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"In our experience about ninety per cent of women find disembodied cock pics a turn off. Especially when they are a guy's only pic. Despite this guys keep posting them. Can anyone enlighten us as to why men self sabotage in this way? " Statistics tend to be bollocks | |||
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"In our experience about ninety per cent of women find disembodied cock pics a turn off. Especially when they are a guy's only pic. Despite this guys keep posting them. Can anyone enlighten us as to why men self sabotage in this way? It's because that's where their brain is " Well if you ladies stopped looking so damned sexy we'd be able to keep the blood flow to our heads... the one on our shoulders. | |||
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"Can I be the site thicko and ask what a disembodied cock is please " Six of your seven pics are of your disembodied cock. Why? | |||
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"Since we posted the op we have had two messages from guys whose profile pic is a disembodied cock. Ho ho ho! " | |||
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"Can I be the site thicko and ask what a disembodied cock is please Six of your seven pics are of your disembodied cock. Why? " Why ? Because I don't know what it means lol | |||
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"Can I be the site thicko and ask what a disembodied cock is please Six of your seven pics are of your disembodied cock. Why? " It is a cunning plan to see if you can find our best assets. Our personality. If we had greek god bodies, you would like us for all wrong reasons. We want the ladies to grow to like us, buy getting to know us. See past the veneer and reach the heart of who we are. Can you cut through the ugly to reveal our true beauty. X | |||
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"Can I be the site thicko and ask what a disembodied cock is please Six of your seven pics are of your disembodied cock. Why? Why ? Because I don't know what it means lol " Disembodied means pics of just your cock as opposed to a nude pic that happens to show your cock The "why" question is a question as to why you post pic that will reduce your chances of getting a meeting. | |||
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"I think it's a lack of imagination of what makes a good photo. Also for guys it's a selling point, at least in their heads. I do have them on my profile as some women do like them, but they aren't the only ones. " Yours are fine as it's not just your cock. We see the rest of you too | |||
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"Can I be the site thicko and ask what a disembodied cock is please Six of your seven pics are of your disembodied cock. Why? Why ? Because I don't know what it means lol Disembodied means pics of just your cock as opposed to a nude pic that happens to show your cock The "why" question is a question as to why you post pic that will reduce your chances of getting a meeting. " It doesn't though | |||
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"I think it's a lack of imagination of what makes a good photo. Also for guys it's a selling point, at least in their heads. I do have them on my profile as some women do like them, but they aren't the only ones. " Your pics are hot, all guys with just cock pics take note. That's how you take pics that will get attention. | |||
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"I like to think mine are quite tasteful " and very similar to hundreds of others... | |||
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"I think it's a lack of imagination of what makes a good photo. Also for guys it's a selling point, at least in their heads. I do have them on my profile as some women do like them, but they aren't the only ones. Your pics are hot, all guys with just cock pics take note. That's how you take pics that will get attention. " No Googly eyes? | |||
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"I think it's a lack of imagination of what makes a good photo. Also for guys it's a selling point, at least in their heads. I do have them on my profile as some women do like them, but they aren't the only ones. Yours are fine as it's not just your cock. We see the rest of you too " | |||
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"I think it's a lack of imagination of what makes a good photo. Also for guys it's a selling point, at least in their heads. I do have them on my profile as some women do like them, but they aren't the only ones. Your pics are hot, all guys with just cock pics take note. That's how you take pics that will get attention. " Thank you | |||
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"I like a cock pick My favourites come from Bearded and fabulous Tucker Hoping this isn't me about to get a 100 ugly cocks in my inbox " I'm so tempted to send you one now | |||
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"I like a cock pick My favourites come from Bearded and fabulous Tucker Hoping this isn't me about to get a 100 ugly cocks in my inbox " Really sorry, but you did say.. | |||
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"I'm on Fab for nsa sex not deep meaningful relationships and I certainly dont want to fuck or suck an ugly cock so I am delighted to see cock pics - particularly if they are nice cocks. Am I one of the OP's 10%? I doubt it. In my experience there are far more women like me. Keep posting, guys!" So your asking to be sent one? | |||
