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Men, do you think you're 'good in bed'?

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By *ivinefox OP   Woman
over a year ago

Coventry

And if so, what do you think makes you a good lover...?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do I consider myself good in bed, in honesty, I'd say I'm OK, the ladies I have met and spent time with, unless they a lying to protect my feelings have told me they have very much enjoyed it and some have returned for another meet so that's a positive.

I think a lot of the time it's whether these a true connection and lustful feeling between he parties involved as to whether the sex is amazing or not.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes I do and many have said I got a magic tounge

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By *he horny kinkstersCouple
over a year ago

North West

I think that very much depends on the person you are with.

You can't please all the people all the time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"And if so, what do you think makes you a good lover...?"

I do. I'm atentative and make sure the lady cums before penetration. I listen to what the want and deliver, whether that be lots of foreplay, slow and gentle or hard and deep. As long as they're satisfied, I'm satisfied x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, I do. But then most people think that they are good lovers, just like they also think that they are good drivers.

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By *on and TammyCouple
over a year ago

Manchester

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By *on and TammyCouple
over a year ago

Manchester


"As others have said, a lot is to do with having a connection with the person you're with. This is especially true when it comes to stimulating the most powerful erogenous zone, the brain.

When it comes to the more 'mechanical' aspects of sex I think I'm pretty good. Overall i'm unselfish, curious, filthy, energetic and eager to please.

Occasionally things don't work as you would like them to but I can laugh about that, which is important too I think.

Mr

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By *ivinefox OP   Woman
over a year ago

Coventry

So do you take time to find out what she likes, do you pay attention to how she's responding, or do you do what you've always done and hope for the best?

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury

No. Not at all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So do you take time to find out what she likes, do you pay attention to how she's responding, or do you do what you've always done and hope for the best?"

I listen carefully - and it all depends on who you are with and what the chemistry is like.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am a crap lover but the best at it though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm terrible. Probably the worst on here.

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By *andsonjohnMan
over a year ago

in the eye of the storm


"And if so, what do you think makes you a good lover...?"

nah I'm bloody useless as i don't know when to stop

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By *ordonBennettMan
over a year ago

dover

Any minute now someone is going to say he's had no complaints...... {CRINGE}

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury

In fact i havent met a new woman for so long, frankly I'm terrified. I don't even know how to please my wife anymore. I've completely lost confidence in my ability as a lover.

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By *eyMrJackMan
over a year ago

Leeds

I am great in bed.. and humble too!

I genuinely believe this, if I get flamed for being confident then pfffft! I'm not perfect.... I'm crap at sowing, I drive like a horse and I forget many birthdays.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dont care what im like, i'm not fucking myself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's not all down to technique, sometimes it's down to being absolutely perfectly matched in what you like and how you like to interact with someone in bed. Other people could hate it, but once In a blue moon there's someone who is the perfect jigsaw piece for your filthy puzzle!

Ruby

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The ones who boast are usually the worse lovers in my opinion. Yet to be proven wrong.. Im sure some guys know they are good and that's fine with me if they are as good as they say they are

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I must be doing something right as I cum every time I have sex so yeah I'm feckin amazing in bed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Me? Well i'm the mutts nuts in bed!!

I always cum and think my jack hammer routine always impresses!

My tongue technique leaves nothing to the imagination in fact I've been licking this window - for the practice of course!!

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By *ooskiMan
over a year ago

south coast

I just get by...........if it's just me I sleep right through so no water works going on...lol

If it's occupied then I'm certainly not going to let the hotwife down as that would be just wrong.

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By *atcoupleCouple
over a year ago

Suffolk - East Anglia


"I think that very much depends on the person you are with.

You can't please all the people all the time."

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London

I've not read most of the replies but I bet there are lots of 'I make the lady cum first'.

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By *eyMrJackMan
over a year ago

Leeds

I can flop on top of women better than anyone

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By *orgotten_93Man
over a year ago

Stoke-on-Trent

My best trait is being able to control when I orgasm, then tailoring it to do it at the same time of the lady everytime

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You know what let's be honest I'm probably not the best unless you like the same thing has L and then I am fucking awesome

I have spent 20 years with the same woman so anything i do is normally what she likes even with other people

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By *9 kisses.Man
over a year ago

clacton on sea

I use to think i was bad in bed but i was in a crap relationship and since i have met other women i know i was not at fault.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Confidence is the one thing you need to be a good lover, that and a big cock.

