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By *orum Troll OP   Woman
over a year ago

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i like to get my meets together for 3sums, never asked them about this but wondering (if you do the same) do you compare yourself to the other guy/woman or just not care? or do you have any other random thoughts.

i think i wouldn't compare myself coz i'd be too excited about getting started.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Had a few threesomes, usually but nervous st start and compare myself but soon forget about it when the fun starts

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By *orum Troll OP   Woman
over a year ago

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it only dawned on me last night that guys might do this. thanks for replying.

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By *arkside2698Man
over a year ago

luton

It's never even entered my head. In a threesome situation I'm just loving the action. I'm very happy in my own skin and don't have any bodily hang ups so I guess that might be key

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By *orum Troll OP   Woman
over a year ago

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i do ask them some stuff to check they'll be alright with the other guy and if they want names i give them so they can check the guy out, they hardly ask who the other guy is so don't seem to be bothered really. or maybe they trust my judgment, that'd be nice if they did.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Essentially we're all on fab for the same reason so after the chitchat pic swap meet for a coffee etc once we're all naked together I guess it doesn't matter that much as long as you are all having fun

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By *orum Troll OP   Woman
over a year ago

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yeah it does seem to be as simple as that.

a few recent things got me wondering, that's all.

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By *aulp4alsMan
over a year ago

Warrington

Would you like to compare me to other men

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By *andomfodCouple
over a year ago

walsall

Must admit, though not in a three way situation, I had to comment on a chaps equipment to N after we had swapped the other week. He was rather well equipped! I think subconsciously we always have a look, even if you dont necessarily compare as such.

B

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You're apparently the threesome 'queen'. You tell us

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By *orum Troll OP   Woman
over a year ago

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"Must admit, though not in a three way situation, I had to comment on a chaps equipment to N after we had swapped the other week. He was rather well equipped! I think subconsciously we always have a look, even if you dont necessarily compare as such.

B"

i didn't even think about genitals lol, something else to consider now.

i have seen topics where someone was asking if their hubby wasn't that good looking would it put guys off, can't remember what was said now. i guess most people wouldn't be bothered.

mainly i meet hot guys so there's no problem with either guy abut the other and i set this up myself between previous meets. i noticed when a guy brings someone i don't know he won't be that good looking. not that i mind, it's nice enough of them to sort out another guy for me.

i notice if previous meets meet another fb they ten to want to meet more as well. like me meeting other good looking guys is some kind of confirmation that i'm ok to fuck regular, or it might be something else, idk.

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By *orum Troll OP   Woman
over a year ago

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"Would you like to compare me to other men "

possibly.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes I compare myself but I try not to. I can't compete so it's daft really. They must want me for some reason.

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By *Q_GentMan
over a year ago

Manchester, City Centre

Ive had a few threesomes and it's only natural to compare at first...but wouldn't you compare yourself again st other people if you were in a group at a bar?

What are they wearing? How do they talk? Who is flirting with who?

It's only natural to see where you stand in relations to someone else...only difference is that you are there for the same thing (hopefully)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Like the others said. It's natural to compare, but if I focus on what happening I relax quickly.

Have fun.

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By *andomfodCouple
over a year ago

walsall


"Like the others said. It's natural to compare, but if I focus on what happening I relax quickly.

Have fun.

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Exactly. It was our first real swap situation last week. Once I relaxed, I didn't care what the other chap looked like only that we all had fun.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Soon as the fun starts its all good

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By *orum Troll OP   Woman
over a year ago

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nice to see most people don't care. does take the stress outta arranging one when they don't. most of my meets are ok with anyone too so i probably didn't need to ask.

thanks all for replying.

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By *eordieg2Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

Threesomes can be good but can also be a disaster. I have known tension/rivalry to happen for the attention of the third and for one or two to go in complete huffs.

Its all about balance and never suggest a threesome with a fuck buddy who you know/suspect has feelings for you. They will more than likely agree but always get offended or back out when it is about to happen

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By *orum Troll OP   Woman
over a year ago

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"Threesomes can be good but can also be a disaster. I have known tension/rivalry to happen for the attention of the third and for one or two to go in complete huffs.

Its all about balance and never suggest a threesome with a fuck buddy who you know/suspect has feelings for you. They will more than likely agree but always get offended or back out when it is about to happen"

no-one i've fucked has feelings for me so i'm ok there.

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