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By *oxes OP   Man
over a year ago

Southend, Essex

How did you start/ get into swinging?

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By *BW SnowbunnyWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere over the Rainbow


"How did you start/ get into swinging? "

That's a question that has variable answers as everyone is different For me personally I used to swing when I was a teenager/young adult. Then stopped when I got married. Started again via fab 3 years ago but really got back into it when I started going to clubs.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends what you mean by Swinging?

What is Swinging?

Peoples definitions of Swinging can be wildly different.

I think its probably an out dated label now ?

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By *ay19720Man
over a year ago

Ashford kent

U join fab...lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ex girlfriend. She showed me the ropes. Never looked back since.

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By *uietlyBohemianCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle-under-Lyme

Via taking naughty photos, then online picture sharing, then online camming and some very naughty shows, then being asked about 'sharing' and a whole lot of talking, and then joining fab, meeting some nice couples, visiting a club, and taking some rather fantastic steps.

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By *oxes OP   Man
over a year ago

Southend, Essex


"Depends what you mean by Swinging?

What is Swinging?

Peoples definitions of Swinging can be wildly different.

I think its probably an out dated label now ?"

A lifestyle of non-monogany where sexual relations occur outside the established couple.

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By *oxes OP   Man
over a year ago

Southend, Essex


"Depends what you mean by Swinging?

What is Swinging?

Peoples definitions of Swinging can be wildly different.

I think its probably an out dated label now ?

A lifestyle of non-monogany where sexual relations occur outside the established couple. "

Encarta had a good def but als for some reason it is just not working on my laptop for some reason.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Initially by dating an older bi guy with "friends" who thankfully accepted me into their group.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

watching porn I asked her if she would like to fuck another guy like the girl in the film, she said of course so I set up a meet ,haven't looked back

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Go to a good club like Liberty Elite or Vanilla Alternative or similar and chat to couples.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Adam had fantasies of seeing me with another man.

We spoke and argued for a few weeks before I finally saw his way of thinking.

(We only argued because I was adamant he couldn't love me and want to share me, he convinced me otherwise.)

Eve. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Got propositioned by a customer at work and joined in with her and her husband

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By *oxes OP   Man
over a year ago

Southend, Essex

I started swinging 4 years ago I heard about fab from my ex who is a swinger. I thought if it works for her it can work for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I first joined with my ex after going to quest on the spur of the moment!! And now I'm on here on my own

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By *oxes OP   Man
over a year ago

Southend, Essex


"I first joined with my ex after going to quest on the spur of the moment!! And now I'm on here on my own "

quest that's the one in Leeds isn't it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I first joined with my ex after going to quest on the spur of the moment!! And now I'm on here on my own

quest that's the one in Leeds isn't it? "

Yes it sure is

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By *inkswithpanCouple
over a year ago

lough

I found Js single profile on his laptop, I hasten to add this was before we met and we're together. It was another site not Fab's and I asked what it was. We had a chat over a few weeks discussing our fantasies and we jumped in. Never looked back

B xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wanted fun looked online saw a few sites had my first meet with a couple then come across fab it's the best site

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Started by going to nudist beaches and it went from there......

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By *ooskiMan
over a year ago

south coast

Via colleague at work.....spent considerable time working with her on events which meant nights away....

One evening she showed me a saucy text her hubby had sent her about enjoying herself and told me about one third Fantasy's....so we sent him a few pics back throughout the evening...

The rest is history....but carried on for couple of years...with her coming to stay with me a fair amount (we would allow him to come watch from time to time)

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By *oxes OP   Man
over a year ago

Southend, Essex


"Via colleague at work.....spent considerable time working with her on events which meant nights away....

One evening she showed me a saucy text her hubby had sent her about enjoying herself and told me about one third Fantasy's....so we sent him a few pics back throughout the evening...

The rest is history....but carried on for couple of years...with her coming to stay with me a fair amount (we would allow him to come watch from time to time)

"

lucky man, you gave two good designs who are willing to share their expirence with you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lost my virginity at 17 back when I was in my home country (just in the UK for uni at the moment) through a gangbang. Funny thing too, thinking back on it!

Back six years or so ago Craigslist was still a thing for people to seek hookups from. This travelling British couple advertised on it one days under Casual Encounters asking for six single men between 19-24 to apply for their gangbang a couple days later. I sent my photo and fibbed my age (hey, I did look 19 even though I was 17), and next thing I know I got an email from them saying they've chosen me, along with details for the meet.

So came the day of the meet. Went to the hotel address they gave me and ran oh so conveniently into the other five guys who were there for the same reason too. All of us went up together and entered their hotel suite. Imagine walking into a dimmed room, vanity table in the corner with booze on it, the husband sitting in a corner half naked and slowly wanking off... and the wife sprawled out on the bed face down. Her body was oiled up, she was absolutely fine (think toned athletic body for someone in her 30s), and I kid you not she had a dragon tattoo running down half her back with the tail ending around her right thigh area.

