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Can you spot swingers in everyday life?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

and if so... do you ever ask the question outright?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Easy to spot. As long as they are wearing the secret swingers hair bobble

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By *uietlyBohemianCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle-under-Lyme

Whenever we see a couple who are actually smiling in each other's presence, we tend to suspect they're happy swingers

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By *reenleavesCouple
over a year ago

North Wales


"Whenever we see a couple who are actually smiling in each other's presence, we tend to suspect they're happy swingers "

Exactly this

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By *e enjoy esxMan
over a year ago

grimsby


"Whenever we see a couple who are actually smiling in each other's presence, we tend to suspect they're happy swingers "

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By *awandOrderCouple
over a year ago

SW London


"Whenever we see a couple who are actually smiling in each other's presence, we tend to suspect they're happy swingers "

So it's not possible for a couple to be happy without fucking others?? Wow, deluded or what ....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nah but it's a laugh pretending that they might be & wondering what they're profile on here would be like

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By *reenleavesCouple
over a year ago

North Wales


"Whenever we see a couple who are actually smiling in each other's presence, we tend to suspect they're happy swingers

So it's not possible for a couple to be happy without fucking others?? Wow, deluded or what ...."

It is but there's that special kind of 'we know what we did' knowing smile and glow that couples don't get just by spending the weekend choosing wallpaper and getting a coffee in town The kind of smile that invites others in.

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By *orksCouple25Couple
over a year ago

Leeds

We have toyed with the idea of asking a couple who look like swingers ( dirty look on their faces and looking at other couples in the same way as we look at other couples) the following question

' Hi sorry we hope you don't mind us asking but are you on Fab? '

If they are swingers they will blush and deny or admit it .

If they aren't they will say ' what's that ' to which we would reply 'it's a website for Motorhomers' and apologise for mixing them up with someone else .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When I'm out and about I spot a few from on here, if they come to where I work I tell them to have a fab day but I won't approach them out in the streets or shops because I respect discretion.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I enjoy people watching and trying to work out who I think would be, but there is no definite way of telling. I also find this with females, it's difficult to know if a woman is bi.

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By *un4usCouple
over a year ago

suffolk

Its very hard to do. But we were sitting in Gran Canaria airport last saturday and got chatting to a couple about normal things. When we got back to the uk on Sunday we had a message from the couple saying that they think we had been chatting at the airport and didnt twig that we were swingers untill later when they remembered that we said that we had spent a couple of nights at the CITA centre.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Walk round a garden centre and spot the people buying a pampas grass plant for their front lawn...

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By *oxesMan
over a year ago

Southend, Essex

2 occasions:

1) I was put for a swingers social in the Spread Eagle in Rayleigh Essex, and www saw a girl who looked ineffably like a profile on here, we stayed to compare and one ladies of our group discreetly afronted her about it.

2) in a certain hotel lobby in Cardiff last February 2015. while I am sitting their eating a chicken Ceasar salad with anchovies. there was a couple on the table on the far side they were meeting random men who seemingly they had not meet before judging by tge way she was dressed hidden by a long coat snd the obsessive use of the word vanilla They must have been swingers.

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By *imetoexplore69Couple
over a year ago

Aberdeen

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By *imetoexplore69Couple
over a year ago

Aberdeen


"Whenever we see a couple who are actually smiling in each other's presence, we tend to suspect they're happy swingers

So it's not possible for a couple to be happy without fucking others?? Wow, deluded or what ...."
calm down I'm sure it's just a bit of banter on a sex site forum fs .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can't say we know how to spot swingers, but sometimes we'll see a couple and guess by their demeanour that they're probably more sexually liberated than the average couple. Makes us wonder about ourselves, and whether we give off subtle signals. Hope not, as we'd rather stay in stealth mode

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Was in a restaurant at Christmas and it was pretty apparent that on the table next to us was 2 couples on a social

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith

Hahaha! Not in the Lakes you can't!

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor


"Its very hard to do. But we were sitting in Gran Canaria airport last saturday and got chatting to a couple about normal things. When we got back to the uk on Sunday we had a message from the couple saying that they think we had been chatting at the airport and didnt twig that we were swingers untill later when they remembered that we said that we had spent a couple of nights at the CITA centre. "

Gosh,are you going to meet them?

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By *andomfodCouple
over a year ago

walsall


"Whenever we see a couple who are actually smiling in each other's presence, we tend to suspect they're happy swingers

So it's not possible for a couple to be happy without fucking others?? Wow, deluded or what ....

It is but there's that special kind of 'we know what we did' knowing smile and glow that couples don't get just by spending the weekend choosing wallpaper and getting a coffee in town The kind of smile that invites others in."

Normally accompanied by a naughty glint in their eyes as they look at each other, picturing the previous nights antics lol.

B

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We've worked out friends are swingers but not yet with random strangers

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By *reenleavesCouple
over a year ago

North Wales

We told two of our friends what we get up to. Both times we were told that they totally suspected that we were swingers just from how we act together and how open we are about sex.

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By *appy go lucky againCouple
over a year ago

Bury

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By *illyjohnyCouple
over a year ago

brighton


"Whenever we see a couple who are actually smiling in each other's presence, we tend to suspect they're happy swingers "

That's us outed then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I used to see a woman at my gym who had an ace of spades tattoo on her ankle and something tattooed on her bum too. I couldn't make out what it said but I think it included 'slut' or 'slutty'

I never asked her about it but I always figured she had a sex life beyond her husband!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd love someone to ask us in public. They probably already know anyways.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We play the guessing game on times but would never approach people and just ask if they were swingers

Kinky

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Everyone knows - ankle chain and pampas grass in the front garden!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only the ones who use the OLB grettings

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There's a pub in Lutterworth that seems to be the place that the swingers choose to meet. It's just off the motorway, it's near liberty elite it has a travel lodge etc. We often pop in there for a drink just to see if we can spot the mystery swingers. We love it xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There's a pub in Lutterworth that seems to be the place that the swingers choose to meet. It's just off the motorway, it's near liberty elite it has a travel lodge etc. We often pop in there for a drink just to see if we can spot the mystery swingers. We love it xx"

We've stayed there.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We'd love to bump in to you two. Gorgeous xx

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By *oughandready86Man
over a year ago

newcastle

There is a couple who live in my street who are on here. They aren't looking for guys tho so I've never messaged or spoke to them about this side of things. Just my usuall "hello" when I pass walking the dogs. They are obviously oblivious to the fact I'm on here but I respect the fact I'm a bit close to home and not what they're looking for to say anything.

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