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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Something we are looking for whos done it and did you enjoy it ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we prefer sep room... works for us!!!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Would you do i again ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yes definately....... infact we only do a very small amount in same room now..... as we love sep room fun .

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

We like same room but both would like to try sep room,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we find it works for us.. think if you got the trust in each other then its great.Can totally relax then, and is brilliant with the right cpl

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

We thing we are going to give it a go, time to find a couple

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yes.. since we started doing sep room , we found we enjoy much more now .............. hehehehe

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hehe

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

sounds good to me....I like room hopping1 hehehehe

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"sounds good to me....I like room hopping1 hehehehe"

ever get the feeling uve just crashed someones private forum lol......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

lol you silly devil................. join in.... oh you have lol xxx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

LOL

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have only done a couple of separate room sessions but REALLY enjoyed it!

Hubby has watched me through the mirrored window of the couples room in Newport - he REALLY enjoyed that, and I loved that I knew he was watching but could not see him!

Have also played behind a closed door separately, thats really exciting as sometimes you can hear the other one enjoying themselves and your imagination can REALLY go to work!

Also, its really sexy to discuss it afterwards!

x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"lol you silly devil................. join in.... oh you have lol xxx "

No I'm just going to listen to the moans of pleasure and sulk...while wanking lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The first couple we ever met played in separate rooms, we knew no different then. But several years down the line and a lot more experienced we know that it's not for us. We enjoy seeing each other having fun rather than just hearing it, but each to their own, be very boring if we all liked the same.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"lol you silly devil................. join in.... oh you have lol xxx

No I'm just going to listen to the moans of pleasure and sulk...while wanking lol"
mmmmmmmmmmmmm!!!

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By *orders-cplCouple
over a year ago

middx cpl

we enjoy both sep room and same room ur mind runs wild not knowing wat ur partners doing its fantastic

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"lol you silly devil................. join in.... oh you have lol xxx

No I'm just going to listen to the moans of pleasure and sulk...while wanking lolmmmmmmmmmmmmm!!! "

could have at least came in for a sympathetic bj sakes!!!-wahhhwahhhhwahhhh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We prefer seperate room play, in fact it's one of our main preferences, and is listed in our main profile text.

We will do same room too, and don't have any hangups about it. Suppose it's just that we are not into watching each other really

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

... and to take it a step further, we've even talked about seperate houses. That's me going to her, and him coming to ours.

It hasn't gone any farther than talking about it at the moment, but we do have friends who have the same fantasy, so who knows?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"... and to take it a step further, we've even talked about seperate houses. That's me going to her, and him coming to ours.

It hasn't gone any farther than talking about it at the moment, but we do have friends who have the same fantasy, so who knows? "

and shag to eachother over msn lol

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By *-and-KCouple
over a year ago

Back of Beyond


"yes.. since we started doing sep room , we found we enjoy much more now .............. hehehehe "

This intrigues me. What is it you feel you can do or let yourself do in a room away from your partner?

There is obviously something that you feel you can express in a seperate room away from your partner that I am missing. What is it that you don't want your partner to be a part of?

I'm not being critical here, I'm just missing the point really. If you are going to have seperate room sex, why not the whole hog and have seperate meetings?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"yes.. since we started doing sep room , we found we enjoy much more now .............. hehehehe

This intrigues me. What is it you feel you can do or let yourself do in a room away from your partner?

There is obviously something that you feel you can express in a seperate room away from your partner that I am missing. What is it that you don't want your partner to be a part of?

I'm not being critical here, I'm just missing the point really. If you are going to have seperate room sex, why not the whole hog and have seperate meetings? "

The way we see it, it's just the same as people needing the security of having their partner present while they play. Some of us have the confidence to play in seperate rooms. The question can be asked of same room preferences.

It really is just another preference, but can well understand that some people may look for an ulterior motive behind it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yeahh when I was a cpl I never played away or her, we could be in the same house at parties but in different rooms....actually I preferred that lol...as she didnt like watching me get to the actual fucking...very frustrating that was lol

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham

We just fuck...we dont do labels,we do what works for us at the time,sometimes together is what we want,sometimes not.Just make sure you communicate and have fun!

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By *stwoCouple
over a year ago

anywhere

We enjoy seperate rooms.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personally we find seperate room fun is more 'open relationship' than swinging....we prefer to see whats going on and enjoy watching one another....however....if we got to know a couple we liked and they insisted on seperate room fun then its a possiblity, and maybe we'd enjoy it....it just hasnt come our way as of yet.....x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"yes.. since we started doing sep room , we found we enjoy much more now .............. hehehehe

This intrigues me. What is it you feel you can do or let yourself do in a room away from your partner?

There is obviously something that you feel you can express in a seperate room away from your partner that I am missing. What is it that you don't want your partner to be a part of?

