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"I thought everyone in fab had a 10+ inch knob? " I thought they all had sky remotes! | |||
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"Could it be that's the general image / portrayal in porn? " I've seen a few profiles and have received a fair amount of messages from men with small penis' that want to be cucked or told how inadequate they are, sissy men, etc. So was just something that was brought to my attention I suppose | |||
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"So I was just wondering if men that are into cuckolding of any form, are mostly on the small side of penis size? Just something I have been noticing and wondering why that is and if they truly derive pleasure from being told they are inadequate and why? I never knew it was thing till I joined this site and am still trying to understand it all. Most guys who are well endowed wouldn't be the cuck. If you have a small penis and like being a cuck, what is it for you that turns you on? Thanks x" Cuckolding isn't all about humiliation and penis size. Anyone who likes to se his partner taken by someone else is a cuck. The small penis humiliation but is just one niche link within the cuck arena. I have been with couple where the cuck was bigger than me who took the bull role. Still had a great time as did they. For me the biggest sex organ is the mind. Get that working and everything is better. | |||
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"I asked a similar question on a thread last week re cuckolding & small penises, I did get one reply that said yes there was a link in their case." I know a guy who is very much an alpha male in his day to day life and doesn't have a big cock, a little smaller than average, he wants to see me with big cocks. It's the pleasure he derives to see someone with other men, but felt like Penis size had a link | |||
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"Who knows what it is. Quite possibly a combination of a lot of things and it may just be a coincidence that a majority of cucks are "smaller" gentlemen. Maybe they are bi or bi curious and it is an arousing scenario to be in. Probably hundreds of different and individual reasons. " Hence a discussion to see what other people think | |||
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"I like to watch my wife fuck other men, but I don't have a small cock. Though to be fair, my wife likes to watch me fuck other women, so maybe we're just dirty fuckers. Makes sense, as we've never identified with the whole cuck/bull/humiliation thing. A great many couples on here are just the same as us, so people need to be careful about making assumptions." So in essence, you don't identify with those terms so don't actually do cuckolding? | |||
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"I asked a similar question on a thread last week re cuckolding & small penises, I did get one reply that said yes there was a link in their case. I know a guy who is very much an alpha male in his day to day life and doesn't have a big cock, a little smaller than average, he wants to see me with big cocks. It's the pleasure he derives to see someone with other men, but felt like Penis size had a link" A few men with "smaller" cocks (perceived or actual) have a fixation in large penises, in a non-gay way. I guess similar to how some small-breasted women have a fixation on large boobs. A side note - in my experience the vast majority of men into small penis humiliation are bang on average or only slightly smaller than average. And it is so very easy to present a penis as if it is tiny, if that's what gets you off. What I think is that most of those tiny shriveled-up cuck cocks are the same size as many of the hung hunk cocks. That's average for ya | |||
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"That's something I've noticed as well,it will be interesting to read people's thought's." The size of your cock does not make one self a cuck I became a cuck due to being naturally submissive- iam however very small endowed I've seen Dom bulls who are small And cucks who are hung like horses I guess the perfect cuck has a maggot Cock but it shouldn't really matter | |||
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"So I was just wondering if men that are into cuckolding of any form, are mostly on the small side of penis size? Just something I have been noticing and wondering why that is and if they truly derive pleasure from being told they are inadequate and why? I never knew it was thing till I joined this site and am still trying to understand it all. Most guys who are well endowed wouldn't be the cuck. If you have a small penis and like being a cuck, what is it for you that turns you on? Thanks x Cuckolding isn't all about humiliation and penis size. Anyone who likes to se his partner taken by someone else is a cuck. The small penis humiliation but is just one niche link within the cuck arena. I have been with couple where the cuck was bigger than me who took the bull role. Still had a great time as did they. For me the biggest sex organ is the mind. Get that working and everything is better. " Not everyone who likes to see their partner being pleasured by another man is a cuck or has cuck tendancies. Many "real" men love to see the woman they love pleasured totally. That is obvious from other Forum posts. | |||
