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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

You meet with a couple together and they clearly have boundaries about playing alone. It's a no-no.

She contacts you and wants to meet alone...

Would you meet with them together again ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes

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By *londieddWoman
over a year ago

fife


"You meet with a couple together and they clearly have boundaries about playing alone. It's a no-no.

She contacts you and wants to meet alone...

Would you meet with them together again ?

"
it's a game and he's playing too x couples profiles are normally read by both

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It's a game and he's playing too x couples profiles are normally read by both"

Hmm, I thought it might be but she contacted me by phone. And he seemed quite pissed off that she shared a passionate kiss with me when we met up which I discovered is also a boundary.

I must admit, it feels really gratifying but I don't want some crazed partner looking to catch me on a rainy night for taking liberties with his gorgeous lady..and she is mighty fine !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You meet with a couple together and they clearly have boundaries about playing alone. It's a no-no.

She contacts you and wants to meet alone...

Would you meet with them together again ?

"

nope...there are clearly issues and too much potential drama...this is meant to be fun...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not a chance. Sounds like a whole big bag of drama. Walk away swiftly and don't look back.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You meet with a couple together and they clearly have boundaries about playing alone. It's a no-no.

She contacts you and wants to meet alone...

Would you meet with them together again ?

"

NO. That's a huge red flag right there. A couple that can't be honest with each other about their play activities or intentions shouldn't be swinging. As a single swinger I will not be party to any potential cheating, even if it means missing out on a good fuck!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"nope...there are clearly issues and too much potential drama...this is meant to be fun...

"

To be honest though.. she already showed up at my door unannounced and let herself in and had her way with me before I even knew what was happening. But now they both want to meet up with me again together. I don't think I can do it knowing that her and I have a secret

She justifies it by saying he did the same once.

He'll be suspicious if I no longer want to meet because he knows that I am absolutely swooned by her! We really connected in conversation and mutual interests in his presence and he was visibly very jealous. He said that's what he likes? Being cuckolded?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"nope...there are clearly issues and too much potential drama...this is meant to be fun...

To be honest though.. she already showed up at my door unannounced and let herself in and had her way with me before I even knew what was happening. But now they both want to meet up with me again together. I don't think I can do it knowing that her and I have a secret

She justifies it by saying he did the same once.

He'll be suspicious if I no longer want to meet because he knows that I am absolutely swooned by her! We really connected in conversation and mutual interests in his presence and he was visibly very jealous. He said that's what he likes? Being cuckolded? "

Are they worth the fuck for you though? If they're not, and you clearly could/would have had better in the past or the future, then just blow it out of the water and tell the male half that you don't see how you can still meet anymore because his female partner clearly isn't being square with him and nowhere in the rules of engagement does it say you get to fuck his missus behind his back.

If you have any shred of honour, you'd walk away from them.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

By the way, I had no idea about this boundary until after we met alone.. then she told me

I'm going to get my ass far away.. Yikes!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"By the way, I had no idea about this boundary until after we met alone.. then she told me

I'm going to get my ass far away.. Yikes! "

Yes. Run. FUCKING RUN.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


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Are they worth the fuck for you though? If they're not, and you clearly could/would have had better in the past or the future, then just blow it out of the water and tell the male half that you don't see how you can still meet anymore because his female partner clearly isn't being square with him and nowhere in the rules of engagement does it say you get to fuck his missus behind his back.

If you have any shred of honour, you'd walk away from them. "

Well you make some solid points.. I definitely wouldn't take it upon myself to tell the male half that his partner had her way with me (cheated).. That would create a spiraling storm and I'd be sucked deeper and permanently sealed into the fate of their relationship. You're right about walking away though. That's what I want to do but he'll have questions if I don't do it right.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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Are they worth the fuck for you though? If they're not, and you clearly could/would have had better in the past or the future, then just blow it out of the water and tell the male half that you don't see how you can still meet anymore because his female partner clearly isn't being square with him and nowhere in the rules of engagement does it say you get to fuck his missus behind his back.

If you have any shred of honour, you'd walk away from them.

Well you make some solid points.. I definitely wouldn't take it upon myself to tell the male half that his partner had her way with me (cheated).. That would create a spiraling storm and I'd be sucked deeper and permanently sealed into the fate of their relationship. You're right about walking away though. That's what I want to do but he'll have questions if I don't do it right. "

Say you found someone better. Say you have other things going on in life outside of Fab that makes it difficult to meet anymore in future.

Although the Patriarchal Brotherhood in me says that man to man, you really should break the cheating news to the hubby. Because if you were in his shoes would you want to be kept in the dark?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


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Say you found someone better. Say you have other things going on in life outside of Fab that makes it difficult to meet anymore in future.

Although the Patriarchal Brotherhood in me says that man to man, you really should break the cheating news to the hubby. Because if you were in his shoes would you want to be kept in the dark? "

I just don't feel I have the right to do that, to expose her. Couples go through shit but I can't write myself into their fate like that unless it were something like she told me she was going to severely harm him or such.

