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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

why do people do it, arrange a meet and cancel at last minute.then arrange a meet and another excuse. Fed up with bloody timewasters especially when you have driven an hour to meet them.Please surely there some genuine couples out there !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"why do people do it, arrange a meet and cancel at last minute.then arrange a meet and another excuse. Fed up with bloody timewasters especially when you have driven an hour to meet them.Please surely there some genuine couples out there !"

Lots of them here, been stood up a good few times, now I try not to have to travel or make definite arrangements that don't suit me but only last month gave a guy 2 chances and once again my time wasted

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i think a lot of people are only here to play games with genuine people to get a laugh out of making meets then not meeting..

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

he must have been mad standing you up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fantasists

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By *corpio67Man
over a year ago

hillingdon

Hell

If only I was 30 years younger!!!

But that's life

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Didn't realise there was time wasters on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"why do people do it, arrange a meet and cancel at last minute.then arrange a meet and another excuse. Fed up with bloody timewasters especially when you have driven an hour to meet them.Please surely there some genuine couples out there !

Lots of them here, been stood up a good few times, now I try not to have to travel or make definite arrangements that don't suit me but only last month gave a guy 2 chances and once again my time wasted"

Was he blind by any chance

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There is sadly a majority of timewasters on here. You are lucky to find a real guy to turn up. I believe however not all the no shows do it for the sadistic pleasure, a lot just chicken out because of fear of sex and many suffer from erectile dysfunction. However they all are still irritating and more often than not very rude. .

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ


"Didn't realise there was time wasters on here "

I waste a lot of my time one here, never arranged a meet and been let down though (a few have been cancelled and rearranged) in over 10 years

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By *estoraleverMan
over a year ago

cheshire/staffordshire

I just can't understand people who have fake profiles or don't turn up! I'm trying to get my first verification and been stood up twice already!!! I think you should be able to leave negative feedback too

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ


"I just can't understand people who have fake profiles or don't turn up! I'm trying to get my first verification and been stood up twice already!!! I think you should be able to leave negative feedback too "

sexonly2017 is an absolute timewaster who never.......

You can see what I mean. It's open to abuse so will never be allowed as it's one person's word against another.

It took me 7 months before I got my first veri, but I've met a few people off here without feeling the need to give them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah it is strange to be fair, I wonder what there thinking as there arranging a meet knowing there not going to turn up. It's happend a couple of times since joining the site a few months ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah, this site is full of em! Timewasters, fakes and people who have no intention of meeting. Makes you wonder if the female part of the couple actually knows she is on here, know what i mean?...

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By *arkside2698Man
over a year ago

luton

Had two meets arranged for Monday. 1 threesome and gang bang later. Both cancelled at the last minute! It's so annoying. I think there are a lot of people on here who talk a good talk but that's it. Also the people that want to message for months... what's that all about? I fancy you, you fancy me so let's set a date and meet to fuck. It's not difficult really

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Fantasists "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never mind a meet I have trouble finding someone who will chat lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"why do people do it, arrange a meet and cancel at last minute.then arrange a meet and another excuse. Fed up with bloody timewasters especially when you have driven an hour to meet them.Please surely there some genuine couples out there !

Lots of them here, been stood up a good few times, now I try not to have to travel or make definite arrangements that don't suit me but only last month gave a guy 2 chances and once again my time wasted"

He was crazy. A stunning woman happy to meet you. Why oh why.

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By *ild-1Woman
over a year ago

york

I had a full weekend meet arranged from tomorrow. Chatted for hours on the phone over the last 2 weeks then today cancelled, no explanation no nothing. It's very frustrating. It's happened twice but I've had 2 great meets that I continue to see occasionally. I couldn't be bothered with wasting people's time, I have a life outside of fab x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm afraid it happens a fair bit. Move forward and onto the next

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"why do people do it, arrange a meet and cancel at last minute.then arrange a meet and another excuse. Fed up with bloody timewasters especially when you have driven an hour to meet them.Please surely there some genuine couples out there !"

REPORT!! BLOCK!! Move on!! Simple

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No none left lol we only meet in club's now so it's still a good night out if there is a no show

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By *andsonjohnMan
over a year ago

in the eye of the storm

Ok I just want to say something here for everyone who is posting in this thread to think over.

Every social I've ever been on has had every single fern admit to me leading up to Tha meet that they were very nervous about meeting me .

Now I'm nothing special in my own eyes just a normal guy who's likes his sexual fun in a certain way

But if a average looking guy like me can induce such nerves into some women. who I clearly think are out of ny league on many a occasion .

Well imagine the nerves that a play meet induces in them ir most people in general

I guess what I'm saying is this

If you don't want your time wasted stay away from putting any pressure on that first meet that way your not ramping up the nerves by doing so .

There are very few people in this world who have the confidence and belief in there sexual skill to play on a first meet so if that's what your looking for your going to be disappointed more often than your not.

In the fun of the chats try to remember that nerves will show up nearer and nearer the meet

so be more friendly more supportive leading up to that meet and less sexual and I think you will find more and more people turning up instead of cancelling at the last minute

Try to remember your dealing with human beings not sex toys human beings feel things be open to that and you will see it in messages from them as the social gets nearer and uts then its your responsibility to help calm those nerves with the messages you send .

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By *aughtyandhandsomeMan
over a year ago

button moon

I've been let down a lot of times but I never let others down. If I say I'll meet I do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Other side a the fence ......we had to cancel this week as young one projectile vomited all over the place night before n been of school since ...sent out sorry msg explaining early in morning on said day m.But no doubt there was a few mutters from people but just couldn't be helped brats come before casual fcks just the way it is ........little shit better be ok for tomorrow lol taming of the unicorn on cards lol took a lot to learn to whisper the language not as easy as horses thats for sure lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've been let down a lot of times but I never let others down. If I say I'll meet I do "

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By *tew2009Man
over a year ago

wakefield

I find it amusing the amount of people who post a "meet today" yet they've been on here over 12 months and not met anybody! With most of the couples on here a lot of the women have no idea they're on a swinging site, it's just some bloke's fantasy.....as ever, expect sfa and you won't be disappointed!

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By *tew2009Man
over a year ago

wakefield

A couple of the girls I've met over the years have shown me their home pages and believe me they get literally hundreds and hundreds of replies daily, they could be having sex 24 hours a day with queues of guys so if they've been on here a while with no meets they're probably timewasters/fakes.

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