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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

So.. I think I'm finally realising that I'm bi curious.

We have done the hole pegging thing for a few years and we had spoken about convincing Tgirls before swinging.

Only recently have I found myself thinking about being with a guy..with Eve of course.

I'm finally ready to take it to the next step and explore my sexuality.

However, I'm finding it extremely difficult to find a bloke that I deem attractive.. this maybe due to the fact I'm still a little in denial? I'm not sure myself to be honest.

So, are there any bi men that would like the idea of meeting a curious 'straight' guy and his wife?

P.s to the forum police, I'll change my status from straight to curious when I know myself a little better. Play nice.

Adam.

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By *-angel-XWoman
over a year ago

hell

Blokes I've chatted to often don't look at the guy being attractive , it's the cock they care about .

Not same for everyone of course

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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

I'm sure there are plenty that would find you attractive.

I know a guy I'll pm you.

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By *aughtybooyMan
over a year ago

maidstone


"Blokes I've chatted to often don't look at the guy being attractive , it's the cock they care about .

Not same for everyone of course "

Agreed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

According to that strap on thread you're waaaaaaaay past being bi!

Maybe try a bi night or a t-girl night at a club

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By *andi_shopWoman
over a year ago

rotherham

I'm very much bi but I struggle to find females I'm attracted to. I think as it's not your dominant sexuality it may be harder?

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By *lirty_dirtyCouple
over a year ago

Lingfield

Great news you've decided to explore your sexuality, a brave move indeed, many guys won't risk it. For me, it wasn't about finding an attractive guy but one I could relax with, that was on the same wavelength. I was very clear that I just wanted to try a few things, but not all at once. So first meet was him sucking / wanking me... next meeting, I sucked him...and so on. I still don't find guys attractive but I really enjoy cock! Don't stress about labels, being bi, bi curious or gay. Just be you. It's one of the best things I've done, I've learned a lot about what makes me, me. I've also had some fucking great sex! Have fun

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'm very much bi but I struggle to find females I'm attracted to. I think as it's not your dominant sexuality it may be harder? "

Yeah that's probably it tbh, never thought of it that way.

I have fantasies but women will always be my default setting.

Sorry!! *Woman* she's watching.. love you Eve

Adam.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Great news you've decided to explore your sexuality, a brave move indeed, many guys won't risk it. For me, it wasn't about finding an attractive guy but one I could relax with, that was on the same wavelength. I was very clear that I just wanted to try a few things, but not all at once. So first meet was him sucking / wanking me... next meeting, I sucked him...and so on. I still don't find guys attractive but I really enjoy cock! Don't stress about labels, being bi, bi curious or gay. Just be you. It's one of the best things I've done, I've learned a lot about what makes me, me. I've also had some fucking great sex! Have fun "

Eve has said pretty much the same thing to me..

It's a case of carnal pleasure, not lust?

I guess time will tell.

Thanks for the support

Adam.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"According to that strap on thread you're waaaaaaaay past being bi!

Maybe try a bi night or a t-girl night at a club "

Think you could be on to something..

In at the deep end haha.

Adam.

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By *ullanonCouple
over a year ago

Hull


"So.. I think I'm finally realising that I'm bi curious.

We have done the hole pegging thing for a few years and we had spoken about convincing Tgirls before swinging.

Only recently have I found myself thinking about being with a guy..with Eve of course.

I'm finally ready to take it to the next step and explore my sexuality.

However, I'm finding it extremely difficult to find a bloke that I deem attractive.. this maybe due to the fact I'm still a little in denial? I'm not sure myself to be honest.

So, are there any bi men that would like the idea of meeting a curious 'straight' guy and his wife?

P.s to the forum police, I'll change my status from straight to curious when I know myself a little better. Play nice.

Adam."

We're in a very similar position - the only difference being we have changed our preference details!

The bi-curiousness is a very new thing for us, and we've had little to no experience so far! We don't really like the label - for us it's more about 4(5/6/7??) consensual bodies in a room together, with the freedom to explore and have fun.