So the two things you need to be a good lover is confidence and a big cock, oh and stamina, women love stamina.

Alright so the three things you need...

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

It takes two to be good in bed,it can be hard to find someone you truly connect with and can let yourself go completely.

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By *oyuer99Man
over a year ago

PRESTON

I must be crap as the woman has to come or cum first.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm woeful

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think i am good at please women i think but i do not judge on sex it who two us work out...

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By *eordieg2Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

Depends if am bottom or top ?? Top am absolutely shit at haha but being bottom had nothing but compliments!

Thank God am gay cause if I was straight I think most women would leave disappointed pmsl

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London


"I must be crap as the woman has to come or cum first. "

That's awful to put pressure on the woman.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I know how to push my wife's buttons, so that's the important thing.

It's been that long since I've been with another woman, I'm not even sure.

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By *mmmMaybeCouple
over a year ago

West Wales

I'm not bad & H says best bit is that it's all done & dusted in an ad break so no missing her fave tv programmes

S

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think am good but not perfect

I listen to the lady to find what she likes

Not a selfish lover

Allways make the lady come first

And take my time and tease

Oh and shitloads of forplay

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like to think I'm good or at least I try to be!! See I'm a bit of perfectionist! I need to make sure the woman gets ultimate pleasure no matter what!! The reason being it intensifies the orgasm I get. When a woman is so sexual aroused to the point she completely loses control of herself and gushes. That for me is the ultimate sexual high!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The ones who boast are usually the worse lovers in my opinion. Yet to be proven wrong.. Im sure some guys know they are good and that's fine with me if they are as good as they say they are "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've not read most of the replies but I bet there are lots of 'I make the lady cum first'.

"

Hahah yes .. how many times have i heard that and for it not to be the case. Women can cum again and again so it kinda makes sense to allow the lady to cum first otherwise the guy will just fall asleep or lose the passion.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm not bad & H says best bit is that it's all done & dusted in an ad break so no missing her fave tv programmes

S"

i like that.

I can't be dealing with all night sex these days. I like my sleep too much

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By *otwife90Couple
over a year ago

catterick

Depends on the other person, some people click some people don't. You may be an amazing fuck for one person and crap for another.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do not rate myself.

If I click with someone, then I hope that we will be receptive to each other and give and take pleasure as we go. I wouldn't assume that I would be every woman's cup of tea so to speak. So I couldn't hope, nor would I be arrogant enough to think I am, good in bed.

I do tend to overthink stuff though. So all of that I just typed could be utter twaddle!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes.

Naturally being turned on by her reaction to my attentive approach.

Worked every time

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By *igjohn78Man
over a year ago

lincoln

No room for improvement

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Doesn't really matter what I think does it?

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By *100Man
over a year ago

Essex

I'm not needy in bed but like to put all my attention on the lady I love to please.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Been so long, I can't remember ??

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor


"No room for improvement "

No room for improvement or No,room for improvement

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By *iss_Samantha_LovecockTV/TS
over a year ago

bmth /poole sometimes blandford

i used to be but having my prostrate removed some years back rendered me pretty useless and lacking confidence with women.. but I guess because i could put myself in the womans position during sex and i was an imaginative lover and quite kinky ..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Interesting that on a website where you are, in part, trying to 'sell' yourself to others in the hope of finding some sexual release, most of the blokes have said 'no'

I've been told in the past that I should be more confident in myself as that is what women are looking for and yet there are a fair number of blokes feeling the same way as me.

It's been a good read

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By *ngelo9Man
over a year ago

Chichester

I think the best thing is to constantly surprise her never do the same thing and be down and dirty. It has always worked for me

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By *rightonCheekyMan
over a year ago

Brighton

Great sex is a meeting of minds before a meeting of organs. This can manifest itself in many ways. For example:

1. You have been flirting and it's explosive ... hot sex surely follows

2. Assertive male and a less assertive female or couple..... this scenario depends on how well the male reads the situation instinctively and reacts accordingly.

Attraction is physical but the best sex always starts somewhere in the mind. Physical attraction is vital but beyond that no amount of mindless pounding makes you a good shag by default

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I believe I am as I put the other first every time.

I actually find that the biggest turn on.