We promptly undressed and the husband told us to split into two groups of three each. And the next thing he said was "make her airtight". So all of us had a turn fucking her in the mouth, pussy and ass. Not a bad way for a virgin like me to get initiated into sex I'd say! I'm surprised that I didn't suffer any performance anxiety there and then, although I suppose it was more down to adrenaline than anything else! Finally we all took turns spunking into her willing mouth, got dressed and said our goodbyes. Last view I saw before leaving the room (I was the last) was the husband finally getting up from the chair he had been sat in wanking for the past hour or so, climbing on the bed and fucking his wife hard doggy style whilst she was still cleaning off all our collective spunk. :p

And that... was how I started swinging AND lost my virginity. Literally no paddle pool for me, straight into the fucking deep end! Six years-ish on... no regrets!

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By *oxes OP   Man
over a year ago

Southend, Essex


"Lost my virginity at 17 back when I was in my home country (just in the UK for uni at the moment) through a gangbang. Funny thing too, thinking back on it!

Back six years or so ago Craigslist was still a thing for people to seek hookups from. This travelling British couple advertised on it one days under Casual Encounters asking for six single men between 19-24 to apply for their gangbang a couple days later. I sent my photo and fibbed my age (hey, I did look 19 even though I was 17), and next thing I know I got an email from them saying they've chosen me, along with details for the meet.

So came the day of the meet. Went to the hotel address they gave me and ran oh so conveniently into the other five guys who were there for the same reason too. All of us went up together and entered their hotel suite. Imagine walking into a dimmed room, vanity table in the corner with booze on it, the husband sitting in a corner half naked and slowly wanking off... and the wife sprawled out on the bed face down. Her body was oiled up, she was absolutely fine (think toned athletic body for someone in her 30s), and I kid you not she had a dragon tattoo running down half her back with the tail ending around her right thigh area.

We promptly undressed and the husband told us to split into two groups of three each. And the next thing he said was "make her airtight". So all of us had a turn fucking her in the mouth, pussy and ass. Not a bad way for a virgin like me to get initiated into sex I'd say! I'm surprised that I didn't suffer any performance anxiety there and then, although I suppose it was more down to adrenaline than anything else! Finally we all took turns spunking into her willing mouth, got dressed and said our goodbyes. Last view I saw before leaving the room (I was the last) was the husband finally getting up from the chair he had been sat in wanking for the past hour or so, climbing on the bed and fucking his wife hard doggy style whilst she was still cleaning off all our collective spunk. :p

And that... was how I started swinging AND lost my virginity. Literally no paddle pool for me, straight into the fucking deep end! Six years-ish on... no regrets! "

'cool sorry bro'

ides of march not to long away very topical love the name.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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'cool sorry bro'

ides of march not to long away very topical love the name."

Thanks for the name compliment. And yes, March 15 is not too far away.

As for the story, it's crazy but it's true. Heck it isn't even my only crazy story regarding sex and swinging. Shame my swinger friend from back home isn't here in the UK; she'd be happy to testify my stories for me.

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By *ooskiMan
over a year ago

south coast


"Via colleague at work.....spent considerable time working with her on events which meant nights away....

One evening she showed me a saucy text her hubby had sent her about enjoying herself and told me about one third Fantasy's....so we sent him a few pics back throughout the evening...

The rest is history....but carried on for couple of years...with her coming to stay with me a fair amount (we would allow him to come watch from time to time)

lucky man, you gave two good designs who are willing to share their expirence with you."

Just lucky and built a great connection with the couple...pleasure to have helped them bring their wants to reality

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By *D40Couple
over a year ago

Wolverhampton


"How did you start/ get into swinging? "

My partner had swung in a previous relationship. He mentioned it to me about 6 months into us when he told me. I had no interest & the subject was dropped immediately. 18 months later i was interested . We dipped our couple toes into the scene.

We don't do a massive amount of meets, maybe because the Mrs (me) won't commit to playing on a first meet. She prefers the club environment or even private parties to get her fun....

For us, like a lot of swingers we believe, swinging is an addendum to our lives, not the be all and end all....

Mrs WD40

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By *ynecplCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

Compared to some stories on here ours is pretty boring. We had been together for 20 plus years and gradually the bedroom fantasies became more graphic and adventurous. Eventually, we took a walk along the beach and discussed making fantasy reality and the rest is history.

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By *ooskiMan
over a year ago

south coast


"Compared to some stories on here ours is pretty boring. We had been together for 20 plus years and gradually the bedroom fantasies became more graphic and adventurous. Eventually, we took a walk along the beach and discussed making fantasy reality and the rest is history."

Your boring is exactly what the couple I met did.....discuss and bring to life.......nothing boring in that and I was in right place at the time.....

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