Here's to many new adventures in the future!

Lu & Ben xx

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By *dstar01Man
over a year ago

Shrewsbury


"So.. I think I'm finally realising that I'm bi curious.

We have done the hole pegging thing for a few years and we had spoken about convincing Tgirls before swinging.

Only recently have I found myself thinking about being with a guy..with Eve of course.

I'm finally ready to take it to the next step and explore my sexuality.

However, I'm finding it extremely difficult to find a bloke that I deem attractive.. this maybe due to the fact I'm still a little in denial? I'm not sure myself to be honest.

So, are there any bi men that would like the idea of meeting a curious 'straight' guy and his wife?

P.s to the forum police, I'll change my status from straight to curious when I know myself a little better. Play nice.

Adam."

I am a bi man and would like to tell you without a doubt... i dont fancy men... i like sex with men..i just dont famcy them....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So.. I think I'm finally realising that I'm bi curious.

We have done the hole pegging thing for a few years and we had spoken about convincing Tgirls before swinging.

Only recently have I found myself thinking about being with a guy..with Eve of course.

I'm finally ready to take it to the next step and explore my sexuality.

However, I'm finding it extremely difficult to find a bloke that I deem attractive.. this maybe due to the fact I'm still a little in denial? I'm not sure myself to be honest.

So, are there any bi men that would like the idea of meeting a curious 'straight' guy and his wife?

P.s to the forum police, I'll change my status from straight to curious when I know myself a little better. Play nice.

Adam.

I am a bi man and would like to tell you without a doubt... i dont fancy men... i like sex with men..i just dont famcy them.... "

Is that like taking one for the team

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well all I can say is, welcome to the club Adam

-Mr

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks for all the kind words and advice people

Adam

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you feel the need to be attracted to the guy,take your time to explore. Maybe a mm social then if it feels right suprise your good lady. What are you curious about?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"If you feel the need to be attracted to the guy,take your time to explore. Maybe a mm social then if it feels right suprise your good lady. What are you curious about?"

Think a social would be a good idea.. but I'd need my good lady, she's my wingman

And.. as Freddie mercury said, I want it all haha.

Adam.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Seen your pics lol, I'm sure you will get it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Welcome to the dark side.

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe


"Maybe try a bi night or a t-girl night at a club "

I agree this might be the way to go.

You are interested in the idea of playing with another mans cock, but are seemingly not attracted to masculinity.

Nita

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So.. I think I'm finally realising that I'm bi curious.

We have done the hole pegging thing for a few years and we had spoken about convincing Tgirls before swinging.

Only recently have I found myself thinking about being with a guy..with Eve of course.

I'm finally ready to take it to the next step and explore my sexuality.

However, I'm finding it extremely difficult to find a bloke that I deem attractive.. this maybe due to the fact I'm still a little in denial? I'm not sure myself to be honest.

So, are there any bi men that would like the idea of meeting a curious 'straight' guy and his wife?

P.s to the forum police, I'll change my status from straight to curious when I know myself a little better. Play nice.

Adam."

Try a bi night Adam, that way you can be in the right environment with no pressure to play but will help any curiosity and allow you to join in easier if you like what you see. We started going to the monthly bi night at Vanilla Alternative and it's so relaxed there, might be worth you trying a club night

-Dan.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"So.. I think I'm finally realising that I'm bi curious.

We have done the hole pegging thing for a few years and we had spoken about convincing Tgirls before swinging.

Only recently have I found myself thinking about being with a guy..with Eve of course.

I'm finally ready to take it to the next step and explore my sexuality.

However, I'm finding it extremely difficult to find a bloke that I deem attractive.. this maybe due to the fact I'm still a little in denial? I'm not sure myself to be honest.

So, are there any bi men that would like the idea of meeting a curious 'straight' guy and his wife?

P.s to the forum police, I'll change my status from straight to curious when I know myself a little better. Play nice.