I'm not being critical here, I'm just missing the point really. If you are going to have seperate room sex, why not the whole hog and have seperate meetings? "
It's nothing at all we wouldn't do in same room, however we have found and i say we as i know some peeps have very good sme room fun........ but we have had same room funa and got totally fed up with cpls having issues with each other and not trusting each other.... so that was the main reason we decided sep rooms.... in our opinion anad its only ours as i say, if a cpl can trust each other to play in sep rooms there are no isses. Any cpl with problems regarding jealousy would never agree to sep room to begin with.. so basically what i am saying is it cuts out finding out half way through play that the other cpl has issues with themsleves

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"yes.. since we started doing sep room , we found we enjoy much more now .............. hehehehe

This intrigues me. What is it you feel you can do or let yourself do in a room away from your partner?

There is obviously something that you feel you can express in a seperate room away from your partner that I am missing. What is it that you don't want your partner to be a part of?

I'm not being critical here, I'm just missing the point really. If you are going to have seperate room sex, why not the whole hog and have seperate meetings? "
We also have had occasionally sep meetings too lol....... we trust each other fully.... you couldnt do sep rooms or sep meets if you didnt, and yes we love each other without question, have a fantastic sex life and marriage too xx

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By *ornyHorwichCpl aka HHCCouple
over a year ago

horwich

no probs against separate room but we get the buzz off watching each other and playing together. But like has aready been said we are all different. As long as both parties are happy and trust each other and consenting, swinging can be all things to all people. We for one love it

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By *LBishCouple
over a year ago

near bury st edmunds

Same room fun for us has nothing to do with security, its all about enjoying watching your partner and their pleasure. If we was in a club or a house party, we would consider seperate room, if the mood and the other ppl was right. All would depend on the night its not something we would ask for in a private meet. We just like watching eachother. x everyone plays differently x

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By *empnbunkCouple
over a year ago

south coast

I think we've done the lot same room seperate room , seperate house, meet on our own and eeven a weekend away the four of us where it was seperate room for the whole weekend ..... Was all gr8 fun .... If it feels rite and good go for it aslong as everyone feels the same way

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By *empnbunkCouple
over a year ago

south coast

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By *empnbunkCouple
over a year ago

south coast

Forgot to add prefer seperate room fun mostly because u get more room in the bed lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

buncha cheats the lotoya.....bloody couples thinking they can do what they want with no repercussions....sakes.... hehehehhee

On a serious note.. I if in a seperate room always communicate with my (partner of the time) by phone, or a cans with string on at each end...I loved hearing her get fucked...hated hearing her and the others whispering,"Think we can get rid of him"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We like both.its what ever takes our fancy at the time

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By *ittlemorespiceCouple
over a year ago

North Cornwall

Horses for courses....we don't swap we add one so sep room would mean one man instead of two.....I think not.

Mistress x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Either really, whichever presents its self or is practical at the time.

We often go walkabout separately at a party, it's a great turn on to walk into a room and find Trace having sex, more so if she doesn't realise I'm there. R

XX

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By *uckscouple2007Couple
over a year ago

Bucks

We prefer separate room as can concentrate on the person you are playing with..

Sarah gets pretty annoyed to be going down on a guy then look up to find he's getting more turned on by what his woman is up to than what Sarah is doing to him

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't find separate room fun very frubbly, certainly not on first meets. We sometimes do it with peeps we know.

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By *uckscouple2007Couple
over a year ago

Bucks

frubbly? is that in the OED?

LOL

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By *ondafirestormMan
over a year ago

heckington

frubbly?mmm sounds kinky lol

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By *ooty and suuCouple
over a year ago

barnsley

we done seperate rooms before

but only if we feel 100% percent all happy to do so

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The adjective frubbly and the noun frubbles are sometimes used, in the poly community in the United Kingdom and the United States, to describe the feeling ...

Polyamorous views on jealousy ... - Formal definitions - Related terms

en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Compersion

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The adjective frubbly and the noun frubbles are sometimes used, in the poly community in the United Kingdom and the United States, to describe the feeling ...

Polyamorous views on jealousy ... - Formal definitions - Related terms

en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Compersion "

well you learn something new everyday thanks x

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By *uckscouple2007Couple
over a year ago

Bucks


"The adjective frubbly and the noun frubbles are sometimes used, in the poly community in the United Kingdom and the United States, to describe the feeling ...

Polyamorous views on jealousy ... - Formal definitions - Related terms

en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Compersion "

none the wiser

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

basically the opposite of jealousy eg enjoyment when partner is enjoying another.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love compersion.. but dislike seperate rooms... but then we dont swap with couples either.. So guess its each to their own..

I'd love for instance to find a nice girl for Master and do most of the communication... be very much involved on the lead up..and then be happy to just watch her enjoy his touch, and him to take enjoyment from her... Knowing full well it doesnt matter who she is..

Same With Master... after I have had a guy, guys, whether its been a time were Master has joined in.. or just sat and watched.. Im always ravished after...

I dont think it would be the same if it was seperate rooms...

Katie. x

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