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"I'm talking about the hidden "straight" bi guys. What's the point in claiming to be straight ? - you miss out on meets with openly bi people because we can't search you - you're potentially playing with people who don't want to play with you. I'm talking about the profiles with "no bi men". That means you're duping people into playing with you. - and for the same profiles, you're taking away their right to choose. " Absolutely does my head in. The number of 'straight' bi guys who message me is ridiculous. Why people can't be honest about their sexuality on here amazes me. I'm only looking for bi guys. If I wanted a sreaught fella I'd go down the pub. Oh I get it - then the bi phobics won't play with them.  | |||
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"I'm talking about the hidden "straight" bi guys. What's the point in claiming to be straight ? - you miss out on meets with openly bi people because we can't search you - you're potentially playing with people who don't want to play with you. I'm talking about the profiles with "no bi men". That means you're duping people into playing with you. - and for the same profiles, you're taking away their right to choose. "  | |||
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Still get the 'fab straight' blokes who really only want to get into Mrs Marms knickers! | |||
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"We recently changed Mr's sexuality from straight to bicurious, following requests from other 'straight' men for bisexual MMF threesomes. In all honesty we find it makes no difference what you say on the profile. If we went back to saying straight, the bi men will still seek us out, so I don't think we would miss out. Mrs" nothing makes any difference. | |||
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" you're potentially playing with people who don't want to play with you. I'm talking about the profiles with "no bi men". That means you're duping people into playing with you. " Yeah, imagine one of these poor women being bent over the kitchen table by a Fab Straight guy and suddenly hearing "Wow, you're even tighter than Dave was last night!" | |||
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"I'm talking about the hidden "straight" bi guys. What's the point in claiming to be straight ? - you miss out on meets with openly bi people because we can't search you - you're potentially playing with people who don't want to play with you. I'm talking about the profiles with "no bi men". That means you're duping people into playing with you. - and for the same profiles, you're taking away their right to choose. " And they are causing straight to lose it's meaning on here, some couples just assume that your bi. | |||
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"We recently changed Mr's sexuality from straight to bicurious, following requests from other 'straight' men for bisexual MMF threesomes. In all honesty we find it makes no difference what you say on the profile. If we went back to saying straight, the bi men will still seek us out, so I don't think we would miss out. Mrs" It's more a question of being honest to let other people choose who they want to play with  | |||
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"Fine fine, changed my profile. Male sluts, get those slutty asses ready. TSH"You know you can filter messages to stop single guys contacting you? | |||
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"We recently changed Mr's sexuality from straight to bicurious, following requests from other 'straight' men for bisexual MMF threesomes. In all honesty we find it makes no difference what you say on the profile. If we went back to saying straight, the bi men will still seek us out, so I don't think we would miss out. Mrs It's more a question of being honest to let other people choose who they want to play with "When we started using Fab we were strictly playing straight. It never occurred to us back then that people might need to know about bisexual activity from over 10 years ago in order to decide whether they wanted to play with us. | |||
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"Fine fine, changed my profile. Male sluts, get those slutty asses ready. TSH
You know you can filter messages to stop single guys contacting you?"I didn't. I don't mind messasges from single guys, they can just be a bit cringey and desperado at times. TSH
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"Fine fine, changed my profile. Male sluts, get those slutty asses ready. TSH
You know you can filter messages to stop single guys contacting you?
I didn't.
I don't mind messasges from single guys, they can just be a bit cringey and desperado at times.
