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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

What do you do if you've swapped a few messages with someone and get on ok then you swap pics.....no attraction what so ever!!

I know its not all about looks but surely there has to be a physical attraction doesn't there?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What do you do if you've swapped a few messages with someone and get on ok then you swap pics.....no attraction what so ever!!

I know its not all about looks but surely there has to be a physical attraction doesn't there? "

It's about looks for me. I'm not here to meet people I don't find attractive.

I'd cut the conversation off by politely saying they weren't my type.

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By *appyjack7890Man
over a year ago

Brigg

I suppose it depends on what kind of person you are.

Some people may just block....because they can..

Where as some (and you sound like one of these people op) dont like to offend and have a mich nicer personality

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By *orum TrollWoman
over a year ago

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i just block them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just say that they look really nice, but aren't your type? That's what I would do... Or you could always let the conversation slowly fizzle itself out if you don't want to just say you're not interested.

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By *orum TrollWoman
over a year ago

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"I suppose it depends on what kind of person you are.

Some people may just block....because they can..

Where as some (and you sound like one of these people op) dont like to offend and have a mich nicer personality"

nothing to do with being 'nice'. it's about not having as shit an experience on here.

i was polite enough to tell a guy, who i'd been messages but had messed me about btw, that i wasn't interested in meeting him any more when he messaged me last night asking about meeting him for sex (we were going to have a social also). he became abusive and i had to block anyway.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always ask to swap pics early on, I see no point in talking to somebody for days only to find out there's no physical attraction, I've had a few guys who say they only send out pics when they get to the stage of arranging a meet, to me that's just a waste of time and would not entertain talking to them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I tell them I'm only interested in men

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I prefer face pics early on, if I'm not attracted them I'm honest that they aren't my type

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By *assybitchWoman
over a year ago

around the world


"I tell them I'm only interested in men "

Love that

Face pic with first few messages, too busy to waste time getting smutty with someone im not into

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By *londieddWoman
over a year ago

fife


"I always ask to swap pics early on, I see no point in talking to somebody for days only to find out there's no physical attraction, I've had a few guys who say they only send out pics when they get to the stage of arranging a meet, to me that's just a waste of time and would not entertain talking to them "
that's how I work, best way

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

There deffo does,thats why we swap pics early on as it saves wasting time .

Miss

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There deffo does,thats why we swap pics early on as it saves wasting time .

Miss"

This

Ruby

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London

I hate all that chit chat. Send me a face pic if you sent me the first message. My first messages have my face pic attached.

Unlike the bloke who messaged me with all that blah blah blah about having no face pics and when I said I won't carry on without one, told me he needs to see mine first,

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By *eavenscentitCouple
over a year ago

barnstaple

I have to like a face before I decide to meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'd cut the conversation off by politely saying they weren't my type. "

Rough translation "Wooah man ...you ming"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Face pics early doors, then a polite thanks for the message but you aren't for us sorry,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Swap pictures earlier next time

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

There does for me,I alway's feel a little disappointed when we get along well and I like their body pic,but then the face pic isn't working for me. I'm sure they feel the same.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What do you do if you've swapped a few messages with someone and get on ok then you swap pics.....no attraction what so ever!!

I know its not all about looks but surely there has to be a physical attraction doesn't there? "

This is why we always send a face pic early in the conversation - and hope for one back - rather than build up a rapport first only to come crashing down when there's no mutual attraction.

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