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"this makes me giggle .. alot of guys think because hubby is watching or downstairs listening is because he has a small cock or can't do the ''job'' but how wrong they are he has a big thick cock and can more than please me if fact i struggle to find anyone that matches up to him ... but he and me love the cuckold / hotwife style of play .... guys need to stop thinking that they are out to ''fill the gap''when there is no gap to fill (mmmm well) .. is it so hard just to stop and think hey we do this because we are very openminded and love the fun/extra sex ?? after all is that not why most of us are on here fun fun and more fun " Sounds great to me,I'd love to experience that. | |||
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"So I was just wondering if men that are into cuckolding of any form, are mostly on the small side of penis size? Just something I have been noticing and wondering why that is and if they truly derive pleasure from being told they are inadequate and why? I never knew it was thing till I joined this site and am still trying to understand it all. Most guys who are well endowed wouldn't be the cuck. If you have a small penis and like being a cuck, what is it for you that turns you on? Thanks x Cuckolding isn't all about humiliation and penis size. Anyone who likes to se his partner taken by someone else is a cuck. The small penis humiliation but is just one niche link within the cuck arena. I have been with couple where the cuck was bigger than me who took the bull role. Still had a great time as did they. For me the biggest sex organ is the mind. Get that working and everything is better. Not everyone who likes to see their partner being pleasured by another man is a cuck or has cuck tendancies. Many "real" men love to see the woman they love pleasured totally. That is obvious from other Forum posts. " Actually they are. Cuckold comes from cockoo which are birds that breed by getting others to hatch their eggs. Therefore a cuckold is anyone who likes seeing their wife with another man. As the previous guy said, humiliation is a niche of cuckolding and many cuckolds consider themselves "real men". Personally i am both a cuckold and a bull to other couples for that reason and my dick is not especially small either. | |||
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"this makes me giggle .. alot of guys think because hubby is watching or downstairs listening is because he has a small cock or can't do the ''job'' but how wrong they are he has a big thick cock and can more than please me if fact i struggle to find anyone that matches up to him ... but he and me love the cuckold / hotwife style of play .... guys need to stop thinking that they are out to ''fill the gap''when there is no gap to fill (mmmm well) .. is it so hard just to stop and think hey we do this because we are very openminded and love the fun/extra sex ?? after all is that not why most of us are on here fun fun and more fun " Exactly. Very well articulated. J | |||
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"this makes me giggle .. alot of guys think because hubby is watching or downstairs listening is because he has a small cock or can't do the ''job'' but how wrong they are he has a big thick cock and can more than please me if fact i struggle to find anyone that matches up to him ... but he and me love the cuckold / hotwife style of play .... guys need to stop thinking that they are out to ''fill the gap''when there is no gap to fill (mmmm well) .. is it so hard just to stop and think hey we do this because we are very openminded and love the fun/extra sex ?? after all is that not why most of us are on here fun fun and more fun " Word | |||
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"Could it be that's the general image / portrayal in porn? I've seen a few profiles and have received a fair amount of messages from men with small penis' that want to be cucked or told how inadequate they are, sissy men, etc. So was just something that was brought to my attention I suppose " Love to play the sissy to your hot wife xx | |||
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"I asked a similar question on a thread last week re cuckolding & small penises, I did get one reply that said yes there was a link in their case. I know a guy who is very much an alpha male in his day to day life and doesn't have a big cock, a little smaller than average, he wants to see me with big cocks. It's the pleasure he derives to see someone with other men, but felt like Penis size had a link" I'd also luv too see you with other men and be able too be pleasures whilst your doing another cock #so hot x x | |||
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"As a cuckold husband I enjoy nothing more than seeing my wife pleasured by hung attractive men that turn her on. I'm submissive to both her and her lovers and part of what turns me on is a role play of feeling inadequate in some way both by penis size and performance etc. " your one lucky Cuck, I wanna find a wife like yours #turnedon | |||
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"My fella (lone_wolf) gets off on me fucking other men and seeing it in person or pics etc and he doesn't have a small dick! " That he does not! | |||
