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Bareback: Yes or No?

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By *eordieg2 OP   Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

Don't judge each other just answer if you do it or not with new meets.

I use to do bare alot but decided to play safe with new fucks since I got in a relationship but miss the feeling of shagging someone completely new bareback. Something amazingly horny about it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope, not for me unless I'm able to feel I can 100% trust that person. Definitely not with a new meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think you have to be open minded way up each experience chat to the couple, I love bareback but always have a few wrappers in my pocket. I have had bareback with a couple from fab they as am I were clean and all was great bottom line be prepared to wrap

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not for me Hun. Unless both tested and in a committed relationship.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I was part of a couple then yes but with randoms definitely not.

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By *wo4FemCouple
over a year ago

Birmingham

Only with mrs2 but not with anyone else regardless of if they have or have not been tested.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lots of trust and honesty is needed between two people, and yes I think it's fantastic, but if your swinging, safe sex is paramount.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We would never do bareback with anyone other than each other.

H x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hell yes, especially at a job interview !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hell yes, especially at a job interview ! "

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By *omerladyWoman
over a year ago

Taunton

I have never barebacked with anyone in my life.

I have however found a close friend whom I have established trust with over the course of several months. We were screened early in the year and will go again in a few weeks. Once that is clear, we have decided that we will go bareback with each other.

That's what it takes for me, months of developing a relationship of sorts and deciding that the trust is there.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod

over a year ago

East Sussex

No.

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By *obyn67Woman
over a year ago

Wonderland

Absolutely not ...no exceptions. Safe swinging every time x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We would never do bareback with anyone other than each other.

H x"

This is our approach too

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By *ungBlackTopMan
over a year ago

salford

mmm love it

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By *eavenscentitCouple
over a year ago

barnstaple

I just couldn't wrap up Mr...its just so lovely bare

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By *ane DTV/TS
over a year ago

Glasgow ish

No, no, just no.

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By *arlolad71Man
over a year ago

darlington

I never would do bareback.

My health too important.x

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By *osieWoman
over a year ago

Wembley

Yes, yes, yes with my boyfriend

Not with anyone else; not even oral sex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not with a first meet...... it's ok saying they are/look "clean".....you just can't tell.

Yes with someone regular once you can be certain all is clear.

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By *CDecauxMan
over a year ago

Caerphilly

Never ever go bare unless it's with someone I've known a long time and have built up trust with.

There's pictures of me bare with a girl I was sleeping with previously in my private pictures, it was 6 months of multiple times a week before I went bare with her.

Always always safe with new meets, no exceptions.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never with new meets

I have one trusted friend who I do this with and that's all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only with my hubby!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never ever if they fuck you bareback who else are the not having safe sex with ..not worth the risk

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By *ust RachelTV/TS
over a year ago

Horsham

Hell no

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

No,only with Jack.

Miss

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By *appyjack7890Man
over a year ago

Brigg


"Nope, not for me unless I'm able to feel I can 100% trust that person. Definitely not with a new meet. "

What he said

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

Not with a new meet I wouldn't.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wrap your willy don't be silly. Bareback is good and feels great but wouldn't do it with a new meet has you can never fully trust them to be sti free

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No glove no love xx

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford

No, only ever with hubby

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By *one_Fishing83Man
over a year ago

Nottingham

no, not a risk worth taking in my opinion

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By *-angel-XWoman
over a year ago

hell

Hell no

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I hate I using them but on new meets there a must after a few meets with same person maybe bareback

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes as I'm naturally immune to all sexual transmitted diseases!! I have a condition it's called extreme ignorance!! It's a bloody great condition to have! As I have found out all through my life I have never ever been wrong!!!!

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By *irty-milfCouple
over a year ago

edinburgh

We love it. From all the posts it looks as though we are very much on our own.

The reality though is that many who claim to be absolutely rigorous in the use of condoms are only to happy to join us in bareback fun.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No

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By *otgirl32Woman
over a year ago

Ashton Under Lyne


"We love it. From all the posts it looks as though we are very much on our own.

The reality though is that many who claim to be absolutely rigorous in the use of condoms are only to happy to join us in bareback fun."

Love bareback and not afraid to admit to it. I carefully select my sex partners. Get tested very regularly. So far still standing

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By *eedsbig9inMan
over a year ago

leeds


"We love it. From all the posts it looks as though we are very much on our own.

The reality though is that many who claim to be absolutely rigorous in the use of condoms are only to happy to join us in bareback fun.

Love bareback and not afraid to admit to it. I carefully select my sex partners. Get tested very regularly. So far still standing"

U are perfection lol

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By *irky_coupleCouple
over a year ago

kirky

Any test is only as good as the day its taken so all this nonsense of "I get screened regularly" is a cop out In our opinion.

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By *orum TrollWoman
over a year ago

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"Any test is only as good as the day its taken so all this nonsense of "I get screened regularly" is a cop out In our opinion.

"

it's not even good then coz some stuff can take weeks to show up and you're passing it on still.

but, at least if you get tested then catch something you can stop playing and let previous meets know, which contains infections.

plus condoms aren't a 100% guarantee against infections either.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope only with a partner would I.

Not even just the sti risks but more so the unwanted pregnancies if your birth control fails, none are 100%

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By *lwaysup4it69Couple
over a year ago

Kirkby in Ashfield

We will only play bare it's what we enjoy

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By *uninlondon69Man
over a year ago

Tower Bridge South

Yes, definitely.