However I do firmly believe it takes two to tango, so if the other isn't relaxed and confident then neither am I. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No, but I'm great in the kitchen. Or on the landing. Or in the car.

The key is being responsive and confident.

You need to listen to your lover. Even if she's not communicating with words, learn to read her body. Read how she reacts to certain touching, don't just dive straight for the clitoris unless she's literally begging for it.

Sex is 90% in the mind, and the build up and foreplay is by far the most exciting part. Sex is the crescendo.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't think anyone gives a chimp's tit what I write here.

Watch:

Flibberdygibbard,waffle,big cock,little cock,Alan Titmarsh!!

If anyone does read posts:

I have my good days and not-so good days.

Do I think I'm good?Nope!

Why? Because if too people are supposed to be dancing together,and you're both dancing to a different tune-it's going to be sweaty yes, but you'll look like a monkey fucking football!!

The moves are there but you're not getting anywhere!!

My best sex is where I relax and stop trying to be Mr Sexgod...just enjoying the moment!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Two not too-flaming typo fingers!!!

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By *one_Fishing83Man
over a year ago

Nottingham

I like to think of myself as continuously improving

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It really does take two to tango.

It depends on the pairing and the chemistry between them.

With the right woman I'm great.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can only claim to be good when it comes to me taking control if I am free to do what I like then yes im good at that if its a case of straight banging away then no im crap. I'm particularly good with my fingers can produce multiple orgasm's given the opportunity.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I like to think of myself as continuously improving"

Me too, I'm undertaking lean six sigma

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I aim to please... so I'm adapting to each partner.

The whole two to tango been mentioned about a hundred times but it's true! Although I'm one of those "weird" people that enjoys pleasing, so I tend to get the job done!

I am one of those negative people though that thinks I'm not that good though, but that's not just how good I am in bed... I think I'm bad at most things!

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By *igjohn78Man
over a year ago

lincoln

No need all the help I can get

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think I made a woman cum once so I would say I'm an 8/10

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By *crumdiddlyumptiousMan
over a year ago

.


"It really does take two to tango.

It depends on the pairing and the chemistry between them.

With the right woman I'm great. "

Its no good being/thinking you're the best if the person you're with at the time doesn't

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By *ust RachelTV/TS
over a year ago

Horsham

No, absolutely crap in bed.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am the £u©k¡n& G.O.A.T. and I'm very humble about it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I didn't realise this was a thread from a few weeks ago and was about to post that I know I'm woeful - but got there with that 4 weeks ago already.

Anyway. Still woeful. No improvement.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It depends on...

A. My partner

B. My mood

C. My Environment

A cold. Day in he'll fucking a he'll beast then I'm fooked... Sex by the pool in 40 degree heat with Cameron diaz... I'm da bomb!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I go to sleep quickly and dont fidget or take up too much room, so I'd say I'm great in bed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm awesome in bed.... I fall asleep in mid sentence and snore like farm machinery, fart and have dancing leg syndrome.

I drool too..

I'm a winner x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes.....it's in the hips....n the rhythm

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope. Not really!

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I think I'll let my 'shit shag' veris answer that one.

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By *ELLONS AND CREAMWoman
over a year ago

stourbridge area


"I'm awesome in bed.... I fall asleep in mid sentence and snore like farm machinery, fart and have dancing leg syndrome.

I drool too..

I'm a winner x"

Get your coat ....youve pulled

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This...

1. A real love and appreciation for what makes a woman a woman, and why this woman is different from all others. “I adore the lush curve of your belly” as opposed to “You could firm that up with just a few minutes a daily sit-ups.”

2. A sense of fun and delight in NOT scoring, NOT getting laid, Not even “working” on the goal of making your partner moan and groan. I’m talking about deriving pleasure from the sheer fun and silliness of two people trying to occupy the same physical space.

3. A lack of a preset program, a willingness to go with the flow so that even if all the possible acts or positions in each person’s repertoire do not get their turn on tonight’s playbill a good time will still be had by all.

4. Pays attention to nonverbal cues. ‘Does this body move toward or away from my touch?’

5. Nonjudgmental curiosity and adventuresome experimentation. “I never heard of that; let’s try it” as opposed to “You want me to do what?”.

SYNERGY!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I plead the 5th...damn it I'm not American... Pmsl... Ummmmmm No comment.

