FabSwingers.com forum: meeting with out a pic

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

would any one on here ever meet a single or a couple with out ever seeing a pic of the person or ppl that you was meant to be meeting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

deffo not

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No. Never have and never will

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By *stwoCouple
over a year ago

anywhere

yes.quite often.find it part of the fun.after all nice pics doesnt always mean nice people.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"yes.quite often.find it part of the fun.after all nice pics doesnt always mean nice people."

i agree with you there a 100% and all ways had a fantsay of meeting some one that idont know what they look like

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By (user no longer on site)
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over a year ago

Not something I would do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No way not me always need a pic and a phone chat

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By *agman n angelCouple
over a year ago

benidorm

would you buy anything without at least knowing what it looked like ? car, house, clothes? no so why would you want to meet someone who may be a right minger

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By *rs Sugar Mr SpiceCouple
over a year ago

We are about 15 mins outa Pontypridd and we do go to Crawley in west sussex 2-3 times a year so get in touch !!

NOPE,NEVER,NOWAY,NOT!!!!!!!

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

yep - done it. also had a meet where to this day i dont know what he looks like as was blidfolded the whole time

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By *inktherapyCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester

I've always seen who I've been meeting, but they've not always had a pic of me

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By *INKKKYMan
over a year ago

LIVERPOOL/ WIRRAL

i love the 'stranger' sex thing, the suprise and feeling of not knowing wot she looks like until i walk in her home is amazing, done it and would deffo recommend people try it!

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By *mumaWoman
over a year ago

Livingston

nope. need to see if I recognise the nutters fae crimewatch before I meet them!!

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey

No not for us....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i need to see a photo and have a phone call

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By *oe_Steve_NWestCouple
over a year ago

Bolton

We need to see a pic, however, have had a couple of instances where they've used VERY old pics so it isn't foolproof! Don't do blind dates though, need an idea! Z

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By *ezebelWoman
over a year ago

North of The Wall - youll need your vest

Pic and also a phone call for me too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i usually ask for a recent photo as well

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we've had a few social meets that were blind dates, but haven't had a blind date shag since the day I met Kate 30yrs ago

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By *havenangel1Couple
over a year ago

Worcester

To meet for social is ok but meeting with an aim to playing no thank you not my thing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

sometimes the pics you get don't bare any resemblence to who's going to turn up anyway.

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By *inky24big35Couple
over a year ago

blackpool

no way

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By *obb2upCouple
over a year ago

Bangor

no way but had plenty expect us too and get upset that we won't!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

its very rare for me to do, suppose im generally safer as a single man

than a single fem?-all I need really is the phone contact for when where and where im going.Like I say its VERY rare I do.Met a few that dont even like pics on the net of them...but sometimes I go on veries or word of mouth from a nice network of friends.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Noooo

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By *LBishCouple
over a year ago

near bury st edmunds

Deffo not, at the end of the day as someone posted once, they may have a great personality but its not a personality you are going to shag is it. There has to be SOME attraction, no way could i play with someone i didnt find some attraction to.

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By *thyorksCouple
over a year ago

ROTHERHAM

NO, never. & not just a c@ck pic..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

well a meet with doppelganger of the child catcher off chitty chitty bang bang changed my perception of blind meets

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

never asked for a face pic, nsa fun on here , every guy has been great x guess we are different x

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By *obbytupperMan
over a year ago

Menston near Ilkley

Yes and I have been pleasantly surprised

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By *ercedes62Woman
over a year ago

Northampton

No way never!

Mercedes x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"never asked for a face pic, nsa fun on here , every guy has been great x guess we are different x "

never seen ur face trish...its normally having to much action around it! heheheheh xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

no i wont meet without a face pic or a phone call if the person is genuine should not be a problem....i have my mug shot on here so its only fair i see the person that wants a meet

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"never asked for a face pic, nsa fun on here , every guy has been great x guess we are different x "

you sound great fun too bad your not local to me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

all rights reserved of course.Coffee meet at mine or theirs, see what happens...shag on couch or bed...hey presto!-all rights reserved and all copyrighted images posted on fab with consent of any individual or party shagging me during the meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"all rights reserved of course.Coffee meet at mine or theirs, see what happens...shag on couch or bed...hey presto!-all rights reserved and all copyrighted images posted on fab with consent of any individual or party shagging me during the meet."

I only do coffee on neutral territory - a nice cafe or bar. I don't want assumptions to be made. It *has* happened.

I also don't do shag photos - I keep that strictly for within a relationship.

YMMV.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I only do coffee on neutral territory - a nice cafe or bar. I don't want assumptions to be made. It *has* happened.

I also don't do shag photos - I keep that strictly for within a relationship.

YMMV. "

just different variable types of meets, I like pics...some i meet dont lol-besides...I can only have so many lol-never liked the term neutral lol, I can meet and discuss where the meet is going, its never happened obviously id be possibly a bit dissapointed at not having a sexual encounter, but Iam a big boy and can handle the rejection, and as a self confessed "I like my swinging lifestyle" type of person...i wont jepeordise my next meet by fucking one up cos I didnt get shagged lol-annnnyway i like a wee drink alot of times during a meet, whiskey in my coffees great lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Me personally, never.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

no.

your taking a risk. some risks are not worth taking.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

not enough time to waste it for these kind of games ...

and wouldnt if we had the time!