Given the strong opinions on the subject and the number of forum posts it's ridiculous that it's not an option on profile likes.

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By *icpl81Couple
over a year ago

hednesford

We bareback, with each other only!

That's the one thing that is kept exclusively for our own relationship - aside from the the risk of STI's and unplanned pregnancies - don't feel the need for who's the daddy drama!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nope only with a partner would I.

"

this 100%

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By *unandbuckCouple
over a year ago

Sheffield

Yes, never in the history of sexual encounters has it caused any problems ever. Fact.

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By *uckslut and MCouple
over a year ago

Poole

No from us, covered or your not going in.

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

No

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By *ust_for_fun88Couple
over a year ago

somewhere

Nope!!

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By *ackdaniels2016Man
over a year ago

Yarm

For intercourse yes !!! Everytime !!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The nerves until your test results come back just ain't worth it. Trust me

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By *ug247Man
over a year ago

Near You

Not on a new meet. Never

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By *ackdaniels2016Man
over a year ago

Yarm


"For intercourse yes !!! Everytime !!! "

Totally read that wrong !! I would never have intercourse without protection other than with a regular partner !!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is such a contentious issue so many people flat refuse to fuck without a condom yet engage in oral bukakke wanking etc without. chlamydia and gonorrhea can still be passed on with these practices..so what's it to be..dental dams and condoms or go full bareback..cervical cancer is also increased with multiple partners so the risk of just being a swinger is always present in some form..I do fuck bare but I'm aware of the risk as are my partners it's an informed decision and im well aware of the consequences

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only with my hubby

Only with my wife

Mrs M and Mr A

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It sure is a difficult one this, the bareback intercourse is an easy no with anyone but my partner but oral hmmmmm, let's be realistic how many of us cover up for that. I think we each have to carry out our own assessments of risk & yeah I do oral without & yep, on occasions I swallow but this is the reason I visit the clinic monthly. How many out there do the facial thing & don't think about pink eye? That's also an area to catch things like Chlamydia, ouch X

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By *LCCCouple
over a year ago

Cambridge

Only with prostitutes

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By *lutandhubbyCouple
over a year ago

west midlands

bareback, yes. occasionally. xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

never done bear back so no but maybe one day

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By *limj93Man
over a year ago

London & Berks

It's so much more pleasurable. And I think being aware of the "risk" and stigma only makes it more pleasurable. Putting condoms on can really kill of the mood too as well as let the person you're fucking know that you don't trust them. By all means if you don't trust them then use one (or don't fuck them!!!)

I wrap up occasionally but much prefer it raw and I've never come up positive in any test

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

Not for me with anyone but my long term partner.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Protection always for new people, it takes a few times to go bareback.

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By *ethnmelvCouple
over a year ago

Cardiff

Only with each other, but condoms are crap

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By *eakcoupleCouple
over a year ago

peak district

When we were young we both barebacked with just about everybody. That was before AIDS and when the pill had just become available to single women. Since starting swinging, we've used condoms with new people and many of our regular friends, but we BB with some very special swinger friends.

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By *ustthe2ofusXXXCouple
over a year ago

coventry

BB is only between me and the wife, if and when we invite someone else in to the bedroom if there is no glove then there is no love

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By *eadySteadyCockCouple
over a year ago

Tredegar

Nope not ever

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By *amplemeMan
over a year ago

Working here.

Take advice from the professionals... weigh up the risks... consider the pros and cons.... then put a hat on it

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By *na_Luv_4PlayCouple
over a year ago

Bridlington

No glove no love.. no no no never in a million

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Our stance on our profile

".....barebackers please do not contact us and those that claim to practise safe sex but in a meet you try to persuade, cajole or just attempt to bare back, we will immediately terminate the play and royally fuck you up, so enough, don't contact us...."

Simple....

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By *LCCCouple
over a year ago

Cambridge


"Our stance on our profile

".....barebackers please do not contact us and those that claim to practise safe sex but in a meet you try to persuade, cajole or just attempt to bare back, we will immediately terminate the play and royally fuck you up, so enough, don't contact us...."

Simple...."

"Royally fuck you up"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Whilst bareback feels far better, I'd rather use a condom for the first few meets at least. Perhaps bareback could happen once the trust element has developed.

Only every barebacked with a very long term partner...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This is such a contentious issue so many people flat refuse to fuck without a condom yet engage in oral bukakke wanking etc without. chlamydia and gonorrhea can still be passed on with these practices..so what's it to be..dental dams and condoms or go full bareback..cervical cancer is also increased with multiple partners so the risk of just being a swinger is always present in some form..I do fuck bare but I'm aware of the risk as are my partners it's an informed decision and im well aware of the consequences "

Glad someone pointed this out.

Refer to a very good thread last week on the subject.

Also something few are ignorant about too is that you should have an up to date Hep B vaccination if you're swinging! It's a must!

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By *ittle Miss CheeksWoman
over a year ago

,Around Devon

Nope, absolutely not as I'm single and not in a relationship. Never have gone bareback and never will, even before I entered the life of swinging. Life's too short and my health means far too much to me to risk that

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By *eforfuncplCouple
over a year ago

Morecambe

NO!

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By *laskan lovers 1984Couple
over a year ago

West midlands

Always use a cover

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