That's for me to know and only a lucky few to experience.... X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm awesome and I can prove it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

15 weeks on and nope, still no improvement. Still woeful.

Maybe someone needs to give me lessons?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm awesome and I can prove it. "

Me too, I have trophies

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By *andb69Couple
over a year ago

leeds

Sex is between two or more people. How good the sex is depends on all the participants irrespective of how good one of the participants thinks they might be. What's more in my experience the better a guy thinks he is in bed the worse he actually is!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm awesome and I can prove it.

Me too, I have trophies"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You are only as good as your last ride

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You are only as good as your last ride

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And then you have all the men blowing their own trumpets thinking they are a God in the bedroom department. Always spend careful attention know what the woman wants in pleasure and then go from there and if they return the favour then that's good but if it's just a drink and a chat they want then that's fine

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By *infullyNaughtyMan
over a year ago

Staines

I think it's subjective to the woman im sleeping with. Women like different things. One lady might think I'm amazing in bed whilst another might think I'm okay in bed.

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By *arge Hardon ColliderMan
over a year ago

Not far away

A recent ex said I was in her top 2 out of 34 lovers she'd had and the best at giving oral, so I'm happy with that

...Unless she was just saying that to make me feel good

I guess I think I'm pretty good though, I always seem to get positive reactions and/or comments anyway.

Reasons are probably because I try to read signals and adapt techniques and intensity to suit my partners preference.

Like to communication both ways,

I get pleasure from giving pleasure and have a very dexterous tongue

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would say that I'm alright in bed, though it's not in a manner that screams "I along carry the night so just lie back and take what's coming for you!"

I'm not a selfish lover in bed. I'm one of those guys that sometimes wouldn't mind not climaxing as long as the woman gets her orgasms first and gets them enough.

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury


"In fact i havent met a new woman for so long, frankly I'm terrified. I don't even know how to please my wife anymore. I've completely lost confidence in my ability as a lover. "

Ah, look Clem, nobody gave a fuck.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have no idea ? My fwb thinks I'm great but I'm sure it's horses for courses and I seem to be able too hit all her spots ? Another lady would have different likes ?

That's why I get nervous meeting ?

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By *oul BrothaMan
over a year ago

A Galaxy far far away

I consider myself to be unselfish, and love to see women get off and be satisfied as much as myself.

That, plus tongue skills, being adventurous, and having a few couples I've met keen to meet again, means I must not be half bad.

*Stops blowing trumpet*

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By *easingTimMan
over a year ago

Loughlinstown

Shockingly bad...

As if any guy on a swinging site is going to openly admit he's not great in bed!!!

Then he'll say how much of a generous lover and top guy he is (loves giving oral, foreplay and long walks in the park together, will meet parents ) just to get you into the sack...

We're guys and this is how we roll...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Been so long I've forgotten but great at sleeping

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes I do and many have said I got a magic tounge "

when a women tell you you have a magic tounge it normally means your useless with your cock

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By *VineMan
over a year ago

The right place

I go to sleep very quickly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To paraphrase Brian Clough.....I'm not saying I'm the best, but I'm in the top one.

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By *etsgetjiggingMan
over a year ago

norwich

Nope but am learning.lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's been that long ... I don't remember ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"And if so, what do you think makes you a good lover...?"

Generally yes unless I'm feeling lazy. It's down to reading your woman and taking your time with her. If you do it right she'll be cumming even before the main event and begging for you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

devine let me show you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm absolutele shit in the sack. Fancy teaching me a few things??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's about practise for me with the person I'm sleeping with. Learning what a woman likes takes time. All are different and respond in different ways. So I'm average without practise

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By *iceguymkMan
over a year ago

aylesbury

Compared to the other guys on here with far more experience on here I'd consider myself average t.b.h ... But what I lack in the fucking compartment I try more in the tongue department to which I think I'm pretty good at

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No id say im rubbish, i cum quickly and haha an average sized cock, im pushy and only get what i want....

But seriously id say im ok, there are easily far better in this feed than me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Probably very dependant on the womans needs, I have a pretty decent amount of stamina and spend a lot of time touching and getting myself in tune with said woman's body. I'd hope I'm considered good but in my opinion I'm adequate... guess I need a bigger sample size to make a more accurate hypothesis

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London


"I would say that I'm alright in bed, though it's not in a manner that screams "I along carry the night so just lie back and take what's coming for you!"

