FabSwingers.com forum: Another squirting thread I'm afraid.

By *ex-a-frolics OP Couple
over a year ago

Brizzle

The jury's still out probably on whether women do actually squirt, but that's not my question.

We would really like to know why guys(particularly) are obsessed with making a woman squirt. Rascal has never squirted & in our opinion probably never will, but if you say to someone she hasn't in nearly 30 years it becomes a challenge why? Some women struggle to have an orgasm, so how do they think they can make them squirt, & what is it that's so amazing if she does?

Would love to come up with an ingenious way of faking it using a water pistol or similar, that would save the repetitive conversations we end up having, if we could just say "yes she does"

Even thought about getting a t shirt saying no she doesn't squirt, please don't ask, or promise us you'll be the first one to achieve this. Anybody else find this frustrating?

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By *eedsortingMan
over a year ago

Radley

I wouldn't worry about it. If it happens, it happens. If it doesn.t, just carry on with enjoying what you are doing. Everyone is different and we should respect one another's differences and not try and force some norm or expectation on people. That's how complexes and insecurities develop and just because we don't measure up to someone elses dream.

As it happens, I like a squirter, but I am not going to criticise anyone or complain if they don't. And I won't bring it up either. Enjoy the moment

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By *inglehotchickWoman
over a year ago

blackpool

I'm definitely a challenge to guys as I do squirt and gush though it usually myself that can make it happen and very rarely a guy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

use it as a filter, we do. Anyone who brings it up or appears heavily invested in it, we just end the conversation and move on. Absolutely no point in repetitive conversation about something we're uninterested in...

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

I think it's because it's visual evidence of their prowess.

I've never done it and don't want to but it's something people enjoy so good for them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's all about 'proving' their sexual prowess innit.

Like violently finger fucking someone makes them some sort of Sex God.

Never underestimate the male ego. Particularly when it comes to sex.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mrs Blondie recently discovered how to squirt. There had been a couple of times in the past, but just recently we found the techniques to almost always guarantee success and she loves it. I'm really quite jealous!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dont know why but i love it when a woman squirts. But i know that most cant and dont claim to be able to do it to everyone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Porn has so much to answer for, not always in a good way. We've lost count of the amount of fellas spouting the 'guaranteed to make you squirt' tosh. Mrs N neither does or wants to 'squirt'. How about just settling for mind blowingly, orgasm filled fucking. Whatever else happens, happens as we go along. Not because of an obsession to make it happen.

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

but it's just the loss of control of someone's bladder isn't it

. Give me a few more year's and I'll be able to squirt

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By *iggles and BeardyCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

Wiggled dosnt and has no intrest in it and hates when some guys hand hammers away trying.

Soon as a guy says somembollox about it, she just kinda goes all blank

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By *ikstupp2Man
over a year ago

london

"I think it's because it's visual evidence of their prowess.

I've never done it and don't want to but it's something people enjoy so good for them.

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iv only ever met two squirters and I know for some ladies it doesn't happen, but in a way ur right! It's like a round of applause lol. I also find if a lady squirts they usually cum quite easy so it paves the way for a night of multiple orgasms!!! I fail to se the down side lol

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By *ikstupp2Man
over a year ago

london

"but it's just the loss of control of someone's bladder isn't it

. Give me a few more year's and I'll be able to squirt

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its not piss, yes it contains piss but it's not lol

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By *eavenscentitCouple
over a year ago

barnstaple

Who cares just enjoy fucking

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Who cares just enjoy fucking"

Hell yes, amen to this.

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

"but it's just the loss of control of someone's bladder isn't it

. Give me a few more year's and I'll be able to squirt

its not piss, yes it contains piss but it's not lol"

Oh but my dear man it is

. Not that it matters one bit!

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By *ex-a-frolics OP Couple
over a year ago

Brizzle

"I wouldn't worry about it. If it happens, it happens. If it doesn.t, just carry on with enjoying what you are doing. Everyone is different and we should respect one another's differences and not try and force some norm or expectation on people. That's how complexes and insecurities develop and just because we don't measure up to someone elses dream.