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"My husband and I have discussed this recently. His desire to be a cuck we think comes from when he was about 18. He had a fairly long term girlfriend who, unbeknown to him played away a lot. She also used to humiliate him for having a small cock. He found out about her infidelity and split from her. He was single for a long time after but spent a lot of his time fantasising about her fucking other guys and laughing at his cock. As he got older this became a real fantasy that he wanted to fulfil! His cock is actually not that small, it's probably average in size but he does love the humiliation. I don't know if that helps but does explain why he enjoys it" Thanks for sharing. It's always great to hear what turns people on especially cucks. | |||
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"We are into the harsher side of cuckoldry. My cuck does have a tiny cock and I do crave bigger and better. He knows his cock is small and enjoys having his boundaries pushed. In the lead up to a meet and for several days after he is kept in chastity. We enjoy the teasing and denial leading up to meets. What I find difficult is finding Bulls and other couples that struggle to understand the mental stimulation cuckoldry gives us both. I enjoy the messages back and forth of how he or they are going to take control and how they plan to humiliate my cuck. Some of the things my cuck has done may seem extreme to a lot of people but to us the more he is pushed the better an experience we have. " What extreme things has your cuck done? | |||
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"We are into the harsher side of cuckoldry. My cuck does have a tiny cock and I do crave bigger and better. He knows his cock is small and enjoys having his boundaries pushed. In the lead up to a meet and for several days after he is kept in chastity. We enjoy the teasing and denial leading up to meets. What I find difficult is finding Bulls and other couples that struggle to understand the mental stimulation cuckoldry gives us both. I enjoy the messages back and forth of how he or they are going to take control and how they plan to humiliate my cuck. Some of the things my cuck has done may seem extreme to a lot of people but to us the more he is pushed the better an experience we have. " Makes perfect sense to me. Plenty of people (guys especially) don't get cuckolding and think it's all about the wife. Sounds like you both have it sussed. | |||
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"We are into the harsher side of cuckoldry. My cuck does have a tiny cock and I do crave bigger and better. He knows his cock is small and enjoys having his boundaries pushed. In the lead up to a meet and for several days after he is kept in chastity. We enjoy the teasing and denial leading up to meets. What I find difficult is finding Bulls and other couples that struggle to understand the mental stimulation cuckoldry gives us both. I enjoy the messages back and forth of how he or they are going to take control and how they plan to humiliate my cuck. Some of the things my cuck has done may seem extreme to a lot of people but to us the more he is pushed the better an experience we have. " Many so called Bulls fall down on this side of the dynamic I'd say, it's not just me that needs the stimulation of messages in the build up but cuck too etc. Whilst my cuck has what could be described as an "average" penis we both enjoy the humiliation side of cuckoldry and enjoy seeing his limits pushed etc | |||
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"I'd imagine there are many reasons. size will be important for some. For others it maybe more mental. Ie you could have a huge cock but still want to be a cuck. There are plenty of other features that you can work on if you desire humiliation. Muscle build, he could be more handsome, a better lover. All depends on your personal desires. " Exactly this. What works for one may not for another. X | |||
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"I'd imagine there are many reasons. size will be important for some. For others it maybe more mental. Ie you could have a huge cock but still want to be a cuck. There are plenty of other features that you can work on if you desire humiliation. Muscle build, he could be more handsome, a better lover. All depends on your personal desires. Exactly this. What works for one may not for another. X" Very true, I notice you say that you are into more extreme cuckolding. But I suppose that depends on your experiences, it maybe extreme for some or tame for others. | |||
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"I'd imagine there are many reasons. size will be important for some. For others it maybe more mental. Ie you could have a huge cock but still want to be a cuck. There are plenty of other features that you can work on if you desire humiliation. Muscle build, he could be more handsome, a better lover. All depends on your personal desires. Exactly this. What works for one may not for another. X Very true, I notice you say that you are into more extreme cuckolding. But I suppose that depends on your experiences, it maybe extreme for some or tame for others. " Yes exactly right, probably the main reason why cuckold events are hard to come by or don't seem to be happening as often or are harder to organise etc.. | |||
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"I remember reading a diary of a Danish cuckold whose wife enjoyed being cruel to the point of threatening her cuck with divorce. I think in the end she did leave him. I tended to believe that account though, given the number of years it was written and the details that were added. " | |||