Adam.

Try a bi night Adam, that way you can be in the right environment with no pressure to play but will help any curiosity and allow you to join in easier if you like what you see. We started going to the monthly bi night at Vanilla Alternative and it's so relaxed there, might be worth you trying a club night

-Dan."

Think your right Dan..baby steps

Thanks

Adam.

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

Another vote for getting along to a Bi night at a club here, as Dan mentioned above the one at VA is great, and incredibly hot at times.

It's a no pressure environment where you can watch other bi guys playing and if comfortable indulge your curiousity up to whatever level you want.

Whilst I can relate to the "not fancying men" thing totally, I'd disagree that attraction doesn't come into it but it's a different kind of attraction to the one I have for women. Perhaps a better word for it would be "comfort" as in I'd have to be comfortable with a guy before being happy to play with him, if that makes sense?

Either way, good luck to you Adam, it IS a big step, and one I wish I'd taken earlier in life, but it's a whole other side to your sexuality that can be very pleasureable if you find it's for you.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Another vote for getting along to a Bi night at a club here, as Dan mentioned above the one at VA is great, and incredibly hot at times.

It's a no pressure environment where you can watch other bi guys playing and if comfortable indulge your curiousity up to whatever level you want.

Whilst I can relate to the "not fancying men" thing totally, I'd disagree that attraction doesn't come into it but it's a different kind of attraction to the one I have for women. Perhaps a better word for it would be "comfort" as in I'd have to be comfortable with a guy before being happy to play with him, if that makes sense?

Either way, good luck to you Adam, it IS a big step, and one I wish I'd taken earlier in life, but it's a whole other side to your sexuality that can be very pleasureable if you find it's for you.

"

It seems bi night is the way forward..

I think our local club (quest)

Host a bi night, I shall drag Eve along and see what happens.

Not that she'll kick up a fuss, she wants this more than me

Thanks for your input and comments.

Adam.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks to everyone that has given advice or just put across your thoughts.

You're all great people.

Apologies for my spelling

And grammar

Adam.

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By *hoot45Man
over a year ago

Ramsgate

Many of the 'straight' and bi guys I've met would never admit to fancying a man but just love cock. Some will kiss passionately (rare) and some cuddle. However, to be brutally honest it does mean that if you are older, or not particularly attractive you still stand a chance with attractive bi guys who don't regard you as any threat to their relationships. What is a bit sad is when guys say "if ever you see me out don't look or acknowledge me". So they want to suck your cock, be fucked into oblivion, sprayed with your cum and indulge in all sorts of 'gay' fantasies, but don't want any reminder of it afterwards.

It doesn't bother me in particular; it's just an observation. I know what many women in a similar position will say - "Welcome to our world". As I said, I'm not complaining - it comes with the territory - it just makes you think...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Many of the 'straight' and bi guys I've met would never admit to fancying a man but just love cock. Some will kiss passionately (rare) and some cuddle. However, to be brutally honest it does mean that if you are older, or not particularly attractive you still stand a chance with attractive bi guys who don't regard you as any threat to their relationships. What is a bit sad is when guys say "if ever you see me out don't look or acknowledge me". So they want to suck your cock, be fucked into oblivion, sprayed with your cum and indulge in all sorts of 'gay' fantasies, but don't want any reminder of it afterwards.

It doesn't bother me in particular; it's just an observation. I know what many women in a similar position will say - "Welcome to our world". As I said, I'm not complaining - it comes with the territory - it just makes you think...

"

I wouldn't care if someone we have played with (male or female) stop us in the street to chat.

As long as we aren't with our children.

I'm not ashamed of what we do or what I want to do.

Adam.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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It seems bi night is the way forward..

I think our local club (quest)

Host a bi night, I shall drag Eve along and see what happens.

Not that she'll kick up a fuss, she wants this more than me

Adam. "

Mmm I know the feeling, we are heading down this road and I fucking love it!

Good luck and enjoy!