I'd always regret not keeping my mouth shut and moving on quietly. It's like I'd be tying my destiny to theirs forever. They've been together a long time. I'm just going to make good my escape. Fuck this.. I'm out!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

a massive no no ... baggage galore ..avoid here for fun nothing else

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You meet with a couple together and they clearly have boundaries about playing alone. It's a no-no.

She contacts you and wants to meet alone...

Would you meet with them together again ?

"

Happened to me? Met a couple all contact had been with male half including swapping mobile numbers, female half contacted me separately after our meeting, admitted she had secretly got my mobile number off her husbands phone and wanted to meet just the 2 of us. I refused and never met them as a couple again either.

Cheating is cheating no matter how it starts and I don't use fab for that

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By *itsmcgee4Couple
over a year ago

Central

Run away. Run away fast. Don't look back. And pray to God he doesn't read the forums and recognise any of this.

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By *ools and the brainCouple
over a year ago

couple, us we him her.


"Not a chance. Sounds like a whole big bag of drama. Walk away swiftly and don't look back. "

What heels said

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sounds to me that she wants to play by her self aswell as a couple but the other half doesn't want to clearly they are not ready to open up yet to each other or be on site like this.if it was me I wouldn't go anywhere near them they sound like trouble I would just tell them you found different couple to play with.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Unless you like a whole lot of drama run the fuck away...!!

They've told you together the boundaries.

She's contacted you via phone to break that agreement.

It could be a way of testing you, some mind fuck game they play or just plain ole cheating, which happens even in a couple......

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By *ussetdevilCouple
over a year ago

Swindon


"Run away. Run away fast. Don't look back. And pray to God he doesn't read the forums and recognise any of this. "

My thoughts exactly lol...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not a chance. Sounds like a whole big bag of drama. Walk away swiftly and don't look back. "

Agreed!

Ruby

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"nope...there are clearly issues and too much potential drama...this is meant to be fun...

To be honest though.. she already showed up at my door unannounced and let herself in and had her way with me before I even knew what was happening. But now they both want to meet up with me again together. I don't think I can do it knowing that her and I have a secret

She justifies it by saying he did the same once.

He'll be suspicious if I no longer want to meet because he knows that I am absolutely swooned by her! We really connected in conversation and mutual interests in his presence and he was visibly very jealous. He said that's what he likes? Being cuckolded? "

..... let herself in and had her way with you before you knew what was happening? Surely this belongs in the stories and fantasies forum.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is a problem I have encountered with some couples. It is very common in fact, which is rather concerning when you look at the amount of couples on here.

They make out they have a great relationship full of trust, they don't have any jealousy issues or any other issues, then this type of thing happens.

It's pathetic behaviour from the one who is doing the asking to meet alone without their partner.

If I was you, I would tell them you don't want to meet them again.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Run away. Run away fast. Don't look back. And pray to God he doesn't read the forums and recognise any of this. "

Maybe it would be a good thing if he reads this in the forums. There are couples on here who think they have the perfect swinging relationship, and have full trust, but are so wrong. Here is a prime example of just one.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sounds like a recipe for disaster. Dragging you into her head games will end in drama. Block and stay well away !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This post is now linked via the green arrow on your profile...are they not on fab?

You're being played...walk away and block...having sex isn't worth that drama however smitten you are. You'd never be able to trust her if you got together would you.

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By *abe1200Couple
over a year ago

belfast


"nope...there are clearly issues and too much potential drama...this is meant to be fun...

To be honest though.. she already showed up at my door unannounced and let herself in and had her way with me before I even knew what was happening. But now they both want to meet up with me again together. I don't think I can do it knowing that her and I have a secret

She justifies it by saying he did the same once.

He'll be suspicious if I no longer want to meet because he knows that I am absolutely swooned by her! We really connected in conversation and mutual interests in his presence and he was visibly very jealous. He said that's what he likes? Being cuckolded? "

Just tell them you cant meet them anymore your nolonger interested or you have moved on,whatever you tell them you must make it clear that you wont be meeting them again.

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By *awandOrderCouple
over a year ago

SW London

How does she know where you live? And can let herself in? Did you give her a key on your first meet?

Seriously though, I would post it on the forums so everyone can look at your verifications and guess which couple it is ......

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"nope...there are clearly issues and too much potential drama...this is meant to be fun...

To be honest though.. she already showed up at my door unannounced and let herself in and had her way with me before I even knew what was happening. But now they both want to meet up with me again together. I don't think I can do it knowing that her and I have a secret

She justifies it by saying he did the same once.

He'll be suspicious if I no longer want to meet because he knows that I am absolutely swooned by her! We really connected in conversation and mutual interests in his presence and he was visibly very jealous. He said that's what he likes? Being cuckolded? "

She came in to your house without permission and then had sex with you without your consent and you don't know whether to meet them again or not. If a man did that to a woman we would all be talking very differently.

Either she is messing with both of you or they are both messing with you. It's ducked up either way and you shouldn't let yourself be part of it.

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