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"I remember reading a diary of a Danish cuckold whose wife enjoyed being cruel to the point of threatening her cuck with divorce. I think in the end she did leave him. I tended to believe that account though, given the number of years it was written and the details that were added. " It was not the most harsh cuckold account I had ever heard, but it was the most believable at that end of the extreme. | |||
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"Love being a cuck . Not really small cock. For me it's seeing slut with fit younger much bigger cock being satisfied and fucked in ways I can't give her and simply seeing a smile on her face and very happy does it for me" Love the hubby at work shot and the one in the kitchen. I'm sure dressed in that skirt she has men eager to satisfy what she truly desires. | |||
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"My husband and I have discussed this recently. His desire to be a cuck we think comes from when he was about 18. He had a fairly long term girlfriend who, unbeknown to him played away a lot. She also used to humiliate him for having a small cock. He found out about her infidelity and split from her. He was single for a long time after but spent a lot of his time fantasising about her fucking other guys and laughing at his cock. As he got older this became a real fantasy that he wanted to fulfil! His cock is actually not that small, it's probably average in size but he does love the humiliation. I don't know if that helps but does explain why he enjoys it" gotta say loving the Dvp pic as this something I'd luv the chance too try. #fingerscrossed x x | |||
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"Love being a cuck . Not really small cock. For me it's seeing slut with fit younger much bigger cock being satisfied and fucked in ways I can't give her and simply seeing a smile on her face and very happy does it for me" ummm ohh yes that would do it for me too #so hot x x | |||
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"I remember reading a diary of a Danish cuckold whose wife enjoyed being cruel to the point of threatening her cuck with divorce. I think in the end she did leave him. I tended to believe that account though, given the number of years it was written and the details that were added It was not the most harsh cuckold account I had ever heard, but it was the most believable at that end of the extreme. " What was it called? | |||
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"I remember reading a diary of a Danish cuckold whose wife enjoyed being cruel to the point of threatening her cuck with divorce. I think in the end she did leave him. I tended to believe that account though, given the number of years it was written and the details that were added It was not the most harsh cuckold account I had ever heard, but it was the most believable at that end of the extreme. What was it called? " Oh God it was a few years ago now. I wouldn't recommend visiting the website as my virus and malware checker now blocks the site as it's riddled with the stuff. | |||
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"So I was just wondering if men that are into cuckolding of any form, are mostly on the small side of penis size? Just something I have been noticing and wondering why that is and if they truly derive pleasure from being told they are inadequate and why? I never knew it was thing till I joined this site and am still trying to understand it all. Most guys who are well endowed wouldn't be the cuck. If you have a small penis and like being a cuck, what is it for you that turns you on? Thanks x" I am certainly a cuckold wannabe and actively looking to live this lifestyle. I was told by an ex that I have a tiny Willy and that she has openly let her friend and guys she met in the bar she was working at. it was hard to take and I was upset and felt betrayed by the girl I loved. I did however feel turned on by the humiliation of it all. she did eventually cheat on me with a guy she met at work which was even harder to take and I couldn't stop being turned on by the thought of the women i love being fucked by a bigger and better man. with other girlfriends I am always fanticing them fucking real men and taking bigger cocks whilst humiliating me and my tiny cock. This I believe was how I became to need and crave to become a cuckold and with it all the humiliation i probably deserve | |||
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"We can only speak for ourselves on these threads of course, but my tiny little willy absolutely makes me perfect obedient cuckold material. " Ditto xx | |||
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"So I was just wondering if men that are into cuckolding of any form, are mostly on the small side of penis size? Just something I have been noticing and wondering why that is and if they truly derive pleasure from being told they are inadequate and why? I never knew it was thing till I joined this site and am still trying to understand it all. Most guys who are well endowed wouldn't be the cuck. If you have a small penis and like being a cuck, what is it for you that turns you on? Thanks x" b Think being submissive anyway , feeling inferior in that department is ....strange as it seems Rewarding. | |||
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