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"I'm on Fab for nsa sex not deep meaningful relationships and I certainly dont want to fuck or suck an ugly cock so I am delighted to see cock pics - particularly if they are nice cocks. Am I one of the OP's 10%? I doubt it. In my experience there are far more women like me. Keep posting, guys!" Sorry, had to send some.. | |||
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"Are my pics distasteful. Please advise." 3 out of 4 are cock pics, so take a wild guess. | |||
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"Are my pics distasteful. Please advise." Nope, they're good | |||
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"I'm on Fab for nsa sex not deep meaningful relationships and I certainly dont want to fuck or suck an ugly cock so I am delighted to see cock pics - particularly if they are nice cocks. Am I one of the OP's 10%? I doubt it. In my experience there are far more women like me. Keep posting, guys!" I'm the same however seeing cocks gets very very repetitive. I'd much prefer a full nude than a zoomed in cock pic any day | |||
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"I think that sometimes guys forget or don't understand that (most) females aren't as stimulated by images as we are and also that sex is about much more than cocks, pussies and penetration. Not self sabotage as such, more like misguided attempts to impress/arouse." i don't think they do, i stand by my first comment and that's all they have to offer. this does actually suit some women but obviously for those guys trying to fuck the whole site it won't work. | |||
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"For me, what I struggle to I understand is why some guys have so many cock pics...I mean yes I LOVE cock but there's only so many pics of the same cock I need/want to see " 40% of yours are arse pics. Lol | |||
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"I think that sometimes guys forget or don't understand that (most) females aren't as stimulated by images as we are and also that sex is about much more than cocks, pussies and penetration. Not self sabotage as such, more like misguided attempts to impress/arouse. i don't think they do, i stand by my first comment and that's all they have to offer. this does actually suit some women but obviously for those guys trying to fuck the whole site it won't work." Maybe. I do think though that a fair few guys only think in terms of penetration and because of this think that the most important thing is cock. After all what percentage of dick size threads are started by men?? | |||
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"I think that sometimes guys forget or don't understand that (most) females aren't as stimulated by images as we are and also that sex is about much more than cocks, pussies and penetration. Not self sabotage as such, more like misguided attempts to impress/arouse. i don't think they do, i stand by my first comment and that's all they have to offer. this does actually suit some women but obviously for those guys trying to fuck the whole site it won't work. Maybe. I do think though that a fair few guys only think in terms of penetration and because of this think that the most important thing is cock. After all what percentage of dick size threads are started by men?? " haha, every single one of those threads is started by men. i do agree with you on the rest but that's the thing about some men, even if they are not all about their cock usually just being on here thinks that's all they have to offer. i do think most people are more picky than that, even when i was fuck and go i wasn't that interested in their dick and more the overall experience. | |||
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"I like to see classy pics .shows the man has taste . " yep same with women x | |||
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"I like a cock pick My favourites come from Bearded and fabulous Tucker Hoping this isn't me about to get a 100 ugly cocks in my inbox " As if. | |||
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"I think that sometimes guys forget or don't understand that (most) females aren't as stimulated by images as we are and also that sex is about much more than cocks, pussies and penetration. Not self sabotage as such, more like misguided attempts to impress/arouse. i don't think they do, i stand by my first comment and that's all they have to offer. this does actually suit some women but obviously for those guys trying to fuck the whole site it won't work. Maybe. I do think though that a fair few guys only think in terms of penetration and because of this think that the most important thing is cock. After all what percentage of dick size threads are started by men?? haha, every single one of those threads is started by men. " That's my point. When guys get too focused on the "main event" they seem to think that's all they need and all a lady needs. They forget about the rest of the other important stuff. | |||
