FabSwingers.com forum: Sub drop/top drop

By *otForSofties OP Woman
over a year ago

The North / Party Hard Everywhere

I've had a headache like a hangover after the last 3 events I've been to and wondered if anyone else has suffered top drop? Will include sub drop in the discussion to get both sides

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm a bit cautious about replying to this being quite new and only having a few experiences, would my experience as a Newbie be welcome?

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By *otForSofties OP Woman
over a year ago

The North / Party Hard Everywhere

"I'm a bit cautious about replying to this being quite new and only having a few experiences, would my experience as a Newbie be welcome?"

This is a forum. All views and experiences are welcome.

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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago

hiding from cock pics.

After certain situations in the past I have suffered tremendously with this. In me it doesn't feel like a headache but can be both physically painful and emotional.

It's very much is only after particularly intense scenes.

It helps me that I know exactly what it is and why it is caused.

As far as I am aware there is not much that I can do personally, to get through it, and at the same time I need to have a lots of strength and comfort to the person who has been at the receiving end of my atention.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I believe I have experienced drop myself, although due to experience could be wrong!

After meets and out of situation iv felt a little questioning of things done, out of sorts not like a hangover but very distracted and yes a headache although I thought may be just a result of tiredness retrospectively I wonder if the opposite was partly the case, drop causing some of it

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By *otForSofties OP Woman
over a year ago

The North / Party Hard Everywhere

"I believe I have experienced drop myself, although due to experience could be wrong!

What type of meets and situations if u don't mind me asking? How intense were they?

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By *andsonjohnMan
over a year ago

in the eye of the storm

"I've had a headache like a hangover after the last 3 events I've been to and wondered if anyone else has suffered top drop? Will include sub drop in the discussion to get both sides "

this is obviously drop drink plenty of water and then do some physical exercise swimming , bike ride , jogging or even a long brisk walk in the local beauty spot like hiking .

will release the same chemicals back into the brain that were being released during intense play but in much smaller levels helping to clear the headache faster .

i rarely suffer any form of drop as extreme as a headache a few days later due to doing a very physical job which helps my chemical levels in the brain evening out fast after being on a extreme over load due to play xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I believe I have experienced drop myself, although due to experience could be wrong!

What type of meets and situations if u don't mind me asking? How intense were they?"

The meets themselves would seem very tame to most I think as trying to take each experience slow and not rush things or over do it with new things but for me it was highly charged and intense in a way iv not experienced before, I think more indepth details would be best not public

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By *otForSofties OP Woman
over a year ago

The North / Party Hard Everywhere

"I've had a headache like a hangover after the last 3 events I've been to and wondered if anyone else has suffered top drop? Will include sub drop in the discussion to get both sides

this is obviously drop drink plenty of water and then do some physical exercise swimming , bike ride , jogging or even a long brisk walk in the local beauty spot like hiking .

will release the same chemicals back into the brain that were being released during intense play but in much smaller levels helping to clear the headache faster .

I'm too knackered to exercise! Vicious circle x

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By *iggles and BeardyCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

I get this from swinging nights, as on said nights I'm highly social and its quite emotionaly exhasting.

Similar thing happens in Larp and I get same after a manic high.

I often joke with wiggles that we have a symbiotic relationship, she drinks and I share the hangover.

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By *ecretlyASoftieWoman
over a year ago

Hull but travel regularly

"I get this from swinging nights, as on said nights I'm highly social and its quite emotionaly exhasting.

Similar thing happens in Larp and I get same after a manic high.

I often joke with wiggles that we have a symbiotic relationship, she drinks and I share the hangover."

I wouldn't mind a hangover if I d*unk but I'm teetotal! Very bloody unfair!!

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By *lla_maiWoman
over a year ago

staffordshire

I often feel quite emotional a few days later, one minute im fine the next im not. Apparently linked to dropping so ive been told.

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By *nequeenslutWoman
over a year ago

rugeley

drop can be horrendous more so for the top I believe as they tend not to have anyone to relieve the down

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By *iggles and BeardyCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

"I get this from swinging nights, as on said nights I'm highly social and its quite emotionaly exhasting.

Similar thing happens in Larp and I get same after a manic high.

I often joke with wiggles that we have a symbiotic relationship, she drinks and I share the hangover.

I wouldn't mind a hangover if I d*unk but I'm teetotal! Very bloody unfair!! "

Lol me too now, that's why she finds it so funny when I'm the one waking up with what feels like a hangover.

I used to enjoy a drink but don't drink now due to health, tried one drink on Saturday and quickly was reminded that alcohol is a no go.

I'm oddly finding clubs a new experience sober.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One thing I am VERY grateful to this site/ the forum for... learning about this.

I get it quite bad sometimes and I didn't know it was a 'thing' until I read about it on here. Thank you Fabsters!

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By *iggles and BeardyCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

It's a common topic on fet sites with lots of suggestions for both Dom and subs.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I found in the past that if I have a good impact or rope session and have really worked my sub play partner, I find the next few days afterwards I feel low and wonder what life is all about! It was not until the third time it happened I connected the dots. Now I am aware that it is likely to happen I just ride it knowing it will be over in a couple of days.

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By *eviant and BemusedCouple
over a year ago

Burton

I think it's understandable that if you have an intense scene everything can feel a little flat/miserable afterwards. The high is so high the low can be quite shit. Still worth it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think it's understandable that if you have an intense scene everything can feel a little flat/miserable afterwards. The high is so high the low can be quite shit. Still worth it

Definitely,

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