Ruby

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"

It seems bi night is the way forward..

I think our local club (quest)

Host a bi night, I shall drag Eve along and see what happens.

Not that she'll kick up a fuss, she wants this more than me

Adam.

Mmm I know the feeling, we are heading down this road and I fucking love it!

Good luck and enjoy!

Ruby"

You too guys

Adam.

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By *hoot45Man
over a year ago

Ramsgate


"Many of the 'straight' and bi guys I've met would never admit to fancying a man but just love cock. Some will kiss passionately (rare) and some cuddle. However, to be brutally honest it does mean that if you are older, or not particularly attractive you still stand a chance with attractive bi guys who don't regard you as any threat to their relationships. What is a bit sad is when guys say "if ever you see me out don't look or acknowledge me". So they want to suck your cock, be fucked into oblivion, sprayed with your cum and indulge in all sorts of 'gay' fantasies, but don't want any reminder of it afterwards.

It doesn't bother me in particular; it's just an observation. I know what many women in a similar position will say - "Welcome to our world". As I said, I'm not complaining - it comes with the territory - it just makes you think...

I wouldn't care if someone we have played with (male or female) stop us in the street to chat.

As long as we aren't with our children.

I'm not ashamed of what we do or what I want to do.

Adam. "

Wish everyone was like u!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Many of the 'straight' and bi guys I've met would never admit to fancying a man but just love cock. Some will kiss passionately (rare) and some cuddle. However, to be brutally honest it does mean that if you are older, or not particularly attractive you still stand a chance with attractive bi guys who don't regard you as any threat to their relationships. What is a bit sad is when guys say "if ever you see me out don't look or acknowledge me". So they want to suck your cock, be fucked into oblivion, sprayed with your cum and indulge in all sorts of 'gay' fantasies, but don't want any reminder of it afterwards.

It doesn't bother me in particular; it's just an observation. I know what many women in a similar position will say - "Welcome to our world". As I said, I'm not complaining - it comes with the territory - it just makes you think...

I wouldn't care if someone we have played with (male or female) stop us in the street to chat.

As long as we aren't with our children.

I'm not ashamed of what we do or what I want to do.

Adam.

Wish everyone was like u! "

You don't.. I'm a right arse hole really.

Adam

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm bi, have been for 2 decades or so but if I'm out n about, I don't look at guys thinking "yeah, i'll suck him off or let him fuck me" When I arrange a meet, who ever turns up, whether fat, thin, tall or short, I do what we arranged to do.

Good luck in your search for cock.

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By *hoot45Man
over a year ago

Ramsgate


"Many of the 'straight' and bi guys I've met would never admit to fancying a man but just love cock. Some will kiss passionately (rare) and some cuddle. However, to be brutally honest it does mean that if you are older, or not particularly attractive you still stand a chance with attractive bi guys who don't regard you as any threat to their relationships. What is a bit sad is when guys say "if ever you see me out don't look or acknowledge me". So they want to suck your cock, be fucked into oblivion, sprayed with your cum and indulge in all sorts of 'gay' fantasies, but don't want any reminder of it afterwards.

It doesn't bother me in particular; it's just an observation. I know what many women in a similar position will say - "Welcome to our world". As I said, I'm not complaining - it comes with the territory - it just makes you think...

I wouldn't care if someone we have played with (male or female) stop us in the street to chat.

As long as we aren't with our children.

I'm not ashamed of what we do or what I want to do.

Adam.

Wish everyone was like u!

You don't.. I'm a right arse hole really.

Adam "

It's the arseholes who don't realise they're arseholes you have to be careful of! Lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'm bi, have been for 2 decades or so but if I'm out n about, I don't look at guys thinking "yeah, i'll suck him off or let him fuck me" When I arrange a meet, who ever turns up, whether fat, thin, tall or short, I do what we arranged to do.

Good luck in your search for cock. "

Haha genuinely laughed out loud at that.

Cheers bud..

Adam.

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