(only if I knew I'd meet a hunk)

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By *lirtypleasureWoman
over a year ago

worcester

Yes I have, meet guy off different site for lunch once without knowing what he looked like.... We have been lovers for over 3 years now

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By *opeye-OliveCouple
over a year ago

worcester

Would meet without a face pic, but not with no pic at all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Often

I will have spoken on the phone though.

A picture means nothing. I meet people I like, or rather those I have made some sort of connection with from chat, emails and calls.

Theres been one or two its stayed with just coffee but thats life. I wouldnt be expecting to take it forward with everyone I met

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Considering that I have not been attracted to many people on here, then no.

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By *histler21Man
over a year ago

Ipswich

No. After all, I don't want to walk up to the wrong person and introduce myself...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Met a few people without seeing their faces but always spoken on the phone before meeting. We understand their privacy reasons. Most been ok but some not. Its a 50/50 gamble but do prefer to see a face shot if honest x

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham

"would any one on here ever meet a single or a couple with out ever seeing a pic of the person or ppl that you was meant to be meeting "

yes...doesnt mean when we meet i will fuck tho.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

need 2 see face or its a no no meet:

not here for a blind date as I dont no who you are meeting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"need 2 see face or its a no no meet:

not here for a blind date as I dont no who you are meeting"

well it shouldnt be essential should it????- most people who ARE going to meet are actually going to be likely what they say they are, being too cynical can sometimes really make fab life a bit harder, a phone call is good enough before and for when ur about tomeet.Its hardly likely that even with a picture that it counts to automatic fuck status lol.And If the person(s) arent ur thing, swingers should be reasonable and say, sorry i dont think this is going to work.Thats just my opinion and I hate pointing out i have met some based on their verifies alone(with that obligitory phone contact for my thoughts)and had some brilliant hot times

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"would any one on here ever meet a single or a couple with out ever seeing a pic of the person or ppl that you was meant to be meeting "

nope.

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By *ittlemorespiceCouple
over a year ago

North Cornwall

We have a limited amount of time we want to spend on finding new friends so why spend it on someone who cant even be bothered to exchange pics with you to cut down on the chances of disappointment? Just doesnt make sense. Plus.... the carnation or financial times is soooo seventies luvvy.

Mistress x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We have a limited amount of time we want to spend on finding new friends so why spend it on someone who cant even be bothered to exchange pics with you to cut down on the chances of disappointment? Just doesnt make sense. Plus.... the carnation or financial times is soooo seventies luvvy.

Mistress x"

how about a vibrator in hand instead of a flower or paper

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By *uckscouple2007Couple
over a year ago

Bucks

nope

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"yep - done it. also had a meet where to this day i dont know what he looks like as was blidfolded the whole time"

Hehe. Love it glad I not only one to have done that hehe. Had a 'daddy' who liked me to not know who the m in the mmf was but knew him for years so trusted him to not pick those I wudnt want if I cud see ( as in yunger than him not as in looks )

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By *etillanteWoman
over a year ago

But if you haven't seen a pic how the hell do you know who the are, or do you just go around asking random people are you xxxxxx from fabswingers?

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By *opeye-OliveCouple
over a year ago

worcester

Not a chance. So many describe themselves as "Average" when it should be "Ample" or "Professional" and they look like Bikers.

Only a pic will do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

" So many describe themselves as "Average" when it should be "Ample"

I've noticed that - I think some people must live in a hall of mirrors

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By *ushroom7Man
over a year ago

Bradford

"Not a chance. So many describe themselves as "Average" when it should be "Ample" or "Professional" and they look like Bikers.

Only a pic will do

Wouldn't it be amazing if Kenny Roberts, Fast Freddy Spencer, Kevin Schwantz or a multitude of other top sports stars were members on here?

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By *habsMan
over a year ago

Fortress of Solitude, Middlesex

Call me arrogant, but if there's no pic the answer is no irrespectve of how many verifications displayed.

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By *ollie_JCouple
over a year ago

London

Photos yes.. Although we may have to insist on photos with a newspaper showing the date

Soe of the ones we have seen and met are 10 years old

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No. I expect a certain level of commitment from a swinger, no matter how shy they are. I respect privacy, but not paranoia.

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By *im halpertMan
over a year ago

redditch

yes we went to a party on saturday and we didnt know what the hosts looked like!had a good time xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"yes we went to a party on saturday and we didnt know what the hosts looked like!had a good time xxx

lol id never thought of that senario and ive been to lots of parties where the others there i havn't had photos, but in one to ones or MMF meets then always ask for them. and like lots on here have had only 2 disapointments due to pics bit older and alot better looking than in flesh

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By *iggles and BeardyCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

No way we would even concider meeting a couple who we have no idea what they look like.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have to admit this actually turns me on. I like the idea of chatting to someone and then meeting and not knowing what the person is going to look like, however I don't think I would actually do it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

living in Ireland and not the UK, I find people really dont want to be found out at all, and so over here they are more inclined not to show a pic

that being said, I have met great ones who would not show a pic

also, some really ugly ones who described themselves as sexy and I walked away

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