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"We recently changed Mr's sexuality from straight to bicurious, following requests from other 'straight' men for bisexual MMF threesomes. In all honesty we find it makes no difference what you say on the profile. If we went back to saying straight, the bi men will still seek us out, so I don't think we would miss out. Mrs It's more a question of being honest to let other people choose who they want to play with
When we started using Fab we were strictly playing straight. It never occurred to us back then that people might need to know about bisexual activity from over 10 years ago in order to decide whether they wanted to play with us. "Using that analogy we are also straight then. As by far the most sexual activity we have is between ourselves. Heterosexual sex. With some gay pillow talk thrown in  | |||
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"Happily says everything about us on our profile
Still get the 'fab straight' blokes who really only want to get into Mrs Marms knickers!"Weve come across those as well. Never works for them because they bottle it when the Bi stuff is mentioned by Mrs | |||
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"I'm talking about the hidden "straight" bi guys. What's the point in claiming to be straight ? - you miss out on meets with openly bi people because we can't search you - you're potentially playing with people who don't want to play with you. I'm talking about the profiles with "no bi men". That means you're duping people into playing with you. - and for the same profiles, you're taking away their right to choose. " Becoming very prevalent on here | |||
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"Maybe because these people, their peers and society beleive being anything but straight is wrong. A huge proportion of society still firmly believes this." Not to mention that we are also plague-ridden devil worshipers.... Even got told that the devil is a tranny! Ho hum | |||
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"Very true to above. In our social circle to have any bi tendencies is very wrong, so why are guys still feeling they have to be macho straight purely heterosexual on a site that is about meeting up and having 'taboo' fun when the females are very much almost expected to be bi?" I don't know why any guys would feel they couldn't be open on here apart from increasing their target audience. Sir is proud and openly macho bi. | |||
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"Very true to above. In our social circle to have any bi tendencies is very wrong, so why are guys still feeling they have to be macho straight purely heterosexual on a site that is about meeting up and having 'taboo' fun when the females are very much almost expected to be bi? I don't know why any guys would feel they couldn't be open on here apart from increasing their target audience. Sir is proud and openly macho bi. " Do you find it arousing too to see your man having fun with another guy. It's my other halfs major kink and I do like to see her happy | |||
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"Very true to above. In our social circle to have any bi tendencies is very wrong, so why are guys still feeling they have to be macho straight purely heterosexual on a site that is about meeting up and having 'taboo' fun when the females are very much almost expected to be bi? I don't know why any guys would feel they couldn't be open on here apart from increasing their target audience. Sir is proud and openly macho bi. " I think in a nutshell that's it - the bi guys that list themselves as straight see they're increasing their target audience without realising that they're actually decreasing another one potentially. Rightly or wrongly (wrongly IMHO) that's probably driven by the whole male/female supply and demand imbalance on here and an element of wanting to increase chances of meets as a result. Personally I'd rather be true to myself and take time to find meets that I have a connection with and who accept/respect my sexuality than hide it. | |||
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"Very true to above. In our social circle to have any bi tendencies is very wrong, so why are guys still feeling they have to be macho straight purely heterosexual on a site that is about meeting up and having 'taboo' fun when the females are very much almost expected to be bi? I don't know why any guys would feel they couldn't be open on here apart from increasing their target audience. Sir is proud and openly macho bi. Do you find it arousing too to see your man having fun with another guy. It's my other halfs major kink and I do like to see her happy "Oh my god yes. And the fact he is so confident makes it even more erotic. | |||
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"We recently changed Mr's sexuality from straight to bicurious, following requests from other 'straight' men for bisexual MMF threesomes. In all honesty we find it makes no difference what you say on the profile. If we went back to saying straight, the bi men will still seek us out, so I don't think we would miss out. Mrs" Can you change ......just like that ?????? Either your straight or bi surely ? | |||
