FabSwingers.com forum: Overwhelmed!

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Hi, I feel overwhelmed on here and not having much luck on here. People dont take the time to chat properly.

I feel like I need some friends on here and people to chat to. I am a nice guy but sometime I think that is my downside as people dont want a nice guy. They prefer confident assertive guy.

So Im looking for people who I can chat with doesnt neccessarily have to lead to anything. Just to help me on this site and some guidance.

Appreciate it! thx x

By *awandOrderCouple
over a year ago

SW London

"Hi, I feel overwhelmed on here and not having much luck on here. People dont take the time to chat properly.

I feel like I need some friends on here and people to chat to. I am a nice guy but sometime I think that is my downside as people dont want a nice guy. They prefer confident assertive guy.

So Im looking for people who I can chat with doesnt neccessarily have to lead to anything. Just to help me on this site and some guidance.

Appreciate it! thx x"

Maybe go to socials in the area. Friendships take time to develop though, surely

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not to put you off but I have a horrible horrible feeling this site isn't going to be for you.

Single guys are the single highest demographic on here meaning your chances are already slim, you are admittedly shy and less than confident which most won't find attractive, you've had zero sexual experience with women which lowers your appeal even further as most will want someone with a bit of a clue.

Being on this site requires a MASSIVELY thick skin even for couples which are slightly more sought after, if you don't take rejection well you'll end up thinking there is something wrong with you after the first week when truth be told most guys on here can spend months without meeting anyone.

My own personal advice would be to head out into the real world, hook up with some ladies down at your local pub/club/bar and get some sexual experience under your belt, come back here when you know that you want something a bit out of the ordinary.

Fab is not a place for quick and easy sex!