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By *_and_J99 OP   Man
over a year ago

Cirencester

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By *_and_J99 OP   Man
over a year ago

Cirencester

Hi, I'm sure this has probably been asked before but I'm curious as to how people got into this scene. And those in couples was it a mutual thing or if not how was it put to you by your other halves?

For me, I had never thought of swinging and had no idea how big the scene was till I met D. Our paths would cross due to our careers and one day he was telling a colleague about a club he had been to and was describing some rather hot sexual acts which instantly had me intrigued! A fair while later we got together and he took me to chams for the first time ( which is still my favourite club ) D still laughs now saying how I went in with tunnel vision but it was such a eye opener! And as they say the rest is history!

But I'm keen to hear how others got here!

J xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was on PoF years ago, a date told me to join, et voila!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

From my experience I met a friend from another dating site and I met up with her and she had a house party (vanilla) to start with and as the drinks was flowing we all started to get naked and play, I was nervous at first but felt relaxed and the next day she showed me this site in her phone and told me to join, she told me about a few club's near her and near me and we went to a few together and it was an eye opener and I've never looked back

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its free so thought id see what sort of depraved people join sites like this?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My friend and his wife.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Invited my a female member that i met on another Amateur site

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By *_and_J99 OP   Man
over a year ago

Cirencester


"Its free so thought id see what sort of depraved people join sites like this? "

and I'm sure you haven't been disappointed with that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Met my man, as things progressed with us, we discussed fantasies. Tried a Mfm first liked it, then found out about this site joined and moved onto to full swapping with other couples.

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

I was on a different site and someone told me about fab,joined as a single woman and met Jack here.We decided to swing together ,that was 16 months ago.

Miss

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By *orum TrollWoman
over a year ago

•+• Access Denied •+•

like someone else said it's free.

i also thought i'd be having a lot of sex with one highly sexed guy as other sites were like that and it was easy to find someone to couple up with for sex and friendship, not sure why i'm still here but i'm interested in clubs and socialising right now so trying that out.

doubt i'll ever become a swinger as bringing another woman into sex doesn't interest me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was looking for a particular type of hammock and ended up here

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By *ackdaniels2016Man
over a year ago

Yarm

I was told about this place years ago by a older lady I was having some fun with and we would go on cam for couples it really opened my eyes to a whole new world

I got caught up in life as we do and wanted to spark a bit of fun back in my life and then thought of this place and here I am. Still fairly new here but enjoying it mostly

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By *_and_J99 OP   Man
over a year ago

Cirencester


"I was on a different site and someone told me about fab,joined as a single woman and met Jack here.We decided to swing together ,that was 16 months ago.

Miss"

That's brilliant that u met here and are now a couple, do you still play separately or just as a couple now?

J x

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By *_and_J99 OP   Man
over a year ago

Cirencester


"I was looking for a particular type of hammock and ended up here"

Did u end up finding a hammock in the end

J xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm a naughty horny bugger & seeked satisfaction I'm still seeking lol

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By *ikstupp2Man
over a year ago

london

Boredom in a bad relationship

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We split up due to me playing away then found out she had 2 one night stands with the same guy, When we got back together I asked her about them and it turned me on so as time went on we was out drinking and I seen him so went over asked him lol then I asked him to come have a drink with us which he done. Afterward ma that night he came back with us and we both enjoyed her so it went from there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like stargazing, one night I looking up and all here is moaning, well that made me curious.

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By *a Fee VerteWoman
over a year ago

Limbo

Google

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Met a naughty lady who "forced " me to join

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By *_and_J99 OP   Man
over a year ago

Cirencester


"Met a naughty lady who "forced " me to join "

I'm sure you didn't take too much pursuasion really

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I was looking for a particular type of hammock and ended up here

Did u end up finding a hammock in the end

J xx"

I didn't. This is so much more interesting.

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By *ust PeachyWoman
over a year ago

Prestonish

The women's institute wouldn't let me in! This was my second choice!

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By *innamon!Woman
over a year ago

no matter

I was on AWC and when it went bust I looked for a new place to go.

Not the same here, I used to like the Cam/chat rooms and Forum there. Was fun Made me laugh every day.

There were not the same filters on the Forums as here. So was often no holds barred stuff. There were some terrific arguments.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

like someone else said it's free. looking to make friend which would end in sex but it seem to hard lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I remember it got mentioned on a completely unrelated forum I was on. They weren't saying very nice things about the place but still I signed up out of curiosity

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By *_and_J99 OP   Man
over a year ago

Cirencester


"The women's institute wouldn't let me in! This was my second choice! "

Good choice

J x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A friend in work told me about it, so I joined just to see what it was like and I've been here ever since.

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By *thwalescplCouple
over a year ago

brecon

We were looking for garden play equipment.

Only kidding lol.

We were on another site and got told about this one, had a look, loved it, and over 8 years later we are still here lol.

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By *ohohoWoman
over a year ago

Up North

Guy I was dating at the time turned out to be married. Using a Good old google search I also found him on this site and several others.

Dumped him and joined myself. Not looked back !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Put in Facebook and fab came up lol glad I did one happier man now opens your eyes alot more xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Guy I was dating at the time turned out to be married. Using a Good old google search I also found him on this site and several others.

Dumped him and joined myself. Not looked back !

"

That is sooo funny cheaters get no where just loose what they had

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

A friend at the time put me on here, much to my horror at the time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A rather forceful friend (thanks for that honey )

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By *uteLittleGeekWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere

Oh gosh ... well I got on here after seeing " fab ...something " on my at the time boyfriend s laptop ( it was only a glance ) .

I googled it and fabswingers came up .

I set up in 2011 this profile as fake profile to set him up a Honey Trap .

Caught him and kicked him out of my life and hid my profile until 2015 when I actually made Flower a Real .

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By *40 maleMan
over a year ago

chesterfield

I was introduced by a FB.

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

We'd been talking about fantasies, initially me having the opportunity to be with another woman.

Though it quickly expanded to more than that.

Fab was part of the research for clubs, as we decided that was the way to go for us.

We still mostly meet at clubs.

Nita

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By *yldstyleWoman
over a year ago

A world of my own

I used to be somewhere else. Someone I'd met had a profile here and he asked me to give some ideas on what to say

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By *allen angelzWoman
over a year ago

oxon

Spilt with fellow, got all clear on skin cancer wanted to live abit, find out what a shallow life id lead

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax


"I was on a different site and someone told me about fab,joined as a single woman and met Jack here.We decided to swing together ,that was 16 months ago.

Miss

That's brilliant that u met here and are now a couple, do you still play separately or just as a couple now?

J x"

Just together at the moment xx

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By *oxesMan
over a year ago

Southend, Essex


"The women's institute wouldn't let me in! This was my second choice! "

sploshing tge cakes they nade were frowned upon I take it.

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By *aughtyandhandsomeMan
over a year ago

button moon

A female friend of mine I had casual sex with told me about it as she was on here. I didn't know she was at the time

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London


"I was on PoF years ago, a date told me to join, et voila! "

Me too!

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By *oxesMan
over a year ago

Southend, Essex

broke up with my ex and saw how quickly she moved on and thought this swinging thing if if it can work for her it can work for me. (clearly not knowing or understanding f to m ratio)

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