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"Very true to above. In our social circle to have any bi tendencies is very wrong, so why are guys still feeling they have to be macho straight purely heterosexual on a site that is about meeting up and having 'taboo' fun when the females are very much almost expected to be bi? I don't know why any guys would feel they couldn't be open on here apart from increasing their target audience. Sir is proud and openly macho bi. I think in a nutshell that's it - the bi guys that list themselves as straight see they're increasing their target audience without realising that they're actually decreasing another one potentially. Rightly or wrongly (wrongly IMHO) that's probably driven by the whole male/female supply and demand imbalance on here and an element of wanting to increase chances of meets as a result. Personally I'd rather be true to myself and take time to find meets that I have a connection with and who accept/respect my sexuality than hide it. "Do you think the guys who are bi but say straight have more interest in meeting women then overall? Is bisexual like 50/50 or when it is more convenient to be and the odds are in their favour? | |||
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"Very true to above. In our social circle to have any bi tendencies is very wrong, so why are guys still feeling they have to be macho straight purely heterosexual on a site that is about meeting up and having 'taboo' fun when the females are very much almost expected to be bi? I don't know why any guys would feel they couldn't be open on here apart from increasing their target audience. Sir is proud and openly macho bi. I think in a nutshell that's it - the bi guys that list themselves as straight see they're increasing their target audience without realising that they're actually decreasing another one potentially. Rightly or wrongly (wrongly IMHO) that's probably driven by the whole male/female supply and demand imbalance on here and an element of wanting to increase chances of meets as a result. Personally I'd rather be true to myself and take time to find meets that I have a connection with and who accept/respect my sexuality than hide it. Do you think the guys who are bi but say straight have more interest in meeting women then overall? Is bisexual like 50/50 or when it is more convenient to be and the odds are in their favour?"Different folks different strokes. | |||
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"I have bi on my profile and I'm happy with it. If you don't like sub bi men I'm not for you so it won't work. I like sucking cock if front of women and sharing one with women, what's there to hide. "Yes yes and yes again
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" I don't know why any guys would feel they couldn't be open on here apart from increasing their target audience. Sir is proud and openly macho bi. " And as deeply sexy and beautiful you are your profile needs a few more pics of his sexy self
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"Very true to above. In our social circle to have any bi tendencies is very wrong, so why are guys still feeling they have to be macho straight purely heterosexual on a site that is about meeting up and having 'taboo' fun when the females are very much almost expected to be bi? I don't know why any guys would feel they couldn't be open on here apart from increasing their target audience. Sir is proud and openly macho bi. I think in a nutshell that's it - the bi guys that list themselves as straight see they're increasing their target audience without realising that they're actually decreasing another one potentially. Rightly or wrongly (wrongly IMHO) that's probably driven by the whole male/female supply and demand imbalance on here and an element of wanting to increase chances of meets as a result. Personally I'd rather be true to myself and take time to find meets that I have a connection with and who accept/respect my sexuality than hide it. Do you think the guys who are bi but say straight have more interest in meeting women then overall? Is bisexual like 50/50 or when it is more convenient to be and the odds are in their favour?
Different folks different strokes.
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"We recently changed Mr's sexuality from straight to bicurious, following requests from other 'straight' men for bisexual MMF threesomes. In all honesty we find it makes no difference what you say on the profile. If we went back to saying straight, the bi men will still seek us out, so I don't think we would miss out. Mrs Can you change ......just like that ?????? Either your straight or bi surely ?" We were playing straight at the time, so we described how we wanted to play. | |||
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"Very true to above. In our social circle to have any bi tendencies is very wrong, so why are guys still feeling they have to be macho straight purely heterosexual on a site that is about meeting up and having 'taboo' fun when the females are very much almost expected to be bi? I don't know why any guys would feel they couldn't be open on here apart from increasing their target audience. Sir is proud and openly macho bi. I think in a nutshell that's it - the bi guys that list themselves as straight see they're increasing their target audience without realising that they're actually decreasing another one potentially. Rightly or wrongly (wrongly IMHO) that's probably driven by the whole male/female supply and demand imbalance on here and an element of wanting to increase chances of meets as a result. Personally I'd rather be true to myself and take time to find meets that I have a connection with and who accept/respect my sexuality than hide it. Do you think the guys who are bi but say straight have more interest in meeting women then overall? Is bisexual like 50/50 or when it is more convenient to be and the odds are in their favour?"I list as bi, but id rather meet a girl. Luckily i dont have to choose. | |||
