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By *eset555 OP   Man
over a year ago

bradford

With no verification and face pics , did massage them few time , is that safe

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"With no verification and face pics , did massage them few time , is that safe"

Personally would make us very nervous!! Good luck

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By *andVBCouple
over a year ago

Wrexham

I assume you're meeting them somewhere in public?

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

We would never meet without seeing face pics ,if they wont show you then id give it a miss

Miss

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By *eset555 OP   Man
over a year ago

bradford

They want discreet they have some pics but no face one , she want a corthless suit from me and I am meeting at there at 9

I m new to this any advice please

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By *ackdaniels2016Man
over a year ago

Yarm

Everyone starts somewhere on this place with no verifications ! However that being said I would want to see at least a pic on here or kik/Skype also cam chat is good so all parties see each other although I understand that's not for everyone at the very least a phone chat ! Just take the chance if it's local but don't get your hopes up !

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By *he horny kinkstersCouple
over a year ago

North West

I'd say there's a 99% chance you'll be posting to report time wasters shortly after whenever you're supposed to meet "them"...

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By *andomfodCouple
over a year ago

walsall

I really hope this works out and isn't a let down for you, mate. Keep us posted.

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By *mmmMaybeCouple
over a year ago

West Wales

Yes, but somewhere like a Costa & nowhere further than 10miles, far enough from home, close enough not to get pissed when they don't show.

S

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

Id be suspicious,no reason people cant upload a face pic and keep it private .

It may be a man looking for kicks,seems to happen alot .

Your choice op,but doubtful it will be a favourable outcome .

Miss

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By *eset555 OP   Man
over a year ago

bradford

I m looking for my first time too

So how can I find out that they are genuine x

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

Op ask to speak to both on phone?or skype with them.

If they are evasive ,theres your answer

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By *lkDomWhtSubBiCpleCouple
over a year ago

Somewhere / Everywhere /Kinksville

You are meeting at there's?

And you've seen no face pics...

What will you do if you aren't attracted to her ?

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By *ackdaniels2016Man
over a year ago

Yarm

Although I've had no luck with couples full stop so far

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By *r. Pepper...Man
over a year ago

liverpool

As a single lad on this site it can be very difficult to get your first meet. You'll come across plenty of time wasters and men pretending to be women but if you don't take the odd chance, you'll likely never get anywhere.

Good luck and stay safe

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"They want discreet they have some pics but no face one , she want a corthless suit from me and I am meeting at there at 9

I m new to this any advice please"

Corthless suit?

I'd recommend meeting in public first so you can make a quick getaway. I'd be suspicious in your position.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They're going to tie you up and burn you with cigarettes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't go if it was me. I only stick to verified people

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By *lkDomWhtSubBiCpleCouple
over a year ago

Somewhere / Everywhere /Kinksville

You private messaged me OP Think people would like to see replies in forum.

So you are attracted to her body. And if she has a face for radio ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've done this a few times in my early fab days and lived to tell the tale.

Just follow your gut instinct and not your cock

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I wouldn't go if it was me. I only stick to verified people "

Verifications mean nothing when some people have 3 or 4 accounts, I've also had people ask me to verify them in return for a favourable veri so I presume this happens to other too.

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By *unandbuckCouple
over a year ago

Sheffield


"I wouldn't go if it was me. I only stick to verified people

Verifications mean nothing when some people have 3 or 4 accounts, I've also had people ask me to verify them in return for a favourable veri so I presume this happens to other too. "

They don't mean nothing. I agree they can be faked by a circular group of fake profiles, that doesn't mean they are useless in general.

OP from your description, I would say there is a 99% chance they are fake, and just a 1% chance they are going to bury you under the patio.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

If a female relative said she was going to the house of a couple she had only had contact with via the internet who were reluctant to show her what they looked like, what would your advice be? Follow the same advice yourself.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I wouldn't go if it was me. I only stick to verified people

Verifications mean nothing when some people have 3 or 4 accounts, I've also had people ask me to verify them in return for a favourable veri so I presume this happens to other too.

They don't mean nothing. I agree they can be faked by a circular group of fake profiles, that doesn't mean they are useless in general.

OP from your description, I would say there is a 99% chance they are fake, and just a 1% chance they are going to bury you under the patio."

Verifications have there place but I'd say a grand porportion are overblown fluff, has anyone evet given down one a poor one ? Had anyone ever shown a poor one ? People give good ones to get good ones in return. I know I'm an awful shag but my veris would tell you otherwise

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By *unandbuckCouple
over a year ago

Sheffield


"I wouldn't go if it was me. I only stick to verified people

Verifications mean nothing when some people have 3 or 4 accounts, I've also had people ask me to verify them in return for a favourable veri so I presume this happens to other too.

They don't mean nothing. I agree they can be faked by a circular group of fake profiles, that doesn't mean they are useless in general.

OP from your description, I would say there is a 99% chance they are fake, and just a 1% chance they are going to bury you under the patio.

Verifications have there place but I'd say a grand porportion are overblown fluff, has anyone evet given down one a poor one ? Had anyone ever shown a poor one ? People give good ones to get good ones in return. I know I'm an awful shag but my veris would tell you otherwise "

I agree the content will generally be good. I'm talking about their value to determine if people are 'real' and actually meet and turn up to meets Vs Fake, keyboard dreamer etc.

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By *lkDomWhtSubBiCpleCouple
over a year ago

Somewhere / Everywhere /Kinksville

Yes verifications are hit and miss for sure. A very well verified guy cried off recently at the last minute because he learnt Sir would be at the meeting (there was never a question that he wasn't going to be!).

I don't think it's unreasonable prior to meeting to ask for face pics and a phone number to talk in advance.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We came to the conclusion very early on that anyone who won't show you there face picks is ugly lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We wouldn't meet someone who refused to share a face pic first, partly because we don't have lots of time for socials without even an inkling of whether we might find them attractive but mostly because someone who won't show a little good faith when we are fully prepared to share face pics would make me wary.

If they won't chat on the phone /Skype /cam with you either I'd be very cautious. If you decide to go ahead would suggest meeting somewhere public for a social first, where it won't be a complete loss if they are a fake.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We came to the conclusion very early on that anyone who won't show you there face picks is ugly lol "

Or maybe has a public job such as a teacher or nurse.

If your profile has naughty pics then maybe you don't want to show your face pic as if someone knows you that's not so good. Obviously if your agreeing to meet it's a different story.

I very rarely send my face pic now but I respect that for some that's unacceptable.

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By *eset555 OP   Man
over a year ago

bradford

I am very discreet and trustworthy person but still did not met anybody on here , good chat but how to break ice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We like to see face pics also sometimes we get asked to talk on fone as alot think ur just male part off couple and sometimes it is would u be OK meeting them without face pic that's what got to ask yourself you just never know they might be really nice couple

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"I am very discreet and trustworthy person but still did not met anybody on here , good chat but how to break ice"

Tonight you mean?

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