Maybe for 15/20 mins or so and gently progress further and further as you go. Well worth it if done properly xx"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Buy silicon but plug small one you can leave it in all day. Stretches the entrance for cock... feels great inside and if you are on a bike or cobbled streets you will not want go indoors.

Also suggest you go with someone with experiences and patience not a dick who is a raging bull and wants to ram it in... that does not work and will be painful.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Try pjur analyse me, its silicone based so its very silky, also has a slight desensitiser in which just helps to stops the initial pain of the cock opening you up.

Douching is good first though if i know its happening i dont eat for about 18hrs before, find a position that works too, some like to be on their back, on the side is with him behind is a very good one as its a more natural alignment, i find doing doggy to start with causes the most pain so maybe not a good one for a newbie

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By *oodnitegirlWoman
over a year ago

Yorkshire

Practice yourself with a dildo first til you get used to it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The important one everyone missed, fucking noobs, is find someone who you feel relaxed with and trust... like TSH.

TSH

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lots of lube!! Go slowly and gently at first and I find if your nervous and tense it hurts so try to relax. If you can't.. try using a vibe or wand on your clit at the same time.

have fun

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith

"Practice yourself with a dildo first til you get used to it "

Definitely do this to begin with, start small, plenty of lube, and enjoy the feeling, play with your clit at the same time so your mind associates anal stimulus with sex play. It's a gradual build up to taking a real cock

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We both love it

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By *ieutenantMan
over a year ago

london

Trust and gentleness are very paramount. Don't let rough - Ryders near your ass.that will put you off from Anal.

Must guys don't care about the sensitivity of rectum area.all they want is to satisfy their penchant for anal sex.relaxation and patience is the key for anal sex.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The important one everyone missed, fucking noobs, is find someone who you feel relaxed with and trust... like TSH.

TSH

This guy!

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By *ire X IceCouple
over a year ago

coventry

I always cum really quick when we have anal. It's a really different sensation.

My tips are start slow, one finger then two, tons of lube, more than you think you will need. Also think about a butt plug, you can play with that yourself or with whoever your with. Relax, big deep breaths, and nice and slow on entry.

Enjoy, its amazing when you get the hang of it

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury

Make sure you're empty first.

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By *riccartmanxxxMan
over a year ago

Under your bed

Love it

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By *epaWoman
over a year ago

Northampton

I use the wand and the combination gives me an intense orgasm. Better than a vaginal orgasm.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I use the wand and the combination gives me an intense orgasm. Better than a vaginal orgasm."

Every time we do that I tend to last seconds before collapsing into a shattering orgasm

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I use the wand and the combination gives me an intense orgasm. Better than a vaginal orgasm.

Every time we do that I tend to last seconds before collapsing into a shattering orgasm

I love it when someone can make me cum giving me anal

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By *reakShow90Man
over a year ago

Manchester/halifax

As its been said slow lots of lube and with some one you trust

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

"Trust and gentleness are very paramount. Don't let rough - Ryders near your ass.that will put you off from Anal.

Must guys don't care about the sensitivity of rectum area.all they want is to satisfy their penchant for anal sex.relaxation and patience is the key for anal sex."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

douche first then use lots of lube and your fingers until you get used to it then use small butt plugs working your way up to bigger ones slowly.

first time you do it with a guy make sure he knows what his doing.

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By *teve261970Man
over a year ago

Gateshead

"Lots of lube!! Go slowly and gently at first and I find if your nervous and tense it hurts so try to relax. If you can't.. try using a vibe or wand on your clit at the same time.

have fun"

This & try smaller but plugs to start, an ex loved this & couldn't get enough. Even told me years later, she had to ask her new husband to do this for her, turned her on as she felt so dirty but craved it. Lol.

Steve

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Full of shit

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Anal is amazing, better than vaginal sometimes if done properly "

Not for me. I really find anal achey and painful. Vaginal everytime for me.

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By *uttyjonnMan
over a year ago

SEA

hmmm not sure about butt plugs etc - I would get a guy who you can trust and has experience (ahem

) and work together - slowly slowly catchy monkey

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By *rgasmdonorMan
over a year ago

millstreet

"I would like to try anal for the first time. Can someone tell me whats it like.

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tight!!!!

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

"I would like to try anal for the first time. Can someone tell me whats it like.

Anal always makes Anita squirt.

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By *ornyandwellhungMan
over a year ago

belfast

Get a man with a nice big thick cock, always much more pleasureable for the lady.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dont really like it. I do it because hubby likes it. He does sometimes ram it in and tries to fuck me like in a porno. & its why he gets a slap around the face

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By *iredhandMan
over a year ago

Manchester

As someone who has previously been told I was too big for them to do anal, I only experienced it in the last couple of years. My partner seemed to enjoy it, as it was her first time (with me anyway), but I was a little underwhelmed. Much prefer the front door!

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By *illy_the_tvTV/TS
over a year ago

hoorn, Netherlands

It's not painful if it's done properly. Just need to make sure youre warmed up properly. Lots of lube and slow finger progression

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

"I dont really like it. I do it because hubby likes it. He does sometimes ram it in and tries to fuck me like in a porno. & its why he gets a slap around the face

Quite right

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I dont really like it. I do it because hubby likes it. He does sometimes ram it in and tries to fuck me like in a porno. & its why he gets a slap around the face

Sound like he doesn't know what his doing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My OH and I are both relatively new to anal. My advice would be not to go straight in with anal - relax as much as you can and maybe try out a butt plug first to get your 'bum' used to it - also we have just discovered that silicone based lube is brilliant and so much better than water based as it doesn't dry up! Definitely advise that! Take it slow and make sure you're in control

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By *hyllyphyllyMan
over a year ago

Bradford

Use specialised anal lube, it's thicker

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm a guy and would like a woman to fuck my ass

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By *elnkazCouple
over a year ago

cheshire

If done properly. Its very enjoyable. Relax plenty of lube and a good position are all a good starter to anal. The main thing is to relax.and him go in slowly being mindful of you .x. kaz

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By *ootballFlowerCouple
over a year ago

Ollerton

It's all about trust. We love it but would never let anyone else do it - EVER!

We do it a lot more now than we used to but not all the time. Plenty of lube is good but sometimes we don't need any - D produces large amounts of pre-cum and if the mood is just right and with the right foreplay he can just gently slide in to G's arse.

Position is also very important- the lady has to be comfortable and also be able to take control if she needs too. One our favourites is to be spooning and have it slow and gentle for a bit then get nice and fast and hard!

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By *ishopstippleMan
over a year ago

Purley

"My OH and I are both relatively new to anal. My advice would be not to go straight in with anal - relax as much as you can and maybe try out a butt plug first to get your 'bum' used to it - also we have just discovered that silicone based lube is brilliant and so much better than water based as it doesn't dry up! Definitely advise that! Take it slow and make sure you're in control

check the lube is are condom safe (otherwise it can rot them) -assuming your using them, to prevent bacteria that exists in one place doesn't get transferred to place it should'nt.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I would like to try anal for the first time. Can someone tell me whats it like.

me thinks the lady is playing at being innocent on the subject

What you saying I am innocent

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By *ood girl2010Couple
over a year ago

crewe

it feels so good nice and slow to start then pure sex and if you let your man talk and pull your hair same time makes you cum loads

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Got to be honest I didn't find it painful or uncomfortable.

A little tight and but with I little effort manage to get it in there. But then giving isn't really a problem

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I find that doing it by spooning is a lot more comfortable for both parties and it allows access to the clit to enable you to cum faster

Its how i always do it

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By *enniwrenCouple
over a year ago

United Kingdom

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