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"I think that sometimes guys forget or don't understand that (most) females aren't as stimulated by images as we are and also that sex is about much more than cocks, pussies and penetration. Not self sabotage as such, more like misguided attempts to impress/arouse. i don't think they do, i stand by my first comment and that's all they have to offer. this does actually suit some women but obviously for those guys trying to fuck the whole site it won't work. Maybe. I do think though that a fair few guys only think in terms of penetration and because of this think that the most important thing is cock. After all what percentage of dick size threads are started by men?? haha, every single one of those threads is started by men. That's my point. When guys get too focused on the "main event" they seem to think that's all they need and all a lady needs. They forget about the rest of the other important stuff." oops, i didn't quite get that yeah. thanks for explaining. i do wonder why guys think that's all we need when there is a wide range of sex toys that could do the same thing? | |||
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"I think it's a lack of imagination of what makes a good photo. Also for guys it's a selling point, at least in their heads. I do have them on my profile as some women do like them, but they aren't the only ones. " Really nice variety of photos ! Does stand out ! But cock pictures I hit block! | |||
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"I like to see classy pics .shows the man has taste . yep same with women x " Yes I agree there ,best too leave certain body parts to the imagination. | |||
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"I like to see classy pics .shows the man has taste . yep same with women x Yes I agree there ,best too leave certain body parts to the imagination. " Never bums or breasts, they should be seen and not imagined. | |||
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"it's all they have to offer us, especially if they don't bother writing out a profile as well. sometimes i wish people didn't give others profile advice for this reason, let them keep their shit profile with nothing to offer." Cock is all they have to offer. They think women are just desperate for a cock. Some women want that.. | |||
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"it's all they have to offer us, especially if they don't bother writing out a profile as well. sometimes i wish people didn't give others profile advice for this reason, let them keep their shit profile with nothing to offer. Cock is all they have to offer. They think women are just desperate for a cock. Some women want that.. " You telling me they aint? | |||
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"it's all they have to offer us, especially if they don't bother writing out a profile as well. sometimes i wish people didn't give others profile advice for this reason, let them keep their shit profile with nothing to offer. Cock is all they have to offer. They think women are just desperate for a cock. Some women want that.. You telling me they aint? " i want oral, foreplay, chat (omg, sorry not chat ...i don't want the guy to think we're dating!). | |||
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"it's all they have to offer us, especially if they don't bother writing out a profile as well. sometimes i wish people didn't give others profile advice for this reason, let them keep their shit profile with nothing to offer. Cock is all they have to offer. They think women are just desperate for a cock. Some women want that.. You telling me they aint? i want oral, foreplay, chat (omg, sorry not chat ...i don't want the guy to think we're dating!)." That was awkard. | |||
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"I like to see classy pics .shows the man has taste . yep same with women x Yes I agree there ,best too leave certain body parts to the imagination. Never bums or breasts, they should be seen and not imagined." I ment pussy and cock pics left to imagination | |||
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"I like to see classy pics .shows the man has taste . yep same with women x Yes I agree there ,best too leave certain body parts to the imagination. Never bums or breasts, they should be seen and not imagined. I ment pussy and cock pics left to imagination " When you imagine mine, it's 12 inches, I swear. | |||
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"I like to see classy pics .shows the man has taste . yep same with women x Yes I agree there ,best too leave certain body parts to the imagination. Never bums or breasts, they should be seen and not imagined. I ment pussy and cock pics left to imagination When you imagine mine, it's 12 inches, I swear." Lol all women knock a few inches off mens measurements anyway . | |||
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"it's all they have to offer us, especially if they don't bother writing out a profile as well. sometimes i wish people didn't give others profile advice for this reason, let them keep their shit profile with nothing to offer. Cock is all they have to offer. They think women are just desperate for a cock. Some women want that.. You telling me they aint? i want oral, foreplay, chat (omg, sorry not chat ...i don't want the guy to think we're dating!). That was awkard. " yes it was. men, i do have a gag in case you don't trust me to try and trick you into dating. | |||
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"I like to think mine are quite tasteful " I think your pics are good, as I get to see your full body not just your cock. Keeps everything in perspective. | |||
