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By *eachgoose OP   Couple
over a year ago

Midlands

So as newbies to the scene and visited clubs every weekend since beginning of Jan and some weeknights, was it like that for most and if so when did it stop being that way and only indulge occasionally, is it an excitement that eventually slows down

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just like most things, the novelty wears off. People then become more picky and selective and sometimes miss out on those hidden gems.

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By *andemanMan
over a year ago

bedforshire

I have been on the scean a long time. And it is exciting at first new things new places new people. But it does cool as your experience broadens and your tastes refine.

I find the social side much more fun than i did before and enjoy meeting people with thier cloths on these days. Makes taking thier cloths off more fun later.

The rampent ruttung of youth gives way to the sensual seduction of experience.

But dont think you have to follow anyones pattern just enjoy. You do find yourself pushing your own bouderies on the scene and that to can be amazingly hot fun as you return home after doing sothing that you never thought you would.

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

cahoots


"So as newbies to the scene and visited clubs every weekend since beginning of Jan and some weeknights, was it like that for most and if so when did it stop being that way and only indulge occasionally, is it an excitement that eventually slows down "

Not sure...only been doing this a few years and no signs of slowing down yet.....in fact the opposite applies.

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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago

yumsville


"So as newbies to the scene and visited clubs every weekend since beginning of Jan and some weeknights, was it like that for most and if so when did it stop being that way and only indulge occasionally, is it an excitement that eventually slows down "

Are you sure you are enjoying the right people? I don't go to clubs for this reason. You meet the wrong person and your night is spoiled. You have some rushed sex and it's a drive wasted. I'd much rather meet at a hotel or home where you can have a laugh and a chat, where everyone knows there is time to spare and where everyone is on the same page. Unless you enjoy exhibitionism to it's fullest, you can be as rude as you like for as long as you like and go at it again if you need to. In a club there is little time to enjoy a laugh about fuckfest you've just had. I find them completely impersonal - especially as the people you meet, you have no idea what they are into unless you've arranged to meet them there.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Took about a year for us

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By *eachgoose OP   Couple
over a year ago

Midlands


"So as newbies to the scene and visited clubs every weekend since beginning of Jan and some weeknights, was it like that for most and if so when did it stop being that way and only indulge occasionally, is it an excitement that eventually slows down

Are you sure you are enjoying the right people? I don't go to clubs for this reason. You meet the wrong person and your night is spoiled. You have some rushed sex and it's a drive wasted. I'd much rather meet at a hotel or home where you can have a laugh and a chat, where everyone knows there is time to spare and where everyone is on the same page. Unless you enjoy exhibitionism to it's fullest, you can be as rude as you like for as long as you like and go at it again if you need to. In a club there is little time to enjoy a laugh about fuckfest you've just had. I find them completely impersonal - especially as the people you meet, you have no idea what they are into unless you've arranged to meet them there. "

Generally meet people there we've chatted to, we are social people so at the moment it works for us, but I do get where you're coming from, only had one social outside of a club and we thoroughly enjoyed it so would never rule out more

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We've been attending swing parties and having private meets with playmates now regularly for 2 years. Can't see it slowing down. What does lose its charm though is the usefulness of Fab - we find once connections are made it spirals from there.

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So as newbies to the scene and visited clubs every weekend since beginning of Jan and some weeknights, was it like that for most and if so when did it stop being that way and only indulge occasionally, is it an excitement that eventually slows down "

At first it was all about the novelty of new experiences, but after a few months of club visits and private meets we figured out what we liked and didn't. These days we're much more selective about the things we do, and usually don't come out to play more than once or twice a year. Less is more in our book. We have friends, though, who play at least once every month, and have done for years, and they still love it. Everyone has to find their own level, I guess.

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