FabSwingers.com forum: has this site become more popular

By *oneymitch OP Man
over a year ago

Huddersfield

Has fab start to come out from the shadows

It always seemed to be a hidden thing that no one talked about now it does seem thats its got quite popular, something similar to pof and tinder

Is this a good or bad thing?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think its got more popular with the 'instashag' brigade, whish isn't a good thing IMO

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't think the site being more popular is necessarily a good thing. It's not a swinger's site anymore. Just a sex/hook up site.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Recent press publicity attracts all sorts many the wrong sort.

Not good at all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We've seen an increase in people complaining about no shows and timewasters too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think its got more popular with the 'instashag' brigade, whish isn't a good thing IMO

Totally agreed a site for swingers unfortunately more #instashag than swingers these days

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I agree, I don't think it's a good thing, it makes it so much more difficult to find genuine swingers who want the same kind of fun.

A quick anonymous fuck isn't our definition of swinging, as lovely as it might be. Personally, I also don't class men/women cheating on their partners as swingers either. I'm not judging anyone, it is what it is, it's just not swinging as we think of it.

V x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is true

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By *eavenscentitCouple
over a year ago

barnstaple

Whats a genuine swinger ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its both a good and a bad thing imho.

Its bad as we are flooded with #instashag

But good in that out of 100 instashag we may end up with 10 who 'get it' and develop into "proper" swingers

We all started somewhere....

Here's to making new friends...

Dave

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By *oneymitch OP Man
over a year ago

Huddersfield

Deffo part of this instashag culture

I think its got its good and bad tho

With so many likeminded people it increases your chances if this is what your afta, but at the same time i dont wanna see people talking about it on there facebook giving it recognition

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Swinging is no longer this secret type sect.

Its been diluted and its more about freedom of expressing your sexuality in anyway you see fit I suppose.

The labels and tags for people is disappearing and now its becoming a sexual free for all .

Maybe thats all thats happening?

Times are changing and so is the "Swinging" society?

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

"Swinging is no longer this secret type sect.

Its been diluted and its more about freedom of expressing your sexuality in anyway you see fit I suppose."

Exactly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Whats a genuine swinger ?"

Took the words right out of my mouth

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By *oneymitch OP Man
over a year ago

Huddersfield

"Swinging is no longer this secret type sect.

Its been diluted and its more about freedom of expressing your sexuality in anyway you see fit I suppose.

The labels and tags for people is disappearing and now its becoming a sexual free for all .

Maybe thats all thats happening?

Times are changing and so is the "Swinging" society?"

Deffo agree with this, ive never been what most people may class as a 'swinger' but it deffo allows women to sexually express them selves without the common labels

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

"I think its got more popular with the 'instashag' brigade, which isn't a good thing IMO

^^^ Exactly this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In my opinion this site is not ready to go stratospheric as it lacks vital tools that would help maintain its usefulness as its membership grows.

For example, at the moment you can only say "meet today". You can't say "meet this week" or "next week" and effectively set a flag on your profile that says "I'm actively looking to swing". As a result users really have no idea about who's actually swinging on the site and who isn't... a problem that leads to lots of wasted communication with people who aren't actually swinging for whatever reason, people who often get labelled as "timewasters" when, if the site gave them the tools to say "I'm not actively swinging at this point", they wouldn't be.

With only a few hundred users this wouldn't be a problem. But as the site gets more and more loaded with people who are just taking a peek or plucking up the courage the lack of such a tool means the site stops working and stops being a place which active swingers can use. Unfortunately, as admin on the site is completely voluntary, it's unlikely that the needed features will be implemented. So, if the site does continue getting more successful, it'll simply stop being of any use to anyone and so be a victim of its own success. That's my opinion

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By *andi_shopWoman
over a year ago

rotherham

"I think its got more popular with the 'instashag' brigade, which isn't a good thing IMO

^^^ Exactly this

Completely agree

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