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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Need advice. Walk past this lady every morning on way to work. We often exchange looks. Am contemplating stopping her tomorrow morning and just be like here's my number, if you fancy some fun.... leave it as open ended as that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Try an actual conversation first

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By *londieddWoman
over a year ago

fife


"Need advice. Walk past this lady every morning on way to work. We often exchange looks. Am contemplating stopping her tomorrow morning and just be like here's my number, if you fancy some fun.... leave it as open ended as that. "
what sort of fun are you offering her?

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor


"Try an actual conversation first"

Yes! She's more likely to respond to that aporoach.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Might work.

Or you could say good morning tomorrow and the next couple of days. Then add how are you today, then get chatting and give her your number.

Good luck, let us know how it goes.

In The Metro they have a section where people publish ads about things like thie. E.g. "I saw you outside Smiths drinking a coffee wearing a yellow scarf. I'm they guy in the blue jacket who always looks at you. Drink?"

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Yeah will have a brief chat with her in the morning all being well.and leave it like here's my number talk soon

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Might just leave it better safe than sorry lol

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Might just leave it better safe than sorry lol"

Thats a shame, it could have been the start of something. I was looking at hats and everything

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor


"Might just leave it better safe than sorry lol"

Don't chicken out,just say good morning and work your way up. She may feel the same or she may be attached,you won't know if you don't talk to her.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Yeah I'll talk to her tomorrow judge it from that. Then another morning give her my number. I'm not looming g a relationship just fun... maybe she's on here lol changed my status

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex


"Yeah I'll talk to her tomorrow judge it from that. Then another morning give her my number. I'm not looming g a relationship just fun... maybe she's on here lol changed my status "

As long as you're clear that you just want sex, so there's no misunderstanding. She might be looking for the same.

I'll stop looking for hats now....

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By *ed wineMan
over a year ago

Where the streets have no name

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By *ed wineMan
over a year ago

Where the streets have no name

And why not tell her something more... gentle?

Maybe that is what she expects from you, rather than "fancy some fun?"

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex


"And why not tell her something more... gentle?

Maybe that is what she expects from you, rather than "fancy some fun?""

To be fair if a guy just wanted some fun with me I'd rather know. It saves confusion and wrong assumptions. I could go into or not, it knowing exactly what to expect.

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By *ohohoWoman
over a year ago

Up North

I think there is nothing more flattering than someone I have not spoken to just giving me their number or asking for mine. Although the attraction has not always been reciprocal, I have had some incredible nights on the back on this. But I have also changed my commute routes/times to avoid people as well.

Life is about taking risks though isn't it? "If you want it. Go for it. Take a risk. Play it safe and you will die wondering."

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

Just be gentle with the approach. I'm just thinking if she's happily married and walking to work and she has someone approaching her for sex that could get a bit icky. I'm sure you will be though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't approach her assuming she's signed up to a site like this as that could end bad very quickly.

Day 1 a little smile, day 2 a good morning, day 3...providing you've had encoraging responses so far...go for the kill 'fancy a fuck' !!!

Just make sure one of your mates is filming the slap that ensues

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Need advice. Walk past this lady every morning on way to work. We often exchange looks. Am contemplating stopping her tomorrow morning and just be like here's my number, if you fancy some fun.... leave it as open ended as that. "

As you walk past her next time, let her pass by then call her back. Excuse me, you dropped this... hand her a note with your phone number and name on. Smile and walk away

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By *ohohoWoman
over a year ago

Up North


"Need advice. Walk past this lady every morning on way to work. We often exchange looks. Am contemplating stopping her tomorrow morning and just be like here's my number, if you fancy some fun.... leave it as open ended as that.

As you walk past her next time, let her pass by then call her back. Excuse me, you dropped this... hand her a note with your phone number and name on. Smile and walk away "

You have done this before.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

She wasn't there this morning....will try again tomorrow morning lol. The k I'm just gonna walk past her, smoke, then turn as she passes, say you dropped something, n give her paper with my number on it lol.

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

Just your number? She may think you're looking for more than just sex though,then may be insulted to find out your not

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

OK I'm.planning on giving her my number and being blunt saying if you fancy some fun, text me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"She wasn't there this morning....will try again tomorrow morning lol. The k I'm just gonna walk past her, smoke, then turn as she passes, say you dropped something, n give her paper with my number on it lol. "

maybe she changed her route so she wouldn't get stared at by strange men?

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor


"OK I'm.planning on giving her my number and being blunt saying if you fancy some fun, text me "

Stop talking about it just do it,unless of course she's started going a different way

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I see her most mornings. Very confident I'll see her again soon. I'm just gonna be blunt and give her my number and say text me. Might not say for fun at the start but if she texts I'll be sure to tell her.

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor


"I see her most mornings. Very confident I'll see her again soon. I'm just gonna be blunt and give her my number and say text me. Might not say for fun at the start but if she texts I'll be sure to tell her. "

So what if she replies saying shall we go for a drink then,you going to say well really I just gave you my number just to see if you wanted sex.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

What do u suggest? Lol. U no my intentions....

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor


"What do u suggest? Lol. U no my intentions...."

I'm just trying to put myself in her shoes,she may be horrified or thrilled at the prospect who knows. Anyway let's see what unfolds,good luck.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

What do suggest but.just go with my Initial thoughts....

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

Yeah give her your number,but make it clear from the get go what it's for in the note so there's no misunderstanding.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You said you were gonna talk to her tomorrow, yesterday. What happened?

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"You said you were gonna talk to her tomorrow, yesterday. What happened?"

She wasn't there.

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By *he horny kinkstersCouple
over a year ago

North West

Interested to see how this unfolds.

It's like a fab soap.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Just gonna hand her a note with my name number and 'fun?' On it. And say text me lol

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Just gonna hand her a note with my name number and 'fun?' On it. And say text me lol "

In my pre swinging days I didn't know fun meant sex.

She might well be keen to have nsa sex but if you're ambiguous about what you're after there's potential for you to have to change your route to work.

Just be up front with her, you wouldn't ask for a latte in Costa if you wanted a cappuccino...would you?

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By *ohohoWoman
over a year ago

Up North

OP

I wouldn't over complicate things at the beginning. Just give her your number. If she replies you can then make things clear.

Are you after a one off? Fwb?

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor


"Just gonna hand her a note with my name number and 'fun?' On it. And say text me lol "

Well it can only go one way or the other.

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor


"OP

I wouldn't over complicate things at the beginning. Just give her your number. If she replies you can then make things clear.

Are you after a one off? Fwb? "

I think he needs to be very clear from the note what he wants. If I received that and I really fancied him and thought there may be more it and then found out it was just for sex I may feel a little put out.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The saying goes you only live once OP go for it

Kinky

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just gonna hand her a note with my name number and 'fun?' On it. And say text me lol "

her idea of 'fun' may be very different to yours

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Need advice. Walk past this lady every morning on way to work. We often exchange looks. Am contemplating stopping her tomorrow morning and just be like here's my number, if you fancy some fun.... leave it as open ended as that.

As you walk past her next time, let her pass by then call her back. Excuse me, you dropped this... hand her a note with your phone number and name on. Smile and walk away

You have done this before. "

Of course

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

Well did you do it?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Haven't seen her since. Very odd. Will keep trying lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

While part of me would be unimpressed with a guy I'd seen around passing me a note with his number suggesting just fun I tend to agree that not being clear from the get go would be worse. Wonder how this will turn out!

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