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"Very true to above. In our social circle to have any bi tendencies is very wrong, so why are guys still feeling they have to be macho straight purely heterosexual on a site that is about meeting up and having 'taboo' fun when the females are very much almost expected to be bi? I don't know why any guys would feel they couldn't be open on here apart from increasing their target audience. Sir is proud and openly macho bi. Do you find it arousing too to see your man having fun with another guy. It's my other halfs major kink and I do like to see her happy
Oh my god yes. And the fact he is so confident makes it even more erotic. "We both like to take the lead role. She says what she wants to see me do to him/him to me, and I like to take control over what I like to see, especially when I've blindfolded gagged and tied her wrists and ankles to the bedposts so she is spread legged and bent over exposing her soaking wet vulnerable tight hole. Mmmm | |||
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" I don't know why any guys would feel they couldn't be open on here apart from increasing their target audience. Sir is proud and openly macho bi. And as deeply sexy and beautiful you are your profile needs a few more pics of his sexy self
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Bisexual male and damn proud of it"Yes I know. It's on my list to do. | |||
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"Very true to above. In our social circle to have any bi tendencies is very wrong, so why are guys still feeling they have to be macho straight purely heterosexual on a site that is about meeting up and having 'taboo' fun when the females are very much almost expected to be bi? I don't know why any guys would feel they couldn't be open on here apart from increasing their target audience. Sir is proud and openly macho bi. I think in a nutshell that's it - the bi guys that list themselves as straight see they're increasing their target audience without realising that they're actually decreasing another one potentially. Rightly or wrongly (wrongly IMHO) that's probably driven by the whole male/female supply and demand imbalance on here and an element of wanting to increase chances of meets as a result. Personally I'd rather be true to myself and take time to find meets that I have a connection with and who accept/respect my sexuality than hide it. Do you think the guys who are bi but say straight have more interest in meeting women then overall? Is bisexual like 50/50 or when it is more convenient to be and the odds are in their favour?"Varies from person to person, surely? I list as Bi Curious cos that's all it is. I very rarely play with guys or go looking for bi fun. It's just fun to try something different every once in a while. | |||
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"I think in a nutshell that's it - the bi guys that list themselves as straight see they're increasing their target audience without realising that they're actually decreasing another one potentially. Rightly or wrongly (wrongly IMHO) that's probably driven by the whole male/female supply and demand imbalance on here and an element of wanting to increase chances of meets as a result. Personally I'd rather be true to myself and take time to find meets that I have a connection with and who accept/respect my sexuality than hide it. Do you think the guys who are bi but say straight have more interest in meeting women then overall? Is bisexual like 50/50 or when it is more convenient to be and the odds are in their favour?"As someone else pointed out it's different for each of us - if I HAD to choose between one or the other I'd choose women without a doubt. I don't fancy men in the same way I do women, nor could I see myself having a relationship with a man in the same way I would a woman, but there is something very hot about exploring my bi side - particularly in a Bi MMF or Bi MMFF or more situation. Back to the original question though it's for each of us as individuals to decide how we want to label ourselves for me though I'm more than happy to identify as Bi and know I personally am opening more doors than I am closing by doing so. | |||
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"I'm talking about the hidden "straight" bi guys. What's the point in claiming to be straight ? - you miss out on meets with openly bi people because we can't search you - you're potentially playing with people who don't want to play with you. I'm talking about the profiles with "no bi men". That means you're duping people into playing with you. - and for the same profiles, you're taking away their right to choose. " Hi ..for me..im orally bi..but do have straight on profile..as ..I know ppl on here and they don't know im bi..and its that simple..some things I dont want ppl to know...and if im approached im up front about what im in to.....   | |||
