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"Im happy to send a face pics in a message do it all the time. But I have found from time to time some people won't send any back. But they still seem to think you wanna meet up with them. Just wondered if others would still meet even if they didnt see a face pic first??" Assuming my own face pic wasn't a conversation killer, I'd expect reciprocation, if it was to proceed any further. I'd see a refusal, as a warning sign, (or them just taking the piss). | |||
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"Im happy to send a face pics in a message do it all the time. But I have found from time to time some people won't send any back. But they still seem to think you wanna meet up with them. Just wondered if others would still meet even if they didnt see a face pic first??" No way. I don't ask for face pics in my profile so if people send them unsolicited then they shouldn't demand one back but if I'm actually chatting then I'll always send one. Pointless to chat to a blind date with the view of meeting just to eventually swap them and have the awkwardness of having to hear they aren't attracted to you or tell them you're not attracted to them. | |||
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"Im happy to send a face pics in a message do it all the time. But I have found from time to time some people won't send any back. But they still seem to think you wanna meet up with them. Just wondered if others would still meet even if they didnt see a face pic first??" Nope. I would never meet someone I didn't see a face picture of first. And when I say face picture, this means clear and without sunglasses I am always happy to send a face picture if I'm the one doing the initial interaction/message, but would expect the same from someone who messaged me first. | |||
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"3. To check its not the man i met on the last site who was a complete oddball " i need to remember to see face pics now you've mentioned that. | |||
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"No way. I don't ask for face pics in my profile so if people send them unsolicited then they shouldn't demand one back but if I'm actually chatting then I'll always send one. Pointless to chat to a blind date with the view of meeting just to eventually swap them and have the awkwardness of having to hear they aren't attracted to you or tell them you're not attracted to them. " That's why mine is always clear and present on my profile - avoids any wasted time, or disappointment, further along in the conversation. | |||
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"No way. I don't ask for face pics in my profile so if people send them unsolicited then they shouldn't demand one back but if I'm actually chatting then I'll always send one. Pointless to chat to a blind date with the view of meeting just to eventually swap them and have the awkwardness of having to hear they aren't attracted to you or tell them you're not attracted to them. That's why mine is always clear and present on my profile - avoids any wasted time, or disappointment, further along in the conversation." I'd like to but Aberdeen is a very small city...more like a reasonably sized village actually. The chances of being seen on here by one of my brothers friends or someone who works for my dad are very high...I've seen colleagues on here too. I don't want to cause embarrassment for anyone close to me because of a personal choice I've made. I know it could still happen but I feel safer this way. | |||
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"Im happy to send a face pics in a message do it all the time. But I have found from time to time some people won't send any back. But they still seem to think you wanna meet up with them. Just wondered if others would still meet even if they didnt see a face pic first??" never | |||
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"I ask for a face pic for three reasons. 1. To see if there is an attraction. 2. To check if its somebody i know as that could be awkward. 3. To check its not the man i met on the last site who was a complete oddball and who is on every sex/dating app serving the local area." But..you don't send yours??.. | |||
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