As it happens, I like a squirter, but I am not going to criticise anyone or complain if they don't. And I won't bring it up either. Enjoy the moment

We're not worried about it, just fed up of having stoppid conversations with guys promising miracles, nor do we feel we don't live up to people's expectations, or use it as filter (we've never had that question on here probably because we've blocked single guys!). Just really wondered what all the fuss was about.

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By *eppoMan
over a year ago

London Colney

Last meet with my friend I made her squirt a few times

I'd never experienced this before

She said it was a catch 22 situation for her ...

She liked the sensation but hated the losing control of herself

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By *oxesMan
over a year ago

Southend, Essex

"The jury's still out probably on whether women do actually squirt, but that's not my question.

Would love to come up with an ingenious way of faking it using a water pistol or similar, that would save the repetitive conversations we end up having, if we could just say "yes she does"

Even thought about getting a t shirt saying no she doesn't squirt, please don't ask, or promise us you'll be the first one to achieve this. Anybody else find this frustrating?

tiffany Holiday or FTV Tiffanie famously poured a bottle of watter in her pusdy then squirted it back out again.

there a vids on lne.

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By *ikstupp2Man
over a year ago

london

Oh it's not a problem if a girl doesn't it's just an added bonus, I like the loss of control as it appeals to the Dom side of me,

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By *ikstupp2Man
over a year ago

london

I never claim to make "any girl" squirt. After all we are all different ain't we?

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By *weetChariotMan
over a year ago

High Wycombe

I watched a guy violently finger fuck, very fast, agressive, hard, a woman trying to get her to squirt and thought what!?

Reading this thread, is that what he thought he was doing, proving his prowess at making a woman cum, really?

She squirted, I think it was piss, as a means of stopping him I suspect. He seem satisfied and stopped, grinning....

Perhaps some women like this, perhaps squirting is a signal the woman has been trained to deliver to satisfy the man. I found it quite primal, but not a turn on for me at all.

I have no need for squirt or no squirt, however I truly adore a woman cumming.

My preference is gentle, teasing tongue tip parting of pussy lips, just missing her clit. Breath hot air on her hood, suggest a tongue, yet hold off. Kiss her mouth, neck, brush past her nipples. After a long foreplay slide middle finger slowly deep inside, touch g-spot gently while circling clot with my tongue ... Gently move my middle finger in time with my tongue ..... On occasion, as the lady bucks into an intense climax , she has squirted ... On other occasions not. As a giver, I just love knowing she is having an amazing, unrushed, time ...

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By *weetChariotMan
over a year ago

High Wycombe

"Last meet with my friend I made her squirt a few times

I'd never experienced this before

She said it was a catch 22 situation for her ...

She liked the sensation but hated the losing control of herself "

same

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By *ikstupp2Man
over a year ago

london

"I watched a guy violently finger fuck, very fast, agressive, hard, a woman trying to get her to squirt and thought what!?

Reading this thread, is that what he thought he was doing, proving his prowess at making a woman cum, really?

She squirted, I think it was piss, as a means of stopping him I suspect. He seem satisfied and stopped, grinning....

Perhaps some women like this, perhaps squirting is a signal the woman has been trained to deliver to satisfy the man. I found it quite primal, but not a turn on for me at all.

I have no need for squirt or no squirt, however I truly adore a woman cumming.

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oh I'll go gentle for the first squirt then build up. Don't get me wrong I'll make sure a girl is enjoying it first

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By *arkside2698Man
over a year ago

luton

I've been with only two squirters and loved it. It's not the be all and end all. If a lady doesn't squirt she can always piss in my mouth, I'll swallow it down all the same

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

I never have and never want to,I had a meet once on my single profile who seemed more intent on making it happen than pleasing me.

I agree with what others have said,I think they get off on thinking they have done a good job ,even though it doesnt equate to an orgasm apparently.

Miss

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