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"Very true to above. In our social circle to have any bi tendencies is very wrong, so why are guys still feeling they have to be macho straight purely heterosexual on a site that is about meeting up and having 'taboo' fun when the females are very much almost expected to be bi? I don't know why any guys would feel they couldn't be open on here apart from increasing their target audience. Sir is proud and openly macho bi. I think in a nutshell that's it - the bi guys that list themselves as straight see they're increasing their target audience without realising that they're actually decreasing another one potentially. Rightly or wrongly (wrongly IMHO) that's probably driven by the whole male/female supply and demand imbalance on here and an element of wanting to increase chances of meets as a result. Personally I'd rather be true to myself and take time to find meets that I have a connection with and who accept/respect my sexuality than hide it. Do you think the guys who are bi but say straight have more interest in meeting women then overall? Is bisexual like 50/50 or when it is more convenient to be and the odds are in their favour?"I'm guessing that the majority of guys who are fab straight are more eager to have sex with women and it's what they find hardest to get. I also think that the guys who are happy whoever is their partner are a minority. No evidence of this. | |||
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"I'm talking about the hidden "straight" bi guys. What's the point in claiming to be straight ? - you miss out on meets with openly bi people because we can't search you - you're potentially playing with people who don't want to play with you. I'm talking about the profiles with "no bi men". That means you're duping people into playing with you. - and for the same profiles, you're taking away their right to choose. Hi ..for me..im orally bi..but do have straight on profile..as ..I know ppl on here and they don't know im bi..and its that simple..some things I dont want ppl to know...and if im approached im up front about what im in to..... "But now youve told everyone! . Might as well just update your profile | |||
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"I'm very bi and choose to show it on here but I do find that select couples and women wont meet a bi guy " Meanwhile other select couples will welcome your honesty
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"I'm talking about the hidden "straight" bi guys. What's the point in claiming to be straight ? - you miss out on meets with openly bi people because we can't search you - you're potentially playing with people who don't want to play with you. I'm talking about the profiles with "no bi men". That means you're duping people into playing with you. - and for the same profiles, you're taking away their right to choose. Hi ..for me..im orally bi..but do have straight on profile..as ..I know ppl on here and they don't know im bi..and its that simple..some things I dont want ppl to know...and if im approached im up front about what im in to.....
But now youve told everyone! . Might as well just update your profile"Lmao ..only the fabbers that go on forum..lol | |||
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Now, hung me the label you want: straight-bi...
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"Told a guy tonight with straight on his profile claiming to be fully bi in message to get over himself. Though I understand why so few remain in the closet. Many lady and couples profiles are utterly vile about bi men. Bi women are accepted, bi men less so. If we can't be honest and tolerant on a damn swinging site, what hope is there of it becoming widely acceptable? " | |||
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"Told a guy tonight with straight on his profile claiming to be fully bi in message to get over himself. Though I understand why so few remain in the closet. Many lady and couples profiles are utterly vile about bi men. Bi women are accepted, bi men less so. If we can't be honest and tolerant on a damn swinging site, what hope is there of it becoming widely acceptable? " I have to say in ten years been on fab I've never seen a vile comment on a profile. Just "no bi men". Which may be stated several times to get the message through. | |||
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"I don't find attractive a man and wouldn't meet him alone. However, a biMMF sharing each other... is Heaven
Now, hung me the label you want: straight-bi...
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"My profile says straight. I am curious, but not sure I will ever do anything about it. I tried once, went to a guys house but I just didn't get turned on, and it felt like I wasted his time. So instead of putting bi on my profile, and maybe wasting someone elses time, I changed it back to straight. I think the probably way forward to experience the bi element will be to find a mmf where the f takes control and demands I play with the m. " I guess bi curious is what you are. But for the point I'm trying to make, you haven't been with a guy, so you wouldn't be upsetting straight people who don't want to meet bi guys due to risk. | |||
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"The majority of guys are bi here. However I'm happy to be their secret x" And I can never understand why other bi people seem to accept even encourage guys to be "Fab straight". Because many of the same people are also citing homophobia. So why not encourage these guys to be out and proud instead  | |||
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"I don't find attractive a man and wouldn't meet him alone. However, a biMMF sharing each other... is Heaven
Now, hung me the label you want: straight-bi...