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"it's all they have to offer us, especially if they don't bother writing out a profile as well. sometimes i wish people didn't give others profile advice for this reason, let them keep their shit profile with nothing to offer. Cock is all they have to offer. They think women are just desperate for a cock. Some women want that.. You telling me they aint? i want oral, foreplay, chat (omg, sorry not chat ...i don't want the guy to think we're dating!). That was awkard. yes it was. men, i do have a gag in case you don't trust me to try and trick you into dating." You've thought of everything. | |||
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"ive never had a woman request cock pics off here, only straight men." Because it's on your main profile pic ! Hahahah | |||
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"What I dont understand is the guys who are not very well endowed who have about 10 cock pics?! (This isn't a dig at smaller guys) but surely since the general concensous among guys is that ladies prefer bigger why would you not display your more "impressive" attributes? " bet some of them are exhibitionists? they just like showing their dick. | |||
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"We started off advertising on Craig's List to find a man to join us. We specifically asked for 'well-mannered men'. In my naivety back then I took the view that it was bloody rude to send a picture of a dick to someone who hadn't asked for it, therefore they can't have been 'well-mannered'. I remember once we asked a man for a face pic as we liked his email. He obliged with a face and a cock pic. His words were '...and here's the obligatory cock pic'. I thought at the time, how can someone be so stupid? Looking back I think, isn't that a shame that some men believe that they MUST send a cock pic. This was a guy who thought it was obligatory. Why do some men think a cock pic is a necessary requirement for all women? Mrs" This is one of lives little mysteries that we will never know. Btw your complimentary cock picture is on its way. | |||
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"What I dont understand is the guys who are not very well endowed who have about 10 cock pics?! (This isn't a dig at smaller guys) but surely since the general concensous among guys is that ladies prefer bigger why would you not display your more "impressive" attributes? bet some of them are exhibitionists? they just like showing their dick." ur not far off the mark as I'm quite a show off even though I'm not in great shape n not that big lol | |||
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"We started off advertising on Craig's List to find a man to join us. We specifically asked for 'well-mannered men'. In my naivety back then I took the view that it was bloody rude to send a picture of a dick to someone who hadn't asked for it, therefore they can't have been 'well-mannered'. I remember once we asked a man for a face pic as we liked his email. He obliged with a face and a cock pic. His words were '...and here's the obligatory cock pic'. I thought at the time, how can someone be so stupid? Looking back I think, isn't that a shame that some men believe that they MUST send a cock pic. This was a guy who thought it was obligatory. Why do some men think a cock pic is a necessary requirement for all women? Mrs This is one of lives little mysteries that we will never know. Btw your complimentary cock picture is on its way." Well I'm less naiive now after 2 years on Fab. My conclusion now is that men enjoy posting pictures of their cocks, and my husband has confirmed this. I think it's some sort of primeval need, like a peacock fanning its tail as a sexual signal. I can can relate to it bit - I love showing by tits. However, the minute men start to complain about women showing their tits, I'll put mine away | |||
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"We started off advertising on Craig's List to find a man to join us. We specifically asked for 'well-mannered men'. In my naivety back then I took the view that it was bloody rude to send a picture of a dick to someone who hadn't asked for it, therefore they can't have been 'well-mannered'. I remember once we asked a man for a face pic as we liked his email. He obliged with a face and a cock pic. His words were '...and here's the obligatory cock pic'. I thought at the time, how can someone be so stupid? Looking back I think, isn't that a shame that some men believe that they MUST send a cock pic. This was a guy who thought it was obligatory. Why do some men think a cock pic is a necessary requirement for all women? Mrs This is one of lives little mysteries that we will never know. Btw your complimentary cock picture is on its way. Well I'm less naiive now after 2 years on Fab. My conclusion now is that men enjoy posting pictures of their cocks, and my husband has confirmed this. I think it's some sort of primeval need, like a peacock fanning its tail as a sexual signal. I can can relate to it bit - I love showing by tits. However, the minute men start to complain about women showing their tits, I'll put mine away " Yup, I remember reading some shit about it, apparently like, the way some guys stand with their hands in there jeans pocket with just thir thumbs out, it's supposed to be bringing the emphasize on their package. And something about cod pieces? | |||
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