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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hi was just wondering how people get on on here as a cpl with my ex we used to get plenty of attention but as a male only not a great deal this is not oh look at me story I need attention but just civilised advice please any info greatly appreciated many thanks and have fun !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You have tooooo many cock pictures to be honest XXX

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Might want to look at your profile content.

What do you think made you successful with the couples profile?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You have written probably 10 times more on here than in your profile

And as that offers zilch then I go to your pictures

All they say is that you are a cock

Brutal but your profile is your shop window....yours isn't exciting

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By *eyMrJackMan
over a year ago

Leeds

I'd ditch pics/ references to your ex and talk about yourself.

And yeah variety of pics? Windmilling? Black n white penis?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Friendly advice only, even with the best profile it's more about the chat and message content I believe profile equals the initial look or attention, the rest is how you converse I believe success is created usually

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"You have tooooo many cock pictures to be honest XXX"

Im told I'm a cock lol yea u could be right !

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By *andi_shopWoman
over a year ago

rotherham

You need to look at your profile, it's not great. Also you need to add punctuation to your posts, messages etc

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Friendly advice only, even with the best profile it's more about the chat and message content I believe profile equals the initial look or attention, the rest is how you converse I believe success is created usually "

Thanks for the info I'm not crude I normally just introduce my self ask how there getting on etc maybe that's where I'm going wrong lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'd ditch pics/ references to your ex and talk about yourself.

And yeah variety of pics? Windmilling? Black n white penis? "

Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

its not good...oh no sireee

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"You need to look at your profile, it's not great. Also you need to add punctuation to your posts, messages etc"

How could I improve it any advice much appreciated

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Like the other ladies have said, a profile rethink might help.

Purely from an advice perspective...personally, if I look at someone's photos and all I see are cock shots, it puts me off to start with, but if there's also nothing in the profile text telling me a bit about that person, I probably wouldn't even get to the message stage.

V x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Like the other ladies have said, a profile rethink might help.

Purely from an advice perspective...personally, if I look at someone's photos and all I see are cock shots, it puts me off to start with, but if there's also nothing in the profile text telling me a bit about that person, I probably wouldn't even get to the message stage.

V x"
Thank you x

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By *andi_shopWoman
over a year ago

rotherham


"You need to look at your profile, it's not great. Also you need to add punctuation to your posts, messages etc

How could I improve it any advice much appreciated "

Less cock pics, nice full length pics ( you not need to include face), black and white pics. You need to tell us about you, what you are to offer, keep it a couple of paragraphs max as I don't think many want to read an essay. It's all about your opening message then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Friendly advice only, even with the best profile it's more about the chat and message content I believe profile equals the initial look or attention, the rest is how you converse I believe success is created usually

Thanks for the info I'm not crude I normally just introduce my self ask how there getting on etc maybe that's where I'm going wrong lol "

Crude isn't the best opener for many to be fair but it's all about judging how the conversation is going and adapting accordingly if done well the conversation will naturally progress where you want it to if your compatible, dont forget some just may not find you their type nothing personal from them, horses for courses etc

Stay positive keep profile updated and carry on fabbing

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Friendly advice only, even with the best profile it's more about the chat and message content I believe profile equals the initial look or attention, the rest is how you converse I believe success is created usually

Thanks for the info I'm not crude I normally just introduce my self ask how there getting on etc maybe that's where I'm going wrong lol

Crude isn't the best opener for many to be fair but it's all about judging how the conversation is going and adapting accordingly if done well the conversation will naturally progress where you want it to if your compatible, dont forget some just may not find you their type nothing personal from them, horses for courses etc

Stay positive keep profile updated and carry on fabbing "

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"You need to look at your profile, it's not great. Also you need to add punctuation to your posts, messages etc

How could I improve it any advice much appreciated

Less cock pics, nice full length pics ( you not need to include face), black and white pics. You need to tell us about you, what you are to offer, keep it a couple of paragraphs max as I don't think many want to read an essay. It's all about your opening message then "
thank you for the advice xx

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