I'd rather name me simply as "hedonist""I'm very similar. It's a shame Fabs doesn't have a few more sexuality options - hete  exible, for example. | |||
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"We recently changed Mr's sexuality from straight to bicurious, following requests from other 'straight' men for bisexual MMF threesomes. In all honesty we find it makes no difference what you say on the profile. If we went back to saying straight, the bi men will still seek us out, so I don't think we would miss out. Mrs Can you change ......just like that ?????? Either your straight or bi surely ?" Bi curious I would say. You can think you're straight but then be put in a situation where you push your boundaries and explore. Surely if a man touches another mans cock, during a MMF for instance that doesn't means he's instantly bi and fancies men. Personally, I would say that's exploring and being curious. | |||
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"Can you change ......just like that ?????? Either your straight or bi surely ? Bi curious I would say. You can think you're straight but then be put in a situation where you push your boundaries and explore. Surely if a man touches another mans cock, during a MMF for instance that doesn't means he's instantly bi and fancies men. Personally, I would say that's exploring and being curious." I'd agree...the distinction, for me at least, between identifying as being bi-curious and bisexual was when I first started to explore that side of my sexuality I didn't know if it was something I'd continue to want to explore - once I realised it was I dropped the "curious" tag | |||
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"Told a guy tonight with straight on his profile claiming to be fully bi in message to get over himself. Though I understand why so few remain in the closet. Many lady and couples profiles are utterly vile about bi men. Bi women are accepted, bi men less so. If we can't be honest and tolerant on a damn swinging site, what hope is there of it becoming widely acceptable? I have to say in ten years been on fab I've never seen a vile comment on a profile. Just "no bi men". Which may be stated several times to get the message through. " I have, on several occasions. Agreed, not the vast majority but they do exist. For what it's worth, my opinion is that people should be free to define themselves as they wish, even on Fab | |||
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"Told a guy tonight with straight on his profile claiming to be fully bi in message to get over himself. Though I understand why so few remain in the closet. Many lady and couples profiles are utterly vile about bi men. Bi women are accepted, bi men less so. If we can't be honest and tolerant on a damn swinging site, what hope is there of it becoming widely acceptable? I have to say in ten years been on fab I've never seen a vile comment on a profile. Just "no bi men". Which may be stated several times to get the message through. I have, on several occasions. Agreed, not the vast majority but they do exist. For what it's worth, my opinion is that people should be free to define themselves as they wish, even on Fab "It's very frustrating & very true. So many guys missing out on fun because it may spoil thier chances with straight couples. Get a grip lads. | |||
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"We recently changed Mr's sexuality from straight to bicurious, following requests from other 'straight' men for bisexual MMF threesomes. In all honesty we find it makes no difference what you say on the profile. If we went back to saying straight, the bi men will still seek us out, so I don't think we would miss out. Mrs Can you change ......just like that ?????? Either your straight or bi surely ? Bi curious I would say. You can think you're straight but then be put in a situation where you push your boundaries and explore. Surely if a man touches another mans cock, during a MMF for instance that doesn't means he's instantly bi and fancies men. Personally, I would say that's exploring and being curious." I've always seen bisexual as enjoying sex with both nothing to do with fancying guys, just my take on it | |||
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"I'm always honest. I am not attracted to men and don't even understand what is attractive about us other than a vague concept of handsome. But I do play with guys in MMF or group situations and enjoy it. I'd describe myself as hete exible but bicurious is the nearest Fab option."
I find the fab options to be over simplistic.
I'm comfortable in group scenarios but most of the time I don't want to play with the guy. 'Straight' is an absolute definition so I guess I can't say that, even if it's how I feel 98% of the time.
