FabSwingers.com forum: Inviting some one in to the bedroom...

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Ok guys after a bit of advice if anyones been in this scenario and can offer suggestions it would be much appreciated. Ok so here goes the last few weekends my hussbands male friend has been sleeping over the thaught of him coming into our bedroom and fucking me has exited us no end. However how do we approach this with him we want it to be off the cuff and in the moment the thaught of swinging with some one we know has sparked a new fantasy for us. Weve hinted, fucked with the bedroom door open when hes been in the next room and he doesnt seem to get the hint that we want him to come in. We belive he would join in however dont want to scare him and be direct and inform him of our lifestyle. Our next opportunity will be next weekend...

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

God that sounds really hot! Do you have any inkling about how he might feel about joining in with you? I would suggest having a few drinks and maybe getting your hubby to drop a few hints!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Could be awkward, it may embarrass him and you could loose a friend. Maybe he didn't get the hint because it's not his thing. He may have been very embarrassed you fucked with your door open. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Could be awkward, it may embarrass him and you could loose a friend. Maybe he didn't get the hint because it's not his thing. He may have been very embarrassed you fucked with your door open. X"

He might not want to. It's a bit sex predator-ish

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Hubby has dropped hints and said in a round about way that hes going to fuck me and his response was that he was horny and would ne wanking... hes a sexual person however i do agree it may not be his thing thats why it woild be great to get peoples views and stories on the subject. One thing thtas made me curious is that hes kept coming navk every weekend to stay and has obviously heared us having sex and made reference to the noise x

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

Get hubby to ask him if he thinks he could make you moan louder?

Could give him a way in without being too obvious?

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By *awandOrderCouple
over a year ago

SW London

Why is he staying over? If he really is your hubby's best friend, why can't he ask him? I don't think it's a good idea and a good way to change their relationship ....just for lust, not worth it. Maybe he doesn't find the female attractive?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Its been for social gatherings they arent best friends, and yes that could be the case that he isnt attracted to me. Hubby was the one who initially braught up that he should join us, obviously he has resavations as he doesnt want this person to think were "weird" for swining x

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By *awandOrderCouple
over a year ago

SW London

Most people would find it weird though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Its been for social gatherings they arent best friends, and yes that could be the case that he isnt attracted to me. Hubby was the one who initially braught up that he should join us, obviously he has resavations as he doesnt want this person to think were "weird" for swining x"

Why would he think you are weird for swinging? Nobody seems to think I'm weird...friends, work colleagues etc know my lifestyle...none seem to think it is weird.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Let me sleep on you're sofa. I'll cum up lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just after he's gone to bed take him in a glass of water, with your skimpiest see thru dressing gown. Just say 'I thought you might like this'.

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By *awandOrderCouple
over a year ago

SW London

Why would he think you are weird for swinging? Nobody seems to think I'm weird...friends, work colleagues etc know my lifestyle...none seem to think it is weird."

Would they tell you if they did. Plus you are swinging as a single?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Let me sleep on you're sofa. I'll cum up lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Let me sleep on you're sofa. I'll cum up lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Just after he's gone to bed take him in a glass of water, with your skimpiest see thru dressing gown. Just say 'I thought you might like this'."

Thanks defo an option lol x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just after he's gone to bed take him in a glass of water, with your skimpiest see thru dressing gown. Just say 'I thought you might like this'.

Thanks defo an option lol x"

Well, it worked for us!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Oh wow what happend in your sitautuon?? X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

J fucked my best mate several times over in the next room. He was a bit sheepish the next day so I joked about it, along the lines of 'well it sounded like you had a good time last night'.

After that he was fine and they repeated the experience a week or so later.

You're probably going to have to do your friend in a separate room - at least to start with. The thought of showing his cock to his best mate is probably what's holding him back at the moment.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thank you for the advice nice 2 hear a positive end to a story

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It was a very hot experience. There's definitely something extra erotic about your wife doing it with a good friend.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why would he think you are weird for swinging? Nobody seems to think I'm weird...friends, work colleagues etc know my lifestyle...none seem to think it is weird."

Each case is different when I was in relationship we never disclosed,to friends or colleagues!because people do make assumptions and people do find it weird !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not everyone enjoys being watched or watching others. Listening in is a different thing. It may not be that he doesn't fancy the female, might be the idea having partner watching that is the obstacle. It wouldn't be for me.

I've turned down a couple meets because partner was going to be downstairs. When I suggested another place neither happened which said it wasn't about me at all but rather about their fantasy.

Just another perspective on the situation to reflect.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

all have a few drinks and get a bit flirty

if he gets flirty back then grab him by the balls and tell him you want it....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just bloody ask him!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just come out with it and ask him if he's interested. He's gotta to be interested, he's a male. Something wrong if he ain't!

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By *arry247Couple
over a year ago

Wakefield

"Hubby has dropped hints and said in a round about way that hes going to fuck me and his response was that he was horny and would ne wanking... hes a sexual person however i do agree it may not be his thing thats why it woild be great to get peoples views and stories on the subject. One thing thtas made me curious is that hes kept coming navk every weekend to stay and has obviously heared us having sex and made reference to the noise x"

Sounds like your husband missed a trick there, when his friend said he would be wanking hubby should have said something like "My wife gives a good blow job or is really good when she wanks me"

That leaves room for the request you could do it to him etc

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By *s1981Couple
over a year ago

halifax

Sounds awesome. Maybe the build up and frustration is adding to it. Let us know how you get on. Good luck xx

Ps. Just wander in one night, wearing just enough to cover all the fun bits , say night and leave his door open. Xxxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe a few drinks in the living room sit between him and your bf start kissing your bf and grab his cock if he stirs then start snogging him alternatively maybe you pay him a visit in his room on your own and take it from there and tell him you want your bf to come join you see how he reacts

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By *xcited99Couple
over a year ago

omagh

Well had it happened yet?

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