I'm not a selfish lover in bed. I'm one of those guys that sometimes wouldn't mind not climaxing as long as the woman gets her orgasms first and gets them enough. "

Again with the pressure to cum first and frequently.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My opinion isn't really the one that matters.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wonderful...

I just lie down and go to sleep

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By *arry247Couple
over a year ago

Wakefield


"And if so, what do you think makes you a good lover...?"

Garry has never had any complaints from the women he has had sex with (including me B) so that must count for something.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Actually yes I am, for five minutes anyway.

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By *ELLONS AND CREAMWoman
over a year ago

stourbridge area

Zzzzzzzzzz..... oh sorry I must have dropped off ......what have I missed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Actually yes I am, for five minutes anyway."

Haha.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The ones who boast are usually the worse lovers in my opinion. Yet to be proven wrong.. Im sure some guys know they are good and that's fine with me if they are as good as they say they are "

Definitely this! Alot talk the talk....rarely do half of what they say tho!

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By *ohnaronMan
over a year ago

london


"And if so, what do you think makes you a good lover...?"

Most women tell me it was three minutes well spent.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just wing it and hope you do alright. That's my motto, feel the atmosphere and hope you read it right

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm Shite, but like a true tradesmen, I blame the tools I'm working with.

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By *rontier PsychiatristMan
over a year ago

Coventry

Being able to make someone tottally at ease with you. Having an understanding of what true pleasure is like for yourself and wanting to replicate that feeling for the other person. Being attentive and being able to spot when your hitting the right buttons, a grown, goosebumps, a squirm, a shiver, the look in their eye, the frequency and intensity of their breathing, the movement of their chest as they inhale and exhale. And a lot to do with not being a selfish dick, genuinely wanting them to get the best out of it and being caring/neutering by nature. Plus of course experiance and practise go along way.

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By *oppy87Man
over a year ago

North West

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By *oppy87Man
over a year ago

North West

Absolutely. I'm the best.

I also have a Trump level of confidence/arrogance and a fantastical opinion of myself. The best, the greatest.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"And if so, what do you think makes you a good lover...?"
I'm good at wanking

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By *ungBlackTopMan
over a year ago

salford

you're only good if they come back for more.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When you fuck her that hard she literally shits the bed , you know you need to reach over and give yourself two pats on the back !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"you're only good if they come back for more."

If you're that good they don't need to!

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By *antsguy007Man
over a year ago

Whiteley

Well I haven't been kicked out of one yet or not invited back

One of the reasons could be I like to give as much as receive and always make sure the Lady has as much (if not more) fun than I do.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

sounds like OP has confidence issues....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"sounds like OP has confidence issues...."

When it comes to total satisfaction the only guarantee for anyone I meet is you'll have perfectly done eggs everytime

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dont know where I'm going wrong then but with quite a few of my meets I've had a good time but it's nice nice to Have an orgasm. Some guys I have met come at least once but I think they assume I've orgasmed. It would be nice just once for a guy to ask if I have. The problem is if I say anything I think they might feel inadequate. Even when I have said anything it's ignored. I know it's not just about the orgasm but I love orgasms who doesn't so maybe men think they are better than they are because they believe the woman has orgasmed

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By *antsguy007Man
over a year ago

Whiteley


"I dont know where I'm going wrong then but with quite a few of my meets I've had a good time but it's nice nice to Have an orgasm. Some guys I have met come at least once but I think they assume I've orgasmed. It would be nice just once for a guy to ask if I have. The problem is if I say anything I think they might feel inadequate. Even when I have said anything it's ignored. I know it's not just about the orgasm but I love orgasms who doesn't so maybe men think they are better than they are because they believe the woman has orgasmed "

Hello

For me there is such a thrill in having a woman orgasm with me either on my tongue or cock and just because a guy has come doesn't mean that you have to stop there....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Listen to what a woman wants, how she reacts and take your time to notice the subtle differences. That and a magic tongue or so my Veris say

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By *i_gonesMan
over a year ago

nr fakenham

Takes two to tango... love it when guys say things like I am great at foreplay! really! you meet someone for the first time, how do you know what they want!.... good in bed? mmmmm find out what each other likes and you are on your way to being good... I am shit btw lol

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