'Bicurious' is the no man's land that I've had to settle for on here. | |||
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"If it were up to us, we would choose not to state on our profile what sexuality is, in the same way we have the option of not declaring all our sexual interests. A forth option on the tick box stating 'prefers not to say', like it does in the equal opportunities forms. This box could be used by all those who lie because they don't want people to know their personal business, and all those who don't wish to be labelled. People who are interested in a profile where sexuality is not declared, would then have the option of either asking or passing that profile by. But at least people have the option of preserving their privacy until they see fit to disclose their sexual interests, instead of lying. Mrs" Yes I'd agree with that. If I recall correctly the "prefer not to say" is used by other gay/bi websites. I don't necessarily understand or agree with why men would choose this, but it's probably the next best option to telling the truth. But honesty shouldn't be a dirty word | |||
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"Very true to above. In our social circle to have any bi tendencies is very wrong, so why are guys still feeling they have to be macho straight purely heterosexual on a site that is about meeting up and having 'taboo' fun when the females are very much almost expected to be bi? I don't know why any guys would feel they couldn't be open on here apart from increasing their target audience. Sir is proud and openly macho bi. " I am bi curious but declare as straight because its up to me surely when I want to play bi I.e as submissive - I am not looking for and never will be looking for an arse to fuck or some sensual kissing, I have to be forced and then the thought of sucking a cock and being fucked hard arouses and turns me on the rest of any play I'm dom straight and want to fulfill my wife's fantasies with her when the opportunity presents itself for me (of which I choose when) I do not want sought | |||
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I want other people looking for bi guys to find me easily
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"OP stop trying to out them lol they're not bi silly. they're straight but like cocks attached to other people don't you get it?" Damn you're hot | |||
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"OP stop trying to out them lol they're not bi silly. they're straight but like cocks attached to other people don't you get it? Damn you're hot "Holy shit, I concur. | |||
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"I've actually had a guy message me saying that he knows I'm straight but just thought he send a message and see if he could suck me off. I replied saying I was bi and that it says so in My profile. he blocked me. Weird one. Maybe something like that? Fucked if I know why they do it though. " How strange indeed, but your cock does look very suckable | |||
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"I was told by one by guy recently is that he doesnt put it on his profile as it puts women off. I said well you will attract the wrong type of women then. I love bi guys.. i need one in my life lol" See I just don't get why guys do that and you are right if they are honest they would attract women or couples seeking similar things I also don't understand single straight guys attending a Bi night at a club, similarly people attending are usually there for Bi males or at least curious not straight ones | |||
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"I was told by one by guy recently is that he doesnt put it on his profile as it puts women off. I said well you will attract the wrong type of women then. I love bi guys.. i need one in my life lol" I'm only down the road and of you look like anything in your profile I will be a lucky man xx | |||
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that's why I don't bullshit around tell the truth and people should except you as you are | |||
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"OP stop trying to out them lol they're not bi silly. they're straight but like cocks attached to other people don't you get it?" The thought never occurred to me. But now you mention it
It's attracted several HOT bi guys. More please | |||
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"OP stop trying to out them lol they're not bi silly. they're straight but like cocks attached to other people don't you get it? The thought never occurred to me. But now you mention it
It's attracted several HOT bi guys. More please "Send some my way plz kthx. | |||
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"I was told by one by guy recently is that he doesnt put it on his profile as it puts women off. I said well you will attract the wrong type of women then. I love bi guys.. i need one in my life lol" I need to move to Portsmouth really quickly lol. | |||
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"Happily says everything about us on our profile
Still get the 'fab straight' blokes who really only want to get into Mrs Marms knickers!"Yep same here | |||
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"Happily says everything about us on our profile
Still get the 'fab straight' blokes who really only want to get into Mrs Marms knickers!
Yep same here"And now you will find some of those straight guys having read threads like this are now listing as Bi or curious now chancing their hand for a few weeks | |||
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"I was told by one by guy recently is that he doesnt put it on his profile as it puts women off. I said well you will attract the wrong type of women then. I love bi guys.. i need one in my life lol" Id snap you up in a heartbeat if you were closer ?? | |||
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" I also don't understand single straight guys attending a Bi night at a club, similarly people attending are usually there for Bi males or at least curious not straight ones "The reason is simple: they think, they will see F-on-F action and the "bi-guys" will be otherwise occupied. That leaves the women free for them. Trouble is these fools don't realise the exact opposite is true. So they get annoyed and pester/stalk women and couples. | |||
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"Happily says everything about us on our profile
Still get the 'fab straight' blokes who really only want to get into Mrs Marms knickers!
Yep same here
And now you will find some of those straight guys having read threads like this are now listing as Bi or curious now chancing their hand for a few weeks "But then run a mile or complain when the wife/GF say to them i want to see you suck my partners cock or see him bum you.  | |||
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"I was told by one by guy recently is that he doesnt put it on his profile as it puts women off. I said well you will attract the wrong type of women then. I love bi guys.. i need one in my life lol Id snap you up in a heartbeat if you were closer ??" Aww thank you. Im sure there is someone nearby .. ive not long put that i prefer bi men on my profile but we shall see. Most are too far away.  | |||
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"I was told by one by guy recently is that he doesnt put it on his profile as it puts women off. I said well you will attract the wrong type of women then. I love bi guys.. i need one in my life lol Id snap you up in a heartbeat if you were closer ?? Aww thank you. Im sure there is someone nearby .. ive not long put that i prefer bi men on my profile but we shall see. Most are too far away. "So is it only recently you have enjoyed Bi guys or enjoyed for a while and just recently added it to your profile? | |||
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"I was told by one by guy recently is that he doesnt put it on his profile as it puts women off. I said well you will attract the wrong type of women then. I love bi guys.. i need one in my life lol Id snap you up in a heartbeat if you were closer ?? Aww thank you. Im sure there is someone nearby .. ive not long put that i prefer bi men on my profile but we shall see. Most are too far away.
So is it only recently you have enjoyed Bi guys or enjoyed for a while and just recently added it to your profile?"I was lucky enough to watch two guys Giving each other oral on cam about three years ago. This was a private session that i had asked if it was possible to watch them both. They both agreed and it turned me on watching them.. They came and I came but I never sought out bi guys or bi curious guys even after the cam session. Still not really searching for them just making it known that it doesn't bother me if a guy is bi or bi curious. If i meet a swinging partner who is straight im happy with that also. | |||
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"I was told by one by guy recently is that he doesnt put it on his profile as it puts women off. I said well you will attract the wrong type of women then. I love bi guys.. i need one in my life lol Id snap you up in a heartbeat if you were closer ?? Aww thank you. Im sure there is someone nearby .. ive not long put that i prefer bi men on my profile but we shall see. Most are too far away.
So is it only recently you have enjoyed Bi guys or enjoyed for a while and just recently added it to your profile?
I was lucky enough to watch two guys Giving each other oral on cam about three years ago. This was a private session that i had asked if it was possible to watch them both. They both agreed and it turned me on watching them.. They came and I came but I never sought out bi guys or bi curious guys even after the cam session. Still not really searching for them just making it known that it doesn't bother me if a guy is bi or bi curious. If i meet a swinging partner who is straight im happy with that also. "Nice, so a live porn show hehe, not enjoyed in the flesh then? | |||
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"I'm talking about the hidden "straight" bi guys. What's the point in claiming to be straight ? - you miss out on meets with openly bi people because we can't search you - you're potentially playing with people who don't want to play with you. I'm talking about the profiles with "no bi men". That means you're duping people into playing with you. - and for the same profiles, you're taking away their right to choose. " Thank you! Fantastic post | |||
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....so we are Bi and No wish to be straight restricted x Ps is there a Bi Proud day? | |||
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"Bi is the best of both worlds...it is well have your cake and eating it ....so we are Bi and No wish to be straight restricted x Ps is there a Bi Proud day? "Smoking hot couple
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